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	<title>The New Man Podcast &#187; Purpose</title>
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	<itunes:summary>The New Man Podcast is a 30 minute, interview-style show that provides an entertaining and often humorous way to get real world, practical advice on every area of a man&#039;s life: relationships, sex, dating, career, money, power, purpose, inner game and fitness.

The New Man Podcast dives into the topics guys are hungry to explore but typically only discuss after a few beers. In a nutshell, The New Man Podcast is personal development for guys who think self development is for pussies.

The New Man is for guys who want to attract the right woman without playing &quot;Pickup Artist&quot; games or seduction tricks. We explore how to have an exciting sex life while learning how to navigate the sticky world of relationships. The New Man helps men break out of their confining job and get paid to do what they love. A common theme in all shows is to help guys quit settling for less, find their purpose and live a passionate, meaningful life. How is this done? By getting a handle on fear and stop letting emotions get in the way. The New Man helps guys develop the best physical and mental practices to live a life with brains, heart, guts and balls.

A sample of guests who have appeared on The New Man: Ken Wilber, Dan Millman, Marcus Buckingham, Steve Pavlina, Shawn Phillips, Bill Harris, AJ Jacobs, Vernon Reid, Joel Harper, Sean Stephenson and Derek Sivers.</itunes:summary>
	<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
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	<itunes:subtitle>Beyond the Macho Jerk and the New Age Wimp</itunes:subtitle>
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		<title>Kute Blackson&#8217;s &#8220;Miracle&#8221; Video &#8212; How did they do it?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Jun 2010 15:38:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Soul brother, <strong><a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/?s=Kute+blackson&#38;submit=Search">Kute Blackson</a></strong> has just released an amazing video for his spoken word song, <strong>&#8220;Miracle.&#8221;</strong></p>
<p><strong> </strong>I&#8217;ve watched it several times and I keep asking myself, <strong>&#8220;How did they do THAT?&#8221;</strong></p>
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<h3><a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/?s=Kute+blackson&#38;submit=Search">Click here to listen to Kute Blackson&#8217;s New Man Podcast interviews</a></h3>
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		<title>TNM 098: Clay Collins &#8211; How to Quit Your Day Job Without Losing Your Ass</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Jun 2010 21:00:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<h3>Clay Collins, <a href="http://www.1shoppingcart.com/app/?af=1196463">The Interactive Offer</a> &#38; How to Quit Your Day Job Without Losing Your Ass</h3>
<p>Are you stuck in a job but too afraid to risk starting your own gig?</p>
<p>Do you think entrepreneurs have brass balls and are somehow immune to risk?</p>
<p>And do you think that before you can bring your idea to the world, you’ve got to spend years honing it in isolation until its absolutely perfect?</p>
<p>Clay Collins is back on The New Man (<a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/07/tnm-072-clay-collins-how-to-follow-your-purpose-and-pay-the-bills/">here’s his first interview</a>). We’re talking about how a guy like you can finally bust out of that crap job to create a better life for yourself without having to put it all on the line.</p>
<h3>In this episode:</h3>
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<li>What is <a href="http://www.1shoppingcart.com/app/?af=1196463">the Interactive Offer</a>?</li>
<li>Why most businesses are dead before they see the light of day</li>
<li>Why your excuses for staying stuck are fantasies</li>
<li>How your friends help you stay stuck</li>
<li>Are entrepreneurs adrenaline junkies?</li>
<li>Do you need to be a superhero before you can do your own thing?</li>
<li>What if you don’t have a good idea or direction?</li>
<li>What if you don’t know if your idea will sell?</li>
<li>How a badass Taoist general is going to</li></ul><p>&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/06/clay-collins-interactive-offer/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>Clay Collins, The Interactive Offer &amp; How to Quit Your Day Job Without Losing Your Ass Are you stuck in a job but too afraid to risk starting your own gig? - Do you think entrepreneurs have brass balls and are somehow immune to risk?</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Clay Collins, The Interactive Offer &amp; How to Quit Your Day Job Without Losing Your Ass
Are you stuck in a job but too afraid to risk starting your own gig?

Do you think entrepreneurs have brass balls and are somehow immune to risk?

And do you think that before you can bring your idea to the world, youâve got to spend years honing it in isolation until its absolutely perfect?

Clay Collins is back on The New Man (hereâs his first interview). Weâre talking about how a guy like you can finally bust out of that crap job to create a better life for yourself without having to put it all on the line.
In this episode:

	What is the Interactive Offer?
	Why most businesses are dead before they see the light of day
	Why your excuses for staying stuck are fantasies
	How your friends help you stay stuck
	Are entrepreneurs adrenaline junkies?
	Do you need to be a superhero before you can do your own thing?
	What if you donât have a good idea or direction?
	What if you donât know if your idea will sell?
	How a badass Taoist general is going to help you live an amazing life

About Clay Collins and The Interactive Offer
From Clayâs website:

I am a fulltime internet marketer from Minneapolis who does business in three niches.

I aim to live my life in a way that is fundamentally oriented towards maximum contribution and making the world a better place.

I strive to live in a manner that renders this statement true:Â everything I do is oriented towards helping people generously feed their families while following their deepest purposes.

I have a vision for a world where every person can be their own boss and secure â at the very minimum â an $80K+ income while working from home.Â I have a vision for a world where people do not have to choose between being their own masters and feeding their families. And I pursue this vision because I believe entrepreneurship is one of the most powerful enablers of self-improvement.
Click here to learn more about The Interactive Offer
Full Disclosure: the links to the Interactive Offer on this page are affiliate links which means that I will earn a commission for any sales resulting from clicking on this link. Since The New Man doesn&#039;t support third-party advertising, such offers provide a win-win-win for all involved. I recommend products and services I believe in, listeners benefit from these products and services and the provider benefits from the sale. By benefiting from these offerings you are also helping The New Man Podcast stay alive. Thank you for supporting The New Man!</itunes:summary>
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		<title>3 Questions to Take Advantage of Tripp</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/06/3-questions/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Jun 2010 15:00:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<h3>It&#8217;s summer time and I&#8217;m feeling FEISTY.</h3>
<p>I&#8217;m ready to create something really cool.</p>
<p>But&#8230;</p>
<p>I&#8217;m drawing a blank. I want to create a free product for you &#8212; a video or eBook &#8212; but I&#8217;m just not sure where to start. <strong>I don&#8217;t know what you want.</strong></p>
<h3>So now&#8217;s your chance to take advantage of me. <img src='http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </h3>
<p>Take a minute to answer these three quick questions and I&#8217;ll use your answers to create a killer free product&#8230;</p>
<p>AND you&#8217;ll get it absolutely free.</p>
<p>No catch. No BS.</p>
<p>Deal?</p>
<h3><strong>Answer These (3) Simple Questions</strong></h3>
<p><strong>QUESTION 1:</strong> With regards to helping you live a kickass life &#8212; better money, relationships, career, women, etc. &#8211; What free product would you love for me to create *just* for you?</p>
<p><strong>QUESTION 2:</strong> What is your biggest fear or frustration when it comes to living your best life?</p>
<p><strong>QUESTION 3:</strong> When you imagine living a kickass life, what&#8217;s your ideal *perfect* outcome? Describe the challenges you overcame, how you did it and what your ideal, perfect life looks like.</p>
<h3>Then&#8230;</h3>
<p>&#8211; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/contact/" target="_blank">Use this contact form</a> to send them my way (<a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/contact/" target="_blank">click here to pull up the contact form</a>)</p>
<p>&#8211; And I&#8217;ll use your answers to create a&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/06/3-questions/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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		<title>Should The New Man be on Oprah? You Decide</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Jun 2010 19:51:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<h3>Oprah and The New Man?</h3>
<p>It&#8217;s time for <strong>The New Man</strong> to go beyond the realm of <a href="http://thenewmanpodcast.com">podcasts</a> and into the big time.</p>
<p><strong>Oprah&#8217;s</strong> launching a new network called OWN soon and they&#8217;re looking for show ideas.</p>
<h3>Take these 3 simple steps to help The New Man be on TV:</h3>
<p>1. <strong><a href="http://myown.oprah.com/audition/index.html?request=video_details&#38;response_id=5012&#38;promo_id=1">CLICK HERE to watch Tripp interview Tripp</a></strong><a href="http://myown.oprah.com/audition/index.html?request=video_details&#38;response_id=5012&#38;promo_id=1">.</a> It&#8217;s a fun 3 minute video clip where Tripp interviews himself about The New Man and why it should be a TV show.</p>
<p>2. Make sure you <strong>hit the &#8220;VOTE&#8221; button</strong>.</p>
<p>3. <strong>Tell your friends</strong> to do what you just did via email, Twitter and Facebook.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s it!</p>
<p>Thanks so much for your help and hopefully we&#8217;ll see The New Man on the boobtube soon.</p>
<p>Again, just  <a href="http://myown.oprah.com/audition/index.html?request=video_details&#38;response_id=5012&#38;promo_id=1"><strong>CLICK HERE to watch Tripp interview Tripp</strong></a> and then vote. Thanks!</p>
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		<title>Make Money Doing What You Love</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/05/money-and-love/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Jun 2010 04:55:49 +0000</pubDate>
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<h3 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #000000;">&#62;&#62;</span> <a href="http://www.tripplanier.com/oneononeapp.php" target="_blank">Click here to fill out a Coaching Application</a></h3>
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		<title>Make Money Doing What You Love</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Jun 2010 04:47:52 +0000</pubDate>
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<h3>I Can Help You Make Money Doing What You Love</h3>
<p>That’s a bold statement. And I can back it up.</p>
<h3>Are These Two Things Kicking Your Ass?</h3>
<p>Everyday I get emails from listeners of The New Man Podcast &#8212; guys all over the world &#8212; who are struggling with the same, basic two things.</p>
<p><strong>(1) They want to live a life of purpose.</strong> They want to wake up each day and really give a damn. They want to know that their life is not a waste. They want to FEEL that what they do is actually meaningful. In other words, they want to LOVE their lives and what they DO.</p>
<p><strong>(2) Money, Finances, Scratch, Moolah, Dinero</strong><strong>.</strong> Maybe you’re making it, but you feel trapped in a job you can’t stand. You’re afraid to make a change for fear of ending up on the street. Or maybe things are a little tight and you can’t quite connect what you care about with the means to pay&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/05/money-love/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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		<title>TNM 096: Sarah Ingier &#8211; Live a Kickass Life When Life is Kicking Your Ass</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 25 May 2010 07:00:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<h3>Sarah Ingier &#8212; How to Live a Kickass Life When Life is Kicking Your Ass</h3>
<p>Do you feel like you’re climbing a mountain, and the damn thing is just getting steeper and more treacherous?</p>
<p>Does trying to make more money or create a life you really want feel like swimming against an invisible current?</p>
<p>And is it possible to <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/05/kickass-life-event/">live a kickass life when life is kicking your ass</a>?</p>
<p>This week, we’re going deep, Jedi. Listen in as Sarah Ingier and I lay out some simple steps to help YOU quit beating your head against the wall and create the life you really want.</p>
<p>In this episode:</p>
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<li>Weathering the storm</li>
<li>How to quit beating your head against the wall</li>
<li>Why the game is changing</li>
<li>The old way of creating doesn’t fit anymore</li>
<li>Living your purpose or calling</li>
<li>Polarity and how it affects your ability to create what you want</li>
<li>Why the guys who are lost and won’t ask for help are f’in idiots</li>
<li>How having more fun is going to help you create the life you really want easier and faster</li>
<li>One day event with Tripp and Sarah in Boulder on June 19th</li>
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<h3>About Sarah Ingier</h3><p>&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/05/kick-ass/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>Sarah Ingier -- How to Live a Kickass Life When Life is Kicking Your Ass Do you feel like youâre climbing a mountain, and the damn thing is just getting steeper and more treacherous? - Does trying to make more money or create a life you really want f...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Sarah Ingier -- How to Live a Kickass Life When Life is Kicking Your Ass
Do you feel like youâre climbing a mountain, and the damn thing is just getting steeper and more treacherous?

