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	<title>The New Man Podcast &#187; Dating</title>
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	<itunes:summary>The New Man Podcast is a 30 minute, interview-style show that provides an entertaining and often humorous way to get real world, practical advice on every area of a man&#039;s life: relationships, sex, dating, career, money, power, purpose, inner game and fitness.

The New Man Podcast dives into the topics guys are hungry to explore but typically only discuss after a few beers. In a nutshell, The New Man Podcast is personal development for guys who think self development is for pussies.

The New Man is for guys who want to attract the right woman without playing &quot;Pickup Artist&quot; games or seduction tricks. We explore how to have an exciting sex life while learning how to navigate the sticky world of relationships. The New Man helps men break out of their confining job and get paid to do what they love. A common theme in all shows is to help guys quit settling for less, find their purpose and live a passionate, meaningful life. How is this done? By getting a handle on fear and stop letting emotions get in the way. The New Man helps guys develop the best physical and mental practices to live a life with brains, heart, guts and balls.

A sample of guests who have appeared on The New Man: Ken Wilber, Dan Millman, Marcus Buckingham, Steve Pavlina, Shawn Phillips, Bill Harris, AJ Jacobs, Vernon Reid, Joel Harper, Sean Stephenson and Derek Sivers.</itunes:summary>
	<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
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	<itunes:subtitle>Beyond the Macho Jerk and the New Age Wimp</itunes:subtitle>
	<itunes:keywords>Integral, PUA, Purpose, Meditation, Advice, Men, Spirituality, Career, Sex, Money, Development, Fitness,</itunes:keywords>
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		<title>Tripp Lanier Interviewed on Pickup Podcast</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 28 May 2010 16:28:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/Screen-shot-2010-05-28-at-10.20.16-AM.png"></a>Check out this in depth interview with The New Man host <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/more/about-the-new-man/">Tripp Lanier</a> on the very popular Pickup Podcast.</p>
<p><strong>&#62;&#62; <a href="http://pickuppodcast.com/2010/05/27/episode-114-tripp-lanier-interview/" target="_blank">Click here to listen now.</a></strong></p>
<p>From the Pickup Podcast site:</p>
<blockquote><p>Tripp Lanier discusses becoming an alpha male, finding his soul mate and making the decision to settle down.  Tripp is a dating coach and also run’s a very successful men’s dating podcast “The New Man Podcast”.</p></blockquote>
<p><strong>&#62;&#62; <a href="http://pickuppodcast.com/2010/05/27/episode-114-tripp-lanier-interview/" target="_blank">Click here to listen now.</a></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="font-weight: normal;"><a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/Screen-shot-2010-05-28-at-10.20.16-AM.png"></a><br />
<a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/Screen-shot-2010-05-28-at-10.20.16-AM.png"><img class="alignright" title="Screen shot 2010-05-28 at 10.20.16 AM" src="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/Screen-shot-2010-05-28-at-10.20.16-AM.png" alt="" width="218" height="76" /></a>The  &#8221;becoming an alpha male&#8221; thing is funny, no? This was a fun interview and they got a lot of personal stuff on Tripp out in the open. Take a listen for a peak behind the curtain.</span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="font-weight: normal;">Special thanks to AJ and Jordan Harbinger for this interview.</span><br />
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		<title>The Top 5 BEST New Man Podcasts</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 12 May 2010 18:29:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<h3>Are you new to The New Man?</h3>
<p>Not to worry, I&#8217;ve compiled this simple list of The Top 5 Best New Man Podcasts by category. Pick the one that interests you most&#8230;<span id="more-1581"></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #ffffff;">&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-</span></p>
<h2>Sex</h2>
<h3>Bryan Bayer: &#8220;Sexual Hangups and How to Overcome Them&#8221;</h3>
<p>Everybody&#8217;s got &#8216;em. So let&#8217;s talk about &#8216;em.</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #ff6600;">&#62;&#62;</span> <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/08/tnm-075-bryan-bayer-sexual-hang-ups-and-how-to-overcome-them/" target="_blank">Click here to listen</a></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #ffffff;">&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-</span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #ffffff;">&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-</span></strong></p>
<h2>Women</h2>
<h3>Alyson Schwabe &#38; Christiane Pelmas: &#8220;How to Navigate a Woman&#8217;s Emotional Minefield&#8221;</h3>
<p>I got so many emails from this one. It&#8217;s a game changer. We should&#8217;ve learned this stuff back in grade school. These shows saved marriages. Period.</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #ff6600;">&#62;&#62;</span></strong><strong> <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/07/tnm-073-pt-1-how-to-navigate-a-womans-emotional-minefield/" target="_blank">Click here for part 1</a></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #ff6600;">&#62;&#62;</span></strong><strong> <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/08/tnm-074-pt-2-how-to-navigate-a-womans-emotional-minefield/" target="_blank">Click here for part 2</a></strong></p>
<p><span style="color: #ffffff;">&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;</span></p>
<div><span style="color: #ffffff;">&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;
<p></p></span></div>
<h2><strong>Purpose/Inner Game</strong></h2>
<h3><strong></strong><strong>Brian Johnson: &#8220;What Would You Do if You Weren&#8217;t Afraid&#8221; &#38; &#8220;Do You Have the Balls to Live the Life of Your Dreams?&#8221;</strong></h3>
<div><strong>
<div>
<p><span style="font-weight: normal;">Feeling stuck? Feeling uninspired? Listen to this pair of shows (they&#8217;re from a single interview) to light a fire under your ass. Brian Johnson, resident badass philosopher on The New Man lays it down. </span></p>
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<p></p></strong><strong><span style="color: #ff6600;">&#62;&#62;</span> </strong><a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/02/tnm-050-brian-johnson-what-would-you-do-if-you-werent-afraid/" target="_blank"><strong>Click here for part 1</strong></a>
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<p><strong><span style="color: #ff6600;">&#62;&#62;</span> </strong><a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/02/tnm-051-brian-johnson-pt2-do-you-have-the-balls-to-live-the-life-of-your-dreams/" target="_blank"><strong>Click here for part 2</strong></a></p>
<p><span style="color: #ffffff;">&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;</span></p>
<div><span style="color: #ffffff;"><strong>&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;</strong></span></div>
<div><span style="color: #ffffff;"><strong> </strong></span></div>
<h2>Money/Career</h2>
<h3>Brent</h3><p>&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/05/best/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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		<title>TNM 095: Lisa Oz &#8211; Can You Change Your Partner?</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/05/lisa-oz/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 11 May 2010 07:00:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<h3>Lisa Oz &#8211; Can You Change Your Partner?</h3>
<p>Admit it. Wouldn’t you love to <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/01/how-to-change-your-girl/">change </a><em><a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/01/how-to-change-your-girl/">something</a></em><a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/01/how-to-change-your-girl/"> about your girl</a> that just drives you crazy?</p>
<p>Why do you seem to get stuck in a pattern regardless of who you’re with?</p>
<p>And do you find yourself saying “yes dear” in order to avoid a blowout with your partner?</p>
<p>This week we’re talking with Lisa Oz about changing your girl and why your partner is designed to push every single one of your buttons.</p>
<h3>In this episode:</h3>
<ul>
<li>Why do your relationships end up in the same place?</li>
<li>Can you change your partner?</li>
<li>Why is it bad to avoid conflict?</li>
<li>Why does your partner push your buttons?</li>
<li>When should you walk away from a relationship?</li>
<li>Polarity and “flat” relationships</li>
<li>How to quit being hijacked by your emotions (and saying things you wish you hadn’t)</li>
<li>Is Lisa Oz fooling around with Dr Oz?</li>
</ul>
<h3><span id="more-1567"></span>About Lisa Oz</h3>
<p><a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/LOz306x3061.jpg"><img class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-1575" title="Lisa Oz" src="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/LOz306x3061-150x150.jpg" alt="Lisa Oz" width="150" height="150" /></a>Lisa Oz is a producer, writer, actress, and co-host of The Dr Oz Show on Oprah &#38; Friends&#8217; XM radio telecast. Lisa has co-authored three New York Times best selling books, including the &#8220;YOU: The Owner&#8217;s Manual&#8221; series. She is President of Ozworks LLC, a media&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/05/lisa-oz/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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			<itunes:keywords>Dating,Relationships,Sex,Women</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:subtitle>Lisa Oz - Can You Change Your Partner? Admit it. Wouldnât you love to change something about your girl that just drives you crazy? - Why do you seem to get stuck in a pattern regardless of who youâre with?</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Lisa Oz - Can You Change Your Partner?
Admit it. Wouldnât you love to change something about your girl that just drives you crazy?

Why do you seem to get stuck in a pattern regardless of who youâre with?

And do you find yourself saying âyes dearâ in order to avoid a blowout with your partner?

This week weâre talking with Lisa Oz about changing your girl and why your partner is designed to push every single one of your buttons.
In this episode:

	Why do your relationships end up in the same place?
	Can you change your partner?
	Why is it bad to avoid conflict?
	Why does your partner push your buttons?
	When should you walk away from a relationship?
	Polarity and âflatâ relationships
	How to quit being hijacked by your emotions (and saying things you wish you hadnât)
	Is Lisa Oz fooling around with Dr Oz?

About Lisa Oz
Lisa Oz is a producer, writer, actress, and co-host of The Dr Oz Show on Oprah &amp; Friends&#039; XM radio telecast. Lisa has co-authored three New York Times best selling books, including the &quot;YOU: The Owner&#039;s Manual&quot; series. She is President of Ozworks LLC, a media and investment consulting company that she founded, and directs Pine Room Pictures, a production company specializing in family friendly media.

