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	<title>The New Man Podcast &#187; Fear</title>
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	<description>Advice for Men on Relationships, Dating, Sex, Career, Money, Power, Purpose, Inner Game &#38; Fitness</description>
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	<itunes:summary>The New Man Podcast is a 30 minute, interview-style show that provides an entertaining and often humorous way to get real world, practical advice on every area of a man&#039;s life: relationships, sex, dating, career, money, power, purpose, inner game and fitness.

The New Man Podcast dives into the topics guys are hungry to explore but typically only discuss after a few beers. In a nutshell, The New Man Podcast is personal development for guys who think self development is for pussies.

The New Man is for guys who want to attract the right woman without playing &quot;Pickup Artist&quot; games or seduction tricks. We explore how to have an exciting sex life while learning how to navigate the sticky world of relationships. The New Man helps men break out of their confining job and get paid to do what they love. A common theme in all shows is to help guys quit settling for less, find their purpose and live a passionate, meaningful life. How is this done? By getting a handle on fear and stop letting emotions get in the way. The New Man helps guys develop the best physical and mental practices to live a life with brains, heart, guts and balls.

A sample of guests who have appeared on The New Man: Ken Wilber, Dan Millman, Marcus Buckingham, Steve Pavlina, Shawn Phillips, Bill Harris, AJ Jacobs, Vernon Reid, Joel Harper, Sean Stephenson and Derek Sivers.</itunes:summary>
	<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
	<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
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		<itunes:name>Tripp Lanier</itunes:name>
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	<copyright>The New Man Podcast, Tripp Lanier &amp; Lanier Creative Services, Inc. </copyright>
	<itunes:subtitle>Beyond the Macho Jerk and the New Age Wimp</itunes:subtitle>
	<itunes:keywords>Integral, PUA, Purpose, Meditation, Advice, Men, Spirituality, Career, Sex, Money, Development, Fitness,</itunes:keywords>
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		<title>TNM 100: Spankneesh &#8211; How to Spank Your Way to Enlightenment</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Jul 2010 21:40:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<h3>How to Spank and S**t Your Way to Enlightenment &#8211; His Holy Holiness Sri Sri Sri Spankneesh</h3>
<p>Does life sometimes feel like a hamster wheel where you’re constantly chasing more <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/06/tnm-068-brent-kessel-its-not-about-the-money/">money</a>, sex or something else?</p>
<p>Since we all end up dead anyway, should life be taken seriously?</p>
<p>And how is it possible that a man from India can literally spank you into enlightenment?</p>
<p>In this episode we go deep with His Holy Holiness Sri Sri Sri Spankneesh Ji, a controversial spiritual guru. We’re talking about the meaning of life, spanking butts and, well, shit.</p>
<h3>In this episode:</h3>
<ul>
<li>How does spanking bring us to enlightenment?</li>
<li>Will chasing more ass, cash or status just bring you more pain?</li>
<li>Why Bill Gates’ money, George Clooney’s sex life or the body of <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/01/tnm-044-shawn-phillips-the-body-focus-and-a-passionate-life/">Shawn Phillips</a> won’t bring lasting happiness</li>
<li>What do you really want beyond paying the bills, orgasms, etc.?</li>
<li>Where can we find true, lasting happiness?</li>
<li>Is figuring out the mystery of life a mistake?</li>
<li>How can “shit” be a holy word?</li>
<li>Should you take life seriously?</li>
<li>Why are some “spiritual” or “personal growth” people such a drag?</li>
<li>What is really <a href="http://thenewmanpodcast.com">beyond the macho jerk and the new age wimp</a>?</li></ul><p>&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/07/spankneesh/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>How to Spank and S**t Your Way to Enlightenment - His Holy Holiness Sri Sri Sri Spankneesh Does life sometimes feel like a hamster wheel where youâre constantly chasing more money, sex or something else? - Since we all end up dead anyway,</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>How to Spank and S**t Your Way to Enlightenment - His Holy Holiness Sri Sri Sri Spankneesh
Does life sometimes feel like a hamster wheel where youâre constantly chasing more money, sex or something else?

Since we all end up dead anyway, should life be taken seriously?

And how is it possible that a man from India can literally spank you into enlightenment?

In this episode we go deep with His Holy Holiness Sri Sri Sri Spankneesh Ji, a controversial spiritual guru. Weâre talking about the meaning of life, spanking butts and, well, shit.
In this episode:

	How does spanking bring us to enlightenment?
	Will chasing more ass, cash or status just bring you more pain?
	Why Bill Gatesâ money, George Clooneyâs sex life or the body of Shawn Phillips wonât bring lasting happiness
	What do you really want beyond paying the bills, orgasms, etc.?
	Where can we find true, lasting happiness?
	Is figuring out the mystery of life a mistake?
	How can âshitâ be a holy word?
	Should you take life seriously?
	Why are some âspiritualâ or âpersonal growthâ people such a drag?
	What is really beyond the macho jerk and the new age wimp?


About His Holy Holiness Sri Sri Sri Spankneesh ji
Spankneesh ji, as he is fondly known to his devotees worldwide, is a cultural phenomenon. No one knows when exactly he was born, but it is said that where he was born is in South India. He is a modern day guru, that is dedicated to assisting the seeker in finding the guru within themselves. He is known as the &quot;Bling&quot; guru, for he synthesises East/West, Modern and mystical, in a rare blend of philosophy and teaching that is practical and applicable for the modern man.

Whether advising presidents, politcians, rockstars, celebrities, or the everyday man, he has one sole aim, to bring about a more conscious, enlightened society. His vision is to cultivate what he terms as &quot;the new human&quot;, one that is fully rested in his Being, as well as fully engaged in life.

He is a reknowned humanitarian, who has been responsible for starting many global initiatives. Whether is it is his educational institution for higher learning, Spank U. Or his state of art Spankville campus for Enlightenment, the financial institutions, such as Spank Bank.Â  He is also the founder and driving creative force behind OMBOY Media, a visionary media company dedicated to raising the consciousness of the planet.

He regularly draws crowds of more than 300,000 to hear him speak, as well as receive his unique yet profoundly effective brand of blessing known as &quot;The ShaktiPat Spank Transmission&quot;.Â  He is the creator of the reknowned &quot;S&amp;M Technique&quot; that is currently being regularly practiced by over 3 million people every day. Over the last decade more than 6 million people have been personally touched by the grace of Spankneeshji.

He regularly speaks at some of the world&#039;s most prominent international leadership forums. In February 2006, he particpated in panels at the Global Alliance for Economic Regeneration . In 2007 he was the keynote speaker as well as received the reknowned Sir Richard Branson award for distinguished global citizen from the Helhiem Institute. In 2009, he has addressed audiences in 33 countires ranging from Brazil, Mexico, Ghana, Fiji, Denmark, Sweden, Japan, Australia, Germany, Israel, and many more.

In 2010 his new book was released called &quot;The Bling of Being&quot; to much acclaim, and in record time reached number one on the Burundi Times Bestseller list for 8 consecutive weeks. It also became the all time best selling book in the history of the country of Fiji.

Spankneesh ji, says that &quot; A new era in human consciouness is not coming, but it is here now. The entire world is waking up, and shaking up to who we are. These are intense times, where the Cosmic Dj, is playing some tunes that we may not like so much, but we must keep dancing, no matter what. These are the times we must access the inner ryhthm inside of ourselves,</itunes:summary>
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		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
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		<title>TNM 099: John Wesley/Porcupine Tree &#8211; What’s it REALLY Like to Be a Rockstar AND a Dad?</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/06/john-wesley/</link>
		<comments>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/06/john-wesley/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Jun 2010 17:49:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<h3>John Wesley of Porcupine Tree: The Rock Star / Single Dad</h3>
<p>Do you think being a rockstar and performing in front of thousands every night is the dream life?</p>
<p>Is life on the road like an exotic vacation or groundhog day?</p>
<p>And what’s it like to become friends with and perform in front of your <a href="http://www.tripplanier.com/blog_files/346462b454e6a60b00c16e64f21c6d39-37.html" target="_blank">musical heroes</a>?</p>
<p>This week we’re talking with <strong><a href="http://john-wesley.com" target="_blank">John Wesley</a></strong> of the prog rock band <strong>Porcupine Tree</strong>. We’ll find out what it’s really like to be a rockstar AND learn how a single dad stuck to his guns to live an extraordinary life.</p>
<h3>In this episode:</h3>
<ul>
<li>Being in the prog-rock band Porcupine Tree</li>
<li>Prepping for a tour</li>
<li>Life on the road — sleeping, eating and constantly moving</li>
<li>Being paid to play</li>
<li>Being a single dad and a rockstar</li>
<li>Why not just get a “real” job?</li>
<li>Why luck has nothing to do with success</li>
<li>Keys to a long and successful creative career</li>
<li>Why preparation is everything</li>
<li>Debunking rockstar myths</li>
<li>What jobs to take, which ones to leave</li>
<li>Spinal Tap moments</li>
<li>What can you learn from a rockstar?</li>
<li>Motorcycling with Neil Peart of Rush</li>
<li>Playing for Alex Lifeson of Rush</li>
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<p><span id="more-1757"></span></p>
<h3>About John Wesley</h3><p>&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/06/john-wesley/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>John Wesley of Porcupine Tree: The Rock Star / Single Dad Do you think being a rockstar and performing in front of thousands every night is the dream life? - Is life on the road like an exotic vacation or groundhog day?</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>John Wesley of Porcupine Tree: The Rock Star / Single Dad
Do you think being a rockstar and performing in front of thousands every night is the dream life?

Is life on the road like an exotic vacation or groundhog day?

And whatâs it like to become friends with and perform in front of your musical heroes?

This week weâre talking with John Wesley of the prog rock band Porcupine Tree. Weâll find out what itâs really like to be a rockstar AND learn how a single dad stuck to his guns to live an extraordinary life.
In this episode:

	Being in the prog-rock band Porcupine Tree
	Prepping for a tour
	Life on the road â sleeping, eating and constantly moving
	Being paid to play
	Being a single dad and a rockstar
	Why not just get a ârealâ job?
	Why luck has nothing to do with success
	Keys to a long and successful creative career
	Why preparation is everything
	Debunking rockstar myths
	What jobs to take, which ones to leave
	Spinal Tap moments
	What can you learn from a rockstar?
	Motorcycling with Neil Peart of Rush
	Playing for Alex Lifeson of Rush


About John Wesley
The music of John Wesley has been called lyrically sensitive and musically dynamic. Wesley&#039;s current brand of guitar-driven acoustic and electric songs represent the cultivation of a diversity of inspirations from alternative, progressive, classic rock and folk genres intertwined with poignant lyrics drawn from the poetry of the common man. Furthermore, his skillful, versatile and energetic guitar style complements with fury his soulful emotionally-charged vocals reminiscent of Roger Waters or Bruce Springsteen. But what really appeals to Wesley&#039;s fans worldwide is a spark of sincerity and sensitivity so oft absent in today&#039;s mainstream music. â¨â¨Most recently, John Wesley has performed as sideman, guitarist/vocalist for critically acclaimed Lava/Warner Brothers UK based recording act Porcupine Tree, during the In Absentia and Deadwing world tours. In recent years he as performed lead guitars and background vocals for White Lion frontman Mike Tramp, subbed on lead guitar and bass for Gainesville&#039;s Sister Hazel, and as lead guitarist for Scottish neo-prog legend Fish on many lengthy European, American and South American Tours and on several US and European Solo dates.â¨â¨John Wesley&#039;s professional music career began in the early 80&#039;s in the Tampa, Florida area where he founded 1991 Southwestern Music Conference&#039;s showcase act Autodrive. The following year Wesley embarked on a solo career and became the premier opening act for British rockers Marillion on seven consecutive tour legs around the world -- especially North and South America, the UK and Europe -- where he played for hundreds of thousands of fans. In 1998, Wesley embarked with ex-White Lion front-man Mike Tramp on an extensive tour as premier opening act for the prestigious Peter Frampton/Lynryd Skynyrd tour. Following this was several world Tours with Scottish artist Fish.Â  In 2001, John Wesley was the primary co-writer of Fishâs Fellini Days album.Â Â  He began touring as guitarist and backing vocalist for Porcupine tree in 2002, and has is currently touring in support of the bands recent release, Fear of a Blank Planet.â¨â¨Wesley&#039;s 1994 first album, Under the Red &amp; White Sky, released on Racket Records quickly sold out it&#039;s first pressing of 10,000 copies and has been repressed in 1998 quickly selling another 10,000 plus copies. His second release, The Closing of the Pale Blue Eyes, also quickly sold out and has been re-released as a bonus disc on the NEW re-mastered Under the Read and White Sky disc. Wesley&#039;s third solo effort, The Emperor Falls, for former Music for Nations label magnate Martin Hooker&#039;s new venture, Dream Catcher Records in Europe, quickly sold out it&#039;s first printing. In 2002, Wesley released his fourth solo album, Chasing Monsters, in Europe on Dreamcatcher Records to great acclaim in the Euro Indy circles. In 2005,</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:duration>36:11</itunes:duration>
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		<title>TNM 098: Clay Collins &#8211; How to Quit Your Day Job Without Losing Your Ass</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/06/clay-collins-interactive-offer/</link>
		<comments>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/06/clay-collins-interactive-offer/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Jun 2010 21:00:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<h3>Clay Collins, <a href="http://www.1shoppingcart.com/app/?af=1196463">The Interactive Offer</a> &#38; How to Quit Your Day Job Without Losing Your Ass</h3>
<p>Are you stuck in a job but too afraid to risk starting your own gig?</p>
<p>Do you think entrepreneurs have brass balls and are somehow immune to risk?</p>
<p>And do you think that before you can bring your idea to the world, you’ve got to spend years honing it in isolation until its absolutely perfect?</p>
<p>Clay Collins is back on The New Man (<a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/07/tnm-072-clay-collins-how-to-follow-your-purpose-and-pay-the-bills/">here’s his first interview</a>). We’re talking about how a guy like you can finally bust out of that crap job to create a better life for yourself without having to put it all on the line.</p>
<h3>In this episode:</h3>
<ul>
<li>What is <a href="http://www.1shoppingcart.com/app/?af=1196463">the Interactive Offer</a>?</li>
<li>Why most businesses are dead before they see the light of day</li>
<li>Why your excuses for staying stuck are fantasies</li>
<li>How your friends help you stay stuck</li>
<li>Are entrepreneurs adrenaline junkies?</li>
<li>Do you need to be a superhero before you can do your own thing?</li>
<li>What if you don’t have a good idea or direction?</li>
<li>What if you don’t know if your idea will sell?</li>
<li>How a badass Taoist general is going to</li></ul><p>&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/06/clay-collins-interactive-offer/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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			<itunes:keywords>Entrepreneur,Fear,Finances,Money,Passion,Purpose</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:subtitle>Clay Collins, The Interactive Offer &amp; How to Quit Your Day Job Without Losing Your Ass Are you stuck in a job but too afraid to risk starting your own gig? - Do you think entrepreneurs have brass balls and are somehow immune to risk?</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Clay Collins, The Interactive Offer &amp; How to Quit Your Day Job Without Losing Your Ass
Are you stuck in a job but too afraid to risk starting your own gig?

