The New Man Podcast » polyamory http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com Advice for Men on Relationships, Dating, Sex, Career, Money, Power, Purpose, Inner Game & Fitness Wed, 28 Jul 2010 02:57:18 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 en hourly 1 http://feeds.feedburner.com/TheNewMan The New Man Podcast is a 30 minute, interview-style show that provides an entertaining and often humorous way to get real world, practical advice on every area of a man's life: relationships, sex, dating, career, money, power, purpose, inner game and fitness. The New Man Podcast dives into the topics guys are hungry to explore but typically only discuss after a few beers. In a nutshell, The New Man Podcast is personal development for guys who think self development is for pussies. The New Man is for guys who want to attract the right woman without playing "Pickup Artist" games or seduction tricks. We explore how to have an exciting sex life while learning how to navigate the sticky world of relationships. The New Man helps men break out of their confining job and get paid to do what they love. A common theme in all shows is to help guys quit settling for less, find their purpose and live a passionate, meaningful life. How is this done? By getting a handle on fear and stop letting emotions get in the way. The New Man helps guys develop the best physical and mental practices to live a life with brains, heart, guts and balls. A sample of guests who have appeared on The New Man: Ken Wilber, Dan Millman, Marcus Buckingham, Steve Pavlina, Shawn Phillips, Bill Harris, AJ Jacobs, Vernon Reid, Joel Harper, Sean Stephenson and Derek Sivers. Tripp Lanier yes Tripp Lanier TNMPodcast@gmail.com TNMPodcast@gmail.com (Tripp Lanier) The New Man Podcast, Tripp Lanier & Lanier Creative Services, Inc. Beyond the Macho Jerk and the New Age Wimp Integral, PUA, Purpose, Meditation, Advice, Men, Spirituality, Career, Sex, Money, Development, Fitness, The New Man Podcast » polyamory http://thenewmanpodcast.com/images/TNMP-Icon.jpg http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com TNM 077: Kendra Cunov – What is Polyamory and How do Open Relationships Work? http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/08/tnm-077-kendra-cunov-what-is-polyamory-and-how-do-open-relationships-work/ http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/08/tnm-077-kendra-cunov-what-is-polyamory-and-how-do-open-relationships-work/#comments Tue, 25 Aug 2009 02:00:00 +0000 TheNewMan http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/50752-kendra-cunov-what-polyamory-how-do-open Is polyamory just a fancy word for sleeping around when you’re in a committed relationship?

Do all open relationships end in a self absorbed, sex-crazed disaster?

And what can you learn from the mother of a newborn who stayed home last night while her husband was on a date?

This week, Kendra Cunov is on The New Man to discuss her experience with polyamory and open relationships.Kendra is the mother of a newborn and also the wife in an open marriage. In this episode she talks about her extensive experience with polyamory and open relationships. You will not want to miss this interview.

In this episode:

  • What is Polyamory?
  • Open relationships
  • Open marriage and pregnancy
  • How to be parents and be in an open marriage
  • Not just for about the sex
  • Does wanting an open relationship mean something is wrong with your current relationship?
  • The number 1 pitfall of open relationships
  • What about jealousy?
  • Is having an open relationship a lot of work?
  • Why do open relationships fail?
  • What needs to be in place before a couple would try an open relationship?

kendraAbout Kendra Cunov — Coach, Seminar Leader and Co-founder of Authentic SF

Kendra Cunov is a… Click here to read the rest...