Lisa Oz was born July 20, 1963 in Philadelphia, PA and received her undergraduate degree from Bryn Mawr College. She attended Columbia University&#039;s Union Theological Seminary and has written on and maintains a passion for the spiritual studies. Lisa is a Reiki Master and has spoken widely of her insights into energy and health. She lives in Cliffside Park, NJ with her husband Mehmet of 23 years and their 4 children, Daphne (22), Arabella (17), Zoe (13), and Oliver (9).

Click here to check out Lisa&#039;s book Us: Transforming Ourselves and the Relationships that Matter Most</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
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		<title>TNM 094: Jordan Harbinger &#8211; How To Be Charismatic</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/04/jordan-harbinger-charisma/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Apr 2010 22:24:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<h3>How to Be Charismatic</h3>
<p>Do you ever talk to strangers?</p>
<p>Do you only notice people you think may be able to get you laid or paid?</p>
<p>And what is the best way to deal with guys who are shit talkers or haters?</p>
<p>This week, we’re talking with Jordan Harbinger from the Pickup Podcast about how YOU can bust out of your social conditioning and unlock the charisma within.</p>
<h3>In this episode:</h3>
<ul>
<li>Why charismatic guys rule</li>
<li>How to become outgoing</li>
<li>The benefits of having good social skills</li>
<li>The dangers of judging others to be more or less valuable than you</li>
<li>Why some guys are submissive or constantly apologizing</li>
<li>Why some guys are haters or shit-talkers</li>
<li>Why some guys are competitive, constantly comparing themselves to others</li>
<li>Why some guys are naturally cooperative</li>
<li>How to inspire others to want to help you</li>
<li>A simple practice for getting out of your social shell</li>
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<h3><span id="more-1525"></span>About Jordan Harbinger</h3>
<p><a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/jh.jpg"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-1529" title="jh" src="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/jh.jpg" alt="" width="140" height="182" /></a>Jordan Harbinger has always had an affinity for Social Influence and Dynamics, but first became aware just how valuable these skills were when his grades left him just short of the acceptance requirements for University Of Michigan School of Law. Jordan, unwilling to accept the possibility&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/04/jordan-harbinger-charisma/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>How to Be Charismatic Do you ever talk to strangers? - Do you only notice people you think may be able to get you laid or paid? - And what is the best way to deal with guys who are shit talkers or haters? - This week,</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>How to Be Charismatic
Do you ever talk to strangers?

Do you only notice people you think may be able to get you laid or paid?

And what is the best way to deal with guys who are shit talkers or haters?

This week, weâre talking with Jordan Harbinger from the Pickup Podcast about how YOU can bust out of your social conditioning and unlock the charisma within.
In this episode:

	Why charismatic guys rule
	How to become outgoing
	The benefits of having good social skills
	The dangers of judging others to be more or less valuable than you
	Why some guys are submissive or constantly apologizing
	Why some guys are haters or shit-talkers
	Why some guys are competitive, constantly comparing themselves to others
	Why some guys are naturally cooperative
	How to inspire others to want to help you
	A simple practice for getting out of your social shell

About Jordan Harbinger
Jordan Harbinger has always had an affinity for Social Influence and Dynamics, but first became aware just how valuable these skills were when his grades left him just short of the acceptance requirements for University Of Michigan School of Law. Jordan, unwilling to accept the possibility of being unable to pursue his career of choice, immediately and effectively talked his way into law school. It was then that his fascination and curiosity with the power of Social Influence was born.

It was while attending law school that Jordan also began his education in Social Dynamics and his search for the best in the field. In 2006 he started Pickup Podcast, a Relationship Advice and Social Dynamics interview podcast with Co-Host AJ Harbinger. With the following garnered from Pickup Podcast, Jordan began coaching students in his free time on an on-call basis. It was during these sessions that he realized the substantial need for progression and innovation in the industry.

After graduating in the top of his class, Jordan went on to New York City to pursue his dream of being a Wall Street lawyer. He was accepted at a top-tier firm, but his passion for Social Dynamics still flourished. His search soon brought him to Johnny Dzubak &amp; Alex Weber, two efficacious Social Dynamists. Shortly thereafter, Jordan became even more engrossed in the world of Social Dynamics and saw a strong need for integrity and candor in the industry. It was then he quit his job as a lawyer and founded The Art of Charm. In 2008 SiriusXM Satellite Radio approached Jordan with an offer to host a weekly show on a trial basis. The show was an unequivocal success and Game On became a permanent fixture at SiriusXM, broadcast all over the North American continent.

Jordanâs business sense, extensive knowledge of the industry and contemporary approach to coaching make him one of the best and most sought after dating coaches in the world. These qualities have also led him to receive some of the highest recognitions in the industry of Social Dynamics.

Check out Pickup Podcast and Art of Charm.</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
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		<title>Why Focusing on the Orgasm Makes You Lousy in Bed</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/02/orgasm/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Feb 2010 17:00:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><strong>On the topic of orgasms</strong>, Tripp was recently interviewed as a &#8220;sex-pert&#8221; on the very popular show <strong>Everything is Energy</strong><strong>.</strong> Along with <strong>Sera Beak,</strong> <strong>Ray Brejcha</strong> and <strong>Celeste Hirschman,</strong> New Man host Tripp Lanier explores why so many guys who focus primarily on the orgasm &#8212; whether it&#8217;s their partner&#8217;s or their own &#8212; end up being lousy in the sack.</p>
<p>Crazy, huh?</p>
<p><a href="http://everythingisenergy.com/orgasm/" target="_self"><strong>Click here to listen now.</strong></a></p>
<p>Questions also covered:</p>
<ul>
<li>Is sexiness what you do or how you are?</li>
<li>What makes someone truly sexy?</li>
<li>Is it more important to have a bag of tricks or to cultivate what you want?</li>
<li>What are some practical tips for guys who want to be better in bed?</li>
<li>How is it possible that a guy with good &#8220;skills&#8221; is still a crappy lover?</li>
</ul>
<p><strong><a href="http://everythingisenergy.com/orgasm/" target="_self"><strong>Click here to listen now.</strong></a></strong></p>
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		<title>How to Change Your Girl</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/01/how-to-change-your-girl/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Jan 2010 00:04:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Here&#8217;s an email exchange I recently had with a New Man Podcast listener. Enjoy&#8230;</p>
<p><span id="more-1117"></span></p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;Hello Tripp &#8211; I have been a listener of &#8221; The New Man&#8221; podcast for a while and I recommend to all of my friends, for about a year now, I have developed a passion for self improvement literature, and that has dramatically changed my life and the way I see things. One of the consequences of this changes is this beautiful girl I have been with for several months now, and she is the reason I am writing to you now. She is pretty, she is sweet, she has a good percentage of everything I always seeked for in a woman although I wish she was more self motivated and ambitious, she smokes, what I hate, she denies to go to the gym ( she is skinny ) and she has an addiction for sweets, If I am to build a lifetime relationship, I want someone who works hard for their health and someone who sees money and business in a smarter way than she does. I have bought her and Ipod and have been trying to get her into some self improvement stuff, but its not working. Can you help me out and give</p></blockquote><p>&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/01/how-to-change-your-girl/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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		<title>TNM 082: Siona Van Dijk &#8211; How to Use an Online Dating Site and Not Look Like a Tool</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/10/tnm-082-siona-van-dijk-how-to-use-an-online-dating-site/</link>
		<comments>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/10/tnm-082-siona-van-dijk-how-to-use-an-online-dating-site/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Oct 2009 02:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: center;">
</p><p style="text-align: center;">
</p><p style="text-align: left;">Are you one of the millions of men who are looking to find that special someone?</p>
<p>Are you quietly using or considering an online dating website?</p>
<p>And if so, how is your online dating profile already screwing up your chance to meet Mrs Right?</p>
<p>This week, Siona Van Dijk from the online dating site, <a href="http://soulmates.gaia.com/" target="_blank">Gaia Soulmates</a> is here to help you avoid looking like a tool while making the most of your online dating efforts. So many men (and women) are screwing up their chances for finding a partner just by falling into a few potholes in their profile.</p>
<p>In this show, Siona Van Dijk walks us through some of these online dating danger zones and helps you get the most of your online dating experience.</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://soulmates.gaia.com/" target="_blank">Click here to learn more about Gaia Soulmates.</a></strong></p>
<p><span id="more-84"></span></p>
<p>In this episode:</p>
<ul>
<li>How do you get the most out an online dating site?</li>
<li>Is there a stigma around online dating?</li>
<li>How are dating sites different from Facebook and other community sites?</li>
<li>How are guys screwing up their profiles?</li>
<li>How is your profile perceived by your potential partner?</li>
<li>How long should you plan to</li></ul><p>&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/10/tnm-082-siona-van-dijk-how-to-use-an-online-dating-site/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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			<itunes:keywords>Dating,Women</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:subtitle> - Are you one of the millions of men who are looking to find that special someone? Are you quietly using or considering an online dating website? - And if so, how is your online dating profile already screwing up your chance to meet Mrs Right?</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>

Are you one of the millions of men who are looking to find that special someone?
Are you quietly using or considering an online dating website?

And if so, how is your online dating profile already screwing up your chance to meet Mrs Right?

This week, Siona Van Dijk from the online dating site, Gaia Soulmates is here to help you avoid looking like a tool while making the most of your online dating efforts. So many men (and women) are screwing up their chances for finding a partner just by falling into a few potholes in their profile.

In this show, Siona Van Dijk walks us through some of these online dating danger zones and helps you get the most of your online dating experience.

