The New Man Podcast » MKP http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com Advice for Men on Relationships, Dating, Sex, Career, Money, Power, Purpose, Inner Game & Fitness Wed, 28 Jul 2010 02:57:18 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 en hourly 1 http://feeds.feedburner.com/TheNewMan The New Man Podcast is a 30 minute, interview-style show that provides an entertaining and often humorous way to get real world, practical advice on every area of a man's life: relationships, sex, dating, career, money, power, purpose, inner game and fitness. The New Man Podcast dives into the topics guys are hungry to explore but typically only discuss after a few beers. In a nutshell, The New Man Podcast is personal development for guys who think self development is for pussies. The New Man is for guys who want to attract the right woman without playing "Pickup Artist" games or seduction tricks. We explore how to have an exciting sex life while learning how to navigate the sticky world of relationships. The New Man helps men break out of their confining job and get paid to do what they love. A common theme in all shows is to help guys quit settling for less, find their purpose and live a passionate, meaningful life. How is this done? By getting a handle on fear and stop letting emotions get in the way. The New Man helps guys develop the best physical and mental practices to live a life with brains, heart, guts and balls. A sample of guests who have appeared on The New Man: Ken Wilber, Dan Millman, Marcus Buckingham, Steve Pavlina, Shawn Phillips, Bill Harris, AJ Jacobs, Vernon Reid, Joel Harper, Sean Stephenson and Derek Sivers. Tripp Lanier yes Tripp Lanier TNMPodcast@gmail.com TNMPodcast@gmail.com (Tripp Lanier) The New Man Podcast, Tripp Lanier & Lanier Creative Services, Inc. Beyond the Macho Jerk and the New Age Wimp Integral, PUA, Purpose, Meditation, Advice, Men, Spirituality, Career, Sex, Money, Development, Fitness, The New Man Podcast » MKP http://thenewmanpodcast.com/images/TNMP-Icon.jpg http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com TNM 066: Tripp Lanier Pt 2 – You Can’t F**k it Up and You Can’t Get it Right http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/06/tnm-066-tripp-lanier-pt-2-you-cant-it-up-and-you-cant-get-it-right/ http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/06/tnm-066-tripp-lanier-pt-2-you-cant-it-up-and-you-cant-get-it-right/#comments Tue, 09 Jun 2009 02:00:00 +0000 TheNewMan http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/47948-tripp-lanier-pt-2-t-up-t-get We rejoin the discussion with Tripp Lanier as he shares a powerful story about an exchange with Zen Master Jun Po Roshi.

Ray Brejcha and Tripp talk about the dangers of becoming a “wound worshipper”, how your wariness makes others wary of you and how your secrets ultimately own you.

Also, listen as the benefits of getting real with your fears and the transformation of sharing them with others is revealed.

In this episode:

  • The gift of being smacked with a stick
  • A valuable lesson from Jun Po
  • Living a paradox
  • “You can’t fuck it up and you can’t get it right”
  • Working so hard to get it right and not screw it up
  • Play full out and have fun with the screw ups
  • Sacred Laughter
  • Learning to recognize when you feel less whole
  • What gets in the way of your potential
  • Shadow work mixed with meditation
  • Waiting to open up until you trust someone
  • Wariness begets wariness
  • Trying to protect yourself actually pushes people away
  • Being less approachable, intimidating
  • Pushing away people that actually want to help
  • Becoming a retreat, seminar or workshop junkie
  • How to melt shame
  • Terminal uniqueness Making things less significant without being dismissive
  • Don’t