Do you think entrepreneurs have brass balls and are somehow immune to risk?

And do you think that before you can bring your idea to the world, youâve got to spend years honing it in isolation until its absolutely perfect?

Clay Collins is back on The New Man (hereâs his first interview). Weâre talking about how a guy like you can finally bust out of that crap job to create a better life for yourself without having to put it all on the line.
In this episode:

	What is the Interactive Offer?
	Why most businesses are dead before they see the light of day
	Why your excuses for staying stuck are fantasies
	How your friends help you stay stuck
	Are entrepreneurs adrenaline junkies?
	Do you need to be a superhero before you can do your own thing?
	What if you donât have a good idea or direction?
	What if you donât know if your idea will sell?
	How a badass Taoist general is going to help you live an amazing life

About Clay Collins and The Interactive Offer
From Clayâs website:

I am a fulltime internet marketer from Minneapolis who does business in three niches.

I aim to live my life in a way that is fundamentally oriented towards maximum contribution and making the world a better place.

I strive to live in a manner that renders this statement true:Â everything I do is oriented towards helping people generously feed their families while following their deepest purposes.

I have a vision for a world where every person can be their own boss and secure â at the very minimum â an $80K+ income while working from home.Â I have a vision for a world where people do not have to choose between being their own masters and feeding their families. And I pursue this vision because I believe entrepreneurship is one of the most powerful enablers of self-improvement.
Click here to learn more about The Interactive Offer
Full Disclosure: the links to the Interactive Offer on this page are affiliate links which means that I will earn a commission for any sales resulting from clicking on this link. Since The New Man doesn&#039;t support third-party advertising, such offers provide a win-win-win for all involved. I recommend products and services I believe in, listeners benefit from these products and services and the provider benefits from the sale. By benefiting from these offerings you are also helping The New Man Podcast stay alive. Thank you for supporting The New Man!</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:duration>27:26</itunes:duration>
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		<title>TNM 097: Dr Robert Glover &#8211; Are YOU a Nice Guy?</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/06/nice-guy/</link>
		<comments>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/06/nice-guy/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jun 2010 07:11:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<h3>Dr. Robert Glover — Are YOU a Nice Guy? 4 Steps to Get Out of The Nice Guy Syndrome</h3>
<p>Do you get pissy when you do something nice for someone and they don’t return the favor?</p>
<p>Do you bend over backwards to avoid upsetting your woman, family or friends? <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/07/tnm-073-pt-1-how-to-navigate-a-womans-emotional-minefield/">(Remember this podcast?)</a></p>
<p>And why do the guys who go out of their way to please everyone always get the raw end of the deal?</p>
<p>Today we’re talking with the author of No More Mr Nice Guy, Dr Robert Glover. How are <a href="http://thenewmanpodcast.com">the macho jerk and the spineless wimp</a> really the same? And what are the four steps YOU can take to avoid the nice guy syndrome? Listen and find out.</p>
<p>In this episode:</p>
<ul>
<li>How can you tell if you’re a Nice Guy?</li>
<li>What is the Nice Guy Syndrome?</li>
<li>Why does the Nice Guy make his life so difficult?</li>
<li>If you’re a Nice Guy, does that mean you need to be a jerk?</li>
<li>How is the Nice Guy very similar to the Macho Jerk?</li>
<li>What are the (4) Steps for Getting Out of the Nice Guy Syndrome?</li>
<li>What can you do TODAY to work with your anxiety?</li>
</ul><p>&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/06/nice-guy/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>Dr. Robert Glover â Are YOU a Nice Guy? 4 Steps to Get Out of The Nice Guy Syndrome Do you get pissy when you do something nice for someone and they donât return the favor? - Do you bend over backwards to avoid upsetting your woman,</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Dr. Robert Glover â Are YOU a Nice Guy? 4 Steps to Get Out of The Nice Guy Syndrome
Do you get pissy when you do something nice for someone and they donât return the favor?

Do you bend over backwards to avoid upsetting your woman, family or friends? (Remember this podcast?)

And why do the guys who go out of their way to please everyone always get the raw end of the deal?

Today weâre talking with the author of No More Mr Nice Guy, Dr Robert Glover. How are the macho jerk and the spineless wimp really the same? And what are the four steps YOU can take to avoid the nice guy syndrome? Listen and find out.

In this episode:

	How can you tell if youâre a Nice Guy?
	What is the Nice Guy Syndrome?
	Why does the Nice Guy make his life so difficult?
	If youâre a Nice Guy, does that mean you need to be a jerk?
	How is the Nice Guy very similar to the Macho Jerk?
	What are the (4) Steps for Getting Out of the Nice Guy Syndrome?
	What can you do TODAY to work with your anxiety?


About Dr. Robert Glover
Dr. Robert Glover, author of NO MORE MR NICE GUY: A Proven Plan For Getting What You Want in Love, Sex and life (Running Press, 2003), is an internationally recognized authority on the Nice Guy Syndrome.

Dr. Glover is a frequent guest on radio talk shows and has been featured in numerous local and national publications. Dr. Glover regularly conducts the following classes, seminars, workshops around the world.

â¦	&quot;Breaking Free from the Nice Guy Syndrome&quot;.

â¦	&quot;Dating Essentials for Men.&quot;

â¦	&quot;Nice Guys don&#039;t Finish Last, They Rot in Middle Management.&quot;

Dr. Glover is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in private practice in Bellevue, Washington. He has spent thousands of hours working with hundreds of Nice Guys and their partners in individual and couples therapy. Dr. Glover also leads several weekly therapy groups for recovering Nice Guys.

As a result of his work, Dr. Glover has watched countless Nice Guys transform from being passive, resentful victims to empowered, integrated males. Along with these personal changes have come similar transformations in these men&#039;s professional careers and intimate relationships.

Click here to visit Dr Robert Gloverâs site.</itunes:summary>
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		<title>Kickass Life Workshop: One Day Event w/Tripp Lanier &amp; Sarah Ingier</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/05/kickass-life-event/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 26 May 2010 18:58:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<h3>Living a Kickass Life in Tough Times</h3>
<p>Have you had a chance to listen to <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/05/kick-ass/" target="_blank">this episode of The New Man, yet? <strong>(Click here to listen)</strong></a></p>
<p>In this talk, Sarah Ingier and I lay out the reasons why so many of you are struggling right now. There&#8217;s a definite dip in our well-being. It may be easy to point to economics, sure, but it&#8217;s happening in all areas of peoples&#8217; lives &#8212; health, relationships, you name it.</p>
<p><strong>What the hell is going on?</strong></p>
<p>And more importantly &#8212; <strong>What can YOU do?</strong></p>
<h3>My Secret Weapon</h3>
<p>So much of The New Man is about helping guys live kickass lives and <strong>I&#8217;d be full of shit if I didn&#8217;t share my secret weapon</strong> for doing so &#8212; it&#8217;s Sarah Ingier.</p>
<p>We&#8217;re an unlikely pair &#8212; she&#8217;s a clairvoyant with a liking for crystals, and I&#8217;m a dude who thinks a lot of that &#8220;mysterious world&#8221; is bullshit.</p>
<p>And yet &#8212; <strong>Sarah has seriously helped me out</strong>. She&#8217;s helped me improve every area of my life. And I&#8217;m not just talking about the measurable stuff. She&#8217;s really helped me learn how to weather &#8220;the storm&#8221; so much better. In short, <strong>she&#8217;s taught</strong>&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/05/kickass-life-event/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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		<title>TNM 096: Sarah Ingier &#8211; Live a Kickass Life When Life is Kicking Your Ass</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 25 May 2010 07:00:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<h3>Sarah Ingier &#8212; How to Live a Kickass Life When Life is Kicking Your Ass</h3>
<p>Do you feel like you’re climbing a mountain, and the damn thing is just getting steeper and more treacherous?</p>
<p>Does trying to make more money or create a life you really want feel like swimming against an invisible current?</p>
<p>And is it possible to <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/05/kickass-life-event/">live a kickass life when life is kicking your ass</a>?</p>
<p>This week, we’re going deep, Jedi. Listen in as Sarah Ingier and I lay out some simple steps to help YOU quit beating your head against the wall and create the life you really want.</p>
<p>In this episode:</p>
<ul>
<li>Weathering the storm</li>
<li>How to quit beating your head against the wall</li>
<li>Why the game is changing</li>
<li>The old way of creating doesn’t fit anymore</li>
<li>Living your purpose or calling</li>
<li>Polarity and how it affects your ability to create what you want</li>
<li>Why the guys who are lost and won’t ask for help are f’in idiots</li>
<li>How having more fun is going to help you create the life you really want easier and faster</li>
<li>One day event with Tripp and Sarah in Boulder on June 19th</li>
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<h3>About Sarah Ingier</h3><p>&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/05/kick-ass/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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			<itunes:keywords>Fear,Finances,Fun,Mission,Money,Passion,Pleasure,Purpose,Success</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:subtitle>Sarah Ingier -- How to Live a Kickass Life When Life is Kicking Your Ass Do you feel like youâre climbing a mountain, and the damn thing is just getting steeper and more treacherous? - Does trying to make more money or create a life you really want f...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Sarah Ingier -- How to Live a Kickass Life When Life is Kicking Your Ass
Do you feel like youâre climbing a mountain, and the damn thing is just getting steeper and more treacherous?

Does trying to make more money or create a life you really want feel like swimming against an invisible current?

And is it possible to live a kickass life when life is kicking your ass?

This week, weâre going deep, Jedi. Listen in as Sarah Ingier and I lay out some simple steps to help YOU quit beating your head against the wall and create the life you really want.

In this episode:

	Weathering the storm
	How to quit beating your head against the wall
	Why the game is changing
	The old way of creating doesnât fit anymore
	Living your purpose or calling
	Polarity and how it affects your ability to create what you want
	Why the guys who are lost and wonât ask for help are fâin idiots
	How having more fun is going to help you create the life you really want easier and faster
	One day event with Tripp and Sarah in Boulder on June 19th


About Sarah Ingier
A pioneer here to help humanity step into a more Soulful existence, Sarah is a highly impactful teacher and healer. She is a guide into the unknown parts of ourselves. Sarahâs progressive views on life, spirituality, and healing make her work extremely transformative.

Sarah has a beautiful blend of youthful innocence and piercing wisdom. Her highly developed clairvoyant and healing abilities help her to serve a wide range of people. From the most diligent spiritual seeker to the corporate executive, Sarah is a translator of information and a channel for healing.

Sarah travels around the world giving workshops and retreats, helping people to connect to more of who they are. When she is not traveling she has a private practice in Austin Texas, where she offers Clairvoyant readings and healings.

Sarah founded Presence Inc., a spiritually based business dedicated to help individuals, the planet, and culture step into a new era of greater alignment, greater peace, and greater healing. She is a core faculty member for the Kaiser institute, an organization committed to expanding consciousness within organizations and healthcare systems.
Click here to visit Sarah Ingierâs website.</itunes:summary>
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		<title>The Top 5 BEST New Man Podcasts</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 12 May 2010 18:29:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<h3>Are you new to The New Man?</h3>
<p>Not to worry, I&#8217;ve compiled this simple list of The Top 5 Best New Man Podcasts by category. Pick the one that interests you most&#8230;<span id="more-1581"></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #ffffff;">&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-</span></p>
<h2>Sex</h2>
<h3>Bryan Bayer: &#8220;Sexual Hangups and How to Overcome Them&#8221;</h3>
<p>Everybody&#8217;s got &#8216;em. So let&#8217;s talk about &#8216;em.</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #ff6600;">&#62;&#62;</span> <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/08/tnm-075-bryan-bayer-sexual-hang-ups-and-how-to-overcome-them/" target="_blank">Click here to listen</a></strong></p>
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<p><strong><span style="color: #ffffff;">&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-</span></strong></p>
<h2>Women</h2>
<h3>Alyson Schwabe &#38; Christiane Pelmas: &#8220;How to Navigate a Woman&#8217;s Emotional Minefield&#8221;</h3>
<p>I got so many emails from this one. It&#8217;s a game changer. We should&#8217;ve learned this stuff back in grade school. These shows saved marriages. Period.</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #ff6600;">&#62;&#62;</span></strong><strong> <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/07/tnm-073-pt-1-how-to-navigate-a-womans-emotional-minefield/" target="_blank">Click here for part 1</a></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #ff6600;">&#62;&#62;</span></strong><strong> <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/08/tnm-074-pt-2-how-to-navigate-a-womans-emotional-minefield/" target="_blank">Click here for part 2</a></strong></p>
<p><span style="color: #ffffff;">&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;</span></p>
<div><span style="color: #ffffff;">&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;
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<h2><strong>Purpose/Inner Game</strong></h2>
<h3><strong></strong><strong>Brian Johnson: &#8220;What Would You Do if You Weren&#8217;t Afraid&#8221; &#38; &#8220;Do You Have the Balls to Live the Life of Your Dreams?&#8221;</strong></h3>
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<p><span style="font-weight: normal;">Feeling stuck? Feeling uninspired? Listen to this pair of shows (they&#8217;re from a single interview) to light a fire under your ass. Brian Johnson, resident badass philosopher on The New Man lays it down. </span></p>
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<p></p></strong><strong><span style="color: #ff6600;">&#62;&#62;</span> </strong><a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/02/tnm-050-brian-johnson-what-would-you-do-if-you-werent-afraid/" target="_blank"><strong>Click here for part 1</strong></a>
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<p><strong><span style="color: #ff6600;">&#62;&#62;</span> </strong><a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/02/tnm-051-brian-johnson-pt2-do-you-have-the-balls-to-live-the-life-of-your-dreams/" target="_blank"><strong>Click here for part 2</strong></a></p>
<p><span style="color: #ffffff;">&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;</span></p>
<div><span style="color: #ffffff;"><strong>&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;</strong></span></div>
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<h2>Money/Career</h2>
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		<title>Video: How to Beat Your Fear of Failure</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 07 May 2010 00:24:37 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>In this episode of The New Man Minute, Tripp Lanier talks about how you can overcome your fear of failure.</p>
<p>What if Luke Skywalker didn&#8217;t sack up and &#8220;Tarzan&#8221; his way over the gap? What if he actually had sex with his sister? (That&#8217;s a whole &#8216;nother story)</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s a powerful, quick tip for shifting your perspective towards fear and failure.</p>
<h3><span style="color: #ff6600;"><span style="color: #ff6600;">&#62;&#62;</span></span> <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/12/coaching-with-tripp-lanier/" target="_blank">Click here for more info about Coaching with Tripp.</a></h3>
<p>Enjoy.</p>
<p>Inspired by <em>Switch: How to Change When Change is Hard</em> by Dan and Chip Heath.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[<h3>How to Be Charismatic</h3>
<p>Do you ever talk to strangers?</p>
<p>Do you only notice people you think may be able to get you laid or paid?</p>
<p>And what is the best way to deal with guys who are shit talkers or haters?</p>
<p>This week, we’re talking with Jordan Harbinger from the Pickup Podcast about how YOU can bust out of your social conditioning and unlock the charisma within.</p>
<h3>In this episode:</h3>
<ul>
<li>Why charismatic guys rule</li>
<li>How to become outgoing</li>
<li>The benefits of having good social skills</li>
<li>The dangers of judging others to be more or less valuable than you</li>
<li>Why some guys are submissive or constantly apologizing</li>
<li>Why some guys are haters or shit-talkers</li>
<li>Why some guys are competitive, constantly comparing themselves to others</li>
<li>Why some guys are naturally cooperative</li>
<li>How to inspire others to want to help you</li>
<li>A simple practice for getting out of your social shell</li>
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<h3><span id="more-1525"></span>About Jordan Harbinger</h3>
<p><a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/jh.jpg"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-1529" title="jh" src="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/jh.jpg" alt="" width="140" height="182" /></a>Jordan Harbinger has always had an affinity for Social Influence and Dynamics, but first became aware just how valuable these skills were when his grades left him just short of the acceptance requirements for University Of Michigan School of Law. Jordan, unwilling to accept the possibility&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/04/jordan-harbinger-charisma/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>How to Be Charismatic Do you ever talk to strangers? - Do you only notice people you think may be able to get you laid or paid? - And what is the best way to deal with guys who are shit talkers or haters? - This week,</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>How to Be Charismatic
Do you ever talk to strangers?