Click here to learn more about Gaia Soulmates.



In this episode:

	How do you get the most out an online dating site?
	Is there a stigma around online dating?
	How are dating sites different from Facebook and other community sites?
	How are guys screwing up their profiles?
	How is your profile perceived by your potential partner?
	How long should you plan to be on an online dating site?
	How can you create a unique and authentic profile?
	How to move the online interaction into a face to face date?
	How many dates should you go on?
	Whatâs more important -- shared values or shared interests?
	Where online can you find women with depth and consciousness?
	Visit Gaia Soulmates here

About Siona Van Dijk, Co-founder &amp; Director of Gaia Soulmates

Siona van Dijk is the Director of Gaia Community, an online network of nearly 300,000 visionaries, artists, and spiritual seekers committed to living lives of purpose and contributing to a positive future, and the co-founder of Gaia Soulmates, a dating site for singles seeking meaningful and mutually-supportive relationships. A graduate of the Institute of Transpersonal Psychology, Siona&#039;s background also includes training in community building, facilitation, and bereavement counseling. She lives in Boulder, Colorado.

Click here to check out Gaia Soulmates.</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
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		<title>TNM 077: Kendra Cunov &#8211; What is Polyamory and How do Open Relationships Work?</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/08/tnm-077-kendra-cunov-what-is-polyamory-and-how-do-open-relationships-work/</link>
		<comments>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/08/tnm-077-kendra-cunov-what-is-polyamory-and-how-do-open-relationships-work/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Aug 2009 02:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Is polyamory just a fancy word for sleeping around when you’re in a committed relationship?</p>
<p>Do all open relationships end in a self absorbed, sex-crazed disaster?</p>
<p>And what can you learn from the mother of a newborn who stayed home last night while her husband was on a date?</p>
<p>This week, Kendra Cunov is on The New Man to discuss her experience with polyamory and open relationships.Kendra is the mother of a newborn and also the wife in an open marriage. In this episode she talks about her extensive experience with polyamory and open relationships. You will not want to miss this interview.</p>
<p><strong><span id="more-89"></span>In this episode:</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>What is Polyamory?</li>
<li>Open relationships</li>
<li>Open marriage and pregnancy</li>
<li>How to be parents and be in an open marriage</li>
<li>Not just for about the sex</li>
<li>Does wanting an open relationship mean something is wrong with your current relationship?</li>
<li>The number 1 pitfall of open relationships</li>
<li>What about jealousy?</li>
<li>Is having an open relationship a lot of work?</li>
<li>Why do open relationships fail?</li>
<li>What needs to be in place before a couple would try an open relationship?</li>
</ul>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-250" title="kendra" src="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/g-kendra-cunov-2359-SM.jpg" alt="kendra" width="178" height="171" /><strong>About Kendra Cunov &#8212; Coach, Seminar Leader and Co-founder of Authentic SF</strong></p>
<p>Kendra Cunov is a&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/08/tnm-077-kendra-cunov-what-is-polyamory-and-how-do-open-relationships-work/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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			<itunes:keywords>Dating,open relationships,polyamory,Relationships</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:subtitle>Is polyamory just a fancy word for sleeping around when youâre in a committed relationship? - Do all open relationships end in a self absorbed, sex-crazed disaster? - And what can you learn from the mother of a newborn who stayed home last night whil...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Is polyamory just a fancy word for sleeping around when youâre in a committed relationship?

Do all open relationships end in a self absorbed, sex-crazed disaster?

And what can you learn from the mother of a newborn who stayed home last night while her husband was on a date?

This week, Kendra Cunov is on The New Man to discuss her experience with polyamory and open relationships.Kendra is the mother of a newborn and also the wife in an open marriage. In this episode she talks about her extensive experience with polyamory and open relationships. You will not want to miss this interview.

In this episode:

	What is Polyamory?
	Open relationships
	Open marriage and pregnancy
	How to be parents and be in an open marriage
	Not just for about the sex
	Does wanting an open relationship mean something is wrong with your current relationship?
	The number 1 pitfall of open relationships
	What about jealousy?
	Is having an open relationship a lot of work?
	Why do open relationships fail?
	What needs to be in place before a couple would try an open relationship?

About Kendra Cunov -- Coach, Seminar Leader and Co-founder of Authentic SF

Kendra Cunov is a co-founder of AuthenticSF, a personal development company committed to fostering authentic, flourishing relationship in the world.Â  As a coach &amp; seminar leader, she is a unique blend -- Years of practice (and upbringing) in a Buddhist monastery with cutting edge community-building and relationship dynamics, inspiring a profoundly clear and open approach to working with people.</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:duration>32:09</itunes:duration>
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		<title>TNM 074: Alyson Schwabe &amp; Christiane Pelmas Pt 2 &#8211; How to Navigate a Woman&#8217;s Emotional Minefield</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/08/tnm-074-pt-2-how-to-navigate-a-womans-emotional-minefield/</link>
		<comments>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/08/tnm-074-pt-2-how-to-navigate-a-womans-emotional-minefield/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Aug 2009 02:04:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>When you’re woman freaks out, do you buckle or try to make it all go away?</p>
<p>Do you prefer a passionate woman or a stepford wife robot?</p>
<p>And does your woman really support you or does it seem like she’s just another obstacle getting in the way of the life you want to have?</p>
<p>Alyson Schwabe and Christiane Pelmas are back for part 2 of our talk on how to navigate a woman’s emotional mine field.</p>
<p>This is part 2 of our in depth talk on how to approach tough topics with your woman. In this one, we learn a BIG lesson around how to deal with a woman’s “emotional storm”, how saying “yes, dear” is killing her respect for you and other tips for avoiding those big traps men often fall into.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.tripplanier.com/redpill" target="_blank"><strong>Click here for information regarding The Red Pill Weekend.</strong></a></p>
<p><span id="more-92"></span>In this episode:</p>
<ul>
<li>Don’t be afraid of your woman’s storm</li>
<li>How to go through something hard and come out okay</li>
<li>Why am I in this relationship?</li>
<li>Life with a woman is about storm</li>
<li>Storming is about being passionate</li>
<li>Do you want a passionate woman or a stepford wife robot?</li>
<li>Storming is to test a man, to see</li></ul><p>&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/08/tnm-074-pt-2-how-to-navigate-a-womans-emotional-minefield/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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			<itunes:keywords>Dating,Fighting,Relationships,Sex,Women</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:subtitle>When youâre woman freaks out, do you buckle or try to make it all go away? - Do you prefer a passionate woman or a stepford wife robot? - And does your woman really support you or does it seem like sheâs just another obstacle getting in the way of ...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>When youâre woman freaks out, do you buckle or try to make it all go away?

Do you prefer a passionate woman or a stepford wife robot?

And does your woman really support you or does it seem like sheâs just another obstacle getting in the way of the life you want to have?

Alyson Schwabe and Christiane Pelmas are back for part 2 of our talk on how to navigate a womanâs emotional mine field.

This is part 2 of our in depth talk on how to approach tough topics with your woman. In this one, we learn a BIG lesson around how to deal with a womanâs âemotional stormâ, how saying âyes, dearâ is killing her respect for you and other tips for avoiding those big traps men often fall into.

Click here for information regarding The Red Pill Weekend.

In this episode:

	Donât be afraid of your womanâs storm
	How to go through something hard and come out okay
	Why am I in this relationship?
	Life with a woman is about storm
	Storming is about being passionate
	Do you want a passionate woman or a stepford wife robot?
	Storming is to test a man, to see if heâs trustable
	The storm does not mean something is wrong
	Do not buckle to the storm
	If you buckle, she will take over your role in the relationship or look for some way to fill it
	Itâs not about winning a fight or dominating the scenario
	Sheâs entitled to her response and it has virtually nothing to do with you
	Donât take on her feelingsAnd donât defensively posture
	Stay curious
	We want to know that in our relationships, we can say anything
	Most common belief: Iâm the only one that has to deal with this
	Donât try to do it alone
	Get help with big problem areas -- find a therapist, coach or counselor
	Trust that your relationship can stand the test and actually grow
	Look at your partner as a team member, not as your opponent

Click here for information regarding The Red Pill Weekend.

About Alyson Schwabe, Psychotherapist - MA, CGT, LPC

Alyson Schwabe has been in the mental health and human services field since 1996. She received her BA and MA in psychology, and is a Licensed Professional Counselor with the state of Colorado. Alyson has 8 years of specialization training in Gestalt therapy, and is known nationally for her approach in teaching people to relate authentically and live with intention.Â Alysonâs theory and application are rooted in gestalt, developmental, energetic, and somatic psychologies, while her central philosophies are aligned with integral theory, human potential, and consciousness development.Â She offers real-world skills and actively helps you work out unfinished issues in the moment.Â  Alyson will help you make conscious, empowered choices so you are in charge of your life and how you live it. Â Alyson is most often found training the trainer, and is the support behind those that influence the masses. She provides on-location private intensives, facilitates workshops in the art of authentic contact, and teaches her approach at Naropa Universityâs graduate school of psychology. To reach her, you can call her directly at 303.960.7917 orÂ TherapistAlyson (at) mac (dot) com.