Does trying to make more money or create a life you really want feel like swimming against an invisible current?

And is it possible to live a kickass life when life is kicking your ass?

This week, weâre going deep, Jedi. Listen in as Sarah Ingier and I lay out some simple steps to help YOU quit beating your head against the wall and create the life you really want.

In this episode:

	Weathering the storm
	How to quit beating your head against the wall
	Why the game is changing
	The old way of creating doesnât fit anymore
	Living your purpose or calling
	Polarity and how it affects your ability to create what you want
	Why the guys who are lost and wonât ask for help are fâin idiots
	How having more fun is going to help you create the life you really want easier and faster
	One day event with Tripp and Sarah in Boulder on June 19th


About Sarah Ingier
A pioneer here to help humanity step into a more Soulful existence, Sarah is a highly impactful teacher and healer. She is a guide into the unknown parts of ourselves. Sarahâs progressive views on life, spirituality, and healing make her work extremely transformative.

Sarah has a beautiful blend of youthful innocence and piercing wisdom. Her highly developed clairvoyant and healing abilities help her to serve a wide range of people. From the most diligent spiritual seeker to the corporate executive, Sarah is a translator of information and a channel for healing.

Sarah travels around the world giving workshops and retreats, helping people to connect to more of who they are. When she is not traveling she has a private practice in Austin Texas, where she offers Clairvoyant readings and healings.

Sarah founded Presence Inc., a spiritually based business dedicated to help individuals, the planet, and culture step into a new era of greater alignment, greater peace, and greater healing. She is a core faculty member for the Kaiser institute, an organization committed to expanding consciousness within organizations and healthcare systems.
Click here to visit Sarah Ingierâs website.</itunes:summary>
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		<title>The Top 5 BEST New Man Podcasts</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 12 May 2010 18:29:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<h3>Are you new to The New Man?</h3>
<p>Not to worry, I&#8217;ve compiled this simple list of The Top 5 Best New Man Podcasts by category. Pick the one that interests you most&#8230;<span id="more-1581"></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #ffffff;">&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-</span></p>
<h2>Sex</h2>
<h3>Bryan Bayer: &#8220;Sexual Hangups and How to Overcome Them&#8221;</h3>
<p>Everybody&#8217;s got &#8216;em. So let&#8217;s talk about &#8216;em.</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #ff6600;">&#62;&#62;</span> <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/08/tnm-075-bryan-bayer-sexual-hang-ups-and-how-to-overcome-them/" target="_blank">Click here to listen</a></strong></p>
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<h2>Women</h2>
<h3>Alyson Schwabe &#38; Christiane Pelmas: &#8220;How to Navigate a Woman&#8217;s Emotional Minefield&#8221;</h3>
<p>I got so many emails from this one. It&#8217;s a game changer. We should&#8217;ve learned this stuff back in grade school. These shows saved marriages. Period.</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #ff6600;">&#62;&#62;</span></strong><strong> <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/07/tnm-073-pt-1-how-to-navigate-a-womans-emotional-minefield/" target="_blank">Click here for part 1</a></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #ff6600;">&#62;&#62;</span></strong><strong> <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/08/tnm-074-pt-2-how-to-navigate-a-womans-emotional-minefield/" target="_blank">Click here for part 2</a></strong></p>
<p><span style="color: #ffffff;">&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;</span></p>
<div><span style="color: #ffffff;">&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;
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<h2><strong>Purpose/Inner Game</strong></h2>
<h3><strong></strong><strong>Brian Johnson: &#8220;What Would You Do if You Weren&#8217;t Afraid&#8221; &#38; &#8220;Do You Have the Balls to Live the Life of Your Dreams?&#8221;</strong></h3>
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<p><span style="font-weight: normal;">Feeling stuck? Feeling uninspired? Listen to this pair of shows (they&#8217;re from a single interview) to light a fire under your ass. Brian Johnson, resident badass philosopher on The New Man lays it down. </span></p>
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<p></p></strong><strong><span style="color: #ff6600;">&#62;&#62;</span> </strong><a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/02/tnm-050-brian-johnson-what-would-you-do-if-you-werent-afraid/" target="_blank"><strong>Click here for part 1</strong></a>
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<p><strong><span style="color: #ff6600;">&#62;&#62;</span> </strong><a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/02/tnm-051-brian-johnson-pt2-do-you-have-the-balls-to-live-the-life-of-your-dreams/" target="_blank"><strong>Click here for part 2</strong></a></p>
<p><span style="color: #ffffff;">&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;</span></p>
<div><span style="color: #ffffff;"><strong>&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;</strong></span></div>
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<h2>Money/Career</h2>
<h3>Brent</h3><p>&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/05/best/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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		<title>The New Man Minute: How to Feel More Passionate About Your Life</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Apr 2010 02:01:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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<p>In this episode of The New Man Minute, Tripp shares a simple yet powerful tip for helping you find your passion and begin to ditch the stuff that is draining you. Inspired by Marcus Buckingham&#8217;s interview on The New Man Podcast.</p>
<h3><span style="color: #ff6600;">&#62;&#62;</span> <a href="http://thenewmanlife.com" target="_blank">Click here to check out The New Man Life</a></h3>
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		<title>TNM 091: Alex Linsley Pt 2 &#8211; How to Grow a Pair</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/02/tnm-091/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Feb 2010 08:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Are you able to say what it is you really want in life?</p>
<p>Can you own what you want without needing to defend or justify it to others?</p>
<p>And how does just going with the flow mean you won’t be helped?</p>
<p>This is part 2 of our talk with Alex Linsley. Listen in as we discuss how you can grow a pair AND inspire those around you to lend a hand.</p>
<p>Alex Linsley is the founder of Man Collective in Oxford, England. In this episode he continues his story of being thrust into the limelight to explain his position on men’s personal development. He also has some amazing lessons to share.</p>
<p>In this episode:</p>
<ul>
<li>Getting clear on what you want in life</li>
<li>What motivates you?</li>
<li>Do you believe you need to justify or defend what you want?</li>
<li>Owning your desire is not dictatorial</li>
<li>What keeps us from owning what we want</li>
<li>What inspires people to lend a hand</li>
<li>Avoiding criticism</li>
<li>Taking your seat beyond the mediocre</li>
</ul>
<p><strong><span id="more-1166"></span><a href="http://www.mancollective.co.uk" target="_blank">Click here to learn more about Man Collective.</a></strong></p>
<p><strong>About Alex Linsley</strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="font-weight: normal;"><a href="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/linsley.jpg"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-1188" title="linsley" src="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/linsley.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a>Alex Linsley is an Economics &#38; Management student at Oxford University. He realised how little he enjoyed his mundane existence four</span></strong>&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/02/tnm-091/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>Are you able to say what it is you really want in life? - Can you own what you want without needing to defend or justify it to others? - And how does just going with the flow mean you wonât be helped? - This is part 2 of our talk with Alex Linsley.</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Are you able to say what it is you really want in life?

Can you own what you want without needing to defend or justify it to others?

And how does just going with the flow mean you wonât be helped?

This is part 2 of our talk with Alex Linsley. Listen in as we discuss how you can grow a pair AND inspire those around you to lend a hand.

Alex Linsley is the founder of Man Collective in Oxford, England. In this episode he continues his story of being thrust into the limelight to explain his position on menâs personal development. He also has some amazing lessons to share.

In this episode:

	Getting clear on what you want in life
	What motivates you?
	Do you believe you need to justify or defend what you want?
	Owning your desire is not dictatorial
	What keeps us from owning what we want
	What inspires people to lend a hand
	Avoiding criticism
	Taking your seat beyond the mediocre

Click here to learn more about Man Collective.

About Alex Linsley

Alex Linsley is an Economics &amp; Management student at Oxford University. He realised how little he enjoyed his mundane existence four years ago and learnt from phenomenal teachers.  Alex set up Man Collective (www.mancollective.co.uk), a menâs group in Oxford, in October 2009 to international media reaction.  This has inspired him to reach out to menâs work across the UK.  He is now involved in a variety of projects to support men and women who want inspiring, joyous lives through truly connected and exciting relationships.</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
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		<title>TNM 090: Alex Linsley Pt 1 &#8211; How to Piss Off Chauvinists and Feminists</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/02/tnm-090/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Feb 2010 08:00:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Are you afraid of what your friends may say if they caught you listening to The New Man?</p>
<p>What would it be like to suddenly and unexpectedly become the national spokesman for men’s personal development?</p>
<p>And how did one guy manage to seemingly unite the feminists and the chauvinists?</p>
<p>This week we talk with a New Man listener who set out to quietly start a men’s group and then found himself bombarded by the British national press.</p>
<p>We’re talking with Alex Linsley of Man Collective in Oxford. Listen to this amazing story about how, in an effort to remain “under the radar”, Alex ended up in the national press explaining to the country why he wanted to be in a men’s group.</p>
<p>In this episode:</p>
<ul>
<li>What a men’s group can do for you</li>
<li>Most guys are tolerating a lot of surface-level BS</li>
<li>Authentic Man Program</li>
<li>David Deida</li>
<li>Why some guys are “in the closet” about personal development</li>
<li>Top Gear</li>
<li>Uniting the chauvinists and the feminists</li>
<li>Loaded Magazine</li>
<li>What Alex learned from being in the gunsight of the press</li>
</ul>
<p><strong><span id="more-1171"></span><a href="http://www.mancollective.co.uk" target="_blank">Click here to learn more about Man Collective</a></strong></p>
<p><strong>About Alex Linsley</strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="font-weight: normal;"><a href="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/linsley.jpg"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-1188" title="linsley" src="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/linsley.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a>Alex Linsley is an Economics &#38; Management student at</span></strong>&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/02/tnm-090/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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		<itunes:summary>Are you afraid of what your friends may say if they caught you listening to The New Man?

What would it be like to suddenly and unexpectedly become the national spokesman for menâs personal development?

And how did one guy manage to seemingly unite the feminists and the chauvinists?