Do you only notice people you think may be able to get you laid or paid?

And what is the best way to deal with guys who are shit talkers or haters?

This week, weâre talking with Jordan Harbinger from the Pickup Podcast about how YOU can bust out of your social conditioning and unlock the charisma within.
In this episode:

	Why charismatic guys rule
	How to become outgoing
	The benefits of having good social skills
	The dangers of judging others to be more or less valuable than you
	Why some guys are submissive or constantly apologizing
	Why some guys are haters or shit-talkers
	Why some guys are competitive, constantly comparing themselves to others
	Why some guys are naturally cooperative
	How to inspire others to want to help you
	A simple practice for getting out of your social shell

About Jordan Harbinger
Jordan Harbinger has always had an affinity for Social Influence and Dynamics, but first became aware just how valuable these skills were when his grades left him just short of the acceptance requirements for University Of Michigan School of Law. Jordan, unwilling to accept the possibility of being unable to pursue his career of choice, immediately and effectively talked his way into law school. It was then that his fascination and curiosity with the power of Social Influence was born.

It was while attending law school that Jordan also began his education in Social Dynamics and his search for the best in the field. In 2006 he started Pickup Podcast, a Relationship Advice and Social Dynamics interview podcast with Co-Host AJ Harbinger. With the following garnered from Pickup Podcast, Jordan began coaching students in his free time on an on-call basis. It was during these sessions that he realized the substantial need for progression and innovation in the industry.

After graduating in the top of his class, Jordan went on to New York City to pursue his dream of being a Wall Street lawyer. He was accepted at a top-tier firm, but his passion for Social Dynamics still flourished. His search soon brought him to Johnny Dzubak &amp; Alex Weber, two efficacious Social Dynamists. Shortly thereafter, Jordan became even more engrossed in the world of Social Dynamics and saw a strong need for integrity and candor in the industry. It was then he quit his job as a lawyer and founded The Art of Charm. In 2008 SiriusXM Satellite Radio approached Jordan with an offer to host a weekly show on a trial basis. The show was an unequivocal success and Game On became a permanent fixture at SiriusXM, broadcast all over the North American continent.

Jordanâs business sense, extensive knowledge of the industry and contemporary approach to coaching make him one of the best and most sought after dating coaches in the world. These qualities have also led him to receive some of the highest recognitions in the industry of Social Dynamics.

Check out Pickup Podcast and Art of Charm.</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
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		<title>TNM 093: Johnny B Truant &#8211; How to Blend Your Passion &amp; Livelihood</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/03/johnnybtruant/</link>
		<comments>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/03/johnnybtruant/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Mar 2010 07:00:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><strong>Johnny B Truant is the guest on this episode of The New Man Podcast.</strong></p>
<p>Are you tolerating some soul-sucking job because you don’t think you could survive any other way?</p>
<p>Do you believe that if you “follow your passion” everything will just fall into place financially?</p>
<p>And does your financial doomsday scenario paralyze your ability to realize your greater potential?</p>
<p>This week we’re talking with Johnny B Truant, a guy who started making 5 figures a month — within 9 months — by seemingly being himself. Sound too good to be true? Let’s find out.</p>
<p>Last year, Johnny B Truant was upside down after participating in a real estate investment gone awry. He was scrambling to provide for his family and pay down thousands of dollars every month that these investment deals were backfiring.</p>
<p>Johnny had done the soul sucking job, he had crashed and burned in his own web development company and then ultimately he found his groove where he struck a great balance between being himself and providing clear value to certain group of people.</p>
<p>Within 9 months, Johnny went from $0 to 5 figures per month and he did it with integrity and without having to become&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/03/johnnybtruant/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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			<itunes:keywords>Business,Fear,Finances,Integrity,Money,Passion,Success</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:subtitle>Johnny B Truant is the guest on this episode of The New Man Podcast. - Are you tolerating some soul-sucking job because you donât think you could survive any other way? - Do you believe that if you âfollow your passionâ everything will just fall ...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Johnny B Truant is the guest on this episode of The New Man Podcast.

Are you tolerating some soul-sucking job because you donât think you could survive any other way?

Do you believe that if you âfollow your passionâ everything will just fall into place financially?

And does your financial doomsday scenario paralyze your ability to realize your greater potential?

This week weâre talking with Johnny B Truant, a guy who started making 5 figures a month â within 9 months â by seemingly being himself. Sound too good to be true? Letâs find out.

Last year, Johnny B Truant was upside down after participating in a real estate investment gone awry. He was scrambling to provide for his family and pay down thousands of dollars every month that these investment deals were backfiring.

Johnny had done the soul sucking job, he had crashed and burned in his own web development company and then ultimately he found his groove where he struck a great balance between being himself and providing clear value to certain group of people.

Within 9 months, Johnny went from $0 to 5 figures per month and he did it with integrity and without having to become a bullshit artist.

Heâs got a ton of useful information for anyone who wants to blend their passion with their livelihood.

In this episode, we discuss:

	Following your passion wonât likely pay the bills â but that doesnât mean you should quit
	Making a living by being yourself
	Ditching the âBusiness Code of Conductâ
	Figuring out what is valuable to others
	Win/Win â Itâs more than just a cliche
	The importance of relationships
	The sure fire recipe for business success (or any success for that matter)
	Fear and the idea that âthere is no spoonâ
	What you can do today to start your own business

About Johnny B Truant

Johnny B. Truant is an internet marketing nonconformist and punk rock entrepreneur. In nine months, he used his own breed of âpersonality brandingâ (characterized by transparency, win-win-win business thinking, an abundance of character, and a healthy lack of âprofessionalismâ) into a five-figure-monthly business.

In addition to running his own site at JohnnyBTruant.com, Johnny is a frequent contributor to mega-blogs Copyblogger.com and Problogger.net, as well as to the cult hit small business marketing blog IttyBiz.com.</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:duration>27:49</itunes:duration>
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		<title>TNM 092: David Morelli &#8211; How to Clear Bad Energy and Find True Power</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/03/david-morelli/</link>
		<comments>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/03/david-morelli/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Mar 2010 08:00:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Do you ever wonder why you struggle with things that seem so easy for other guys?</p>
<p>Is there a way to clear your body of crappy feelings?</p>
<p>And why does “ramping up” to attack your challenges actually make you weaker?</p>
<p>This week we’re in for a Jedi lesson with <a href="http://everythingisenergy.com" target="_blank">“Everything is Energy”</a> host, David Morelli. Listen as he lays out the tools to help you move through any road block.</p>
<p><strong>In this episode:</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>Powerful practices you can use today to clear crappy feelings and find your true power</li>
<li>Tools to get out of any jam or stuck place</li>
<li>How to tap into “The Force”, your unique male power</li>
<li>How 90% of your life is unconscious — and it’s running your life</li>
<li>Why willpower and striving make you weak</li>
<li>Where real male power comes from</li>
<li>More about David Morelli and <a href="http://everythingisenergy.com" target="_blank">“Everything is Energy”</a></li>
</ul>
<p><span id="more-1342"></span><strong>About David Morelli</strong></p>
<p><a href="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/David_Headshot.jpg"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-1343" title="David_Headshot" src="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/David_Headshot.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="178" /></a>David Morelli is a transformational healer, teacher and intuitive. If there were a Ph.D. for the ability to see, read and heal energy, David would have one. An expert in personal transformation, he shares wisdom and laughter with thousands.</p>
<p><strong>About Everything is Energy</strong></p>
<p>Everything is Energy is everything you&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/03/david-morelli/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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			<itunes:keywords>Anger,Fear,Finances,Fitness,Meditation,Money,Sex</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:subtitle>Do you ever wonder why you struggle with things that seem so easy for other guys? - Is there a way to clear your body of crappy feelings? - And why does âramping upâ to attack your challenges actually make you weaker?</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Do you ever wonder why you struggle with things that seem so easy for other guys?

Is there a way to clear your body of crappy feelings?

And why does âramping upâ to attack your challenges actually make you weaker?

This week weâre in for a Jedi lesson with âEverything is Energyâ host, David Morelli. Listen as he lays out the tools to help you move through any road block.

In this episode:

	Powerful practices you can use today to clear crappy feelings and find your true power
	Tools to get out of any jam or stuck place
	How to tap into âThe Forceâ, your unique male power
	How 90% of your life is unconscious â and itâs running your life
	Why willpower and striving make you weak
	Where real male power comes from
	More about David Morelli and âEverything is Energyâ

About David Morelli

David Morelli is a transformational healer, teacher and intuitive. If there were a Ph.D. for the ability to see, read and heal energy, David would have one. An expert in personal transformation, he shares wisdom and laughter with thousands.

About Everything is Energy

Everything is Energy is everything you have been searching for  to live a life of fulfillment, ease and FUN! Your hosts, Kristin and David Morelli, are dedicated to shining the light of truth into your life as they teach you to change your energy and change your life. They will show you how to tap into the renewable sources of energy for your heart, mind, body and soul with love and laughter.

Guests on the show are experts and share profound insights that you can use to transform every area of your life - from wealth to your health, food to your mood, metaphysics to quantum physics, all expanding on one truth...EVERYTHING...IS...ENERGY!!

(Artwork is &quot;Oversoul&quot; by Alex Grey)
</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:duration>33:14</itunes:duration>
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		<title>TNM 091: Alex Linsley Pt 2 &#8211; How to Grow a Pair</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/02/tnm-091/</link>
		<comments>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/02/tnm-091/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Feb 2010 08:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Are you able to say what it is you really want in life?</p>
<p>Can you own what you want without needing to defend or justify it to others?</p>
<p>And how does just going with the flow mean you won’t be helped?</p>
<p>This is part 2 of our talk with Alex Linsley. Listen in as we discuss how you can grow a pair AND inspire those around you to lend a hand.</p>
<p>Alex Linsley is the founder of Man Collective in Oxford, England. In this episode he continues his story of being thrust into the limelight to explain his position on men’s personal development. He also has some amazing lessons to share.</p>
<p>In this episode:</p>
<ul>
<li>Getting clear on what you want in life</li>
<li>What motivates you?</li>
<li>Do you believe you need to justify or defend what you want?</li>
<li>Owning your desire is not dictatorial</li>
<li>What keeps us from owning what we want</li>
<li>What inspires people to lend a hand</li>
<li>Avoiding criticism</li>
<li>Taking your seat beyond the mediocre</li>
</ul>
<p><strong><span id="more-1166"></span><a href="http://www.mancollective.co.uk" target="_blank">Click here to learn more about Man Collective.</a></strong></p>
<p><strong>About Alex Linsley</strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="font-weight: normal;"><a href="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/linsley.jpg"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-1188" title="linsley" src="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/linsley.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a>Alex Linsley is an Economics &#38; Management student at Oxford University. He realised how little he enjoyed his mundane existence four</span></strong>&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/02/tnm-091/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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			<itunes:keywords>Fear,Integrity,Men&#039;s Circles,Men&#039;s Group 101,Men&#039;s Groups,Mission,Passion,Purpose</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:subtitle>Are you able to say what it is you really want in life? - Can you own what you want without needing to defend or justify it to others? - And how does just going with the flow mean you wonât be helped? - This is part 2 of our talk with Alex Linsley.</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Are you able to say what it is you really want in life?

Can you own what you want without needing to defend or justify it to others?

And how does just going with the flow mean you wonât be helped?

This is part 2 of our talk with Alex Linsley. Listen in as we discuss how you can grow a pair AND inspire those around you to lend a hand.

Alex Linsley is the founder of Man Collective in Oxford, England. In this episode he continues his story of being thrust into the limelight to explain his position on menâs personal development. He also has some amazing lessons to share.

In this episode:

	Getting clear on what you want in life
	What motivates you?
	Do you believe you need to justify or defend what you want?
	Owning your desire is not dictatorial
	What keeps us from owning what we want
	What inspires people to lend a hand
	Avoiding criticism
	Taking your seat beyond the mediocre

Click here to learn more about Man Collective.