]]> http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/08/tnm-077-kendra-cunov-what-is-polyamory-and-how-do-open-relationships-work/feed/ 0 Dating,open relationships,polyamory,Relationships Is polyamory just a fancy word for sleeping around when you’re in a committed relationship? - Do all open relationships end in a self absorbed, sex-crazed disaster? - And what can you learn from the mother of a newborn who stayed home last night whil... Is polyamory just a fancy word for sleeping around when you’re in a committed relationship? Do all open relationships end in a self absorbed, sex-crazed disaster? And what can you learn from the mother of a newborn who stayed home last night while her husband was on a date? This week, Kendra Cunov is on The New Man to discuss her experience with polyamory and open relationships.Kendra is the mother of a newborn and also the wife in an open marriage. In this episode she talks about her extensive experience with polyamory and open relationships. You will not want to miss this interview. In this episode: What is Polyamory? Open relationships Open marriage and pregnancy How to be parents and be in an open marriage Not just for about the sex Does wanting an open relationship mean something is wrong with your current relationship? The number 1 pitfall of open relationships What about jealousy? Is having an open relationship a lot of work? Why do open relationships fail? What needs to be in place before a couple would try an open relationship? About Kendra Cunov -- Coach, Seminar Leader and Co-founder of Authentic SF Kendra Cunov is a co-founder of AuthenticSF, a personal development company committed to fostering authentic, flourishing relationship in the world.  As a coach & seminar leader, she is a unique blend -- Years of practice (and upbringing) in a Buddhist monastery with cutting edge community-building and relationship dynamics, inspiring a profoundly clear and open approach to working with people. Tripp Lanier yes 32:09 TNM 008: LiYana Silver Pt 2 – Is Pornography Great for a Relationship? http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/01/tnm-008-is-pornography-great-for-a-relationship/ http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/01/tnm-008-is-pornography-great-for-a-relationship/#comments Wed, 30 Jan 2008 18:41:00 +0000 TheNewMan 411 at http://www.fallingfruit.tv Porn is a part of nearly every man’s sexual life.

LiYana Silver points out that a little porn is good for spice here and there, but too much porn can be like junk-food — polluting our healthy relationships and distracting us from connection with our partne

She urges us to practice in the bedroom, giving our full energy to our partners.

LiYana then shares with us the key differences in how men and women open emotionally in relationship. Bringing a little consciousness to these differences is often enough to get through the hang-ups and into the true depths of connection.

If you are experiencing resistance to commitment, get in touch with what are you going to lose by entering into a committed relationship? “Get in touch with that, then we can work with it,” she says.

You can have something EXACTLY the way you want it.

There’s plenty of love to go around. Learn about the different styles of intimacy men and women bring to the table. Find out what absolutely has to be there if you want to take your relationship beyond monogamy.

Relationship lived in this way will call us to be our highest expression of a man.… Click here to read the rest...

]]> http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/01/tnm-008-is-pornography-great-for-a-relationship/feed/ 0 Dating,polyamory,Relationships,Sex Porn is a part of nearly every man's sexual life. - LiYana Silver points out that a little porn is good for spice here and there, but too much porn can be like junk-food -- polluting our healthy relationships and distracting us from connection with our... Porn is a part of nearly every man's sexual life. LiYana Silver points out that a little porn is good for spice here and there, but too much porn can be like junk-food -- polluting our healthy relationships and distracting us from connection with our partne She urges us to practice in the bedroom, giving our full energy to our partners. LiYana then shares with us the key differences in how men and women open emotionally in relationship. Bringing a little consciousness to these differences is often enough to get through the hang-ups and into the true depths of connection. If you are experiencing resistance to commitment, get in touch with what are you going to lose by entering into a committed relationship? "Get in touch with that, then we can work with it," she says. You can have something EXACTLY the way you want it. There's plenty of love to go around. Learn about the different styles of intimacy men and women bring to the table. Find out what absolutely has to be there if you want to take your relationship beyond monogamy. Relationship lived in this way will call us to be our highest expression of a man. About LiYana Silver LiYana has been a professional modern dancer for over 10 years in Europe, Israel and New York City, most notably with the Kibbutz Contemporary Dance Company and the Metropolitan Opera Ballet.  She is a Vinyasa yoga teacher and her oil paintings have been displayed upon the gallery walls the likes of Lincoln Center and an East Village tattoo store. Since 2001, she has had a private coaching practice, in which she works with those seeking a holistic and down to earth approach to relationships, nutrition and lifestyle. She has taught and lectured at numerous universities, corporations and institutions, including NASDAQ, the Institute for Integrative Nutrition, the School of Visual Arts, St. John's College, Marymount Manhattan, Baruch College, the Atlantic Theatre Company and The Juilliard School.  She writes a regular column for New York Spirit Magazine, "Enlightened Sex in the City." She has been in an exquisite relationship – “a co-created work of art” - with her boyfriend of five years. Her vast and varied experiences have served to clarify for her that intimate relationships are a powerful vehicle for extraordinary personal growth, and a sacred opportunity to dance with the biggest flirt of all, the divine. Tripp Lanier yes 27:27 TNM 007: LiYana Silver Pt 1 – Looking to Redefine Your Monogamous Relationship? http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/01/tnm-007-looking-to-redefine-your-monogamous-relationship/ http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/01/tnm-007-looking-to-redefine-your-monogamous-relationship/#comments Thu, 24 Jan 2008 18:51:00 +0000 TheNewMan 399 at http://www.fallingfruit.tv Every man has had wandering thoughts or wandering eyes at some point during his committed relationship. Most likely it happens every day!