About Christiane Pelmas, LCSW

Christiane Pelmas, LCSW specializes in the re-wilding of the human soul and the cultivation of authentic expression through sexuality and intimacy. She maintains a private practice in Boulder CO where she works with couples and individuals in a variety of settings, teaches classes and facilitates groups. She can most easily be reached via email atÂ cpelmas@comcast.net or by phone at 303-449-8590.</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:duration>26:05</itunes:duration>
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		<title>TNM 073: Alyson Schwabe &amp; Christiane Pelmas Pt 1 &#8211; How to Navigate a Woman&#8217;s Emotional Minefield</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/07/tnm-073-pt-1-how-to-navigate-a-womans-emotional-minefield/</link>
		<comments>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/07/tnm-073-pt-1-how-to-navigate-a-womans-emotional-minefield/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Jul 2009 02:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Are you scared to bring up certain topics because you don’t want to cause a shitstorm with your girl?</p>
<p>Do you resent your partner for saying what you can and can not do?</p>
<p>And how is it possible that by avoiding conflict, you’re actually killing the relationship?</p>
<p>This week, Alyson Schwabe and Christiane Pelmas are on the show to talk about how to navigate a woman’s emotional minefield and approach taboo subjects or those conversations you’ve been avoiding.</p>
<p>In this episode we talk about addressing taboo and touchy topics with your woman. Whether it’s money, going on a weekend trip with the fellas or having anal sex to spice things up in the bedroom &#8212; navigating a woman’s emotional storm depends on YOU being confident in what you want and speaking that clearly. Alyson and Christiane lay out some amazingly valuable tips from a woman’s perspective to help you have a more satisfying relationship.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.tripplanier.com/redpill" target="_blank"><strong>Click here for information regarding The Red Pill Weekend.</strong></a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.tripplanier.com/redpill" target="_blank"><strong></strong></a>In this episode:</p>
<ul>
<li>“If I could just talk to her about this, things would be better&#8230;”</li>
<li>Fear that even speaking about stuff will set off a fight</li>
<li>Can’t talk about sex, money, health issuesHow to discuss</li></ul><p>&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/07/tnm-073-pt-1-how-to-navigate-a-womans-emotional-minefield/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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			<itunes:keywords>Dating,Fighting,Relationships,Sex,Women</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:subtitle>Are you scared to bring up certain topics because you donât want to cause a shitstorm with your girl? - Do you resent your partner for saying what you can and can not do? - And how is it possible that by avoiding conflict,</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Are you scared to bring up certain topics because you donât want to cause a shitstorm with your girl?

Do you resent your partner for saying what you can and can not do?

And how is it possible that by avoiding conflict, youâre actually killing the relationship?

This week, Alyson Schwabe and Christiane Pelmas are on the show to talk about how to navigate a womanâs emotional minefield and approach taboo subjects or those conversations youâve been avoiding.

In this episode we talk about addressing taboo and touchy topics with your woman. Whether itâs money, going on a weekend trip with the fellas or having anal sex to spice things up in the bedroom -- navigating a womanâs emotional storm depends on YOU being confident in what you want and speaking that clearly. Alyson and Christiane lay out some amazingly valuable tips from a womanâs perspective to help you have a more satisfying relationship.

Click here for information regarding The Red Pill Weekend.

In this episode:

	âIf I could just talk to her about this, things would be better...â
	Fear that even speaking about stuff will set off a fight
	Canât talk about sex, money, health issuesHow to discuss taboos
	Speaking your desire is the biggest topic
	Many people struggling being straight up with what they want in relationship
	Itâs a dealbreaker that things canât even be discussed
	We imagine how our partners will respond -- not based in reality
	Dating women with kids from a previous marriage
	Itâs not okay to speak your truth
	Quit assuming you know what your partner is going to say or do
	Joking âaroundâ the subject doesnât help you -- it hurts you
	Itâs not the topic that sheâs rejecting, itâs how youâre approaching it
	Not owning your desire has you come off as creepy, untrustworthy
	If she canât trust how youâre speaking about something, she canât trust how you may do it
	Fallacy: âYouâre responsible for my being satisfiedâ
	Drill down and get clear about why you desire this
	Make it right for having this in your life
	Donât let your shame stuff it for you
	Donât make it that sheâs not okay with it
	Deep down, are you okay with it?
	If youâre scared or timid -- be straight with that, bring that to the conversation
	The danger of cutting off or not owning your desire
	Cutting off what you want makes you less trustworthy
	She may not like the content but sheâll trust you more
	You have a choice in every situation -- you just may not like the options
	Whatâs more important to you? To live a lie or to in integrity
	Being in relationship with a whole person

Click here for information regarding The Red Pill Weekend.

About Alyson Schwabe, Psychotherapist - MA, CGT, LPC

Alyson Schwabe has been in the mental health and human services field since 1996. She received her BA and MA in psychology, and is a Licensed Professional Counselor with the state of Colorado. Alyson has 8 years of specialization training in Gestalt therapy, and is known nationally for her approach in teaching people to relate authentically and live with intention.Â Alysonâs theory and application are rooted in gestalt, developmental, energetic, and somatic psychologies, while her central philosophies are aligned with integral theory, human potential, and consciousness development.Â She offers real-world skills and actively helps you work out unfinished issues in the moment.Â  Alyson will help you make conscious, empowered choices so you are in charge of your life and how you live it. Â Alyson is most often found training the trainer, and is the support behind those that influence the masses. She provides on-location private intensives, facilitates workshops in the art of authentic contact, and teaches her approach at Naropa Universityâs graduate school of psychology. To reach her, you can call her directly at 303.960.7917 orÂ TherapistAlyson (at) mac (dot) com.

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		<title>TNM 058: Ray Brejcha &#8211; Building Attraction with Women</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/04/tnm-058-ray-brejcha-building-attraction-with-women/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Apr 2009 02:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>If a guy ever tells you he doesn’t get nervous when approaching a beautiful woman, he’s probably full of shit. Even the guys who teach this stuff get nervous.</p>
<p>Meet Ray Brejcha &#8211; coach, speaker and workshop facilitator. He specializes in helping men create attraction and find deeper connections with women. In this episode, Ray will talk about what’s possible by attending the Red Pill Weekend.</p>
<p><a href="http://redpillweekend.com/thenewman" target="_blank"><strong>Click here to learn more about The Red Pill Weekend.</strong></a></p>
<p><span id="more-108"></span></p>
<p>In this episode:</p>
<ul>
<li>Creating Attraction</li>
<li>Deeper Connections</li>
<li>Being the nerd</li>
<li>Being the guy who has it all but still feels empty</li>
<li>How to get beyond small talk</li>
<li>Concentrating on outer appearances to cover up insecurities</li>
<li>Using women to fill a void</li>
<li>Following a hunch instead of having it all figured out</li>
<li>The importance of feedback from men and women</li>
<li>The value of having solid men in your life</li>
<li>Killing attraction &#8212; being needy, wishy washy or being fearful of rejection</li>
<li>Being clear with your desire</li>
<li>How core beliefs sabotage you &#8212; &#8220;I don’t deserve this,&#8221; &#8220;I’m not enough,&#8221; etc.</li>
<li>How so many “successful” men have a difficult time with women</li>
<li>Settling for less vs going for what you want</li>
<li>How taking risks</li></ul><p>&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/04/tnm-058-ray-brejcha-building-attraction-with-women/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>If a guy ever tells you he doesnât get nervous when approaching a beautiful woman, heâs probably full of shit. Even the guys who teach this stuff get nervous. - Meet Ray Brejcha - coach, speaker and workshop facilitator.</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>If a guy ever tells you he doesnât get nervous when approaching a beautiful woman, heâs probably full of shit. Even the guys who teach this stuff get nervous.

Meet Ray Brejcha - coach, speaker and workshop facilitator. He specializes in helping men create attraction and find deeper connections with women. In this episode, Ray will talk about whatâs possible by attending the Red Pill Weekend.

Click here to learn more about The Red Pill Weekend.



In this episode:

	Creating Attraction
	Deeper Connections
	Being the nerd
	Being the guy who has it all but still feels empty
	How to get beyond small talk
	Concentrating on outer appearances to cover up insecurities
	Using women to fill a void
	Following a hunch instead of having it all figured out
	The importance of feedback from men and women
	The value of having solid men in your life
	Killing attraction -- being needy, wishy washy or being fearful of rejection
	Being clear with your desire
	How core beliefs sabotage you -- &quot;I donât deserve this,&quot; &quot;Iâm not enough,&quot; etc.
	How so many âsuccessfulâ men have a difficult time with women
	Settling for less vs going for what you want
	How taking risks builds attraction
	What to expect at The Red Pill Weekend

About Ray Brejcha, Coach, Red Pill Weekend Co-Founder

Ray Brejcha â workshop leader, speaker, and international personal and relationship coach is passionately devoted to inspiring men and women in leading an authentic life. Rayâs approach to teaching and coaching is grounded in his commitment to yoga and health, and a deep understanding of masculine/feminine dynamics. He draws upon diverse experience working in Silicon Valley as a top sales executive producing in excess of $60M in business, with the Peak Potentials Organization as a skilled Success and Results coach, as a course facilitator for The Mankind Project, and as a competitor on the TV show âAmerican Gladiatorâ.

Ray has been educated and certified by some of the nationâs top training organizations for coaching, seminar facilitation, relationship, sales, leadership and presentation skills, and has coached 100âs of clients in ten different countries. He has facilitated popular monthly workshops in Boulder Colorado on authentic relationship. He brings a fresh, engaging, warm and witty style to his coaching and facilitation with the Authentic Man Program along with the powerful gift of presence. Ray is also the creator of the Red Pill Weekend in Colorado. He is committed to helping others create wildly fulfilling relationships that are fun, deep and meaningful.