About Alex Linsley

Alex Linsley is an Economics &amp; Management student at Oxford University. He realised how little he enjoyed his mundane existence four years ago and learnt from phenomenal teachers.  Alex set up Man Collective (www.mancollective.co.uk), a menâs group in Oxford, in October 2009 to international media reaction.  This has inspired him to reach out to menâs work across the UK.  He is now involved in a variety of projects to support men and women who want inspiring, joyous lives through truly connected and exciting relationships.</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:duration>21:44</itunes:duration>
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		<title>TNM 090: Alex Linsley Pt 1 &#8211; How to Piss Off Chauvinists and Feminists</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/02/tnm-090/</link>
		<comments>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/02/tnm-090/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Feb 2010 08:00:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Are you afraid of what your friends may say if they caught you listening to The New Man?</p>
<p>What would it be like to suddenly and unexpectedly become the national spokesman for men’s personal development?</p>
<p>And how did one guy manage to seemingly unite the feminists and the chauvinists?</p>
<p>This week we talk with a New Man listener who set out to quietly start a men’s group and then found himself bombarded by the British national press.</p>
<p>We’re talking with Alex Linsley of Man Collective in Oxford. Listen to this amazing story about how, in an effort to remain “under the radar”, Alex ended up in the national press explaining to the country why he wanted to be in a men’s group.</p>
<p>In this episode:</p>
<ul>
<li>What a men’s group can do for you</li>
<li>Most guys are tolerating a lot of surface-level BS</li>
<li>Authentic Man Program</li>
<li>David Deida</li>
<li>Why some guys are “in the closet” about personal development</li>
<li>Top Gear</li>
<li>Uniting the chauvinists and the feminists</li>
<li>Loaded Magazine</li>
<li>What Alex learned from being in the gunsight of the press</li>
</ul>
<p><strong><span id="more-1171"></span><a href="http://www.mancollective.co.uk" target="_blank">Click here to learn more about Man Collective</a></strong></p>
<p><strong>About Alex Linsley</strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="font-weight: normal;"><a href="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/linsley.jpg"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-1188" title="linsley" src="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/linsley.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a>Alex Linsley is an Economics &#38; Management student at</span></strong>&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/02/tnm-090/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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			<itunes:keywords>Fear,Integrity,Men&#039;s Circles,Men&#039;s Group 101,Men&#039;s Groups,Mission,Passion,Purpose</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:subtitle>Are you afraid of what your friends may say if they caught you listening to The New Man? - What would it be like to suddenly and unexpectedly become the national spokesman for menâs personal development? - And how did one guy manage to seemingly unit...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Are you afraid of what your friends may say if they caught you listening to The New Man?

What would it be like to suddenly and unexpectedly become the national spokesman for menâs personal development?

And how did one guy manage to seemingly unite the feminists and the chauvinists?

This week we talk with a New Man listener who set out to quietly start a menâs group and then found himself bombarded by the British national press.

Weâre talking with Alex Linsley of Man Collective in Oxford. Listen to this amazing story about how, in an effort to remain âunder the radarâ, Alex ended up in the national press explaining to the country why he wanted to be in a menâs group.

In this episode:

	What a menâs group can do for you
	Most guys are tolerating a lot of surface-level BS
	Authentic Man Program
	David Deida
	Why some guys are âin the closetâ about personal development
	Top Gear
	Uniting the chauvinists and the feminists
	Loaded Magazine
	What Alex learned from being in the gunsight of the press

Click here to learn more about Man Collective

About Alex Linsley

Alex Linsley is an Economics &amp; Management student at Oxford University. He realised how little he enjoyed his mundane existence four years ago and learnt from phenomenal teachers.  Alex set up Man Collective (www.mancollective.co.uk), a menâs group in Oxford, in October 2009 to international media reaction.  This has inspired him to reach out to menâs work across the UK.  He is now involved in a variety of projects to support men and women who want inspiring, joyous lives through truly connected and exciting relationships.</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:duration>23:20</itunes:duration>
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		<title>How to Get The New Man Out of the Closet</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/02/how-to-get-the-new-man-out-of-the-closet/</link>
		<comments>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/02/how-to-get-the-new-man-out-of-the-closet/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2010 20:26:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Here&#8217;s another recent email exchange I had with a New Man listener. Enjoy!</p>
<p>(Keep in mind, English is not his first language)</p>
<p><em>&#8220;Dear Tripp,</em></p>
<p><em>Great contribution to help turning more men into ´New men´. I am definitely on my way, and listening to your interviews is always a source of positive energy and life force.</em></p>
<p><em>I just accepted a job offer, returning to a corporate career, I am moving to another place, the middle east.</em></p>
<p><em>A complete new environment, new job, but also good opportunity to make some additional changes.</em></p>
<p><em>I have accomplished a lot in my life, however, one of the things I am having trouble with is connecting to other men, for friendship, in a profound way, let´s say, finding other ´new men´, without the superficial macho talk. I have never been the ´teamsports´ type of guy, and I feel I have missed out a bit on this ´brotherhood´, go out with the boys, etc&#8230; I have wife and family, but I miss a connection to other men.</em></p>
<p><em>I live my life to the full, like adventure, and therefore I change my life´s direction about every 5 years, including moving to a very different place in the world.</em>&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/02/how-to-get-the-new-man-out-of-the-closet/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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		<title>Does Having the Hots for Other Women Mean You Don&#8217;t Love Your Wife?</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/02/does-having-the-hots-for-other-women-mean-you-dont-love-your-wife/</link>
		<comments>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/02/does-having-the-hots-for-other-women-mean-you-dont-love-your-wife/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2010 00:00:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I just had this exchange with a New Man listener. Enjoy.</p>
<p><strong>He writes:</strong></p>
<p><em>&#8220;I&#8217;m a new listener as of December 2009. I love it. I have been reading professional development and self help books and audio for the last 2 years.</em></p>
<p><em>I would like to hear a show about marriage commitment. whether to marry or not. I love my girl, and I want to marry her soon. But I have a strong sex drive and sometimes my mind wonders. Is this normal for someone who genuinely loves someone? Do I need help?&#8221;</em></p>
<p><strong>My response:</strong></p>
<p><span id="more-1181"></span>Thanks for writing &#8212; it&#8217;s great that you&#8217;re enjoying the shows!</p>
<p>Marriage commitment and any kind of relationship commitment is a solid idea for a topic, too. I dealt with this for a LONG time in my previous relationship and I coach guys on this stuff, too.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t have the complete picture for you, but from experience I don&#8217;t believe that a guy&#8217;s sex drive or admiration of other women should suddenly cease to exist. It&#8217;s not an indicator whether or not he loves his mate.</p>
<p>The only help I would suggest would be to learn how to &#8220;own your desire&#8221;. Good news is that&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/02/does-having-the-hots-for-other-women-mean-you-dont-love-your-wife/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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		<title>TNM 089: Chris Jones &#8211; How to Live in Your Car and Land Your Dream Job</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/02/tnm-089-chris-jones-land-your-dream-job/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Feb 2010 08:00:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Have you ever wondered how you could screw up George Clooney’s couch?</p>
<p>Is Arizona a great place to live in your car?</p>
<p>And what wisdom can you glean from a self-proclaimed liar slash pot-smoker slash homeless writer?</p>
<p>This week we’re talking with Esquire Magazine’s Chris Jones about George Clooney, Tiger Woods, Astronauts, John McCain, runaway NFL star Ricky Williams, the band Rush, your bed, your shoes and why you shouldn’t THINK about things too much.</p>
<p>The tables are turned and the interviewer becomes the interviewee in this fun and surprisingly valuable discussion.</p>
<p>In this episode:</p>
<ul>
<li>George Clooney, a couch and a missing gall bladder</li>
<li>The homeless writer (and girlfriend!) in Arizona</li>
<li>Landing a dream job at Esquire Magazine</li>
<li>Dissing Tiger Woods long before it was cool</li>
<li>How Astronauts are actually humans</li>
<li>Iraq and Sgt. Joe Montgomery</li>
<li>Behind the curtain with John McCain</li>
<li>The search for Ricky Williams in Australia</li>
<li>Carlos Delgado, your bed and your shoes</li>
<li>Is Rush a great band or the greatest band?</li>
</ul>
<p><span id="more-1160"></span></p>
<p><strong>About Chris Jones</strong></p>
<p><a href="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/59868_jones_chris.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1161" title="59868_jones_chris" src="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/59868_jones_chris-e1264632287290.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="198" /></a>CHRIS JONES is a writer-at-large for Esquire and a contributing editor for ESPN: The Magazine. He began his career as a boxing writer for the National Post in Toronto,&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/02/tnm-089-chris-jones-land-your-dream-job/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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			<itunes:keywords>Career,Fear,Fun,Passion,Pleasure,Success</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:subtitle>Have you ever wondered how you could screw up George Clooneyâs couch? - Is Arizona a great place to live in your car? - And what wisdom can you glean from a self-proclaimed liar slash pot-smoker slash homeless writer?</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Have you ever wondered how you could screw up George Clooneyâs couch?

Is Arizona a great place to live in your car?

And what wisdom can you glean from a self-proclaimed liar slash pot-smoker slash homeless writer?

This week weâre talking with Esquire Magazineâs Chris Jones about George Clooney, Tiger Woods, Astronauts, John McCain, runaway NFL star Ricky Williams, the band Rush, your bed, your shoes and why you shouldnât THINK about things too much.

The tables are turned and the interviewer becomes the interviewee in this fun and surprisingly valuable discussion.

In this episode:

	George Clooney, a couch and a missing gall bladder
	The homeless writer (and girlfriend!) in Arizona
	Landing a dream job at Esquire Magazine
	Dissing Tiger Woods long before it was cool
	How Astronauts are actually humans
	Iraq and Sgt. Joe Montgomery
	Behind the curtain with John McCain
	The search for Ricky Williams in Australia
	Carlos Delgado, your bed and your shoes
	Is Rush a great band or the greatest band?



About Chris Jones

CHRIS JONES is a writer-at-large for Esquire and a contributing editor for ESPN: The Magazine. He began his career as a boxing writer for the National Post in Toronto, where he won the Edward Goff Penny Award, given to Canadaâs outstanding young journalist. In 2005, he won the National Magazine Award for Feature Writing for âHome,â a story about three astronauts who were on the International Space Station when the shuttle Columbia exploded. In April, he won his second National Magazine Award for âThe Things That Carried Him,â a story that documented the return of the body of Sgt. Joe Montgomery from Iraq to Scottsburg, Indiana.

His work has also appeared in the Best American Magazine Writing, Best American Sports Writing, and Best American Political Writing anthologies.

He lives in Ottawa, Canada, with his wife and two young sons.
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		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
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		<title>TNM 087: Sarah Ingier &#8211; How to Use the Force, Luke. Are You F&#8217;in Kidding Me?</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/01/tnm-087-sarah-ingier-how-to-use-the-force-luke/</link>
		<comments>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/01/tnm-087-sarah-ingier-how-to-use-the-force-luke/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Jan 2010 09:00:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Do you feel perpetually stuck trying to fix, change or heal yourself?</p>
<p>Should you wrestle with your problems or just witness them?</p>
<p>And would you believe that you — yes you — can learn how to tap into another dimension where you&#8217;re already whole, complete and perfect?</p>
<p>Are you f’in kidding me?</p>
<p>Well, get ready to use the force, young jedi because this week we’re talking with a clairvoyant healer who claims to see other dimensions while helping folks dump their draining life patterns. Is this just new age hocus pocus or could it help YOU live your best life?</p>
<p><strong>In this episode:</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>How can presence help you find your balls?</li>
<li>What can you do to drop these draining patterns and live your purpose?</li>
<li>What is a clairvoyant?</li>
<li>How can a clairvoyant help you?</li>
<li>Can anybody see these other dimensions?</li>
<li>Can you learn to see into the future?</li>
<li>Is life really like an Alex Grey painting or Tool album cover?</li>
<li>Why is it unhelpful to try to fix, change or heal?</li>
<li>How can your workout help you do soooo much more?</li>
</ul>
<p><span id="more-1093"></span></p>
<p><strong>About Sarah Ingier, Clairvoyant and Energy Healer</strong></p>
<p><a href="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/SarahPortrait.jpg"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-1090" title="SarahPortrait" src="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/SarahPortrait.jpg" alt="" width="154" height="231" /></a>A pioneer here to help humanity step into a&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/01/tnm-087-sarah-ingier-how-to-use-the-force-luke/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>Do you feel perpetually stuck trying to fix, change or heal yourself? - Should you wrestle with your problems or just witness them? - And would you believe that you â yes you â can learn how to tap into another dimension where you&#039;re already whole,</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Do you feel perpetually stuck trying to fix, change or heal yourself?

Should you wrestle with your problems or just witness them?

And would you believe that you â yes you â can learn how to tap into another dimension where you&#039;re already whole, complete and perfect?

Are you fâin kidding me?

Well, get ready to use the force, young jedi because this week weâre talking with a clairvoyant healer who claims to see other dimensions while helping folks dump their draining life patterns. Is this just new age hocus pocus or could it help YOU live your best life?

In this episode:

	How can presence help you find your balls?
	What can you do to drop these draining patterns and live your purpose?
	What is a clairvoyant?
	How can a clairvoyant help you?
	Can anybody see these other dimensions?
	Can you learn to see into the future?
	Is life really like an Alex Grey painting or Tool album cover?
	Why is it unhelpful to try to fix, change or heal?
	How can your workout help you do soooo much more?



About Sarah Ingier, Clairvoyant and Energy Healer

A pioneer here to help humanity step into a more Soulful existence, Sarah is a highly impactful teacher and healer. She is a guide into the unknown parts of ourselves. Sarahâs progressive views on life, spirituality, and healing make her work extremely transformative.

Sarah has a beautiful blend of youthful innocence and piercing wisdom. Her highly developed clairvoyant and healing abilities help her to serve a wide range of people. From the most diligent spiritual seeker to the corporate executive, Sarah is a translator of information and a channel for healing.

Sarah travels around the world giving workshops and retreats, helping people to connect to more of who they are. When she is not traveling she has a private practice in Austin Texas, where she offers Clairvoyant readings and healings.

Sarah founded Presence Inc., a spiritually based business dedicated to help individuals, the planet, and culture step into a new era of greater alignment, greater peace, and greater healing. She is a core faculty member for the Kaiser institute, an organization committed to expanding consciousness within organizations and healthcare systems.

Click here to visit SarahIngier.com.
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		<title>TNM 055: Kute Blackson Pt 2 &#8211; Quit the Blame Game and Step Up</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/03/tnm-055-kute-blackson-pt-2-quit-the-blame-game-and-step-up/</link>
		<comments>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/03/tnm-055-kute-blackson-pt-2-quit-the-blame-game-and-step-up/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Mar 2009 02:02:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Kute Blackson continues downloading his 6 Step Process for getting your life out of fear and into gear.</p>
<p>In this series he describes the pitfalls guys get into when life trips them up &#8212; analysis paralysis, the blame game &#8212; and how you can move through them and into positive action.</p>
<p>It’s times like these that separate the men from the boys.</p>
<p>What will you do?</p>
<p><span id="more-111"></span></p>
<p><strong>About Kute Blackson</strong></p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-554" title="g-kute-blackson-SM" src="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/g-kute-blackson-SM.jpg" alt="g-kute-blackson-SM" width="178" height="171" />Kute Blackson is an extraordinary man, a man on a mission. He is known for his high energy, his cutting edge ideas, his dynamic and life changing presentations. Born in Ghana, West Africa, Kute experienced a diversity of cultures very early on, being of Ghanaian/Japanese heritage and having been raised in London. After deciding to move to America in pursuit of “The American Dream,” Kute amazingly won a green card in the “DV-1 Green Card Lottery” where there were only a handful of winners amongst millions of applicants worldwide. Kute says, “Our thoughts create our reality – thoughts are the chisel that sculpt our destiny into tangible form.”</p>
<p>Once Kute arrived in Los Angeles, he had no contacts, no college education, very little money, only two suitcases (one for clothes,&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/03/tnm-055-kute-blackson-pt-2-quit-the-blame-game-and-step-up/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>Kute Blackson continues downloading his 6 Step Process for getting your life out of fear and into gear. - In this series he describes the pitfalls guys get into when life trips them up -- analysis paralysis,</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Kute Blackson continues downloading his 6 Step Process for getting your life out of fear and into gear.