This week we talk with a New Man listener who set out to quietly start a menâs group and then found himself bombarded by the British national press.

Weâre talking with Alex Linsley of Man Collective in Oxford. Listen to this amazing story about how, in an effort to remain âunder the radarâ, Alex ended up in the national press explaining to the country why he wanted to be in a menâs group.

In this episode:

	What a menâs group can do for you
	Most guys are tolerating a lot of surface-level BS
	Authentic Man Program
	David Deida
	Why some guys are âin the closetâ about personal development
	Top Gear
	Uniting the chauvinists and the feminists
	Loaded Magazine
	What Alex learned from being in the gunsight of the press

Click here to learn more about Man Collective

About Alex Linsley

Alex Linsley is an Economics &amp; Management student at Oxford University. He realised how little he enjoyed his mundane existence four years ago and learnt from phenomenal teachers.  Alex set up Man Collective (www.mancollective.co.uk), a menâs group in Oxford, in October 2009 to international media reaction.  This has inspired him to reach out to menâs work across the UK.  He is now involved in a variety of projects to support men and women who want inspiring, joyous lives through truly connected and exciting relationships.</itunes:summary>
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		<title>TNM 087: Sarah Ingier &#8211; How to Use the Force, Luke. Are You F&#8217;in Kidding Me?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Jan 2010 09:00:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Do you feel perpetually stuck trying to fix, change or heal yourself?</p>
<p>Should you wrestle with your problems or just witness them?</p>
<p>And would you believe that you — yes you — can learn how to tap into another dimension where you&#8217;re already whole, complete and perfect?</p>
<p>Are you f’in kidding me?</p>
<p>Well, get ready to use the force, young jedi because this week we’re talking with a clairvoyant healer who claims to see other dimensions while helping folks dump their draining life patterns. Is this just new age hocus pocus or could it help YOU live your best life?</p>
<p><strong>In this episode:</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>How can presence help you find your balls?</li>
<li>What can you do to drop these draining patterns and live your purpose?</li>
<li>What is a clairvoyant?</li>
<li>How can a clairvoyant help you?</li>
<li>Can anybody see these other dimensions?</li>
<li>Can you learn to see into the future?</li>
<li>Is life really like an Alex Grey painting or Tool album cover?</li>
<li>Why is it unhelpful to try to fix, change or heal?</li>
<li>How can your workout help you do soooo much more?</li>
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<p><span id="more-1093"></span></p>
<p><strong>About Sarah Ingier, Clairvoyant and Energy Healer</strong></p>
<p><a href="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/SarahPortrait.jpg"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-1090" title="SarahPortrait" src="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/SarahPortrait.jpg" alt="" width="154" height="231" /></a>A pioneer here to help humanity step into a&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/01/tnm-087-sarah-ingier-how-to-use-the-force-luke/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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			<itunes:keywords>Fear,Finances,Fitness,Inner Game,Meditation,Mission,Passion,Purpose,Success</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:subtitle>Do you feel perpetually stuck trying to fix, change or heal yourself? - Should you wrestle with your problems or just witness them? - And would you believe that you â yes you â can learn how to tap into another dimension where you&#039;re already whole,</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Do you feel perpetually stuck trying to fix, change or heal yourself?

Should you wrestle with your problems or just witness them?

And would you believe that you â yes you â can learn how to tap into another dimension where you&#039;re already whole, complete and perfect?

Are you fâin kidding me?

Well, get ready to use the force, young jedi because this week weâre talking with a clairvoyant healer who claims to see other dimensions while helping folks dump their draining life patterns. Is this just new age hocus pocus or could it help YOU live your best life?

In this episode:

	How can presence help you find your balls?
	What can you do to drop these draining patterns and live your purpose?
	What is a clairvoyant?
	How can a clairvoyant help you?
	Can anybody see these other dimensions?
	Can you learn to see into the future?
	Is life really like an Alex Grey painting or Tool album cover?
	Why is it unhelpful to try to fix, change or heal?
	How can your workout help you do soooo much more?



About Sarah Ingier, Clairvoyant and Energy Healer

A pioneer here to help humanity step into a more Soulful existence, Sarah is a highly impactful teacher and healer. She is a guide into the unknown parts of ourselves. Sarahâs progressive views on life, spirituality, and healing make her work extremely transformative.

Sarah has a beautiful blend of youthful innocence and piercing wisdom. Her highly developed clairvoyant and healing abilities help her to serve a wide range of people. From the most diligent spiritual seeker to the corporate executive, Sarah is a translator of information and a channel for healing.

Sarah travels around the world giving workshops and retreats, helping people to connect to more of who they are. When she is not traveling she has a private practice in Austin Texas, where she offers Clairvoyant readings and healings.

Sarah founded Presence Inc., a spiritually based business dedicated to help individuals, the planet, and culture step into a new era of greater alignment, greater peace, and greater healing. She is a core faculty member for the Kaiser institute, an organization committed to expanding consciousness within organizations and healthcare systems.

Click here to visit SarahIngier.com.
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		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
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		<itunes:duration>31:10</itunes:duration>
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		<title>Coaching with Tripp Lanier</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/12/coaching-with-tripp-lanier/</link>
		<comments>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/12/coaching-with-tripp-lanier/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 31 Dec 2009 21:33:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<h2>Coaching with Tripp</h2>
<h2><span style="font-weight: normal; font-size: 13px;">I get TONS of emails from guys who love The New Man Podcast but can’t seem to bridge the gap between what they’re hearing on the show and what they’re actually living.</span></h2>
<p><strong>Many guys want to:</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>Discover their passion or purpose</li>
<li>Find more satisfaction in their work and personal lives</li>
<li>Make some positive changes without upsetting their family or financial situation</li>
<li>Get over a hump they’ve been dealing with for months or maybe years</li>
<li>Look back on their life and have no regrets</li>
</ul>
<p>What’s amazing to me is that most guys will fumblef**k around their challenges for years — wasting precious time, energy and money without ever achieving the success they really want.</p>
<p>It’s obvious that this “one foot in, one foot out” way of doing things is way more draining and costly than just putting both feet in.</p>
<p><span style="color: #ffffff;">&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;</span></p>
<h2>So why do guys hold back, settle for less and “play-it-safe”?</h2>
<p><strong>Two reasons:</strong></p>
<p><strong>(1) They don’t know WHAT to do:</strong></p>
<p>I’ve found that guys want specifics, a plan, a path. ABC’s, 123’s. Nuts and bolts. The Magic-Formula. The How-to Manual. Walking into uncertainty is a no-no.</p>
<p><strong>(2) It’s too risky</strong>:</p>
<p>What if it doesn’t work? Guys&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/12/coaching-with-tripp-lanier/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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		<title>TNM 081: Derek Sivers &#8211; Capitalism with Heart and The Tao of Business with CD Baby Founder</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/10/tnm-081-derek-sivers-capitalism-with-heart-and-the-tao-of-business/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Oct 2009 02:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Are you one of those guys who seems to get paralyzed in the process of starting something new?</p>
<p>Do you think you need a bunch of training or preparation before you can take action?</p>
<p>And what is the one single practice that will change how you experience everything in your life?</p>
<p>This week, we’ve got Derek Sivers on the show to talk about The Tao of Business and how any situation in your life can become a positive one.<span id="more-85"></span></p>
<p>In this day and age of corrupt capitalists, CDBaby founder Derek Sivers shows us how you can build a multimillion dollar company just by focusing on helping others. In this episode, Derek reveals the Tao of Business and how just trying to make money usually delivers the opposite.</p>
<p>In this show:</p>
<ul>
<li>What is the Tao of Business and how can it help you even if you don’t own a business?</li>
<li>Do you need an MBA or a bunch of training to run a business?</li>
<li>How can learning too much be harmful?</li>
<li>How does personal development influence how you earn a living?</li>
<li>What is the practice Derek uses to turn *everything* into a positive experience?</li>
<li>If you’re prone to take</li></ul><p>&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/10/tnm-081-derek-sivers-capitalism-with-heart-and-the-tao-of-business/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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			<itunes:keywords>Career,Passion,Purpose</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:subtitle>Are you one of those guys who seems to get paralyzed in the process of starting something new? - Do you think you need a bunch of training or preparation before you can take action? - And what is the one single practice that will change how you experie...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Are you one of those guys who seems to get paralyzed in the process of starting something new?

Do you think you need a bunch of training or preparation before you can take action?

And what is the one single practice that will change how you experience everything in your life?

This week, weâve got Derek Sivers on the show to talk about The Tao of Business and how any situation in your life can become a positive one.

In this day and age of corrupt capitalists, CDBaby founder Derek Sivers shows us how you can build a multimillion dollar company just by focusing on helping others. In this episode, Derek reveals the Tao of Business and how just trying to make money usually delivers the opposite.

In this show:

	What is the Tao of Business and how can it help you even if you donât own a business?
	Do you need an MBA or a bunch of training to run a business?
	How can learning too much be harmful?
	How does personal development influence how you earn a living?
	What is the practice Derek uses to turn *everything* into a positive experience?
	If youâre prone to take things seriously, how can you learn to be more playful and creative with your life?
	Whatâs the simplest way to build a solid business in a very short period of time?
	How did the Segway inventor screw up royally and what can you learn from this?
	Visit Derek Sivers online

About Derek Sivers, Founder and Former Owner of CDBaby

Derek Sivers is best known as the founder of CD Baby. A professional musician (and circus clown) since 1987, Derek started CD Baby by accident in 1998 when he was selling his own CD on his website, and friends asked if he could sell theirs, too. CD Baby was the largest seller of independent music on the web, with over $100M in sales for over 150,000 musician clients. After he won the 2003 World Technology Award, Esquire Magazine&#039;s annual âBest and Brightestâ cover story said, âDerek Sivers is changing the way music is bought and sold... one of the last music-business folk heroes.â In 2008, Derek sold CD Baby to focus on his new ventures to benefit musicians, including his new company MuckWork where teams of efficient assistants help musicians do their âuncreative dirty workâ. His current projects and writings are all at Sivers.org.</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:duration>28:27</itunes:duration>
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		<title>TNM 072: Clay Collins &#8211; How to Follow Your Purpose AND Pay the Bills</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/07/tnm-072-clay-collins-how-to-follow-your-purpose-and-pay-the-bills/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2009 03:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Do you feel stuck in a job but don’t think you could possibly survive as a your own boss?</p>
<p>Are you thinking, “If I follow my passion the money will just come!”</p>
<p>And is it really possible to connect your life purpose to the way you earn a living?</p>
<p>This week, Clay Collins is on the show to talk about how YOU can live your mission AND pay the bills.</p>
<p>So many guys make the sickening choice between following what they truly love and sticking with a job just to pay the bills. It’s a tragic “either/or” scenario. Clay Collins has made it his mission to teach men how to build their own business online so that they can care for their families and live a life in alignment with their deeper purpose.</p>
<p>Clay brings up a strong point that in our today’s culture where men lack a valid initiation into manhood, owning your own business will serve that purpose. We’ll also talk about the myth of “If I follow my passion the money will just come”, the danger of Job-ification and what you can do today to bring your life into alignment without having to live on the street.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.projectmojavesite.com/newman" target="_blank"><strong>Check</strong></a>&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/07/tnm-072-clay-collins-how-to-follow-your-purpose-and-pay-the-bills/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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			<itunes:keywords>Career,Mission,Passion,Purpose</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:subtitle>Do you feel stuck in a job but donât think you could possibly survive as a your own boss? - Are you thinking, âIf I follow my passion the money will just come!â - And is it really possible to connect your life purpose to the way you earn a living?</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Do you feel stuck in a job but donât think you could possibly survive as a your own boss?