Click here to learn more about The Red Pill Weekend.</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:duration>19:57</itunes:duration>
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		<title>TNM 040: Tripp &amp; Casey &#8211; The Best of Season 1</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/12/tnm-040-tripp-and-casey-the-best-of-season-1/</link>
		<comments>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/12/tnm-040-tripp-and-casey-the-best-of-season-1/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Dec 2008 02:54:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/22102-tripp-casey-best-season</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[<p>Will The New Man Podcast solve all your problems and make you rich and famous?</p>
<p>Maybe not, but judging from the feedback we&#8217;re getting, it can seriously help.</p>
<p>The New Man Podcast just turned one. Over the course of our first year, we&#8217;ve interviewed dozens of teachers, leaders and successful men and women across all aspects of life about sex, parenting, professional life, and more.</p>
<p>Listen as Tripp and Casey look back over the first year of The New Man and reflect on what they personally learned and where the show is headed in the year to come.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.learnoutloud.com/Catalog/Social-Sciences/Gender-Studies/The-Best-of-The-New-Man-Season-1/29847" target="_blank"><strong>Click here to purchase The Best of The New Man Podcast Season 1.</strong></a></p>
<p><span id="more-126"></span>In our exploration of what a New Man might look like, we have uncovered key insights, patterns, and habits of highly effective men (and women) in the most important areas of our lives from career, to purpose, to sex and relationship and everything in between.</p>
<p>We love hearing from you about how the insights shared in these interviews are impacting your life.  That&#8217;s why we have created a new way to enjoy and share The New Man Podcast. Tripp and Casey handpicked the best of the best from this year&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/12/tnm-040-tripp-and-casey-the-best-of-season-1/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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			<itunes:keywords>Dating,Inner Game,Relationships</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:subtitle>Will The New Man Podcast solve all your problems and make you rich and famous? - Maybe not, but judging from the feedback we&#039;re getting, it can seriously help. - The New Man Podcast just turned one. Over the course of our first year,</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Will The New Man Podcast solve all your problems and make you rich and famous?

Maybe not, but judging from the feedback we&#039;re getting, it can seriously help.

The New Man Podcast just turned one. Over the course of our first year, we&#039;ve interviewed dozens of teachers, leaders and successful men and women across all aspects of life about sex, parenting, professional life, and more.

Listen as Tripp and Casey look back over the first year of The New Man and reflect on what they personally learned and where the show is headed in the yearÂ to come.

Click here to purchase The Best of The New Man Podcast Season 1.

In our exploration of what a New Man might look like, we have uncovered key insights, patterns, and habits of highly effective men (and women) in the most important areas of our lives from career, to purpose, to sex and relationship and everything in between.

We love hearing from you about how the insights shared in these interviews are impacting your life.Â  That&#039;s why we have created a new way to enjoy and share The New Man Podcast. Tripp and Casey handpicked the best of the best from this year and created a 6-disc CD set, a greatest hits of the first season and the perfect gift for the men in your life.

Click here to purchase The Best of The New Man Podcast Season 1.</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:duration>33:24</itunes:duration>
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		<title>TNM 034: Authentic Man Program &#8211; The Power of Integrity</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/10/tnm-034-authentic-man-program-the-power-of-integrity/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Oct 2008 02:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>What the hell is integrity?</p>
<p>Why would it play an important role in our lives and our interactions with other men&#8230;and women?</p>
<p>This week we&#8217;re talking again with our friends Bryan Bayer and Garrison Cohen of the Authentic Man Program, about their latest tools to help men achieve their true potential.</p>
<p><a href="https://authenticman.infusionsoft.com/go/PoI/TrippLan/" target="_blank"><strong>Click here to learn more about The Authentic Man Program.</strong></a></p>
<p><span id="more-132"></span>In this episode:</p>
<ul>
<li>How our being nice can be the barrier to our own greatness;</li>
<li>How it is really our duty to express how we really feel, regardless of the outcome;</li>
<li>The importance of owning our attraction;</li>
<li>What we have to put on the line to evolve to the next level;</li>
<li>Where to find the arena to play our highest game;</li>
<li>Calling ourselves on our own bullshit;</li>
<li>The latest multimedia products from AMP;</li>
<li>How to put all of this theory in to real action.</li>
</ul>
<p><strong>About Bryan Bayer, Personal coach and co-founder of AuthenticSF</strong></p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-262" title="g-bryan-bayer-SM" src="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/g-bryan-bayer-SM.jpg" alt="g-bryan-bayer-SM" width="178" height="171" />Bryan Bayer, CEO of AuthenticSF™ and the Authentic Man Program™, has facilitated workshops and coached hundreds of people to success in the areas of communications, business and relationship.  Drawing from an extensive study of integral theory, developmental psychology and man/woman dynamics, Bryan has a&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/10/tnm-034-authentic-man-program-the-power-of-integrity/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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			<itunes:keywords>AMP,Dating,Relationships,Sex</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:subtitle>What the hell is integrity? - Why would it play an important role in our lives and our interactions with other men...and women? - This week we&#039;re talking again with our friends Bryan Bayer and Garrison Cohen of the Authentic Man Program,</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>What the hell is integrity?

Why would it play an important role in our lives and our interactions with other men...and women?

This week we&#039;re talking again with our friends Bryan Bayer and Garrison Cohen of the Authentic Man Program, about their latest tools to help men achieve their true potential.

Click here to learn more about The Authentic Man Program.

In this episode:

	How our being nice can be the barrier to our own greatness;
	How it is really our duty to express how we really feel, regardless of the outcome;
	The importance of owning our attraction;
	What we have to put on the line to evolve to the next level;
	Where to find the arena to play our highest game;
	Calling ourselves on our own bullshit;
	The latest multimedia products from AMP;
	How to put all of this theory in to real action.

About Bryan Bayer, Personal coach and co-founder of AuthenticSF

Bryan Bayer, CEO of AuthenticSFâ¢ and the Authentic Man Programâ¢, has facilitated workshops and coached hundreds of people to success in the areas of communications, business and relationship.  Drawing from an extensive study of integral theory, developmental psychology and man/woman dynamics, Bryan has a background in the Destination Method, certified by Robert McDonald, one of the early pioneers and leaders in the science of NLP (neuro-linguistic programming). He has written dozens of articles on man/woman dynamics and personal development, and in addition to his coaching practice, Bryan is a course leader for the Arete Center for Excellence, the Authentic Man Program, and supervises the production of other courses.

About Garrison Cohen

Garrison Cohen, VP of Development for AMP Media has spoken at over 300 colleges as far away as Singapore and has lead live workshops for up to 2,500 at a time. He is an award winning filmmaker, presenter, writer and honorary member of the Society of Leadership and Success, which has hosted other speakers such as Patch Adams and Colin Powell. His current work is based on a fusion of marketing, film production and accelerated learning. In addition to his work in education and entertainment Garrison has been a leading voice in the field of transformational work for men since 1996. Since his involvement with AMP Garrison has overseen the copyrighting, marketing, audio and video production that has gone out to men all over the world.

Click here to learn more about The Authentic Man Program.</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
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		<title>TNM 021: Garrison Cohen Pt 2 &#8211; The Seduction Community, Where to Go Next?</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/05/tnm-021-the-seduction-community-where-to-go-next/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 01 May 2008 23:33:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">563 at http://www.fallingfruit.tv</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[<p>What do you do when you master the art of seduction?</p>
<p>After years of practice in the seduction community, Garrison Cohen still felt something was missin</p>
<p>He had become a Pickup Artist (PUA), with no trouble meeting and dating women. But the truly meaningful relationships still eluded him.  In his continuing search he came upon a concept called &#8220;inner game&#8221; and the Authentic Man Program.</p>
<p>Listen as he shares with us what he found to be the ultimate practice to deepen his relationships with women and give him what he was truly looking for all along.</p>
<p>In this episode:</p>
<ul>
<li> Ross Jeffries</li>
<li> NLP &#8211; Neuro-Linguistic Programming</li>
<li> Authentic Man Program</li>
<li> The Game</li>
</ul>
<p><a href="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/amp" target="_blank"><strong>Click here for more information on The Authentic Man Program.</strong></a></p>
<p><span id="more-145"></span><strong>About Garrison Cohen</strong></p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-639" title="g-garrison-cohen-SM" src="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/g-garrison-cohen-SM.jpg" alt="g-garrison-cohen-SM" width="178" height="171" />Garrison Cohen, VP of Development for AMP Media has spoken at over 300 colleges as far away as Singapore and has lead live workshops for up to 2,500 at a time. He is an award winning filmmaker, presenter, writer and honorary member of the Society of Leadership and Success, which has hosted other speakers such as Patch Adams and Colin Powell. His current work is based on a fusion of marketing,&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/05/tnm-021-the-seduction-community-where-to-go-next/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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			<itunes:keywords>AMP,Dating,Pickup Artist,PUA</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:subtitle>What do you do when you master the art of seduction? - After years of practice in the seduction community, Garrison Cohen still felt something was missin - He had become a Pickup Artist (PUA), with no trouble meeting and dating women.</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>What do you do when you master the art of seduction?

After years of practice in the seduction community, Garrison Cohen still felt something was missin

He had become a Pickup Artist (PUA), with no trouble meeting and dating women. But the truly meaningful relationships still eluded him.  In his continuing search he came upon a concept called &quot;inner game&quot; and the Authentic Man Program.

Listen as he shares with us what he found to be the ultimate practice to deepen his relationships with women and give him what he was truly looking for all along.

In this episode:

	 Ross Jeffries
	 NLP - Neuro-Linguistic Programming
	 Authentic Man Program
	 The Game

Click here for more information on The Authentic Man Program.