Should we be avoiding these thoughts—repressing them so we don’t hurt our partners?

Absolutely not, according to LiYana Silver, it’s part of what makes you a ma

So why do our special ladies seem to get so pissed off about it?

It likely has to do with our ability to stay connected to them. If we can develop strong, healthy, constant connection to our partners, there is no limit to our freedom. We might even go so far as to take our relationship outside of the normal rules of monogamous commitment if that’s what we want to do, according to LiYana.

Listen as LiYana lets us in on the secret “Kryptonite” that melts the resistance and defensiveness of any woman in relationship to establish true, deep connection. This connection is liberating for men in relationship, as we will feel the reigns loosen through trust.

    About LiYana Silver

    g-liyana-silver-SMLiYana has been a professional modern dancer for over 10 years in Europe, Israel and New York City, most notably with the Kibbutz Contemporary Dance Company and the Metropolitan Opera… Click here to read the rest...

    ]]>     http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/01/tnm-007-looking-to-redefine-your-monogamous-relationship/feed/ 0 Dating,polyamory,Relationships,Sex Every man has had wandering thoughts or wandering eyes at some point during his committed relationship. Most likely it happens every day! - Should we be avoiding these thoughts—repressing them so we don't hurt our partners? - Absolutely not, Every man has had wandering thoughts or wandering eyes at some point during his committed relationship. Most likely it happens every day! Should we be avoiding these thoughts—repressing them so we don't hurt our partners? Absolutely not, according to LiYana Silver, it's part of what makes you a ma So why do our special ladies seem to get so pissed off about it? It likely has to do with our ability to stay connected to them. If we can develop strong, healthy, constant connection to our partners, there is no limit to our freedom. We might even go so far as to take our relationship outside of the normal rules of monogamous commitment if that's what we want to do, according to LiYana. Listen as LiYana lets us in on the secret "Kryptonite" that melts the resistance and defensiveness of any woman in relationship to establish true, deep connection. This connection is liberating for men in relationship, as we will feel the reigns loosen through trust. About LiYana Silver LiYana has been a professional modern dancer for over 10 years in Europe, Israel and New York City, most notably with the Kibbutz Contemporary Dance Company and the Metropolitan Opera Ballet. She is a Vinyasa yoga teacher and her oil paintings have been displayed upon the gallery walls the likes of Lincoln Center and an East Village tattoo store. Since 2001, she has had a private coaching practice, in which she works with those seeking a holistic and down to earth approach to relationships, nutrition and lifestyle. She has taught and lectured at numerous universities, corporations and institutions, including NASDAQ, the Institute for Integrative Nutrition, the School of Visual Arts, St. John's College, Marymount Manhattan, Baruch College, the Atlantic Theatre Company and The Juilliard School. She writes a regular column for New York Spirit Magazine, "Enlightened Sex in the City." She has been in an exquisite relationship – “a co-created work of art” - with her boyfriend of five years. Her vast and varied experiences have served to clarify for her that intimate relationships are a powerful vehicle for extraordinary personal growth, and a sacred opportunity to dance with the biggest flirt of all, the divine. Tripp Lanier yes 13:14