Are you thinking, âIf I follow my passion the money will just come!â

And is it really possible to connect your life purpose to the way you earn a living?

This week, Clay Collins is on the show to talk about how YOU can live your mission AND pay the bills.

So many guys make the sickening choice between following what they truly love and sticking with a job just to pay the bills. Itâs a tragic âeither/orâ scenario. Clay Collins has made it his mission to teach men how to build their own business online so that they can care for their families and live a life in alignment with their deeper purpose.

Clay brings up a strong point that in our todayâs culture where men lack a valid initiation into manhood, owning your own business will serve that purpose.Â Weâll also talk about the myth of âIf I follow my passion the money will just comeâ, the danger of Job-ification and what you can do today to bring your life into alignment without having to live on the street.

Check out Clay Collins and Project Mojave here.



In this episode:

	The Mission of Project MojaveFinanceYourFreedom.com
	Quit your job, escape cubicle hell
	Living into your full potential
	Hoping a job will provide a sense of meaning/purpose
	Hoping more education will provide meaning/purpose
	There is no job that will âdo it allâ for you
	Feeling like a f**k up
	Stumbling in the workforce
	Feeding your family while following your purpose
	Guys are hesitant to take financial risks when they have a family
	Do you follow your vision or do you feed your family?
	Internet Marketing and Inner Game
	What is a Freedom Business?
	Helping people earn a living on the internet within three months
	To free up time for personal growth, family, etc.
	Freedom Business is a stepping stone to your Mission Business
	Designed to work quickly and without much startup money
	Information Products
	We want a guarantee of success
	We want the nuts and bolts of what to do
	Testing your business idea
	The Myth of: Do what you love and the money will follow
	Being driven by opportunity
	The need for a purpose in what you do
	Being driven by what you love
	How your Freedom Business serves your Mission
	What is Job-ification?
	How to keep from hating what you do
	Lack of itinitation rites for men in our culture and becoming a man through business
	Running a business will make you grow up
	Mission Mindmap, Statement and Journal
	Working on yourself is working on your business
	âWhat is my purpose in life?â
	âWhat do I need to do today so I can fall asleep tonight in peace knowing I have given everything?â

Check out Clay Collins and Project Mojave here.

About Clay Collins, Creator of Project Mojave
From Clay&#039;s website:
I am a fulltime internet marketer from Minneapolis who does business in three niches.
I aim to live my life in a way that is fundamentally oriented towards maximum contribution and making the world a better place.
I strive to live in a manner that renders this statement true:Â everything I do is oriented towards helping people generously feed their families while following their deepest purposes.
I have a vision for a world where every person can be their own boss and secure â at the very minimum â an $80K+ income while working from home.Â I have a vision for a world where people do not have to choose between being their own masters and feeding their families. And I pursue this vision because I believe entrepreneurship is one of the most powerful enablers of self-improvement.
Check out Clay Collins and Project Mojave here.</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
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		<title>TNM 071: Guy Sengstock Pt 2 &#8211; How to Find Your Purpose or Mission</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/07/tnm-071-guy-sengstock-pt-2-are-you-trying-to-get-something-from-the-world/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Jul 2009 02:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Are you spending your day trying to GET money, ass or attention?</p>
<p>Do you accumulate things in order to feel better about yourself?</p>
<p>And how could you earn a living by helping others transform their lives for the better?</p>
<p>This week, Guy Sengstock is back for part 2 of our talk on finding your purpose and mission in life.</p>
<p>We’re back with Guy Sengstock in our exploration of how to find your purpose or mission in life. In this episode, Guy shares his own personal story of revealing his passion and gifts.</p>
<p>We also make some powerful distinctions around how men use the world as a place to GET SOMETHING &#8212; money, sex, attention, validation, etc. The flip side is seeing the world as a place to EXPRESS SOMETHING &#8212; namely your talents and abilities to provide value or positively impact others.</p>
<p>Guy also walks us through a preview of his year long transformational coaching program. This is a great offering to consider if you’re looking to make some major changes in your life AND develop some skills to earn a living by helping others.</p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="text-decoration: none;"><a href="http://www.AuthenticManProgram.com/TCLT/" target="_blank"><strong>Click here for more information on Guy’s year long transformational coaching training.</strong></a></span></span></p>
<p>Or contact Guy&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/07/tnm-071-guy-sengstock-pt-2-are-you-trying-to-get-something-from-the-world/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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			<itunes:keywords>Mission,Passion,Purpose</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:subtitle>Are you spending your day trying to GET money, ass or attention? - Do you accumulate things in order to feel better about yourself? - And how could you earn a living by helping others transform their lives for the better? - This week,</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Are you spending your day trying to GET money, ass or attention?

Do you accumulate things in order to feel better about yourself?

And how could you earn a living by helping others transform their lives for the better?

This week, Guy Sengstock is back for part 2 of our talk on finding your purpose and mission in life.

Weâre back with Guy Sengstock in our exploration of how to find your purpose or mission in life. In this episode, Guy shares his own personal story of revealing his passion and gifts.

We also make some powerful distinctions around how men use the world as a place to GET SOMETHING -- money, sex, attention, validation, etc. The flip side is seeing the world as a place to EXPRESS SOMETHING -- namely your talents and abilities to provide value or positively impact others.

Guy also walks us through a preview of his year long transformational coaching program. This is a great offering to consider if youâre looking to make some major changes in your life AND develop some skills to earn a living by helping others.

Click here for more information on Guyâs year long transformational coaching training.

Or contact Guy Sengstock at (415) 290-8385 or guy@aretecenter.com.



In this episode:

	How Guy found his purpose by following his heart
	Going to art school in San Francisco
	How Circling came to be
	Being gifted at something
	Feeling more alive giving the gift
	Following where he felt most alive
	Following his deepest desire
	The difficulty of speaking your purpose/mission
	How you make your money, the people you hang out with
	The importance of having other men in your life
	The need for feedback from others
	Humans are the only creatures who can lie to ourselves
	The Narcissus Myth
	Falling in love with the reflection
	Agonizing over a yearning for the reflection
	You already are what youâve been searching for
	Youâve found your purpose when itâs not outside of you âto getâ
	A BMW or Confidence
	We want things because of the experience we think they will provide
	What is an expression of your confidence?
	Are you trying to get something from the world?
	Or are you trying to express something in the world?
	Look at what youâre currently doing in life
	Why am I really doing this?
	Start to be brutally honest with yourself
	What does that get you?
	Did you choose this?
	If no, what would you choose?
	Coaching, therapy, menâs groups
	David Deida
	Your death bed
	Guyâs year long coaching program
	How to be fully yourself
	Creating transformational moments
	Year long transformational crucible

About Guy Sengstock, Coach and creator of AreteCenter.com

Guy Sengstock is the co-founder of the Arete Center for Excellence, an organization that offers accelerated personal growth courses. Guy is also a personal development coach, writer, poet, sculptor, and painter. The Arete Experience is a 3-day workshop offered in San Francisco that provides a remarkable opportunity to discover the unconscious ways in which you hold yourself back. Experience immense and lasting freedom to be yourself in all areas of your life!

Click here for more information on Guyâs year long transformational coaching training.

Or contact Guy Sengstock at (415) 290-8385 or guy@aretecenter.com.</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:duration>23:49</itunes:duration>
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		<title>TNM 070: Guy Sengstock Pt 1 &#8211; How to Find Your Purpose or Mission</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/07/tnm-070-guy-sengstock-how-do-you-find-your-purpose-or-mission/</link>
		<comments>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/07/tnm-070-guy-sengstock-how-do-you-find-your-purpose-or-mission/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jul 2009 02:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Is your job a place to just make money or is it something you deeply love?</p>
<p>Do you ever find yourself at work wondering, “What in the hell am I doing?”</p>
<p>And &#8212; be honest &#8212; why are you living the life you’re living? Is it a reflection of what you deeply desire or has it just happened?</p>
<p>This week Guy Sengstock returns to The New Man Podcast to talk about how to find your purpose in life.</p>
<p>Guy Sengstock (coach, Arete Creator and Co-Owner of Authentic SF) joins us to talk about how to find your purpose or mission in life. Guy’s purpose (and career) is basically to help others find their purpose; so who better to have in the hot seat?</p>
<p>We discuss how men get caught up in the WHAT of their lives &#8212; the emails, the to do list, the accomplishments. And yet we have a deeper connection to WHY we do them. This leaves us feeling drained and burdened instead of alive and energized.</p>
<p>Join us as we fumble f&#8211;k our way through an exploration of this critical process in a man’s life.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.AuthenticManProgram.com/TCLT/" target="_blank"><strong>Click here for more information on Guy’s year long transformational coaching training.</strong></a>&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/07/tnm-070-guy-sengstock-how-do-you-find-your-purpose-or-mission/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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			<itunes:keywords>Mission,Passion,Purpose</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:subtitle>Is your job a place to just make money or is it something you deeply love? - Do you ever find yourself at work wondering, âWhat in the hell am I doing?â - And -- be honest -- why are you living the life youâre living?</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Is your job a place to just make money or is it something you deeply love?

Do you ever find yourself at work wondering, âWhat in the hell am I doing?â

And -- be honest -- why are you living the life youâre living? Is it a reflection of what you deeply desire or has it just happened?

This week Guy Sengstock returns to The New Man Podcast to talk about how to find your purpose in life.

Guy Sengstock (coach, Arete Creator and Co-Owner of Authentic SF) joins us to talk about how to find your purpose or mission in life. Guyâs purpose (and career) is basically to help others find their purpose; so who better to have in the hot seat?

We discuss how men get caught up in the WHAT of their lives -- the emails, the to do list, the accomplishments. And yet we have a deeper connection to WHY we do them. This leaves us feeling drained and burdened instead of alive and energized.

Join us as we fumble f--k our way through an exploration of this critical process in a manâs life.

Click here for more information on Guyâs year long transformational coaching training.