About Garrison Cohen

Garrison Cohen, VP of Development for AMP Media has spoken at over 300 colleges as far away as Singapore and has lead live workshops for up to 2,500 at a time. He is an award winning filmmaker, presenter, writer and honorary member of the Society of Leadership and Success, which has hosted other speakers such as Patch Adams and Colin Powell. His current work is based on a fusion of marketing, film production and accelerated learning. In addition to his work in education and entertainment Garrison has been a leading voice in the field of transformational work for men since 1996. Since his involvement with AMP Garrison has overseen the copyrighting, marketing, audio and video production that has gone out to men all over the world.

Click here for more information on The Authentic Man Program.</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:duration>36:03</itunes:duration>
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		<title>TNM 020: Garrison Cohen Pt 1 &#8211; The Reformed Pickup Artist</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/04/tnm-020-a-reformed-pick-up-artist/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Apr 2008 13:30:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">559 at http://www.fallingfruit.tv</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[<p>Are you wanting to meet more women or have greater choices when it comes to a date?</p>
<p>Ever thought of becoming a Pickup Artist or PUA?</p>
<p>This week we sit down with Garrison Cohen, a &#8220;reformed pickup artist&#8221; that has tried every technique there is in the world of seduction.  Garrison walks us through his journey in the seduction community including a time as a Pickup Artist trainer.  He shares with us the insights he learned from each of the schools of seduction and where it ultimately led him.</p>
<p>In this episode:</p>
<ul>
<li> Ross Jeffries</li>
<li> NLP &#8211; Neuro-Linguistic Programming</li>
<li> Authentic Man Program</li>
<li> The Game</li>
</ul>
<p><a href="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/amp" target="_blank"><strong>Click here for more information on The Authentic Man Program.</strong></a></p>
<p><span id="more-146"></span></p>
<p><strong>About Garrison Cohen</strong></p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-639" title="g-garrison-cohen-SM" src="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/g-garrison-cohen-SM.jpg" alt="g-garrison-cohen-SM" width="178" height="171" />Garrison Cohen, VP of Development for AMP Media has spoken at over 300 colleges as far away as Singapore and has lead live workshops for up to 2,500 at a time. He is an award winning filmmaker, presenter, writer and honorary member of the Society of Leadership and Success, which has hosted other speakers such as Patch Adams and Colin Powell. His current work is based on a fusion of marketing, film production and accelerated learning. In&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/04/tnm-020-a-reformed-pick-up-artist/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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			<itunes:keywords>AMP,Dating,Pickup Artist</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:subtitle>Are you wanting to meet more women or have greater choices when it comes to a date? - Ever thought of becoming a Pickup Artist or PUA? - This week we sit down with Garrison Cohen, a &quot;reformed pickup artist&quot; that has tried every technique there is in th...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Are you wanting to meet more women or have greater choices when it comes to a date?

Ever thought of becoming a Pickup Artist or PUA?

This week we sit down with Garrison Cohen, a &quot;reformed pickup artist&quot; that has tried every technique there is in the world of seduction.  Garrison walks us through his journey in the seduction community including a time as a Pickup Artist trainer.  He shares with us the insights he learned from each of the schools of seduction and where it ultimately led him.

In this episode:

	 Ross Jeffries
	 NLP - Neuro-Linguistic Programming
	 Authentic Man Program
	 The Game

Click here for more information on The Authentic Man Program.



About Garrison Cohen

Garrison Cohen, VP of Development for AMP Media has spoken at over 300 colleges as far away as Singapore and has lead live workshops for up to 2,500 at a time. He is an award winning filmmaker, presenter, writer and honorary member of the Society of Leadership and Success, which has hosted other speakers such as Patch Adams and Colin Powell. His current work is based on a fusion of marketing, film production and accelerated learning. In addition to his work in education and entertainment Garrison has been a leading voice in the field of transformational work for men since 1996. Since his involvement with AMP Garrison has overseen the copyrighting, marketing, audio and video production that has gone out to men all over the world.

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		<title>TNM 019: Bryan Bayer Pt 2 &#8211; The Icing on the Cake of an Amazing Life!</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/04/tnm-019-the-icing-on-the-cake-of-an-amazing-life/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Apr 2008 11:33:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>What can do once you have found a sense of wholeness?</p>
<p>In Part 2 of our discussion with Bryan Bayer of the Authentic Man Program we discuss how personal development work affects our luck with the ladies.</p>
<p>Bryan describes how presence becomes &#8216;a vortex,&#8217; drawing people (especially women) towards us.  He then describes what interactions look like after the &#8216;need to get something&#8221; is dropped.</p>
<p>We also get into the unique opportunity AMP presents for men.  &#8220;10 years of therapy didn&#8217;t get at what we got in 2 days at AMP,&#8221; said one participant.  AMP is a unique mix of challenge, inquiry and compassion that can trigger rapid insights and growth.</p>
<p>Listen as we learn how relating with women is just the icing on the cake of an amazing life!</p>
<p>Disclaimer: Tripp and Casey have both attended the AMP program and both found it challenging, rewarding, and a profound growing experience.</p>
<p>In this episode:</p>
<ul>
<li> Authentic Man Program</li>
<li> The Game</li>
<li> Dekker</li>
<li> Goenka Vipassana Meditation</li>
<li> Ken Wilber</li>
<li> David Deida</li>
</ul>
<p><strong><a href="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/amp" target="_blank">Click here for more information on The Authentic Man Program.</a></strong></p>
<p><strong><span id="more-147"></span></strong></p>
<p><strong>About Bryan Bayer, Personal coach and co-founder of AuthenticSF</strong></p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-262" title="g-bryan-bayer-SM" src="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/g-bryan-bayer-SM.jpg" alt="g-bryan-bayer-SM" width="178" height="171" />Bryan Bayer, CEO of AuthenticSF™&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/04/tnm-019-the-icing-on-the-cake-of-an-amazing-life/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>What can do once you have found a sense of wholeness? - In Part 2 of our discussion with Bryan Bayer of the Authentic Man Program we discuss how personal development work affects our luck with the ladies. - Bryan describes how presence becomes &#039;a vortex,</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>What can do once you have found a sense of wholeness?

In Part 2 of our discussion with Bryan Bayer of the Authentic Man Program we discuss how personal development work affects our luck with the ladies.

Bryan describes how presence becomes &#039;a vortex,&#039; drawing people (especially women) towards us.  He then describes what interactions look like after the &#039;need to get something&quot; is dropped.

We also get into the unique opportunity AMP presents for men.  &quot;10 years of therapy didn&#039;t get at what we got in 2 days at AMP,&quot; said one participant.  AMP is a unique mix of challenge, inquiry and compassion that can trigger rapid insights and growth.

Listen as we learn how relating with women is just the icing on the cake of an amazing life!

Disclaimer: Tripp and Casey have both attended the AMP program and both found it challenging, rewarding, and a profound growing experience.

In this episode:

	 Authentic Man Program
	 The Game
	 Dekker
	 Goenka Vipassana Meditation
	 Ken Wilber
	 David Deida

Click here for more information on The Authentic Man Program.



About Bryan Bayer, Personal coach and co-founder of AuthenticSF

Bryan Bayer, CEO of AuthenticSFâ¢ and the Authentic Man Programâ¢, has facilitated workshops and coached hundreds of people to success in the areas of communications, business and relationship.  Drawing from an extensive study of integral theory, developmental psychology and man/woman dynamics, Bryan has a background in the Destination Method, certified by Robert McDonald, one of the early pioneers and leaders in the science of NLP (neuro-linguistic programming). He has written dozens of articles on man/woman dynamics and personal development, and in addition to his coaching practice, Bryan is a course leader for the Arete Center for Excellence, the Authentic Man Program, and supervises the production of other courses.

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		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:duration>24:53</itunes:duration>
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		<title>TNM 018: Bryan Bayer Pt 1 &#8211; Facing the Demons Within</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/04/tnm-018-bryan-bayer-the-authentic-man-program-part-1/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Apr 2008 11:51:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Ever notice how some guys just seem to be magnets for women?</p>
<p>Ever wish you could be that guy, effortlessly attracting amazing women into your life?</p>
<p>We sure do, and there may be help for us yet.</p>
<p>This week we&#8217;re in the studio with Bryan Bayer, co-founder of the Authentic Man Program.  Bryan gives us the story of how the AMP program came into existence out of his own pain and struggle to find real connection with women.</p>
<p>At one point, Bryan spent months asking himself, &#8220;What would I do if no woman ever found me attractive again?&#8221;  From this deep inquiry, he discovered a whole new sense of integration and used it as a tool to fuel his own personal growt</p>
<p>He also had help from amazing women in his life that were willing to explore the depths of his being with him and give him feedback on what they were experiencing.  AMP was developed with Bryan as his own guinea pig.</p>
<p>The AMP facilitators work with all types of men, helping them to integrate more of &#8220;themselves&#8221; and get rid of that sense of &#8220;neediness&#8221; that keeps women at a distance.</p>
<p>Listen as Bryan gives us a sense&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/04/tnm-018-bryan-bayer-the-authentic-man-program-part-1/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>Ever notice how some guys just seem to be magnets for women? - Ever wish you could be that guy, effortlessly attracting amazing women into your life? - We sure do, and there may be help for us yet. - This week we&#039;re in the studio with Bryan Bayer,</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Ever notice how some guys just seem to be magnets for women?

Ever wish you could be that guy, effortlessly attracting amazing women into your life?

We sure do, and there may be help for us yet.

This week we&#039;re in the studio with Bryan Bayer, co-founder of the Authentic Man Program.  Bryan gives us the story of how the AMP program came into existence out of his own pain and struggle to find real connection with women.