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]]> http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/06/tnm-066-tripp-lanier-pt-2-you-cant-it-up-and-you-cant-get-it-right/feed/ 0 Inner Game,Meditation,MKP We rejoin the discussion with Tripp Lanier as he shares a powerful story about an exchange with Zen Master Jun Po Roshi. - Ray Brejcha and Tripp talk about the dangers of becoming a “wound worshipper”, how your wariness makes others wary of you and... We rejoin the discussion with Tripp Lanier as he shares a powerful story about an exchange with Zen Master Jun Po Roshi. Ray Brejcha and Tripp talk about the dangers of becoming a “wound worshipper”, how your wariness makes others wary of you and how your secrets ultimately own you. Also, listen as the benefits of getting real with your fears and the transformation of sharing them with others is revealed. In this episode: The gift of being smacked with a stick A valuable lesson from Jun Po Living a paradox “You can’t fuck it up and you can’t get it right” Working so hard to get it right and not screw it up Play full out and have fun with the screw ups Sacred Laughter Learning to recognize when you feel less whole What gets in the way of your potential Shadow work mixed with meditation Waiting to open up until you trust someone Wariness begets wariness Trying to protect yourself actually pushes people away Being less approachable, intimidating Pushing away people that actually want to help Becoming a retreat, seminar or workshop junkie How to melt shame Terminal uniqueness Making things less significant without being dismissive Don’t be a wound worshipper Your secrets kill you -- get them “out there”It’s not that bad when you put it out there Having your friends help you see what is driving you What are you scared of? What are you defending yourself against? Notice what you’re avoiding. Can you be playful with that? Tell someone what you’re scared of Being more trustworthy The energy drain of “keeping it all together” Where the juice, depth and meaning in life is for you Tripp Lanier yes 20:58 TNM 065: Tripp Lanier Pt 1 – The Dangers of “Not Enough” http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/06/tnm-065-tripp-lanier-the-dangers-of-not-enough/ http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/06/tnm-065-tripp-lanier-the-dangers-of-not-enough/#comments Tue, 02 Jun 2009 02:00:00 +0000 TheNewMan http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/47947-tripp-lanier-dangers In this episode, the tables are turned and New Man host, Tripp Lanier is the one being interviewed. He recently stepped into a deeper level of practice, and guest interviewer Ray Brejcha prods and pokes to find out what is going on.

Tripp talks about his recent experiences, including The Mankind Project’s New Warrior Training Adventure as well as a 7-day Hollow Bones Zen Meditation retreat.

The discussion touches on life transitions, stepping into the unknown, and honoring your potential as a man. It also focuses on the deeper issues that lead to living a satisfied life when so much of our inner wiring is saying “not enough”.

In this episode:

  • Why Tripp hosts the show
  • Life Transition
  • Letting go of identities
  • Living with a boat anchor tied to the leg
  • Five years of darkness
  • Honoring your potential
  • Stepping into uncertainty
  • How to trust uncertainty
  • Walking out on to an icy lake
  • Feeling challenged by life and loving it
  • Following the feeling of being alive
  • Mankind Project New Warrior Training
  • Hollow Bones Zen Retreat
  • Resistance to mythopoetic men’s work
  • Iron John by Robert Bly
  • Jun Po Roshi
  • Goenka Vipassana
  • Part of me may die
  • Noticing where you’re guarded

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]]> http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/06/tnm-065-tripp-lanier-the-dangers-of-not-enough/feed/ 0 Inner Game,Meditation,MKP In this episode, the tables are turned and New Man host, Tripp Lanier is the one being interviewed. He recently stepped into a deeper level of practice, and guest interviewer Ray Brejcha prods and pokes to find out what is going on. In this episode, the tables are turned and New Man host, Tripp Lanier is the one being interviewed. He recently stepped into a deeper level of practice, and guest interviewer Ray Brejcha prods and pokes to find out what is going on. Tripp talks about his recent experiences, including The Mankind Project’s New Warrior Training Adventure as well as a 7-day Hollow Bones Zen Meditation retreat. The discussion touches on life transitions, stepping into the unknown, and honoring your potential as a man. It also focuses on the deeper issues that lead to living a satisfied life when so much of our inner wiring is saying “not enough”. In this episode: Why Tripp hosts the show Life Transition Letting go of identities Living with a boat anchor tied to the leg Five years of darkness Honoring your potential Stepping into uncertainty How to trust uncertainty Walking out on to an icy lake Feeling challenged by life and loving it Following the feeling of being alive Mankind Project New Warrior Training Hollow Bones Zen Retreat Resistance to mythopoetic men’s work Iron John by Robert Bly Jun Po Roshi Goenka Vipassana Part of me may die Noticing where you’re guarded Being less open Being defensive Boundaries vs Resistance or a Wall Not being able to receive compliments or gratitude“Don’t beat your own drum”Missing out on receiving love and appreciation Hitting the wall Fear of never being satisfied Not enough -- No matter what I do it won’t be enough Not able to celebrate success Wanting to feel more secure in the face of the unknown Meditation -- the part of you that can’t be taken away or destroyed Cultivating a sense within that is secure Will I still be ok? Confronting the hard realities of life and still being ok The TaoSamadhiSoul exfoliation -- peeling off layers Getting cooked Sitting in resistance Tripp Lanier yes 21:48 TNM 035: Ed Fell – The Mankind Project http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/10/tnm-035-ed-fell-the-mankind-project/ http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/10/tnm-035-ed-fell-the-mankind-project/#comments Tue, 28 Oct 2008 02:09:00 +0000 TheNewMan http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/20576-ed-fell-mankind How much bullshit are you tolerating?

Are there things you wish you could do before you die, but are not getting around to them?

Are you tolerating a life that you never thought you would have, feeling that there is no way to change things?