Or contact Guy Sengstock at (415) 290-8385 or guy@aretecenter.com

In this episode:

	The Circling Process
	Purpose
	Finding your mission
	Helping others find their purpose
	Trying to find your purpose kinda screws it up
	The danger of not listening to yourself
	Living under the ultimate male-illusion
	âIf you work hard enough one day itâll be overâ
	David Deida
	Striving to feel release, bliss
	Finding the answer means finding freedom
	Men are lost in the content of our lives
	To Do Lists, Jobs, Details, the Grindstone
	Getting lost in emails
	How do you feel after your work?
	Purpose equals context
	Purpose is why youâre doing what youâre do
	Purpose is not the accomplishment
	Year Long Coaching Program
	When work becomes a burden
	The difference between work and living your purpose
	Why are you doing what you do?
	What do you really want?
	What is my desire?
	Separating your voice from the voices of others
	Parents, Friends, Society
	Having the balls to ask these questions
	You always have a âwhyâ for the things in life
	Is it your âwhyâ?
	Your current life supports you to stay where you are
	Feeling drained or burdened indicates youâre not living your purpose
	Start to get honest with yourself
	Be willing to admit that you donât know what is driving you
	What gives your actions meaning?
	Start with what is your purpose right now?
	Are you living someone elseâs life?
	Doing what your told?
	Defying what your told?
	Everything I do is something Iâve consciously do from the heart
	Discovering your prison cell is elating
	Youâre not locked in your prison cell
	The beginning of choice
	You can only make choices for things that youâre aware of
	Thereâs more possible
	Continuously waking up
	Not a utopia
	Is your âwhyâ a chosen why?

About Guy Sengstock, Coach and creator of AreteCenter.com

Guy Sengstock is the co-founder of the Arete Center for Excellence, an organization that offers accelerated personal growth courses. Guy is also a personal development coach, writer, poet, sculptor, and painter. The Arete Experience is a 3-day workshop offered in San Francisco that provides a remarkable opportunity to discover the unconscious ways in which you hold yourself back. Experience immense and lasting freedom to be yourself in all areas of your life!

Click here for more information on Guyâs year long transformational coaching training.

Or contact Guy Sengstock at (415) 290-8385 or guy@aretecenter.com</itunes:summary>
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		<title>TNM 063: Sera Beak &#8211; Bust Out of the Cultural BS and Follow Your Own Path</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/05/tnm-063-sera-beak-bust-out-of-the-cultural-bs-and-follow-your-own-path/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 19 May 2009 02:01:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Spiritual Cowgirl and author Sera Beak joins us on the New Man Podcast to discuss what it means to be Red-volutionary.</p>
<p>She’s the author of “The Red Book: A Deliciously Unorthodox Approach to Igniting Your Divine Spark”.</p>
<p>In this episode we talk about how spirituality can be a bit stuffy or pretentious. Sera drives home the point that it’s about following your true passions and interests.</p>
<p>Being “spiritual” isn’t about following some set of rules &#8212; it’s about fiercely being yourself. And that takes guts</p>
<p>If you’re NOT interested in the whole “spiritual” scene, this discussion may light you up. We talk about rebellion, sex, thigh high boots, great food and a few of the things the Bible warned us about.</p>
<p><span id="more-103"></span></p>
<p>In this episode:</p>
<ul>
<li>The Red Book: A Deliciously Unorthodox Approach to Igniting Your Divine Spark</li>
<li>The Spiritual Cowgirl</li>
<li>Unorthodox approach to spirituality</li>
<li>Being your self is the essence of being spiritual</li>
<li>Pretentious Spiritual Types</li>
<li>Sera Beak is Satan</li>
<li>Disturbing the Buddhists</li>
<li>Don’t be provocative just for the sake of being provocative</li>
<li>Provoke with compassion</li>
<li>Be your authentic self</li>
<li>Reclaiming spirituality from those who have made it boring</li>
<li>Brazilian bikini waxed prayers</li>
<li>Trying to fit into external expectations</li></ul><p>&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/05/tnm-063-sera-beak-bust-out-of-the-cultural-bs-and-follow-your-own-path/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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			<itunes:keywords>Inner Game,Passion,Purpose,Spirituality</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:subtitle>Spiritual Cowgirl and author Sera Beak joins us on the New Man Podcast to discuss what it means to be Red-volutionary. - Sheâs the author of âThe Red Book: A Deliciously Unorthodox Approach to Igniting Your Divine Sparkâ.</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Spiritual Cowgirl and author Sera Beak joins us on the New Man Podcast to discuss what it means to be Red-volutionary.

Sheâs the author of âThe Red Book: A Deliciously Unorthodox Approach to Igniting Your Divine Sparkâ.

In this episode we talk about how spirituality can be a bit stuffy or pretentious. Sera drives home the point that itâs about following your true passions and interests.

Being âspiritualâ isnât about following some set of rules -- itâs about fiercely being yourself. And that takes guts

If youâre NOT interested in the whole âspiritualâ scene, this discussion may light you up. We talk about rebellion, sex, thigh high boots, great food and a few of the things the Bible warned us about.



In this episode:

	The Red Book: A Deliciously Unorthodox Approach to Igniting Your Divine Spark
	The Spiritual Cowgirl
	Unorthodox approach to spirituality
	Being your self is the essence of being spiritual
	Pretentious Spiritual Types
	Sera Beak is Satan
	Disturbing the Buddhists
	Donât be provocative just for the sake of being provocative
	Provoke with compassion
	Be your authentic self
	Reclaiming spirituality from those who have made it boring
	Brazilian bikini waxed prayers
	Trying to fit into external expectations of what is spiritual
	How to get real and presentÂ Inside out spirituality vs cookie-cutter spirituality
	Living from a larger place is a turn on to others
	Where do men base their value? If itâs from the inside it is sexy
	Doesnât have to be esoteric or woo-woo
	Why is it so hard to answer the question, âwho am I?â
	Cultural expectations, rules and cues
	Not necessary to read a ton of books or go to workshops
	Stop following the crowd unconsciously
	Standing out from the crowd
	Social resistance doesnât mean itâs wrong
	Perseverance
	How giving birth is painful but not wrong
	Growing and learning to be yourself can be uncomfortable
	Discern what pain means youâre going down the wrong road and what pain is part of the process of growingHow are we different from other cultures?
	Becoming who we are is the natural human condition
	Westerners are lucky
	Privilege of being able to pursue spirituality in life
	Make the most of the privilege
	What is âredâ?
	REDvolutionary
	Spiritual Super-heroines
	Sex toys, good wine and gold body glitter
	FashionÂ Humor
	Green vs Red
	Humping Trees vs Hugging Trees
	Making love to all existence
	Fist-f##ked by Mother Nature
	Where to men fit in?
	Masculine and Feminine doesnât necessarily mean Male or Female
	Being more passionate, playful and authentic
	Fierce love knows no gender
	Bringing the feminine back to spiritual practice
	What is sexy?
	The danger âspiritualâ ways of being
	The Devil Wears Crocs
	Thigh High Boots
	What the hell is âredâ for me?
	Seraâs Offerings

About Sera Beak, Author, &quot;Spiritual Cowgirl&quot;

Sera Beak is a world-traveled Harvard-trained scholar of comparative religion and an intrepid âspiritual cowgirl.â Her first book, The Red Book: A Deliciously Unorthodox Approach to Igniting Your Divine Spark, is aimed at jaded, yet still spiritually curious young women, although the material speaks to all ages and genders. She calls the book a âfirestarter.â Sera is called âa woman who is hands down the freshest, boldest breath of fresh air spirituality has heard, read or seen in decadesâ by Maureen Moss, author, motivational speaker, and radio host of worldpuja.org</itunes:summary>
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		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
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		<title>TNM 051: Brian Johnson Pt 2 &#8211; Do You Have the Balls to Live the Life of Your Dreams?</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/02/tnm-051-brian-johnson-pt2-do-you-have-the-balls-to-live-the-life-of-your-dreams/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Feb 2009 02:05:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Do you feel a moral obligation to live your greatest possible life?</p>
<p>If you are like us you are tired, and you have bills to pay&#8230;but is that all there is in store for us?</p>
<p>Brian Johnson won&#8217;t stand for anything less that the greatest life possible for himself, and he wants to help us get there too.</p>
<p>In part two of our talk with Brian, we talk about his latest project, Philosophers Notes, and how to get inspired and make practical changes in our lives right now.</p>
<p>Listen as Brain tells us how we can learn to step up our game and stop living our lives half-assed.</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.philosophersnotes.com/" target="_blank">Click here to check out Philosophers Notes.</a></strong></p>
<p><span id="more-115"></span><strong>About Brian Johnson, Philosopher, Entrepreneur, Creator of Philosopher Notes</strong></p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-567" title="g-brian-johnson-2373-SM" src="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/g-brian-johnson-2373-SM.jpg" alt="g-brian-johnson-2373-SM" width="178" height="171" />I&#8217;ve always been passionate about understanding what makes great people great and applying the truths they embodied to make my little dent in the universe.</p>
<p>After selling my last business (Zaadz) and traveling for a bit, I decided to give myself a Ph.D. in Optimal Living with a Specialization in Greatness and Bliss.</p>
<p>Figured I’d get a Master’s when I’d distilled 100 of my favorite books into concise, fun, inspiring summaries. Then, on a flight from&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/02/tnm-051-brian-johnson-pt2-do-you-have-the-balls-to-live-the-life-of-your-dreams/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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			<itunes:keywords>Career,Fear,Inner Game,Mission,Passion,Purpose</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:subtitle>Do you feel a moral obligation to live your greatest possible life? - If you are like us you are tired, and you have bills to pay...but is that all there is in store for us? - Brian Johnson won&#039;t stand for anything less that the greatest life possible ...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Do you feel a moral obligation to live your greatest possible life?

If you are like us you are tired, and you have bills to pay...but is that all there is in store for us?

Brian Johnson won&#039;t stand for anything less that the greatest life possible for himself, and he wants to help us get there too.

In part two of our talk with Brian, we talk about his latest project, Philosophers Notes, and how to get inspired and make practical changes in our lives right now.

Listen as Brain tells us how we can learn to step up our game and stop living our lives half-assed.

Click here to check out Philosophers Notes.

About Brian Johnson, Philosopher, Entrepreneur, Creator of Philosopher Notes

I&#039;ve always been passionate about understanding what makes great people great and applying the truths they embodied to make my little dent in the universe.

After selling my last business (Zaadz) and traveling for a bit, I decided to give myself a Ph.D. in Optimal Living with a Specialization in Greatness and Bliss.

Figured Iâd get a Masterâs when Iâd distilled 100 of my favorite books into concise, fun, inspiring summaries. Then, on a flight from Tokyo to LA, I had one of those âAha!/hallelujah!!â moments when I opened the SkyMall to an ad for a company that summarized business books for âbusy executives.â I decided someone should do summaries of self-development books for the âbusy self-actualizerâ and that that someone should be me. âº

Enter: PhilosophersNotes. (Imagine CliffsNotes. Only shorter. And cooler. And a *lot* more inspiring. âº)

I&#039;m currently on sabbatical in Bali working my way through two suitcases of books while I re-wire my consciousness, create the first 100 PhilosophersNotes and teach a Philosophy class at the local yoga studio.

Pinch me. I heart my job.