In this series he describes the pitfalls guys get into when life trips them up -- analysis paralysis, the blame game -- and how you can move through them and into positive action.

Itâs times like these that separate the men from the boys.

What will you do?



About Kute Blackson

Kute Blackson is an extraordinary man, a man on a mission. He is known for his high energy, his cutting edge ideas, his dynamic and life changing presentations. Born in Ghana, West Africa, Kute experienced a diversity of cultures very early on, being of Ghanaian/Japanese heritage and having been raised in London. After deciding to move to America in pursuit of âThe American Dream,â Kute amazingly won a green card in the âDV-1 Green Card Lotteryâ where there were only a handful of winners amongst millions of applicants worldwide. Kute says, âOur thoughts create our reality â thoughts are the chisel that sculpt our destiny into tangible form.â

Once Kute arrived in Los Angeles, he had no contacts, no college education, very little money, only two suitcases (one for clothes, one for books), and a burning desire to make his dreams real. Kute, is a living embodiment of someone who has overcome adversity, and thrived against all odds, which is what is his signature presentation âLeap and your Wings will appear!â is about.

Kute immediately started his own business while living in a tiny apartment, sleeping on the floor. During this challenging period in his life, Kute found solace in some of the 750 plus books he read as inspiration and fuel to keep moving past the quitting point. Although he had to ride the bus along Wilshire Blvd, he was driven by his tenacity and passion, and his business began to soar. Utilizing multi-level marketing as a vehicle to get off the ground, he was soon able to move on to his actual field of interest: speaking and coaching.

Known nationally as âThe Transformation Coach,â Kute is a certified hypnotherapist and âNLPâ practitioner, assisting individuals and corporations in creating authentic change. He is also a radio talk-show personality, having had his own radio show called âBeyond Boundariesâ on KYPA in Los Angeles. As founder and president of âThe Blackson Group,â Kute is a dynamic life coach, and inspirational speaker, having spoken to audiences internationally. For many years now, his unique message of empowerment, has inspired thousands, at companies such as: Century 21, TCG, Re Max, Prudential Financial Services, Washington Mutual, and many more.

Kute is also featured regularly on KTLA channel 5, sharing innovative, and practical ideas about personal growth and success. Nelson Davis, president of Nelson Davis Television Productions says, âKute Blackson is a favorite contributor to our television program, âMaking It.â He brings focus and intensity to inspirational thinking that our viewers respond to. I think that he has the special ability to communicate excellent ideas.â Kute is truly the speaker and coach for the ânew generation!â

With his company âThe Blackson Group,â Kute is dedicated to the transformation of individuals, and corporations, from the âinside-out.â Kute has created what some consider the ultimate coaching system, and presentations for corporations, in the area of peak performance and personal evolution. â My mission is to assist individuals and corporations, move âBeyond Boundaries,â and live their deepest selves.â

Kute resides in Los Angeles, CA, and lives life to the fullest.</itunes:summary>
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		<title>TNM 054: Kute Blackson Pt 1 &#8211; Get Out of Fear and Into Gear</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/03/tnm-054-kute-blackson-get-out-of-fear-and-into-gear/</link>
		<comments>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/03/tnm-054-kute-blackson-get-out-of-fear-and-into-gear/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Mar 2009 02:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Life coach to the stars, Kute Blackson is back on The New Man, and he’s just in time.</p>
<p>Many listeners are dealing with a ton of fear these days &#8212; finances, career and the world in general all seem to be going to hell in a hand basket.</p>
<p>But what can YOU do about it, right now?</p>
<p>Kute walks us through a powerful 6 Step Process to cut the crap and make your life better &#8212; regardless of the world outside.</p>
<p><span id="more-112"></span></p>
<p><strong>About Kute Blackson</strong></p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-554" title="g-kute-blackson-SM" src="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/g-kute-blackson-SM.jpg" alt="g-kute-blackson-SM" width="178" height="171" />Kute Blackson is an extraordinary man, a man on a mission. He is known for his high energy, his cutting edge ideas, his dynamic and life changing presentations. Born in Ghana, West Africa, Kute experienced a diversity of cultures very early on, being of Ghanaian/Japanese heritage and having been raised in London. After deciding to move to America in pursuit of “The American Dream,” Kute amazingly won a green card in the “DV-1 Green Card Lottery” where there were only a handful of winners amongst millions of applicants worldwide. Kute says, “Our thoughts create our reality – thoughts are the chisel that sculpt our destiny into tangible form.”</p>
<p>Once Kute arrived in Los Angeles, he&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/03/tnm-054-kute-blackson-get-out-of-fear-and-into-gear/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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			<itunes:keywords>Career,Fear,Inner Game</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:subtitle>Life coach to the stars, Kute Blackson is back on The New Man, and heâs just in time. - Many listeners are dealing with a ton of fear these days -- finances, career and the world in general all seem to be going to hell in a hand basket.</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Life coach to the stars, Kute Blackson is back on The New Man, and heâs just in time.

Many listeners are dealing with a ton of fear these days -- finances, career and the world in general all seem to be going to hell in a hand basket.

But what can YOU do about it, right now?

Kute walks us through a powerful 6 Step Process to cut the crap and make your life better -- regardless of the world outside.



About Kute Blackson

Kute Blackson is an extraordinary man, a man on a mission. He is known for his high energy, his cutting edge ideas, his dynamic and life changing presentations. Born in Ghana, West Africa, Kute experienced a diversity of cultures very early on, being of Ghanaian/Japanese heritage and having been raised in London. After deciding to move to America in pursuit of âThe American Dream,â Kute amazingly won a green card in the âDV-1 Green Card Lotteryâ where there were only a handful of winners amongst millions of applicants worldwide. Kute says, âOur thoughts create our reality â thoughts are the chisel that sculpt our destiny into tangible form.â

Once Kute arrived in Los Angeles, he had no contacts, no college education, very little money, only two suitcases (one for clothes, one for books), and a burning desire to make his dreams real. Kute, is a living embodiment of someone who has overcome adversity, and thrived against all odds, which is what is his signature presentation âLeap and your Wings will appear!â is about.

Kute immediately started his own business while living in a tiny apartment, sleeping on the floor. During this challenging period in his life, Kute found solace in some of the 750 plus books he read as inspiration and fuel to keep moving past the quitting point. Although he had to ride the bus along Wilshire Blvd, he was driven by his tenacity and passion, and his business began to soar. Utilizing multi-level marketing as a vehicle to get off the ground, he was soon able to move on to his actual field of interest: speaking and coaching.

Known nationally as âThe Transformation Coach,â Kute is a certified hypnotherapist and âNLPâ practitioner, assisting individuals and corporations in creating authentic change. He is also a radio talk-show personality, having had his own radio show called âBeyond Boundariesâ on KYPA in Los Angeles. As founder and president of âThe Blackson Group,â Kute is a dynamic life coach, and inspirational speaker, having spoken to audiences internationally. For many years now, his unique message of empowerment, has inspired thousands, at companies such as: Century 21, TCG, Re Max, Prudential Financial Services, Washington Mutual, and many more.

Kute is also featured regularly on KTLA channel 5, sharing innovative, and practical ideas about personal growth and success. Nelson Davis, president of Nelson Davis Television Productions says, âKute Blackson is a favorite contributor to our television program, âMaking It.â He brings focus and intensity to inspirational thinking that our viewers respond to. I think that he has the special ability to communicate excellent ideas.â Kute is truly the speaker and coach for the ânew generation!â

With his company âThe Blackson Group,â Kute is dedicated to the transformation of individuals, and corporations, from the âinside-out.â Kute has created what some consider the ultimate coaching system, and presentations for corporations, in the area of peak performance and personal evolution. â My mission is to assist individuals and corporations, move âBeyond Boundaries,â and live their deepest selves.â

Kute resides in Los Angeles, CA, and lives life to the fullest.</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
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		<itunes:duration>23:03</itunes:duration>
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		<title>TNM 053: Stuart Davis Pt 2 &#8211; How to Pull Your Head Out of Your Ass</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/03/tnm-053-stuart-davis-pt2-how-to-pull-your-head-out-of-your-ass/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Mar 2009 02:05:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>We’re back for Part 2 of our hilarious discussion with Stuart Davis &#8212; rock star, buddhist monk and host of “Sex, God, Rock n Roll”.</p>
<p><span id="more-113"></span>In this episode we discuss:</p>
<ul>
<li>A good woman will challenge and support you to be a better man in every area of your life</li>
<li>Becoming a father can crush any grand ideas you have about who you think you are</li>
<li>There is no such thing as an “un-spiritual” moment</li>
<li>Stepping into “the fire” of life and confronting your deepest fears</li>
<li>The significance of being able to laugh at yourself</li>
<li>How surrendering doesn’t mean defeat</li>
<li>What happens when we resist our life</li>
<li>The amazing new pill, “Alco-hard”</li>
<li>The new TV show “Sex, God Rock n Roll”</li>
</ul>
<p><strong>About Stuart Davis, Musician, Artist</strong></p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-558" title="g-stuart-davis-SM" src="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/g-stuart-davis-SM.jpg" alt="g-stuart-davis-SM" width="178" height="171" />With eleven full-length albums to his credit, Stuart Davis has carved out a unique wavelength in the musical spectrum. Taking the topics of God, sex, and life and death, and crafting them into inimitable pop songs with lyrical flair and unforgettable hooks, Stuart continues to be one of the great, undiscovered singer/songwriters around.</p>
<p>In addition to his musical brilliance, Stuart is becoming something of a cultural force. With the support of devoted fans,&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/03/tnm-053-stuart-davis-pt2-how-to-pull-your-head-out-of-your-ass/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>Weâre back for Part 2 of our hilarious discussion with Stuart Davis -- rock star, buddhist monk and host of âSex, God, Rock n Rollâ. - In this episode we discuss: -   A good woman will challenge and support you to be a better man in every area of...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Weâre back for Part 2 of our hilarious discussion with Stuart Davis -- rock star, buddhist monk and host of âSex, God, Rock n Rollâ.

In this episode we discuss:

	A good woman will challenge and support you to be a better man in every area of your life
	Becoming a father can crush any grand ideas you have about who you think you are
	There is no such thing as an âun-spiritualâ moment
	Stepping into âthe fireâ of life and confronting your deepest fears
	The significance of being able to laugh at yourself
	How surrendering doesnât mean defeat
	What happens when we resist our life
	The amazing new pill, âAlco-hardâ
	The new TV show âSex, God Rock n Rollâ

About Stuart Davis, Musician, Artist

With eleven full-length albums to his credit, Stuart Davis has carved out a unique wavelength in the musical spectrum. Taking the topics of God, sex, and life and death, and crafting them into inimitable pop songs with lyrical flair and unforgettable hooks, Stuart continues to be one of the great, undiscovered singer/songwriters around.

In addition to his musical brilliance, Stuart is becoming something of a cultural force. With the support of devoted fans, in 1999 Stuart started his own record company, Dharma Pop Records (first called Post Apocalyptic Records), through which he has released four albums to date (&quot;Bright Apocalypse&quot;, &quot;Stuart Davis 2001&quot;, &quot;The Late Stuart Davis&quot;, and the recent &quot;Bell&quot;). The same fan base has formed its own divinely mad community. These &quot;Punk Monks&quot; help promote Stuart&#039;s shows, run Stuart Davis websites, and generally spread the word of what has come to be known as Post Apocalyptic Punk Folk, or what we might simply call Integral Pop.

The multifarious Davis is also a published author, having contributed to the book Radical Spirit (New World Library). And he&#039;s a fictional character too, appearing in Ken Wilber&#039;s novel Boomeritis (Shambhala). His series of video road journals are a regular part of the Integral Naked website, a multimedia doorway to the world of integral awareness. Armed with one camera, two guitars, and multiple personalities, Stuart introduces us to the bizarre and beautiful world of life as a nomadic mystic. If that weren&#039;t enough, Stuart is forming his own actual language, called &quot;IS.&quot; (For a taste of IS, listen to Stu&#039;s album &quot;Bell&quot;.) In the moments when Stuart is not criss-crossing the country on tour, he lives in Boulder, CO, with his wife, Marci, and their daughter, Ara Belle, freshly manifest from the bardo realm.</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:duration>30:01</itunes:duration>
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		<title>TNM 052: Stuart Davis Pt 1 &#8211; Spirituality &amp; Dick Jokes</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/03/tnm-052-stuart-davis-spirituality-and-dick-jokes/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Mar 2009 02:05:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>In part 1 of our talk with Stuart Davis &#8212; rock star, buddhist monk and host of “Sex, God, Rock n Roll” &#8212; we hear how a “spiritual” guy can also be unapologetically rude and crude.</p>
<p>Stuart shares some hilarious stories about how he would rather be dead than conform to any means of authority &#8212; family, religion, school, day jobs and women’s clothes included.</p>
<p><span id="more-114"></span>In this episode:</p>
<ul>
<li> It’s easy to be a punk and point out society’s shortcomings &#8212; it takes skill to offer something constructive</li>
<li>His relentless pursuit of freedom has landed him in jail and almost killed him</li>
<li>Drummers aren’t complete idiots (some of them at least)</li>
<li>How spirituality turned him into a self righteous asshole</li>
<li>How life can be enjoyable after the sparkle and “rush” has passed</li>
<li>What had him see the real meaning of his lifeBe sure to keep an eye out for Stu&#8217;s latest TV show &#8220;Sex God Rock n Roll&#8221; on HDNET this summer.</li>
</ul>
<p><strong>About Stuart Davis, Musician, Artist</strong></p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-558" title="g-stuart-davis-SM" src="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/g-stuart-davis-SM.jpg" alt="g-stuart-davis-SM" width="178" height="171" />With eleven full-length albums to his credit, Stuart Davis has carved out a unique wavelength in the musical spectrum. Taking the topics of God, sex, and life and death, and crafting&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/03/tnm-052-stuart-davis-spirituality-and-dick-jokes/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>In part 1 of our talk with Stuart Davis -- rock star, buddhist monk and host of âSex, God, Rock n Rollâ -- we hear how a âspiritualâ guy can also be unapologetically rude and crude. - Stuart shares some hilarious stories about how he would rath...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>In part 1 of our talk with Stuart Davis -- rock star, buddhist monk and host of âSex, God, Rock n Rollâ -- we hear how a âspiritualâ guy can also be unapologetically rude and crude.