At one point, Bryan spent months asking himself, &quot;What would I do if no woman ever found me attractive again?&quot;  From this deep inquiry, he discovered a whole new sense of integration and used it as a tool to fuel his own personal growt

He also had help from amazing women in his life that were willing to explore the depths of his being with him and give him feedback on what they were experiencing.  AMP was developed with Bryan as his own guinea pig.

The AMP facilitators work with all types of men, helping them to integrate more of &quot;themselves&quot; and get rid of that sense of &quot;neediness&quot; that keeps women at a distance.

Listen as Bryan gives us a sense of where we can go in our interactions with women and how the AMP program is a great resource to help us get there.

Resources:

	 Authentic Man Program
	 The Game
	 Dekker
	 Goenka Vipassana Meditation
	 Ken Wilber
	 David Deida

Click here for more information on The Authentic Man Program.

About Bryan Bayer, Personal coach and co-founder of AuthenticSF

Bryan Bayer, CEO of AuthenticSFâ¢ and the Authentic Man Programâ¢, has facilitated workshops and coached hundreds of people to success in the areas of communications, business and relationship.  Drawing from an extensive study of integral theory, developmental psychology and man/woman dynamics, Bryan has a background in the Destination Method, certified by Robert McDonald, one of the early pioneers and leaders in the science of NLP (neuro-linguistic programming). He has written dozens of articles on man/woman dynamics and personal development, and in addition to his coaching practice, Bryan is a course leader for the Arete Center for Excellence, the Authentic Man Program, and supervises the production of other courses.

Click here for more information on The Authentic Man Program.</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:duration>27:21</itunes:duration>
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		<title>TNM 017: Alissa Kriteman &#8211; Dating, Relationships &amp; Sex</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/04/tnm-017-alissa-kriteman-dating-relationships-and-sex/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Apr 2008 11:21:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>What is the deal with all this testing from women?</p>
<p>In part two of our conversation, Alissa Kriteman shares an intense example of how she has tested her man and how his strength and ability to hold that deepened their relationship immensely.</p>
<p>Alissa shares with us some secrets that single men should know about meeting and attracting women and what role a healthy sense of self can play in finding a partner.</p>
<p>She gets into the very thing guys want to know about the most &#8212; What are we missing in the bedroom?</p>
<p>No, it&#8217;s not about any elaborate technique or physical qualifications fellas.  It&#8217;s also not something we can &#8220;figure out&#8221; exactly.</p>
<p>She goes on to speak about the wisdom of desire, and encourages us to cultivate our ability to &#8220;be&#8221; with desire and allow it to subtly guide us in life.</p>
<p>Listen as Alissa lets us in on the world of women.</p>
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<p><strong><span id="more-149"></span>About Alissa Kriteman, Author of &#8220;Four Cornerstones for Living Your Dreams&#8221;</strong></p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-968" title="h-alissa-kriteman-SM" src="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/04/h-alissa-kriteman-SM1.jpg" alt="h-alissa-kriteman-SM" width="178" height="171" />Show host, author and entrepreneur, Alissa Kriteman brings a sassy and bold approach to all that she does.  With a background as a Professional Life Coach and Relationship Expert, Alissa brings a wealth of&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/04/tnm-017-alissa-kriteman-dating-relationships-and-sex/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>What is the deal with all this testing from women? - In part two of our conversation, Alissa Kriteman shares an intense example of how she has tested her man and how his strength and ability to hold that deepened their relationship immensely.</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>What is the deal with all this testing from women?

In part two of our conversation, Alissa Kriteman shares an intense example of how she has tested her man and how his strength and ability to hold that deepened their relationship immensely.

Alissa shares with us some secrets that single men should know about meeting and attracting women and what role a healthy sense of self can play in finding a partner.

She gets into the very thing guys want to know about the most -- What are we missing in the bedroom?

No, it&#039;s not about any elaborate technique or physical qualifications fellas.  It&#039;s also not something we can &quot;figure out&quot; exactly.

She goes on to speak about the wisdom of desire, and encourages us to cultivate our ability to &quot;be&quot; with desire and allow it to subtly guide us in life.

Listen as Alissa lets us in on the world of women.

About Alissa Kriteman, Author of &quot;Four Cornerstones for Living Your Dreams&quot;

Show host, author and entrepreneur, Alissa Kriteman brings a sassy and bold approach to all that she does.Â  With a background as a Professional Life Coach and Relationship Expert, Alissa brings a wealth of insight and knowledge to her latest venture as the host of a hot, new podcast show, âJust For Women: Dating, Relationships and Sexâ distributed by Personal Life Media, Inc.

Alissa appeared as âThe Dreamerâ on ABCâs reality show âHow to Get the Guyâ and is the author of âMeet the Dreamer: Alissaâs Four Cornerstones for Living Your Dreamsâ available on www.Amazon.com .Â  A smart and experienced go-getter, Alissa&#039;s innate desire for authenticity and &quot;news you can use&quot; allows her to confidently interview todayâs most innovative and passionate leaders about attraction, intimacy, sensuality, understanding men, being an empowered woman and alternative approaches to creating loving relationships.

A native of Boston, MA, Alissa holds a BS in Business Administration from the University of New Hampshire and a minor in Spanish from the Universidad de Granada, Spain. She began her corporate career in sales and marketing in the wine industry and headed west to the Napa Valley to promote prestigious wineries such as Far Niente and DeLoach Vineyards. Wanting to be more involved in the pulse of what was happening in San Francisco, Alissa took her expertise into the Advertising world as an Account Executive with Winkler Advertising.

Living in the Bay Area, a hotbed of personal transformation, Alissa became involved with Landmark Education and subsequently completed their entire curriculum of courses. She spent two years as a successful Introduction Leader as well as powerful coach for many of their programs. During her tenure with transformational work at Landmark, Alissa also began facilitating a dynamic workshop that celebrates the differences between men and women with her friends and course leaders, Kristine and John Catalina (www.manwomanmadeeasy.com ).Â  Continuing her desire to help awaken larger groups of people to the power that lies within them, Alissa accepted the role of Head Coach for a riveting, year-long personal growth intensive called The Wisdom Course, also offered by Landmark Education.

Alissa is presently a licensed, Intuitive Massage Therapist managing a successful private practice with her company, Sacred Spa (www.sacredspa.org ).Â  She also works part-time at Splash Spa in the five-star fitness center SportsClub/LA (www.mpsportsclubco.com ) in San Francisco.Â  She is a currently a student with Tinamit Junan Uleu (www.mayanshamanism.com ) a Mayan organization dedicated to bringing the shamanic wisdom of ancient elders to the world of today.
Alissa, an active yogini, enjoys meditation and kirtan and meets with a monthly women&#039;s circle focused on manifesting dreams into reality.Â  She loves to read, journal, swim in the ocean, snowboard, make music, see live music, and most of all, dance ~ to the amazing beats of DJ Lorin Ashton (www.bassnectar.net ).

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		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:duration>33:09</itunes:duration>
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		<title>TNM 016: Alissa Kriteman &#8211; What Women Aren&#8217;t Telling You</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/03/tnm-016-alissa-kriteman-just-for-women/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Mar 2008 10:02:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Do you ever wonder what women talk about when we&#8217;re not around?</p>
<p>We sure do, that&#8217;s why we had to get an insider&#8217;s perspective from relationship consultant Alissa Kriteman.</p>
<p>Alissa hosts the hugely successful podcast &#8220;Just for Women: Dating, Relationships, and Sex.&#8221;</p>
<p>She talks with experts about all the issues facing women and helps her listeners live fuller lives with better relationships.</p>
<p>Given her experience talking with women, we thought she might have some insights for The New Man&#8230;she definitely did!</p>
<p>Alissa gives us the female perspective on how we, as men, show up in the world of women most of the time.  She details the differences of worldviews experienced by men and women and how knowing these differences empowers us to have deeper, more authentic relationships.</p>
<p><span id="more-150"></span><strong>About Alissa Kriteman, Author of &#8220;Four Cornerstones for Living Your Dreams&#8221;</strong></p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-696" title="h-alissa-kriteman-SM" src="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/03/h-alissa-kriteman-SM.jpg" alt="h-alissa-kriteman-SM" width="178" height="171" />Show host, author and entrepreneur, Alissa Kriteman brings a sassy and bold approach to all that she does.  With a background as a Professional Life Coach and Relationship Expert, Alissa brings a wealth of insight and knowledge to her latest venture as the host of a hot, new podcast show, “Just For Women: Dating, Relationships and Sex” distributed by Personal Life Media,&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/03/tnm-016-alissa-kriteman-just-for-women/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>Do you ever wonder what women talk about when we&#039;re not around? - We sure do, that&#039;s why we had to get an insider&#039;s perspective from relationship consultant Alissa Kriteman. - Alissa hosts the hugely successful podcast &quot;Just for Women: Dating,</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Do you ever wonder what women talk about when we&#039;re not around?

We sure do, that&#039;s why we had to get an insider&#039;s perspective from relationship consultant Alissa Kriteman.