Click here to check out Philosophers Notes.</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:duration>22:16</itunes:duration>
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		<title>TNM 050: Brian Johnson Pt 1 &#8211; What Would You Do if You Weren&#8217;t Afraid?</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/02/tnm-050-brian-johnson-what-would-you-do-if-you-werent-afraid/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Feb 2009 04:24:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Have you ever thrown up on your way to work, and not from too much fun the night before?</p>
<p>If you had all the money and all the time in the world what would you do?</p>
<p>Brain Johnson has found his answer, but things didn&#8217;t always come together so clearly for him.</p>
<p>Over the years he has quit a promising job with a fortune 500, dropped out of law school, left a 5 year relationship, and walked away from a couple of businesses.</p>
<p>From these experiences he has learned a bit about the art of living, now he is sharing what he loves to do with the world.</p>
<p>Listen as Brian talks to us about how he went form literally puking in his car on the way to work, to living his dreams from an open-air office in Bali.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.philosophersnotes.com/" target="_blank"><strong>Click here to check out Philosophers Notes.</strong></a></p>
<p><span id="more-116"></span><strong>About Brian Johnson, Philosopher, Entrepreneur, Creator of Philosopher Notes</strong></p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-567" title="g-brian-johnson-2373-SM" src="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/g-brian-johnson-2373-SM.jpg" alt="g-brian-johnson-2373-SM" width="178" height="171" />I&#8217;ve always been passionate about understanding what makes great people great and applying the truths they embodied to make my little dent in the universe.</p>
<p>After selling my last business (Zaadz) and traveling for a bit, I decided to give myself a Ph.D. in Optimal&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/02/tnm-050-brian-johnson-what-would-you-do-if-you-werent-afraid/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>Have you ever thrown up on your way to work, and not from too much fun the night before? - If you had all the money and all the time in the world what would you do? - Brain Johnson has found his answer, but things didn&#039;t always come together so clearly...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Have you ever thrown up on your way to work, and not from too much fun the night before?

If you had all the money and all the time in the world what would you do?

Brain Johnson has found his answer, but things didn&#039;t always come together so clearly for him.

Over the years he has quit a promising job with a fortune 500, dropped out of law school, left a 5 year relationship, and walked away from a couple of businesses.

From these experiences he has learned a bit about the art of living, now he is sharing what he loves to do with the world.

Listen as Brian talks to us about how he went form literally puking in his car on the way to work, to living his dreams from an open-air office in Bali.

Click here to check out Philosophers Notes.

About Brian Johnson, Philosopher, Entrepreneur, Creator of Philosopher Notes

I&#039;ve always been passionate about understanding what makes great people great and applying the truths they embodied to make my little dent in the universe.

After selling my last business (Zaadz) and traveling for a bit, I decided to give myself a Ph.D. in Optimal Living with a Specialization in Greatness and Bliss.

Figured Iâd get a Masterâs when Iâd distilled 100 of my favorite books into concise, fun, inspiring summaries. Then, on a flight from Tokyo to LA, I had one of those âAha!/hallelujah!!â moments when I opened the SkyMall to an ad for a company that summarized business books for âbusy executives.â I decided someone should do summaries of self-development books for the âbusy self-actualizerâ and that that someone should be me. âº

Enter: PhilosophersNotes. (Imagine CliffsNotes. Only shorter. And cooler. And a *lot* more inspiring. âº)

I&#039;m currently on sabbatical in Bali working my way through two suitcases of books while I re-wire my consciousness, create the first 100 PhilosophersNotes and teach a Philosophy class at the local yoga studio.

Pinch me. I heart my job.

Click here to check out Philosophers Notes.</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:duration>31:39</itunes:duration>
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		<title>TNM 047: Decker Cunov Pt 2 &#8211; Choose Everything in Your Life</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/01/tnm-047-decker-cunov-pt2-choose-everything-in-your-life/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Jan 2009 05:43:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Are you being true to yourself, or are you just being a selfish prick?</p>
<p>Is there a way to know the difference?</p>
<p>This week we continue our conversation with Decker Cunov about consciously choosing the life you live.</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/amp" target="_blank">Click here to learn more about The Authentic Man Program.</a></strong></p>
<p><span id="more-119"></span>In this episode:</p>
<ul>
<li>Where is the line between being selfish and being right with yourself?</li>
<li>What happens when you actually allow you heart to be open?</li>
<li>Why people don&#8217;t want to feel how much they love each other.</li>
<li>The truth that underneath the touch veneer, you actually give a shit.</li>
<li>Decker shares with us what is possible when we are really willing to be our true selves.</li>
</ul>
<p><strong>About Decker Cunov, Cofounder, Authentic World</strong></p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-535" title="g-decker-cunov-SM" src="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/g-decker-cunov-SM.jpg" alt="g-decker-cunov-SM" width="178" height="171" />Decker Cunov is the President and Founder of AuthenticWorld.  Known internationally for inspiring people towards more fulfilling relationships, his unique approach to transformation is identical to the way he has created profound intimacy in his own life and in his own communities.</p>
<p>His experience ranges from co-founding a counseling center for homeless yosuth, to implementing intrinsic motivation theory to various military trainings, to residence in Buddhist monastaries over the years.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;re new to Decker&#8217;s work, rest&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/01/tnm-047-decker-cunov-pt2-choose-everything-in-your-life/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>Are you being true to yourself, or are you just being a selfish prick? - Is there a way to know the difference? - This week we continue our conversation with Decker Cunov about consciously choosing the life you live.</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Are you being true to yourself, or are you just being a selfish prick?

Is there a way to know the difference?

This week we continue our conversation with Decker Cunov about consciously choosing the life you live.

Click here to learn more about The Authentic Man Program.

In this episode:

	Where is the line between being selfish and being right with yourself?
	What happens when you actually allow you heart to be open?
	Why people don&#039;t want to feel how much they love each other.
	The truth that underneath the touch veneer, you actually give a shit.
	Decker shares with us what is possible when we are really willing to be our true selves.

About Decker Cunov, Cofounder, Authentic World

Decker Cunov is the President and Founder of AuthenticWorld.  Known internationally for inspiring people towards more fulfilling relationships, his unique approach to transformation is identical to the way he has created profound intimacy in his own life and in his own communities.

His experience ranges from co-founding a counseling center for homeless yosuth, to implementing intrinsic motivation theory to various military trainings, to residence in Buddhist monastaries over the years.

If you&#039;re new to Decker&#039;s work, rest assured he has spent the past 13 years working successfully with everyone from soldiers to teenagers, from the clinically dysfunctional to doctors &amp; lawyers, from a mechanic in Wisconsin to top level executives across the country, helping them reach unprecedented levels of success in an organic and profound way.

Click here to learn more about The Authentic Man Program.</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:duration>30:29</itunes:duration>
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		<title>TNM 046: Decker Cunov Pt 1 &#8211; How to Learn to Trust Your Gut</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/01/tnm-046-decker-cunov-how-to-learn-to-trust-your-gut/</link>
		<comments>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/01/tnm-046-decker-cunov-how-to-learn-to-trust-your-gut/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Jan 2009 03:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Do you have a feeling something needs to change in your life?</p>
<p>Are you not exactly sure what it is?</p>
<p>This week we&#8217;re talking with Decker Cunov, men&#8217;s coach, Authentic Man Program leader and President of Authentic World about taking the first steps to getting more connected.</p>
<p>Decker points us to a world in which we get in touch with what is really going on in our bodies, with our emotions, and in turn, what is really happening in all of our relationships.</p>
<p>Join us as we talk with Decker Cunov about really feeling, and what it means to &#8220;trust your gut.&#8221;</p>
<p><a href="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/amp" target="_blank"><strong>Click here to learn more about The Authentic Man Program.</strong></a></p>
<p><span id="more-120"></span><strong>About Decker Cunov, Cofounder, Authentic World</strong></p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-535" title="g-decker-cunov-SM" src="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/g-decker-cunov-SM.jpg" alt="g-decker-cunov-SM" width="178" height="171" />Decker Cunov is the President and Founder of AuthenticWorld.  Known internationally for inspiring people towards more fulfilling relationships, his unique approach to transformation is identical to the way he has created profound intimacy in his own life and in his own communities.</p>
<p>His experience ranges from co-founding a counseling center for homeless yosuth, to implementing intrinsic motivation theory to various military trainings, to residence in Buddhist monastaries over the years.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;re new to Decker&#8217;s work, rest assured he has spent the past&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/01/tnm-046-decker-cunov-how-to-learn-to-trust-your-gut/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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			<itunes:keywords>AMP,Passion,Purpose</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:subtitle>Do you have a feeling something needs to change in your life? - Are you not exactly sure what it is? - This week we&#039;re talking with Decker Cunov, men&#039;s coach, Authentic Man Program leader and President of Authentic World about taking the first steps to...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Do you have a feeling something needs to change in your life?

Are you not exactly sure what it is?

This week we&#039;re talking with Decker Cunov, men&#039;s coach, Authentic Man Program leader and President of Authentic World about taking the first steps to getting more connected.

Decker points us to a world in which we get in touch with what is really going on in our bodies, with our emotions, and in turn, what isÂ really happening in all of our relationships.

Join us as we talk with Decker Cunov about really feeling, and what it means to &quot;trust your gut.&quot;

Click here to learn more about The Authentic Man Program.

About Decker Cunov, Cofounder, Authentic World

Decker Cunov is the President and Founder of AuthenticWorld.  Known internationally for inspiring people towards more fulfilling relationships, his unique approach to transformation is identical to the way he has created profound intimacy in his own life and in his own communities.

His experience ranges from co-founding a counseling center for homeless yosuth, to implementing intrinsic motivation theory to various military trainings, to residence in Buddhist monastaries over the years.

If you&#039;re new to Decker&#039;s work, rest assured he has spent the past 13 years working successfully with everyone from soldiers to teenagers, from the clinically dysfunctional to doctors &amp; lawyers, from a mechanic in Wisconsin to top level executives across the country, helping them reach unprecedented levels of success in an organic and profound way.

Click here to learn more about The Authentic Man Program.</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:duration>31:33</itunes:duration>
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		<title>TNM 045: Shawn Phillips Pt 2 &#8211; Getting Your A$$ Out of a Rut and Into High Gear!</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/01/tnm-045-shawn-phillips-getting-your-a-out-of-a-rut-and-into-high-gear/</link>
		<comments>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/01/tnm-045-shawn-phillips-getting-your-a-out-of-a-rut-and-into-high-gear/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Jan 2009 02:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Are you driving your life, or is it driving you?</p>
<p>In part two of our latest talk with Shawn Phillips we discuss:</p>
<ul>
<li>How to live your life in &#8220;thirds&#8221; instead of halves.</li>
<li>How to shift to the new &#8220;s-curve&#8221; for your life.</li>
<li>Why there really is no reason for your belly to keep getting bigger.</li>
<li>What is the alternative to the &#8220;mid-life crisis?&#8221;</li>
<li>How to pick your peak season this year.Are you in touch with the joy in your life?</li>
<li>The keys to reaching mastery</li>
<li>The one thing you can do today to get on the path of strength.</li>
</ul>
<p>Listen as Shawn Phillips helps us get on the path of strength, and get our lives back.</p>
<p><span id="more-121"></span><strong></strong></p>
<p><strong>About Shawn Phillips, Author and Strength Expert</strong></p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-584" title="g-shawn-phillips-1780-SM" src="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/01/g-shawn-phillips-1780-SM.jpg" alt="g-shawn-phillips-1780-SM" width="178" height="171" />Longtime ambassador for personal transformation and fitness, Shawn Phillips is on a mission to spread a new standard of strength throughout America. On his quest, Shawn has focused his considerable passion on transforming our country, with his steady, unwavering message: &#8220;health is not enough; it&#8217;s A Time for Strength.&#8221; Phillips asks each of us to aim beyond health, to aim for Strength.</p>
<p>Shawn, whose uncompromising commitment to strength and fitness, is a best-selling author,&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/01/tnm-045-shawn-phillips-getting-your-a-out-of-a-rut-and-into-high-gear/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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			<itunes:keywords>Fitness,Passion,Purpose</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:subtitle>Are you driving your life, or is it driving you? - In part two of our latest talk with Shawn Phillips we discuss: -   How to live your life in &quot;thirds&quot; instead of halves.   How to shift to the new &quot;s-curve&quot; for your life.</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Are you driving your life, or is it driving you?