Stuart shares some hilarious stories about how he would rather be dead than conform to any means of authority -- family, religion, school, day jobs and womenâs clothes included.

In this episode:

	 Itâs easy to be a punk and point out societyâs shortcomings -- it takes skill to offer something constructive
	His relentless pursuit of freedom has landed him in jail and almost killed him
	Drummers arenât complete idiots (some of them at least)
	How spirituality turned him into a self righteous asshole
	How life can be enjoyable after the sparkle and ârushâ has passed
	What had him see the real meaning of his lifeBe sure to keep an eye out for Stu&#039;s latest TV show &quot;Sex God Rock n Roll&quot; on HDNET this summer.

About Stuart Davis, Musician, Artist

With eleven full-length albums to his credit, Stuart Davis has carved out a unique wavelength in the musical spectrum. Taking the topics of God, sex, and life and death, and crafting them into inimitable pop songs with lyrical flair and unforgettable hooks, Stuart continues to be one of the great, undiscovered singer/songwriters around.

In addition to his musical brilliance, Stuart is becoming something of a cultural force. With the support of devoted fans, in 1999 Stuart started his own record company, Dharma Pop Records (first called Post Apocalyptic Records), through which he has released four albums to date (&quot;Bright Apocalypse&quot;, &quot;Stuart Davis 2001&quot;, &quot;The Late Stuart Davis&quot;, and the recent &quot;Bell&quot;). The same fan base has formed its own divinely mad community. These &quot;Punk Monks&quot; help promote Stuart&#039;s shows, run Stuart Davis websites, and generally spread the word of what has come to be known as Post Apocalyptic Punk Folk, or what we might simply call Integral Pop.

The multifarious Davis is also a published author, having contributed to the book Radical Spirit (New World Library). And he&#039;s a fictional character too, appearing in Ken Wilber&#039;s novel Boomeritis (Shambhala). His series of video road journals are a regular part of the Integral Naked website, a multimedia doorway to the world of integral awareness. Armed with one camera, two guitars, and multiple personalities, Stuart introduces us to the bizarre and beautiful world of life as a nomadic mystic. If that weren&#039;t enough, Stuart is forming his own actual language, called &quot;IS.&quot; (For a taste of IS, listen to Stu&#039;s album &quot;Bell&quot;.) In the moments when Stuart is not criss-crossing the country on tour, he lives in Boulder, CO, with his wife, Marci, and their daughter, Ara Belle, freshly manifest from the bardo realm.</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:duration>32:27</itunes:duration>
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		<title>TNM 051: Brian Johnson Pt 2 &#8211; Do You Have the Balls to Live the Life of Your Dreams?</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/02/tnm-051-brian-johnson-pt2-do-you-have-the-balls-to-live-the-life-of-your-dreams/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Feb 2009 02:05:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Do you feel a moral obligation to live your greatest possible life?</p>
<p>If you are like us you are tired, and you have bills to pay&#8230;but is that all there is in store for us?</p>
<p>Brian Johnson won&#8217;t stand for anything less that the greatest life possible for himself, and he wants to help us get there too.</p>
<p>In part two of our talk with Brian, we talk about his latest project, Philosophers Notes, and how to get inspired and make practical changes in our lives right now.</p>
<p>Listen as Brain tells us how we can learn to step up our game and stop living our lives half-assed.</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.philosophersnotes.com/" target="_blank">Click here to check out Philosophers Notes.</a></strong></p>
<p><span id="more-115"></span><strong>About Brian Johnson, Philosopher, Entrepreneur, Creator of Philosopher Notes</strong></p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-567" title="g-brian-johnson-2373-SM" src="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/g-brian-johnson-2373-SM.jpg" alt="g-brian-johnson-2373-SM" width="178" height="171" />I&#8217;ve always been passionate about understanding what makes great people great and applying the truths they embodied to make my little dent in the universe.</p>
<p>After selling my last business (Zaadz) and traveling for a bit, I decided to give myself a Ph.D. in Optimal Living with a Specialization in Greatness and Bliss.</p>
<p>Figured I’d get a Master’s when I’d distilled 100 of my favorite books into concise, fun, inspiring summaries. Then, on a flight from&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/02/tnm-051-brian-johnson-pt2-do-you-have-the-balls-to-live-the-life-of-your-dreams/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>Do you feel a moral obligation to live your greatest possible life? - If you are like us you are tired, and you have bills to pay...but is that all there is in store for us? - Brian Johnson won&#039;t stand for anything less that the greatest life possible ...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Do you feel a moral obligation to live your greatest possible life?

If you are like us you are tired, and you have bills to pay...but is that all there is in store for us?

Brian Johnson won&#039;t stand for anything less that the greatest life possible for himself, and he wants to help us get there too.

In part two of our talk with Brian, we talk about his latest project, Philosophers Notes, and how to get inspired and make practical changes in our lives right now.

Listen as Brain tells us how we can learn to step up our game and stop living our lives half-assed.

Click here to check out Philosophers Notes.

About Brian Johnson, Philosopher, Entrepreneur, Creator of Philosopher Notes

I&#039;ve always been passionate about understanding what makes great people great and applying the truths they embodied to make my little dent in the universe.

After selling my last business (Zaadz) and traveling for a bit, I decided to give myself a Ph.D. in Optimal Living with a Specialization in Greatness and Bliss.

Figured Iâd get a Masterâs when Iâd distilled 100 of my favorite books into concise, fun, inspiring summaries. Then, on a flight from Tokyo to LA, I had one of those âAha!/hallelujah!!â moments when I opened the SkyMall to an ad for a company that summarized business books for âbusy executives.â I decided someone should do summaries of self-development books for the âbusy self-actualizerâ and that that someone should be me. âº

Enter: PhilosophersNotes. (Imagine CliffsNotes. Only shorter. And cooler. And a *lot* more inspiring. âº)

I&#039;m currently on sabbatical in Bali working my way through two suitcases of books while I re-wire my consciousness, create the first 100 PhilosophersNotes and teach a Philosophy class at the local yoga studio.

Pinch me. I heart my job.

Click here to check out Philosophers Notes.</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:duration>22:16</itunes:duration>
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		<title>TNM 050: Brian Johnson Pt 1 &#8211; What Would You Do if You Weren&#8217;t Afraid?</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/02/tnm-050-brian-johnson-what-would-you-do-if-you-werent-afraid/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Feb 2009 04:24:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Have you ever thrown up on your way to work, and not from too much fun the night before?</p>
<p>If you had all the money and all the time in the world what would you do?</p>
<p>Brain Johnson has found his answer, but things didn&#8217;t always come together so clearly for him.</p>
<p>Over the years he has quit a promising job with a fortune 500, dropped out of law school, left a 5 year relationship, and walked away from a couple of businesses.</p>
<p>From these experiences he has learned a bit about the art of living, now he is sharing what he loves to do with the world.</p>
<p>Listen as Brian talks to us about how he went form literally puking in his car on the way to work, to living his dreams from an open-air office in Bali.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.philosophersnotes.com/" target="_blank"><strong>Click here to check out Philosophers Notes.</strong></a></p>
<p><span id="more-116"></span><strong>About Brian Johnson, Philosopher, Entrepreneur, Creator of Philosopher Notes</strong></p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-567" title="g-brian-johnson-2373-SM" src="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/g-brian-johnson-2373-SM.jpg" alt="g-brian-johnson-2373-SM" width="178" height="171" />I&#8217;ve always been passionate about understanding what makes great people great and applying the truths they embodied to make my little dent in the universe.</p>
<p>After selling my last business (Zaadz) and traveling for a bit, I decided to give myself a Ph.D. in Optimal&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/02/tnm-050-brian-johnson-what-would-you-do-if-you-werent-afraid/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>Have you ever thrown up on your way to work, and not from too much fun the night before? - If you had all the money and all the time in the world what would you do? - Brain Johnson has found his answer, but things didn&#039;t always come together so clearly...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Have you ever thrown up on your way to work, and not from too much fun the night before?

If you had all the money and all the time in the world what would you do?

Brain Johnson has found his answer, but things didn&#039;t always come together so clearly for him.

Over the years he has quit a promising job with a fortune 500, dropped out of law school, left a 5 year relationship, and walked away from a couple of businesses.

From these experiences he has learned a bit about the art of living, now he is sharing what he loves to do with the world.

Listen as Brian talks to us about how he went form literally puking in his car on the way to work, to living his dreams from an open-air office in Bali.

Click here to check out Philosophers Notes.

About Brian Johnson, Philosopher, Entrepreneur, Creator of Philosopher Notes

I&#039;ve always been passionate about understanding what makes great people great and applying the truths they embodied to make my little dent in the universe.

After selling my last business (Zaadz) and traveling for a bit, I decided to give myself a Ph.D. in Optimal Living with a Specialization in Greatness and Bliss.

Figured Iâd get a Masterâs when Iâd distilled 100 of my favorite books into concise, fun, inspiring summaries. Then, on a flight from Tokyo to LA, I had one of those âAha!/hallelujah!!â moments when I opened the SkyMall to an ad for a company that summarized business books for âbusy executives.â I decided someone should do summaries of self-development books for the âbusy self-actualizerâ and that that someone should be me. âº

Enter: PhilosophersNotes. (Imagine CliffsNotes. Only shorter. And cooler. And a *lot* more inspiring. âº)

I&#039;m currently on sabbatical in Bali working my way through two suitcases of books while I re-wire my consciousness, create the first 100 PhilosophersNotes and teach a Philosophy class at the local yoga studio.

Pinch me. I heart my job.

Click here to check out Philosophers Notes.</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:duration>31:39</itunes:duration>
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		<title>TNM 049: Steve Pavlina Pt 2 &#8211; What to Do if You&#8217;ve Lost Your Job or Your Job is in Danger</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/02/tnm-049-steve-pavlina-what-to-do-if-youve-lost-your-job-or-your-job-is-in-danger/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Feb 2009 04:09:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Times may be a bit lean right now but the truth is, this is a great opportunity.</p>
<p>Before you write us off as crazy, listen to what Steve Pavlina has to say about job loss, bankruptcy, and any of life&#8217;s major challenges.</p>
<p>Personal development expert and massively popular blogger and author, Steve breaks it down for us in 3 easy steps:</p>
<ul>
<li> Step 1: If you are not dead, this challenge will make you stronger.</li>
<li> Step 2: This is your opportunity to think about what you really want in life.</li>
<li> Step 3: Ask yourself what kind of goals inspire you right now.</li>
</ul>
<p>If you move towards your inspiration fully, learn from your passion, and share it with the world, you can&#8217;t fail according to Steve.</p>
<p>Listen as Steve puts it all in perspective and gives us some real advice on how to live our dreams.</p>
<p><span id="more-117"></span><strong>About Steve Pavlina, Personal Development for Smart People</strong></p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-842" title="pavlina" src="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/pavlina.png" alt="pavlina" width="156" height="199" />Steve Pavlina is widely recognized as one of the most successful personal development bloggers on the Internet, attracting more than two million monthly readers to his website, StevePavlina.com. He has written more than 700 articles and recorded many audio programs on a broad&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/02/tnm-049-steve-pavlina-what-to-do-if-youve-lost-your-job-or-your-job-is-in-danger/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>Times may be a bit lean right now but the truth is, this is a great opportunity. - Before you write us off as crazy, listen to what Steve Pavlina has to say about job loss, bankruptcy, and any of life&#039;s major challenges.</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Times may be a bit lean right now but the truth is, this is a great opportunity.

Before you write us off as crazy, listen to what Steve Pavlina has to say about job loss, bankruptcy, and any of life&#039;s major challenges.

Personal development expert and massively popular blogger and author, Steve breaks it down for us in 3 easy steps:

	 Step 1: If you are not dead, this challenge will make you stronger.
	 Step 2: This is your opportunity to think about what you really want in life.
	 Step 3: Ask yourself what kind of goals inspire you right now.

If you move towards your inspiration fully, learn from your passion, and share it with the world, you can&#039;t fail according to Steve.

Listen as Steve puts it all in perspective and gives us some real advice on how to live our dreams.

About Steve Pavlina, Personal Development for Smart People

Steve Pavlina is widely recognized as one of the most successful personal development bloggers on the Internet, attracting more than two million monthly readers to his website, StevePavlina.com. He has written more than 700 articles and recorded many audio programs on a broad range of self-help topics, including productivity, relationships, and spirituality. Steve has been quoted as an expert by the New York Times, USA Today, U.S. News &amp; World Report, the Los Angeles Daily News, Self Magazine, and The Guardian.

Steve&#039;s passionate pursuit of personal growth began while sitting in a jail cell. Arrested for felony grand theft at age 19 and expelled from school, the full weight of responsibility for his life came crashing down upon him. In an attempt to overcome his out-of-control kleptomania addiction, he decided the best course of action was to go to work on himself.

Since then Steve has become one of the most intensely growth-oriented individuals you&#039;ll ever know. After making an extensive study of time management techniques, he earned college degrees in computer science and mathematics in only three semesters. In later years he founded a successful software company, developed award-winning computer games, ran the Los Angeles Marathon, trained in martial arts, and adopted a raw vegan diet.

By giving away his best ideas for free, Steve created one of the most popular personal development websites in the world without spending a dime on marketing or promotion. Some of his articles have been translated into more than a dozen different languages, benefitting readers from 150 countries.

Steve has a reputation for conducting unusual growth experiments, the most famous being his polyphasic sleep trial, during which he slept only two hours per day for five and a half months, publicly documenting his results each step of the way.

Steve currently lives in Las Vegas (Summerlin area) and enjoys an open (polyamorous) marriage with psychic medium Erin Pavlina.