Alissa hosts the hugely successful podcast &quot;Just for Women: Dating, Relati...</itunes:summary>
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		<title>TNM 009: The Women of AMP &#8211; Women Are Not Just a Pain in the Ass?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Feb 2008 12:26:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>We&#8217;re dodging flying coffee mugs right now for even suggesting that, but that&#8217;s how it can feel to a guy now and the</p>
<p>What is going on with the women of our lives in these moments of apparent torture?</p>
<p>This week we sit down with the amazing women of the Authentic Man Program as they share with us a little bit about how women wor</p>
<p>We learn how women perceive men and how we can &#8220;show up&#8221; more fully to experience new depths in meeting, dating, and serious relationships with women.</p>
<p>The Authentic Man Program is a San Francisco-based workshop that helps men learn to look deep inside themselves and connect with their deepest truth.  It also shows them how to take that awareness out into the world to meet and relate to other people—especially women.</p>
<p>Kendra, Shana, and Alexis give us a glimpse inside what they bring to the Authentic Man Program and share with us some practices we can use to deepen our relations with the opposite sex.</p>
<p>Far from being a pain in the ass, these women (and all women really) are our trusted allies in finding our deeper selves and finding intense connection with a partner.&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/02/tnm-009-women-are-not-just-a-pain-in-the-ass/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>We&#039;re dodging flying coffee mugs right now for even suggesting that, but that&#039;s how it can feel to a guy now and the - What is going on with the women of our lives in these moments of apparent torture? - This week we sit down with the amazing women of ...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>We&#039;re dodging flying coffee mugs right now for even suggesting that, but that&#039;s how it can feel to a guy now and the

What is going on with the women of our lives in these moments of apparent torture?

This week we sit down with the amazing women of the Authentic Man Program as they share with us a little bit about how women wor

We learn how women perceive men and how we can &quot;show up&quot; more fully to experience new depths in meeting, dating, and serious relationships with women.

The Authentic Man Program is a San Francisco-based workshop that helps men learn to look deep inside themselves and connect with their deepest truth.  It also shows them how to take that awareness out into the world to meet and relate to other peopleâespecially women.

Kendra, Shana, and Alexis give us a glimpse inside what they bring to the Authentic Man Program and share with us some practices we can use to deepen our relations with the opposite sex.

Far from being a pain in the ass, these women (and all women really) are our trusted allies in finding our deeper selves and finding intense connection with a partner.

Click here for more information on The Authentic Man Program.

About Kendra Cunov

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Committed to inspiring people towards more fulfilling relationships, they lead profoundly intimate and personal coursework for men, women &amp; couples. AuthenticWorld is known for delivering practical andâ¦well, authentic results minus the traditional formalities and pomp of âtransformational workâ. The Authentic Man Program (AMP) and the Authentic Woman Experience (AWE) have supported thousands internationally. (www.AuthenticManProgram.com &amp;Â www.AuthenticWomanExperience.com)

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		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
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		<title>TNM 008: LiYana Silver Pt 2 &#8211; Is Pornography Great for a Relationship?</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/01/tnm-008-is-pornography-great-for-a-relationship/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Jan 2008 18:41:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Porn is a part of nearly every man&#8217;s sexual life.</p>
<p>LiYana Silver points out that a little porn is good for spice here and there, but too much porn can be like junk-food &#8212; polluting our healthy relationships and distracting us from connection with our partne</p>
<p>She urges us to practice in the bedroom, giving our full energy to our partners.</p>
<p>LiYana then shares with us the key differences in how men and women open emotionally in relationship.  Bringing a little consciousness to these differences is often enough to get through the hang-ups and into the true depths of connection.</p>
<p>If you are experiencing resistance to commitment, get in touch with what are you going to lose by entering into a committed relationship?  &#8220;Get in touch with that, then we can work with it,&#8221; she says.</p>
<p>You can have something EXACTLY the way you want it.</p>
<p>There&#8217;s plenty of love to go around.  Learn about the different styles of intimacy men and women bring to the table.  Find out what absolutely has to be there if you want to take your relationship beyond monogamy.</p>
<p>Relationship lived in this way will call us to be our highest expression of a man.&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/01/tnm-008-is-pornography-great-for-a-relationship/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>Porn is a part of nearly every man&#039;s sexual life. - LiYana Silver points out that a little porn is good for spice here and there, but too much porn can be like junk-food -- polluting our healthy relationships and distracting us from connection with our...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Porn is a part of nearly every man&#039;s sexual life.

LiYana Silver points out that a little porn is good for spice here and there, but too much porn can be like junk-food -- polluting our healthy relationships and distracting us from connection with our partne

She urges us to practice in the bedroom, giving our full energy to our partners.

LiYana then shares with us the key differences in how men and women open emotionally in relationship.  Bringing a little consciousness to these differences is often enough to get through the hang-ups and into the true depths of connection.

If you are experiencing resistance to commitment, get in touch with what are you going to lose by entering into a committed relationship?  &quot;Get in touch with that, then we can work with it,&quot; she says.

You can have something EXACTLY the way you want it.

There&#039;s plenty of love to go around.  Learn about the different styles of intimacy men and women bring to the table.  Find out what absolutely has to be there if you want to take your relationship beyond monogamy.

Relationship lived in this way will call us to be our highest expression of a man.

About LiYana Silver

LiYana has been a professional modern dancer for over 10 years in Europe, Israel and New York City, most notably with the Kibbutz Contemporary Dance Company and the Metropolitan Opera Ballet.Â  She is a Vinyasa yoga teacher and her oil paintings have been displayed upon the gallery walls the likes of Lincoln Center and an East Village tattoo store.

Since 2001, she has had a private coaching practice, in which she works with those seeking a holistic and down to earth approach to relationships, nutrition and lifestyle. She has taught and lectured at numerous universities, corporations and institutions, including NASDAQ, the Institute for Integrative Nutrition, the School of Visual Arts, St. John&#039;s College, Marymount Manhattan, Baruch College, the Atlantic Theatre Company and The Juilliard School.Â  She writes a regular column for New York Spirit Magazine, &quot;Enlightened Sex in the City.&quot;

She has been in an exquisite relationship â âa co-created work of artâ - with her boyfriend of five years. Her vast and varied experiences have served to clarify for her that intimate relationships are a powerful vehicle for extraordinary personal growth, and a sacred opportunity to dance with the biggest flirt of all, the divine.</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
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		<title>TNM 007: LiYana Silver Pt 1 &#8211; Looking to Redefine Your Monogamous Relationship?</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/01/tnm-007-looking-to-redefine-your-monogamous-relationship/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Jan 2008 18:51:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Every man has had wandering thoughts or wandering eyes at some point during his committed relationship.  Most likely it happens every day!</p>
<p>Should we be avoiding these thoughts—repressing them so we don&#8217;t hurt our partners?</p>
<p>Absolutely not, according to LiYana Silver, it&#8217;s part of what makes you a ma</p>
<p>So why do our special ladies seem to get so pissed off about it?</p>
<p>It likely has to do with our ability to stay connected to them.  If we can develop strong, healthy, constant connection to our partners, there is no limit to our freedom.  We might even go so far as to take our relationship outside of the normal rules of monogamous commitment if that&#8217;s what we want to do, according to LiYana.</p>
<p>Listen as LiYana lets us in on the secret &#8220;Kryptonite&#8221; that melts the resistance and defensiveness of any woman in relationship to establish true, deep connection.  This connection is liberating for men in relationship, as we will feel the reigns loosen through trust.</p>
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<p><strong><span id="more-159"></span>About LiYana Silver</strong></p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-722" title="g-liyana-silver-SM" src="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/01/g-liyana-silver-SM.jpg" alt="g-liyana-silver-SM" width="178" height="171" />LiYana has been a professional modern dancer for over 10 years in Europe, Israel and New York City, most notably with the Kibbutz Contemporary Dance Company and the Metropolitan Opera&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/01/tnm-007-looking-to-redefine-your-monogamous-relationship/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>Every man has had wandering thoughts or wandering eyes at some point during his committed relationship.  Most likely it happens every day! - Should we be avoiding these thoughtsârepressing them so we don&#039;t hurt our partners? - Absolutely not,</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Every man has had wandering thoughts or wandering eyes at some point during his committed relationship.  Most likely it happens every day!

Should we be avoiding these thoughtsârepressing them so we don&#039;t hurt our partners?

Absolutely not, according to LiYana Silver, it&#039;s part of what makes you a ma

So why do our special ladies seem to get so pissed off about it?

It likely has to do with our ability to stay connected to them.  If we can develop strong, healthy, constant connection to our partners, there is no limit to our freedom.  We might even go so far as to take our relationship outside of the normal rules of monogamous commitment if that&#039;s what we want to do, according to LiYana.

Listen as LiYana lets us in on the secret &quot;Kryptonite&quot; that melts the resistance and defensiveness of any woman in relationship to establish true, deep connection.  This connection is liberating for men in relationship, as we will feel the reigns loosen through trust.

About LiYana Silver

LiYana has been a professional modern dancer for over 10 years in Europe, Israel and New York City, most notably with the Kibbutz Contemporary Dance Company and the Metropolitan Opera Ballet.  She is a Vinyasa yoga teacher and her oil paintings have been displayed upon the gallery walls the likes of Lincoln Center and an East Village tattoo store.

Since 2001, she has had a private coaching practice, in which she works with those seeking a holistic and down to earth approach to relationships, nutrition and lifestyle. She has taught and lectured at numerous universities, corporations and institutions, including NASDAQ, the Institute for Integrative Nutrition, the School of Visual Arts, St. John&#039;s College, Marymount Manhattan, Baruch College, the Atlantic Theatre Company and The Juilliard School.  She writes a regular column for New York Spirit Magazine, &quot;Enlightened Sex in the City.&quot;

She has been in an exquisite relationship â âa co-created work of artâ - with her boyfriend of five years. Her vast and varied experiences have served to clarify for her that intimate relationships are a powerful vehicle for extraordinary personal growth, and a sacred opportunity to dance with the biggest flirt of all, the divine.</itunes:summary>
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		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
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