In part two of our latest talk with Shawn Phillips we discuss:

	How to live your life in &quot;thirds&quot; instead of halves.
	How to shift to the new &quot;s-curve&quot; for your life.
	Why there really is no reason for your belly to keep getting bigger.
	What is the alternative to the &quot;mid-life crisis?&quot;
	How to pick your peak season this year.Are you in touch with the joy in your life?
	The keys to reaching mastery
	The one thing you can do today to get on the path of strength.

Listen as Shawn Phillips helps us get on the path of strength, and get our lives back.



About Shawn Phillips, Author and Strength Expert

Longtime ambassador for personal transformation and fitness, Shawn Phillips is on a mission to spread a new standard of strength throughout America. On his quest, Shawn has focused his considerable passion on transforming our country, with his steady, unwavering message: &quot;health is not enough; it&#039;s A Time for Strength.&quot; Phillips asks each of us to aim beyond health, to aim for Strength.

Shawn, whose uncompromising commitment to strength and fitness, is a best-selling author, entrepreneur, and renowned expert in the area of performance training and nutrition. For over twenty-five years he has helped hundreds of thousands of people including business leaders, professional athletes, numerous celebrities, clients and friends look great, feel great and unleash their full strength.

Instrumental in building the industry of performance nutrition, Shawn most recently created the Full Strength Premium Nutrition Shake, pioneering a brand new category known as &quot;fast performance food.&quot;

Shawn is also the creator of Focus Intensity Training, a system integrating body and mind; blending the depth of Eastern traditions with the Western form and function of strength training. He also has served as a faculty member of the Integral Institute, a leader in the field of human potential.

While known by many for his signature &quot;six-pack abs,&quot; his brilliant clarity and inspiring vision, Shawn, a Colorado native, is better known by his family, close friends and associates as a focused, hard-working man with a kind heart and an intense passion for helping people live extraordinary lives.

He is currently forming the Coalition for Strength, a new non-profit organization dedicated to sharing and celebrating the benefits of living with strength to inspire people of all walks of life to build our collective strength by cultivating our individual strength.

Shawn is the author of Strength for Life (available April 29, 2008, Ballantine Books). In Strength for Life Shawn guides women and men beyond health to a new-level of strength with a revolutionary approach to nutrition and training. He is also the author of ABSolution: The Practical Guide To Building Your Best Abs.

Shawn currently lives in the foothills of Colorado with his wife Angie and their two children, Nathaniel and Lilly.</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:duration>22:12</itunes:duration>
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		<title>TNM 044: Shawn Phillips Pt 1 &#8211; The Body, Focus and a Passionate Life</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/01/tnm-044-shawn-phillips-the-body-focus-and-a-passionate-life/</link>
		<comments>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/01/tnm-044-shawn-phillips-the-body-focus-and-a-passionate-life/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jan 2009 02:50:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>What are you tolerating in your life?</p>
<p>What are you putting your time into?</p>
<p>What are you saying no to?</p>
<p>Make 2009 the year you drop all the bullshit and truly focus on what is really important in your life.</p>
<p>Shawn Phillips returns to The New Man and this show is all about focus.</p>
<p>So, what is focus?</p>
<p>&#8220;It&#8217;s not what is on your mind; it&#8217;s what is <em>not</em> on your mind.&#8221; says Shawn.</p>
<p><span id="more-122"></span>Shawn and Tripp get into the details around:</p>
<ul>
<li>The state of presence that arises when everything else drops away.</li>
<li>How to know what you really want out of your efforts.</li>
<li>If you don&#8217;t know, you can&#8217;t have focus.</li>
<li>How increasing your focus by just 20% per day can increase your results exponentially.</li>
<li>What is the difference between intensity and stress?Making life more expansive with focus.</li>
</ul>
<p>Listen as Shawn Phillips coaches us into cultivating our intense focus and opening new doors in our lives.</p>
<p><strong>About Shawn Phillips, Author and Strength Expert</strong></p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-584" title="g-shawn-phillips-1780-SM" src="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/01/g-shawn-phillips-1780-SM.jpg" alt="g-shawn-phillips-1780-SM" width="178" height="171" />Longtime ambassador for personal transformation and fitness, Shawn Phillips is on a mission to spread a new standard of strength throughout America. On his quest, Shawn has focused his considerable passion on transforming our&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/01/tnm-044-shawn-phillips-the-body-focus-and-a-passionate-life/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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			<itunes:keywords>Fitness,Passion,Purpose</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:subtitle>What are you tolerating in your life? - What are you putting your time into? - What are you saying no to? - Make 2009 the year you drop all the bullshit and truly focus on what is really important in your life.</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>What are you tolerating in your life?

What are you putting your time into?

What are you saying no to?

Make 2009 the year you drop all the bullshit and truly focus on what is really important in your life.

Shawn Phillips returns to The New Man and this show is all about focus.

So, what is focus?

&quot;It&#039;s not what is on your mind; it&#039;s what is not on your mind.&quot; says Shawn.

Shawn and Tripp get into the details around:

	The state of presence that arises when everything else drops away.
	How to know what you really want out of your efforts.
	If you don&#039;t know, you can&#039;t have focus.
	How increasing your focus by just 20% per day can increase your results exponentially.
	What is the difference between intensity and stress?Making life more expansive with focus.

Listen as Shawn Phillips coaches us into cultivating our intense focus and opening new doors in our lives.

About Shawn Phillips, Author and Strength Expert

Longtime ambassador for personal transformation and fitness, Shawn Phillips is on a mission to spread a new standard of strength throughout America. On his quest, Shawn has focused his considerable passion on transforming our country, with his steady, unwavering message: &quot;health is not enough; it&#039;s A Time for Strength.&quot; Phillips asks each of us to aim beyond health, to aim for Strength.

Shawn, whose uncompromising commitment to strength and fitness, is a best-selling author, entrepreneur, and renowned expert in the area of performance training and nutrition. For over twenty-five years he has helped hundreds of thousands of people including business leaders, professional athletes, numerous celebrities, clients and friends look great, feel great and unleash their full strength.

Instrumental in building the industry of performance nutrition, Shawn most recently created the Full Strength Premium Nutrition Shake, pioneering a brand new category known as &quot;fast performance food.&quot;</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:duration>23:12</itunes:duration>
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		<title>TNM 041: Marcus Buckingham &#8211; The Truth About You</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/12/tnm-041-marcus-buckingham-the-truth-about-you/</link>
		<comments>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/12/tnm-041-marcus-buckingham-the-truth-about-you/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Dec 2008 02:03:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Marcus Buckingham wants you to be the best you can possibly be.</p>
<p>Not only that, he has a quick, effective program to help you get there.</p>
<p>Marcus has made a career out of studying high performance people from business to sports and reverse engineering their secrets for success. From this research he has learned some secrets to success that are in direct opposition to what we are taught growing up.</p>
<p><a href="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/marcus" target="_blank"><strong>Click here to learn more about Marcus Buckingham.</strong></a></p>
<p><span id="more-125"></span>In this episode:</p>
<ul>
<li>How do we define strengths?</li>
<li>Who is the best judge of your strength?</li>
<li>What do you call something you are very good at, that you don&#8217;t like to do?</li>
<li>How do you make your strengths even stronger?</li>
<li>You are born perfect, how are you going to contribute that to the world?</li>
<li>How to create your &#8220;strong week&#8221; plan?</li>
</ul>
<p>Listen as Marcus shows us how to amplify our strengths and make a real impression with our time here on Earth.</p>
<p>&#8220;It is your responsibility to offer your greatest, and longest lasting contribution to life.&#8221; -Marcus Buckingham</p>
<p><strong>About Marcus Buckingham</strong></p>
<p><img class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-846" title="Buckingham, Marcus" src="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/12/Buckingham-Marcus-150x150.jpg" alt="Buckingham, Marcus" width="150" height="150" />In a world where efficiency and competency rule the workplace, where do personal strengths fit in? It&#8217;s a complex&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/12/tnm-041-marcus-buckingham-the-truth-about-you/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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			<itunes:keywords>Career,Inner Game,Passion,Positive Psychology,Purpose</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:subtitle>Marcus Buckingham wants you to be the best you can possibly be. - Not only that, he has a quick, effective program to help you get there. - Marcus has made a career out of studying high performance people from business to sports and reverse engineering...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Marcus Buckingham wants you to be the best you can possibly be.

Not only that, he has a quick, effective program to help you get there.

Marcus has made a career out of studying high performance people from business to sports and reverse engineering their secrets for success. From this research he has learned some secrets to success that are in direct opposition to what we are taught growing up.

Click here to learn more about Marcus Buckingham.

In this episode:

	How do we define strengths?
	Who is the best judge of your strength?
	What do you call something you are very good at, that you don&#039;t like to do?
	How do you make your strengths even stronger?
	You are born perfect, how are you going to contribute that to the world?
	How to create your &quot;strong week&quot; plan?

Listen as Marcus shows us how to amplify our strengths and make a real impression with our time here on Earth.

&quot;It is your responsibility to offer your greatest, and longest lasting contribution to life.&quot; -Marcus Buckingham

About Marcus Buckingham

In a world where efficiency and competency rule the workplace, where do personal strengths fit in? It&#039;s a complex question, one that intrigued Cambridge-educated Marcus Buckingham so greatly, he set out to answer it by challenging years of social theory and utilizing his nearly two decades of research experience as a Sr. Researcher at Gallup Organization to break through the preconceptions about achievements and get to the core of what drives success.

The result of his persistence, and arguably the definitive answer to the strengths question can be found in Buckingham&#039;s four best-selling books First, Break All the Rules (coauthored with Curt Coffman, Simon &amp; Schuster, 1999); Now, Discover Your Strengths (coauthored with Donald O. Clifton, The Free Press, 2001); The One Thing You Need to Know (The Free Press, 2005) and Go Put Your Strengths To Work (The Free Press, 2007).