Steve&#039;s purpose in life is:


to live consciously and courageously;

 to enjoy, increase, and share peace, energy, passion, and abundance; 

to resonate with love and compassion;

 to awaken the great spirits within others; 

and to fully embrace this present moment.</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:duration>23:44</itunes:duration>
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		<title>TNM 048: Steve Pavlina Pt 1 &#8211; Playing it &#8220;Safe&#8221; is like Living in a Locked Box</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/02/tnm-048-steve-pavlina-playing-it-safe-is-like-living-in-a-locked-box/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Feb 2009 04:56:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Are you playing it safe, but feeling trapped in the life you have created for yourself?</p>
<p>How do you know when it&#8217;s time to move on from a job, a relationship, or even the town you live in?</p>
<p>Steve Pavlina has some unique and profound suggestions to help us out with that. Tripp and Steve agree that often times the best strategy to victory in life&#8217;s battles is to &#8220;burn the boats behind us!&#8221;</p>
<p><span id="more-118"></span></p>
<p>In this episode:</p>
<ul>
<li>What he means by &#8220;burning the ships behind us, but not the food and supplies&#8221;</li>
<li>How a brief trip to jail re-framed his life and set him on the path to create the &#8220;best personal development website&#8221;</li>
<li>Why the &#8220;safe&#8221; that protects us, can quickly become the &#8220;safe&#8221; that imprisons us.</li>
<li>How his strategy for setting goals is different, and more effective than other mainstream approaches.</li>
<li>What Steven Covey means by his insistence that we go for &#8220;win-win&#8221; or &#8220;no deal.&#8221;</li>
<li>Where courage comes from, why it is essential, and how to get more of it.</li>
</ul>
<p>Listen as Steve takes us into his work of no-nonsense personal development and how our efforts to grow can bring us exactly what we want&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/02/tnm-048-steve-pavlina-playing-it-safe-is-like-living-in-a-locked-box/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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			<itunes:keywords>Career,Fear,Inner Game</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:subtitle>Are you playing it safe, but feeling trapped in the life you have created for yourself? - How do you know when it&#039;s time to move on from a job, a relationship, or even the town you live in? - Steve Pavlina has some unique and profound suggestions to he...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Are you playing it safe, but feeling trapped in the life you have created for yourself?

How do you know when it&#039;s time to move on from a job, a relationship, or even the town you live in?

Steve Pavlina has some unique and profound suggestions to help us out with that. Tripp and Steve agree that often times the best strategy toÂ victory in life&#039;s battles is to &quot;burn the boats behind us!&quot;



In this episode:

	What he means by &quot;burning the ships behind us, but not the food and supplies&quot;
	How a brief trip to jail re-framed his life and set him on the path to create the &quot;best personal development website&quot;
	Why the &quot;safe&quot; that protects us, can quickly become the &quot;safe&quot; that imprisons us.
	How his strategy for setting goals is different, and more effective than other mainstream approaches.
	What Steven Covey means by his insistence that we go for &quot;win-win&quot; or &quot;no deal.&quot;
	Where courage comes from, why it is essential, and how to get more of it.

Listen as Steve takes us into his work of no-nonsense personal development and how our efforts to grow can bring us exactly what we want out of life.

About Steve Pavlina, Personal Development for Smart People

Steve Pavlina is widely recognized as one of the most successful personal development bloggers on the Internet, attracting more than two million monthly readers to his website, StevePavlina.com. He has written more than 700 articles and recorded many audio programs on a broad range of self-help topics, including productivity, relationships, and spirituality. Steve has been quoted as an expert by the New York Times, USA Today, U.S. News &amp; World Report, the Los Angeles Daily News, Self Magazine, and The Guardian.

Steve&#039;s passionate pursuit of personal growth began while sitting in a jail cell. Arrested for felony grand theft at age 19 and expelled from school, the full weight of responsibility for his life came crashing down upon him. In an attempt to overcome his out-of-control kleptomania addiction, he decided the best course of action was to go to work on himself.

Since then Steve has become one of the most intensely growth-oriented individuals you&#039;ll ever know. After making an extensive study of time management techniques, he earned college degrees in computer science and mathematics in only three semesters. In later years he founded a successful software company, developed award-winning computer games, ran the Los Angeles Marathon, trained in martial arts, and adopted a raw vegan diet.

By giving away his best ideas for free, Steve created one of the most popular personal development websites in the world without spending a dime on marketing or promotion. Some of his articles have been translated into more than a dozen different languages, benefitting readers from 150 countries.

Steve has a reputation for conducting unusual growth experiments, the most famous being his polyphasic sleep trial, during which he slept only two hours per day for five and a half months, publicly documenting his results each step of the way.

Steve currently lives in Las Vegas (Summerlin area) and enjoys an open (polyamorous) marriage with psychic medium Erin Pavlina.

Steve&#039;s purpose in life is:

to live consciously and courageously;

 to enjoy, increase, and share peace, energy, passion, and abundance; 

to resonate with love and compassion;

 to awaken the great spirits within others; 

and to fully embrace this present moment.</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:duration>24:36</itunes:duration>
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		<title>TNM 014: Robert Augustus Masters Pt 2 &#8211; Fear is Just Excitement in Drag</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/03/tnm-014-robert-augustus-masters-fear-is-just-excitement-in-drag/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Mar 2008 11:49:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Repressed anger is as harmful as inappropriately expressed anger,&#8221;  Masters says when describing how to allow emotions to arise naturally.  He says healthy anger is &#8220;the guardian of healthy boundaries.&#8221;</p>
<p>Robert talks about being present to the emotions that are arising and giving them space to be expressed authentically.</p>
<p>When he says, &#8220;Fear is excitement in drag,&#8221;  Masters is talking about the similarity of the emotions of fear and excitement as they are felt.  When we allow the emotion to arise, without avoiding it, fear can be an exhilarating and useful emotion.</p>
<p>In Part 2 of our discussion with Robert Augustus Masters, he breaks it down to the practical level for us. Robert talks about several practices we can do to &#8220;get in our bodies&#8221; and get in touch with our true power.</p>
<p><strong><span id="more-152"></span>About Robert Masters </strong></p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-642" title="g-robert-augustus-masters-SM" src="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/g-robert-augustus-masters-SM.jpg" alt="g-robert-augustus-masters-SM" width="178" height="171" />My passion is to fuel, illuminate, and support the living of a deeper life, a life of love, integrity, and fully alive awakening. Providing environments (both inner and outer) in which deep healing and transformation can take place is my vocation and privilege.</p>
<p>Having just reached my 60th birthday, I notice that I am finding freedom more through intimacy — intimacy not only&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/03/tnm-014-robert-augustus-masters-fear-is-just-excitement-in-drag/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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			<itunes:keywords>Anger,Fear,Passion</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:subtitle>&quot;Repressed anger is as harmful as inappropriately expressed anger,&quot;  Masters says when describing how to allow emotions to arise naturally.  He says healthy anger is &quot;the guardian of healthy boundaries.&quot; - Robert talks about being present to the emotio...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>&quot;Repressed anger is as harmful as inappropriately expressed anger,&quot;  Masters says when describing how to allow emotions to arise naturally.  He says healthy anger is &quot;the guardian of healthy boundaries.&quot;

Robert talks about being present to the emotions that are arising and giving them space to be expressed authentically.

When he says, &quot;Fear is excitement in drag,&quot;  Masters is talking about the similarity of the emotions of fear and excitement as they are felt.  When we allow the emotion to arise, without avoiding it, fear can be an exhilarating and useful emotion.

In Part 2 of our discussion with Robert Augustus Masters, he breaks it down to the practical level for us. Robert talks about several practices we can do to &quot;get in our bodies&quot; and get in touch with our true power.

About Robert Masters 

My passion is to fuel, illuminate, and support the living of a deeper life, a life of love, integrity, and fully alive awakening. Providing environments (both inner and outer) in which deep healing and transformation can take place is my vocation and privilege.

Having just reached my 60th birthday, I notice that I am finding freedom more through intimacy â intimacy not only with my beloved Diane, but also with all that is â than through transcendence. There is a deeply satisfying joy for me in passing on what I have learned, especially through my integral psychotherapy apprenticeship programs and the couples intensives that I do with Diane.

Since 1977 I&#039;ve worked as a psychotherapist (I have a Ph.D. in Psychology), group leader, bodyworker, and teacher of spiritual deepening practices, integrating the physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual in my practice. Most weekends these days I&#039;m leading groups or trainings.

Evolving in fitting parallel with this has been my writing, which is as much a passion for me as facilitating deep groupwork. I&#039;ve authored eight books, including Divine Dynamite, Darkness Shining Wild, and, most recently, Transformation Through Intimacy. My essays have appeared in magazines ranging from Magical Blend to the Journal of Transpersonal Psychology, as well as in several anthologies. And running rampant through all my writing is my poetry, keeping my prose on its toes.</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:duration>11:55</itunes:duration>
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		<title>TNM 013: Robert Augustus Masters Pt 1 &#8211; Are You Stuck in the Friend Zone?</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/03/tnm-013-robert-augustus-masters-are-you-stuck-in-the-friend-zone/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Mar 2008 11:30:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Robert Augustus Masters is an Integral Psychotherapist and group leader.  Integral means that he is working with mind, body, emotions and conditioning in a flowing and organic way.</p>
<p>Robert works with guys who have the balls to make the changes to make their lives better.  His work focuses primarily on the body, as men tend to get &#8220;stuck in their heads&#8221; and cut off from their feelings.  Some women can feel this and may experience the man to be less trust-able and less desirable because of it.</p>
<p>The &#8220;Friend Zone&#8221; is the place men go when they are not in touch with our true power.  Masters clarifies that power does not mean overpowering and that there is a real difference between anger and aggression.  When men get in touch with the power from their core, they are more authentic, trust-able and attractive to women.</p>
<p>Robert insists that vulnerability is not weakness but, in fact, authenticity.   If we can learn to be vulnerable without crumbling, we can be more in touch with our lives and other people.</p>
<p><span id="more-153"></span><strong>About Robert Masters</strong></p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-642" title="g-robert-augustus-masters-SM" src="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/g-robert-augustus-masters-SM.jpg" alt="g-robert-augustus-masters-SM" width="178" height="171" />My passion is to fuel, illuminate, and support the living of a deeper life, a life of love, integrity, and fully&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/03/tnm-013-robert-augustus-masters-are-you-stuck-in-the-friend-zone/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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			<itunes:keywords>Anger,Fear,Passion</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:subtitle>Robert Augustus Masters is an Integral Psychotherapist and group leader.  Integral means that he is working with mind, body, emotions and conditioning in a flowing and organic way. - Robert works with guys who have the balls to make the changes to make...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Robert Augustus Masters is an Integral Psychotherapist and group leader.  Integral means that he is working with mind, body, emotions and conditioning in a flowing and organic way.

Robert works with guys who have the balls to make the changes to make their lives better.  His work focuses primarily on the body, as men tend to get &quot;stuck in their heads&quot; and cut off from their feelings.  Some women can feel this and may experience the man to be less trust-able and less desirable because of it.

The &quot;Friend Zone&quot; is the place men go when they are not in touch with our true power.  Masters clarifies that power does not mean overpowering and that there is a real difference between anger and aggression.  When men get in touch with the power from their core, they are more authentic, trust-able and attractive to women.

Robert insists that vulnerability is not weakness but, in fact, authenticity.   If we can learn to be vulnerable without crumbling, we can be more in touch with our lives and other people.

About Robert Masters

My passion is to fuel, illuminate, and support the living of a deeper life, a life of love, integrity, and fully alive awakening. Providing environments (both inner and outer) in which deep healing and transformation can take place is my vocation and privilege.

Having just reached my 60th birthday, I notice that I am finding freedom more through intimacy â intimacy not only with my beloved Diane, but also with all that is â than through transcendence. There is a deeply satisfying joy for me in passing on what I have learned, especially through my integral psychotherapy apprenticeship programs and the couples intensives that I do with Diane.

Since 1977 I&#039;ve worked as a psychotherapist (I have a Ph.D. in Psychology), group leader, bodyworker, and teacher of spiritual deepening practices, integrating the physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual in my practice. Most weekends these days I&#039;m leading groups or trainings.

Evolving in fitting parallel with this has been my writing, which is as much a passion for me as facilitating deep groupwork. I&#039;ve authored eight books, including Divine Dynamite, Darkness Shining Wild, and, most recently, Transformation Through Intimacy. My essays have appeared in magazines ranging from Magical Blend to the Journal of Transpersonal Psychology, as well as in several anthologies. And running rampant through all my writing is my poetry, keeping my prose on its toes.</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:duration>25:34</itunes:duration>
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		<title>TNM 012: Dan Taslitz Pt 2 &#8211; The Warrior&#8217;s Journey, Returning from Iraq</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/02/tnm-012-the-warriors-journey-returning-from-iraq-part-2/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Feb 2008 12:34:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;The willow which bends to the tempest, often escapes better than the oak which resists it; and so in great calamities, it sometimes happens that light and frivolous spirits recover their elasticity and presence of mind sooner than those of a loftier character.&#8221; &#8211; Albert Schweitzer</p>
<p>In Part 2 of our conversation with Dan Taslitz, we hear about Dan&#8217;s experience coming home from Iraq and how he transitioned back to civilian life.</p>
<p>Dan has developed a system to convert stress into true strength and teaches men the power of vulnerability, learning to bend with resilience and not break in rigidity.</p>
<p>Listen as Dan gives us a glimpse of his life as a soldier.  He then shows us his new life as a leader and compassionate warrior helping others resource their trauma to find true strength.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.onefreedom.org" target="_blank"><strong>Visit OneFreedom.org</strong></a></p>
<p><strong><span id="more-154"></span>About Dan Taslitz</strong></p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-708" title="dantaslitz" src="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/02/dantaslitz.jpg" alt="dantaslitz" width="200" height="249" />Dan Taslitz, USMC, Reconnaissance, Tour in Iraq, served seven years in the United States Marine Corps as a Reconnaissance Team Leader. This included a combat tour in Iraq where his team&#8217;s missions included reconnaissance and surveillance, counter-IDF, counter-IED, cache search and destroy, direct action assaults and raids, HVT search and detentions, counter-ambush and presence patrols. Among Sgt Taslitz&#8217;s awards are&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/02/tnm-012-the-warriors-journey-returning-from-iraq-part-2/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>&quot;The willow which bends to the tempest, often escapes better than the oak which resists it; and so in great calamities, it sometimes happens that light and frivolous spirits recover their elasticity and presence of mind sooner than those of a loftier c...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>&quot;The willow which bends to the tempest, often escapes better than the oak which resists it; and so in great calamities, it sometimes happens that light and frivolous spirits recover their elasticity and presence of mind sooner than those of a loftier character.&quot; - Albert Schweitzer

In Part 2 of our conversation with Dan Taslitz, we hear about Dan&#039;s experience coming home from Iraq and how he transitioned back to civilian life.

Dan has developed a system to convert stress into true strength and teaches men the power of vulnerability, learning to bend with resilience and not break in rigidity.

Listen as Dan gives us a glimpse of his life as a soldier.  He then shows us his new life as a leader and compassionate warrior helping others resource their trauma to find true strength.

Visit OneFreedom.org

About Dan Taslitz

Dan Taslitz, USMC, Reconnaissance, Tour in Iraq, served seven years in the United States Marine Corps as a Reconnaissance Team Leader. This included a combat tour in Iraq where his team&#039;s missions included reconnaissance and surveillance, counter-IDF, counter-IED, cache search and destroy, direct action assaults and raids, HVT search and detentions, counter-ambush and presence patrols. Among Sgt Taslitz&#039;s awards are the Navy and Marine Corps Achievement Medal with combat &#039;V&#039; device and the Combat Action Ribbon. As a Reconnaissance Marine he is also qualified in Airborne operations and as a Marine Combatant Diver.