Ed Fell wants to help us out.

As a longtime member of The Mankind Project, Ed points to the fact that men have no initiation ceremonies in American culture and often drift through life, unsure of themselves as a result.

We have heard several times on the New Man about the importance of initiation ceremony.

The Mankind Project is dedicated to giving men a healthy initiation to manhood and giving us an experience of who we truly are and what it feels like to be our authentic selves. From that experience of initiation, The Mankind Project offers a close network of support and challenge, to help men live their lives to the fullest.

The last item on that “bucket list” might just be the journey inward, to really get to know ourselves.

About Ed Fell

g-ed-fell-SMEd Fell, M.S. is a Master Psychotherapist, relationship and sex coach, Sacred Sexuality educator, workshop facilitator, writer and Certified Leader and… Click here to read the rest...

]]> http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/10/tnm-035-ed-fell-the-mankind-project/feed/ 0 Men's Groups,MKP,Passion,Purpose How much bullshit are you tolerating? - Are there things you wish you could do before you die, but are not getting around to them? - Are you tolerating a life that you never thought you would have, feeling that there is no way to change things? How much bullshit are you tolerating? Are there things you wish you could do before you die, but are not getting around to them? Are you tolerating a life that you never thought you would have, feeling that there is no way to change things? Ed Fell wants to help us out. As a longtime member of The Mankind Project, Ed points to the fact that men have no initiation ceremonies in American culture and often drift through life, unsure of themselves as a result. We have heard several times on the New Man about the importance of initiation ceremony. The Mankind Project is dedicated to giving men a healthy initiation to manhood and giving us an experience of who we truly are and what it feels like to be our authentic selves. From that experience of initiation, The Mankind Project offers a close network of support and challenge, to help men live their lives to the fullest. The last item on that "bucket list" might just be the journey inward, to really get to know ourselves. About Ed Fell Ed Fell, M.S. is a Master Psychotherapist, relationship and sex coach, Sacred Sexuality educator, workshop facilitator, writer and Certified Leader and Leader trainer with the Mankind Project International. He welcomes both phone and in-person clients. Ed is about evolution, authentic living and loving, transformation, self-inquiry and a disciplined commitment to the truth. He inspires play, laughter and living with purpose with whomever he touches in his work and life. You can email him at edefell@aol.com or call @ 720-352-5333. Tripp Lanier yes 28:16 TNM 015: Thresholds Passages – Have You Lost Your Teenage Fire? http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/03/tnm-015-have-you-lost-your-teenage-fire/ http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/03/tnm-015-have-you-lost-your-teenage-fire/#comments Thu, 20 Mar 2008 11:04:00 +0000 TheNewMan 497 at http://www.fallingfruit.tv When does a boy become a man?

In more tribal times, the transition to adulthood for men was very clear. It was accompanied by support and ceremony and left no question in the minds of the boys or the tribe about status or responsibility.

Our modern social structure seems to have abandoned this support structure for transition, something we are learning is so essential for young men.

Threshold Passages is one organization that is changing that. Threshold Passages brings together young men on the path to adulthood, with willing mentors dedicated to helping these young men on their way. Together, these men and boys at varying stages of life, share wisdom, energy and support in the form of Adventure weekends and weekly group meetings.

This week we talk with Ed Lippolis, a program “mentor” at 39 years old and Patrick Hillman, a program “journeyman” at 16 years old. We get the perspective on both sides of this unique group mentoring program and hear about how important this program is in each of their lives.

Click here to learn more about Threshold Passages

]]> http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/03/tnm-015-have-you-lost-your-teenage-fire/feed/ 0 Mission,MKP,Parenting,Passion,Purpose When does a boy become a man? - In more tribal times, the transition to adulthood for men was very clear. It was accompanied by support and ceremony and left no question in the minds of the boys or the tribe about status or responsibility. When does a boy become a man? In more tribal times, the transition to adulthood for men was very clear. It was accompanied by support and ceremony and left no question in the minds of the boys or the tribe about status or responsibility. Our modern social structure seems to have abandoned this support structure for transition, something we are learning is so essential for young men. Threshold Passages is one organization that is changing that. Threshold Passages brings together young men on the path to adulthood, with willing mentors dedicated to helping these young men on their way. Together, these men and boys at varying stages of life, share wisdom, energy and support in the form of Adventure weekends and weekly group meetings. This week we talk with Ed Lippolis, a program "mentor" at 39 years old and Patrick Hillman, a program "journeyman" at 16 years old. We get the perspective on both sides of this unique group mentoring program and hear about how important this program is in each of their lives. Click here to learn more about Threshold Passages Tripp Lanier yes 30:17