Prior to entering military service, Mr. Taslitz spent ten years as a senior faculty member with the National Outdoor Leadership School. In this capacity he was an expedition leader in remote wilderness settings around the globe that included operating in mountains, deserts and oceans throughout North America, in Central America and in Africa. He is an experienced high-altitude mountaineer and wilderness guide.

Visit OneFreedom.org

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		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
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		<title>TNM 011: Dan Taslitz Pt 1 &#8211; The Warrior&#8217;s Journey, From Trauma to Strength</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/02/tnm-011-the-warriors-journey-from-trauma-to-strength-part-1/</link>
		<comments>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/02/tnm-011-the-warriors-journey-from-trauma-to-strength-part-1/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Feb 2008 00:01:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">452 at http://www.fallingfruit.tv</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[<p>Dan Taslitz is a war veteran.  He served on the front lines in the Iraq war in a Marine reconnaissance unit withstanding some of the most high stress, high pressure situation</p>
<p>When someone goes through an experience like this, their brain and body adapt in order to survive.</p>
<p>How does that adaptation translate into normal life when a soldier, like Dan, returns from the battlefield?</p>
<p>It&#8217;s not always easy.</p>
<p>Dan paid close attention to his experience and the changes that were occurring for him.  He made a successful transition back into society, translating his stress into strength.  He has developed an intimate understanding of the traumatic experience.</p>
<p>He brings this wisdom to his work with OneFreedom.org to help integrate soldiers into society after their service in battle.  Dan helps soldiers resource their strength and learn to adapt in the face of challenges.</p>
<p>Listen as Dan shares his warrior&#8217;s journey through intensity towards integration.</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.onefreedom.org" target="_blank">Visit OneFreedom.org</a></strong></p>
<p><span id="more-155"></span><strong>About Dan Taslitz</strong></p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-708" title="dantaslitz" src="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/02/dantaslitz.jpg" alt="dantaslitz" width="200" height="249" />Dan Taslitz, USMC, Reconnaissance, Tour in Iraq, served seven years in the United States Marine Corps as a Reconnaissance Team Leader. This included a combat tour in Iraq where his team&#8217;s missions included reconnaissance and surveillance, counter-IDF, counter-IED, cache search and destroy,&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/02/tnm-011-the-warriors-journey-from-trauma-to-strength-part-1/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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			<itunes:keywords>Fear,Rites of Passage</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:subtitle>Dan Taslitz is a war veteran.  He served on the front lines in the Iraq war in a Marine reconnaissance unit withstanding some of the most high stress, high pressure situation - When someone goes through an experience like this,</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Dan Taslitz is a war veteran.  He served on the front lines in the Iraq war in a Marine reconnaissance unit withstanding some of the most high stress, high pressure situation

When someone goes through an experience like this, their brain and body adapt in order to survive.

How does that adaptation translate into normal life when a soldier, like Dan, returns from the battlefield?

It&#039;s not always easy.

Dan paid close attention to his experience and the changes that were occurring for him.  He made a successful transition back into society, translating his stress into strength.  He has developed an intimate understanding of the traumatic experience.

He brings this wisdom to his work with OneFreedom.org to help integrate soldiers into society after their service in battle.  Dan helps soldiers resource their strength and learn to adapt in the face of challenges.

Listen as Dan shares his warrior&#039;s journey through intensity towards integration.

Visit OneFreedom.org

About Dan Taslitz

Dan Taslitz, USMC, Reconnaissance, Tour in Iraq, served seven years in the United States Marine Corps as a Reconnaissance Team Leader. This included a combat tour in Iraq where his team&#039;s missions included reconnaissance and surveillance, counter-IDF, counter-IED, cache search and destroy, direct action assaults and raids, HVT search and detentions, counter-ambush and presence patrols. Among Sgt Taslitz&#039;s awards are the Navy and Marine Corps Achievement Medal with combat &#039;V&#039; device and the Combat Action Ribbon. As a Reconnaissance Marine he is also qualified in Airborne operations and as a Marine Combatant Diver.

Prior to entering military service, Mr. Taslitz spent ten years as a senior faculty member with the National Outdoor Leadership School. In this capacity he was an expedition leader in remote wilderness settings around the globe that included operating in mountains, deserts and oceans throughout North America, in Central America and in Africa. He is an experienced high-altitude mountaineer and wilderness guide.

Visit OneFreedom.org

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		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:duration>30:00</itunes:duration>
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		<title>TNM 006: Jayson Gaddis Pt 3 &#8211; Is it Necessary to Get Close to Death to Live Life?</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/01/tnm-006-is-it-necessary-to-get-close-to-death-to-live-life/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jan 2008 11:46:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">386 at http://www.fallingfruit.tv</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[<p>In the final episode of our three-part in-depth conversation with Jayson Gaddis we explore the deepest truths of men&#8217;s Rite of Passage work and how we can bring this truth to our everyday lives.</p>
<p>What happens when we step out of our &#8220;safe zone&#8221; and why are some constantly chasing the adrenaline rush of danger?</p>
<p>Jayson talks with us about the power of stepping out of this &#8220;safe zone&#8221; and how embracing our &#8220;edge&#8221; can become a practice in our lives.</p>
<p><span id="more-160"></span><strong>About Jayson Gaddis, Creator of Revolutionary Man</strong></p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-729" title="g-jayson-gaddis-2569-SM" src="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/01/g-jayson-gaddis-2569-SM.jpg" alt="g-jayson-gaddis-2569-SM" width="178" height="171" />Jayson Gaddis, LPC, is an expert in male psychology. He’s a life and relationship coach and CEO of Revolutionary Man, a company devoted to men in their 20’s and 30’s (and often men in their 40’s) who are committed to going beyond mainstream, status quo Manhood and men who are committed to reaching fulfillment in ALL areas of their life. Jayson believes that when guys can master their own inner psychology, anything is possible.</p>
<p>He began this work as a leadership consultant traveling the country helping young men lead more effectively. Jayson has led over 25 wilderness rites-of-passage trips with men of all ages. He spent over ten years working with at-risk&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/01/tnm-006-is-it-necessary-to-get-close-to-death-to-live-life/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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			<itunes:keywords>Fear,Passion,Purpose,Rites of Passage</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:subtitle>In the final episode of our three-part in-depth conversation with Jayson Gaddis we explore the deepest truths of men&#039;s Rite of Passage work and how we can bring this truth to our everyday lives. - What happens when we step out of our &quot;safe zone&quot; and wh...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>In the final episode of our three-part in-depth conversation with Jayson Gaddis we explore the deepest truths of men&#039;s Rite of Passage work and how we can bring this truth to our everyday lives.

What happens when we step out of our &quot;safe zone&quot; and why are some constantly chasing the adrenaline rush of danger?

Jayson talks with us about the power of stepping out of this &quot;safe zone&quot; and how embracing our &quot;edge&quot; can become a practice in our lives.

About Jayson Gaddis, Creator of Revolutionary Man

Jayson Gaddis, LPC, is an expert in male psychology. Heâs a life and relationship coach and CEO of Revolutionary Man, a company devoted to men in their 20âs and 30âs (and often men in their 40âs) who are committed to going beyond mainstream, status quo Manhood and men who are committed to reaching fulfillment in ALL areas of their life. Jayson believes that when guys can master their own inner psychology, anything is possible.

He began this work as a leadership consultant traveling the country helping young men lead more effectively. Jayson has led over 25 wilderness rites-of-passage trips with men of all ages. He spent over ten years working with at-risk youth in a variety of settings. Heâs an adventurer at heart and has climbed some of the countryâs tallest peaks and used to spend over 200 days per year sleeping on the earth, working in the Wilderness.</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:duration>16:53</itunes:duration>
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		<title>TNM 005: Jayson Gaddis Pt 2 &#8211; How Does a Rite of Passage Affect the Rest of Your Life?</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2007/12/tnm-005-how-does-a-rite-of-passage-affect-the-rest-of-your-life/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Dec 2007 14:10:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">334 at http://www.fallingfruit.tv</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[<p>How does rite of passage affect the rest of your life?</p>
<p>Are you really alive?</p>
<p>So you&#8217;ve experienced your Rite of Passage, you&#8217;re speaking to your animal spirits, now what? <img src='http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Jayson gives us some suggestions on how to take your insight back into the world and how to stay connected to your highest self throughout your life.</p>
<p>What is the Rite of Passage really about?</p>
<p>Are you in touch with the fact that one day you will die?</p>
<p>Popular culture often hints at the kind of initiation into manhood we are talking about.  War films, coming of age tales and hero stories are often built around a man&#8217;s Rite of Passage in some way. &#8220;Fight Club&#8221; pointed to the problem, but didn&#8217;t really offer a workable solution.  The film &#8220;Into the Wild&#8221; is Jayson&#8217;s favorite Rite of Passage story, and every man with these questions should check it out.</p>
<p><span id="more-161"></span><strong>About Jayson Gaddis, Creator of Revolutionary Man</strong></p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-729" title="g-jayson-gaddis-2569-SM" src="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/01/g-jayson-gaddis-2569-SM.jpg" alt="g-jayson-gaddis-2569-SM" width="178" height="171" />Jayson Gaddis, LPC, is an expert in male psychology. He’s a life and relationship coach and CEO of Revolutionary Man, a company devoted to men in their 20’s and 30’s (and often men in their 40’s) who are&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2007/12/tnm-005-how-does-a-rite-of-passage-affect-the-rest-of-your-life/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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			<itunes:keywords>Fear,Passion,Purpose,Rites of Passage</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:subtitle>How does rite of passage affect the rest of your life? - Are you really alive? - So you&#039;ve experienced your Rite of Passage, you&#039;re speaking to your animal spirits, now what? ;-) - Jayson gives us some suggestions on how to take your insight back into ...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>How does rite of passage affect the rest of your life?

Are you really alive?

So you&#039;ve experienced your Rite of Passage, you&#039;re speaking to your animal spirits, now what? ;-)

Jayson gives us some suggestions on how to take your insight back into the world and how to stay connected to your highest self throughout your life.

What is the Rite of Passage really about?

Are you in touch with the fact that one day you will die?

Popular culture often hints at the kind of initiation into manhood we are talking about.  War films, coming of age tales and hero stories are often built around a man&#039;s Rite of Passage in some way. &quot;Fight Club&quot; pointed to the problem, but didn&#039;t really offer a workable solution.  The film &quot;Into the Wild&quot; is Jayson&#039;s favorite Rite of Passage story, and every man with these questions should check it out.

About Jayson Gaddis, Creator of Revolutionary Man

Jayson Gaddis, LPC, is an expert in male psychology. Heâs a life and relationship coach and CEO of Revolutionary Man, a company devoted to men in their 20âs and 30âs (and often men in their 40âs) who are committed to going beyond mainstream, status quo Manhood and men who are committed to reaching fulfillment in ALL areas of their life. Jayson believes that when guys can master their own inner psychology, anything is possible.

He began this work as a leadership consultant traveling the country helping young men lead more effectively. Jayson has led over 25 wilderness rites-of-passage trips with men of all ages. He spent over ten years working with at-risk youth in a variety of settings. Heâs an adventurer at heart and has climbed some of the countryâs tallest peaks and used to spend over 200 days per year sleeping on the earth, working in the Wilderness.</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
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		<title>TNM 004: Jayson Gaddis Pt 1 &#8211; Join a Fraternity! Be All That You Can Be! Now You&#8217;re a Man, Right?</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2007/12/tnm-004-join-a-fraternity-be-all-that-you-can-be-now-youre-a-man-right/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Dec 2007 16:44:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Is joining a fraternity a necessary part of a man&#8217;s development?</p>
<p>Well, maybe.  College fraternities are addressing a genuine need all young men feel—the need for a transition from childhood into being accepted as a grown man.  The problem is that they are doing a poor job of meeting that need with a genuine and healthy &#8220;Rite of Passage.&#8221;</p>
<p>This week Tripp and Casey sit down with Jayson Gaddis and talk about the Rite of Passage concept and its absence in modern western culture.</p>
<p>With no Rite of Passage, men miss out on an essential ingredient to their healthy development.  Jayson points out that the typical pattern of following the &#8220;shoulds&#8221; in life and not getting in touch with our true purpose is almost epidemic.  &#8220;It&#8217;s a recipe for a midlife crisis,&#8221; he says.</p>
<p><span id="more-162"></span><strong>About Jayson Gaddis, Creator of Revolutionary Man</strong></p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-729" title="g-jayson-gaddis-2569-SM" src="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/01/g-jayson-gaddis-2569-SM.jpg" alt="g-jayson-gaddis-2569-SM" width="178" height="171" />Jayson Gaddis, LPC, is an expert in male psychology. He’s a life and relationship coach and CEO of Revolutionary Man, a company devoted to men in their 20’s and 30’s (and often men in their 40’s) who are committed to going beyond mainstream, status quo Manhood and men who are committed to reaching fulfillment in ALL areas of their&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2007/12/tnm-004-join-a-fraternity-be-all-that-you-can-be-now-youre-a-man-right/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>Is joining a fraternity a necessary part of a man&#039;s development? - Well, maybe.  College fraternities are addressing a genuine need all young men feelâthe need for a transition from childhood into being accepted as a grown man.</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Is joining a fraternity a necessary part of a man&#039;s development?

Well, maybe.  College fraternities are addressing a genuine need all young men feelâthe need for a transition from childhood into being accepted as a grown man.  The problem is that they are doing a poor job of meeting that need with a genuine and healthy &quot;Rite of Passage.&quot;

This week Tripp and Casey sit down with Jayson Gaddis and talk about the Rite of Passage concept and its absence in modern western culture.

With no Rite of Passage, men miss out on an essential ingredient to their healthy development.  Jayson points out that the typical pattern of following the &quot;shoulds&quot; in life and not getting in touch with our true purpose is almost epidemic.  &quot;It&#039;s a recipe for a midlife crisis,&quot; he says.

About Jayson Gaddis, Creator of Revolutionary Man

Jayson Gaddis, LPC, is an expert in male psychology. Heâs a life and relationship coach and CEO of Revolutionary Man, a company devoted to men in their 20âs and 30âs (and often men in their 40âs) who are committed to going beyond mainstream, status quo Manhood and men who are committed to reaching fulfillment in ALL areas of their life. Jayson believes that when guys can master their own inner psychology, anything is possible.

He began this work as a leadership consultant traveling the country helping young men lead more effectively. Jayson has led over 25 wilderness rites-of-passage trips with men of all ages. He spent over ten years working with at-risk youth in a variety of settings. Heâs an adventurer at heart and has climbed some of the countryâs tallest peaks and used to spend over 200 days per year sleeping on the earth, working in the Wilderness.</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
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