The author gives important insights to maximizing strengths, understanding the crucial differences between leadership and management, and fulfilling the quest for long-lasting personal success. In his most recent book, Buckingham offers ways to apply your strengths for maximum success at work. What would happen if men and women spent more than 75% of each day on the job using their strongest skills and engaged in their favorite tasks, basically doing exactly what they wanted to do? According to Marcus Buckingham (who spent years interviewing thousands of employees at every career stage and who is widely considered one of the world&#039;s leading authorities on employee productivity and the practices of leading and managing), companies that focus on cultivating employees&#039; strengths rather than simply improving their weaknesses stand to dramatically increase efficiency while allowing for maximum personal growth and success.

If such a theory sounds revolutionary, that&#039;s because it is. Marcus Buckingham calls it the âstrengths revolution.â As he addresses more than 250,000 people around the globe each year, Buckingham touts this strengths revolution as the key to finding the most effective route to personal success and the missing link to the efficiency, competency, and success for which many companies constantly strive. To kick-start the strengths revolution, Buckingham and Gallup developed the StrengthsFinder exam (StrengthsFinder.com), which identifies signature themes that help employees quantify their personal strengths in the workplace and at home.

Since the StrengthsFinder debuted in 2001, more than 1 million people have discovered their strengths with this useful and important tool. In his role as author, independent consultant and speaker, Marcus Buckingham has been the subject of in-depth profiles in The New York Times, Fortune, Fast Company, Harvard Business Review, USA Today and the Wall Street Journal and is routinely lauded by such corporations as Toyota, Coca-Cola, Master Foods, Wells Fargo,</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
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		<itunes:duration>29:46</itunes:duration>
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		<title>TNM 039: Guy Sengstock Pt 2 &#8211; Jesus Was Not a Family Man</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/11/tnm-039-guy-sengstock-pt-2-jesus-was-not-a-family-man/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Nov 2008 02:27:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Why didn&#8217;t Jesus or the Buddha have a family?</p>
<p>Does becoming a father mean your spiritual life is over?</p>
<p>This week we continue our conversation with Guy Sengstock about integrating spiritual development and a healthy family life.  In this candid and open conversation, Guy gives us an inside look at where he finds the balance point of these two seemingly opposite pursuits in life.</p>
<p>Listen to the conclusion of our dialogue with Guy as he shares with us the challenges and benefits of practicing parenting and personal development.</p>
<p><span id="more-127"></span><strong>About Guy Sengstock, Coach and creator of AreteCenter.com</strong></p>
<p><img style="float: right; border: 0px initial initial;" title="g-guy-sengstock-SM" src="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/g-guy-sengstock-SM.jpg" alt="g-guy-sengstock-SM" width="178" height="171" />Guy Sengstock is the co-founder of the Arete Center for Excellence, an organization that offers accelerated personal growth courses. Guy is also a personal development coach, writer, poet, sculptor, and painter. The Arete Experience is a 3-day workshop offered in San Francisco that provides a remarkable opportunity to discover the unconscious ways in which you hold yourself back. Experience immense and lasting freedom to be yourself in all areas of your life!</p>
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		<itunes:subtitle>Why didn&#039;t Jesus or the Buddha have a family? - Does becoming a father mean your spiritual life is over? - This week we continue our conversation with Guy Sengstock about integrating spiritual development and a healthy family life.</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Why didn&#039;t Jesus or the Buddha have a family?

Does becoming a father mean your spiritual life is over?

This week we continue our conversation with Guy Sengstock about integrating spiritual development and a healthy family life.Â  In this candid and open conversation, Guy gives us an inside look at where he finds the balance point of these two seemingly opposite pursuits in life.

Listen to the conclusion of our dialogue with Guy as he shares with us the challenges and benefits of practicing parenting and personal development.

About Guy Sengstock, Coach and creator of AreteCenter.com

Guy Sengstock is the co-founder of the Arete Center for Excellence, an organization that offers accelerated personal growth courses. Guy is also a personal development coach, writer, poet, sculptor, and painter. The Arete Experience is a 3-day workshop offered in San Francisco that provides a remarkable opportunity to discover the unconscious ways in which you hold yourself back. Experience immense and lasting freedom to be yourself in all areas of your life!</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
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		<title>TNM 038: Guy Sengstock Pt 1 &#8211; How to be a Father Without Losing Your F*****g Mind</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/11/tnm-038-guy-sengstock-how-to-be-a-father-without-losing-your-fg-mind/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Nov 2008 02:45:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Does the true spiritual journey require a life of monastic celibacy?</p>
<p>Does having a family mean we can&#8217;t pursue the deepest of truths?</p>
<p>When Guy Sengstock fell in love with his wife, he was putting himself through art school by working as a personal trainer and a stripper, while on a spiritual path of meditation and eastern philosophy.</p>
<p>Not exactly the picture of the typical family man.</p>
<p>He was also developing Arete workshops, dedicated to helping people grow and find deeper, more authentic versions of themselves.</p>
<p>So how does a wife and kids fit in with meditation and personal development?</p>
<p>Listen as Guy shares with us how he balances family life with spiritual life, and how he has found a way to balance it all.</p>
<p><strong><span id="more-128"></span>About Guy Sengstock, Coach and creator of AreteCenter.com</strong></p>
<p><img style="float: right; border: 0px initial initial;" title="g-guy-sengstock-SM" src="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/g-guy-sengstock-SM.jpg" alt="g-guy-sengstock-SM" width="178" height="171" />Guy Sengstock is the co-founder of the Arete Center for Excellence, an organization that offers accelerated personal growth courses. Guy is also a personal development coach, writer, poet, sculptor, and painter. The Arete Experience is a 3-day workshop offered in San Francisco that provides a remarkable opportunity to discover the unconscious ways in which you hold yourself back. Experience immense and lasting freedom to be yourself in&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/11/tnm-038-guy-sengstock-how-to-be-a-father-without-losing-your-fg-mind/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>Does the true spiritual journey require a life of monastic celibacy? - Does having a family mean we can&#039;t pursue the deepest of truths? - When Guy Sengstock fell in love with his wife, he was putting himself through art school by working as a personal ...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Does the true spiritual journey require a life of monastic celibacy?

Does having a family mean we can&#039;t pursue the deepest of truths?

When Guy Sengstock fell in love with his wife, he was putting himself through art school by working as a personal trainer and a stripper, while on a spiritual path of meditation and eastern philosophy.

Not exactly the picture of the typical family man.

He was also developing Arete workshops, dedicated to helping people grow and find deeper, more authentic versions of themselves.

So how does a wife and kids fit in with meditation and personal development?

Listen as Guy shares with us how he balances family life with spiritual life, and how he has found a way to balance it all.

About Guy Sengstock, Coach and creator of AreteCenter.com

Guy Sengstock is the co-founder of the Arete Center for Excellence, an organization that offers accelerated personal growth courses. Guy is also a personal development coach, writer, poet, sculptor, and painter. The Arete Experience is a 3-day workshop offered in San Francisco that provides a remarkable opportunity to discover the unconscious ways in which you hold yourself back. Experience immense and lasting freedom to be yourself in all areas of your life!</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:duration>31:13</itunes:duration>
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		<title>TNM 037: Wolfgang Bloch &#8211; Finding &amp; Following the Passion in Life</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/11/tnm-037-wolfgang-bloch-finding-the-passion-in-life/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Nov 2008 02:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Are you able to let mistakes you make become opportunities for something greater?</p>
<p>Wolfgang Bloch has always taken the unconventional path in life.</p>
<p>Born in Ecuador, he followed his passion to California and into the arts and graphic design. A surfer from the age of twelve, he was also cultivating a love of the water.</p>
<p>After a successful, but ultimately unrewarding career in commercial art, he broke free and eventually found his true passion&#8230;and learned to find art in life&#8217;s imperfection.</p>
<p>Wolfgang tells us how &#8220;grunt work&#8221; can be seen as a &#8220;base&#8221; for our true expression and how to tell when it is just a dead end.</p>
<p>Wolfgang has gone on to become a renown fine artist in the surf world and beyond, creating mesmerizing surf vistas.</p>
<p>He has just released a book showcasing his work and chronicling his journey.</p>
<p>Listen as Wolfgang describes his uncommon path and the values that helped him rise to the top of the surfing art world.</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wolfgang" target="_blank">Click here to learn more about Wolfgang Bloch.</a></strong></p>
<p><span id="more-129"></span><strong>About Wolfgang Bloch</strong></p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-628" title="g-wolfgang-bloch-SM" src="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/11/g-wolfgang-bloch-SM.jpg" alt="g-wolfgang-bloch-SM" width="178" height="171" />Wolfgang Bloch was born and raised in the vibrant Latin American culture of Guayaquil, Ecuador. At a young age, Bloch discovered the joy of surfing along&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/11/tnm-037-wolfgang-bloch-finding-the-passion-in-life/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>Are you able to let mistakes you make become opportunities for something greater? - Wolfgang Bloch has always taken the unconventional path in life. - Born in Ecuador, he followed his passion to California and into the arts and graphic design.</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Are you able to let mistakes you make become opportunities for something greater?

Wolfgang Bloch has always taken the unconventional path in life.

Born in Ecuador, he followed his passion to California and into the arts and graphic design. A surfer from the age of twelve, he was also cultivating a love of the water.

After a successful, but ultimately unrewarding career in commercial art, he broke free and eventually found his true passion...and learned to find art in life&#039;s imperfection.

Wolfgang tells us how &quot;grunt work&quot; can be seen as a &quot;base&quot; for our true expression and how to tell when it is just a dead end.

Wolfgang has gone on to become a renown fine artist in the surf world and beyond, creating mesmerizing surf vistas.

He has just released a book showcasing his work and chronicling his journey.

Listen as Wolfgang describes his uncommon path and the values that helped him rise to the top of the surfing art world.

Click here to learn more about Wolfgang Bloch.

About Wolfgang Bloch

Wolfgang Bloch was born and raised in the vibrant Latin American culture of Guayaquil, Ecuador. At a young age, Bloch discovered the joy of surfing along Ecuador&#039;s secluded beaches and, in the process, the coastal scenery that would forever serve as his primary source of inspiration. In 1982, Bloch immigrated to the United States where he soon graduated with a Bachelor in Fine Arts Degree from the University of Florida and later a Bachelor in Design from the renowned Art Center College of Design in Pasadena, California.

After enjoying a decade of well-noted commercial success as an art director and illustrator, working for companies like Gotcha Sportswear, Quiksilver, Billabong USA, Jeep, Tower Records, Vans, Hobie and Indian Motorcycles, Bloch dedicated himself to his first love - painting. Wolfgang Bloch&#039;s art reveals much about the man who creates it. But the hints are subtle: The subdued palette, the modest and unexpected materials; all utilized to reduce traditional seascapes to their essence and in the process imbue them with compelling intensity. Bolton Colburn, the director of The Laguna Art Museum calls Wolfgang&#039;s work &quot;sublime and terribly romantic.&quot; Chronicle Books recently published Wolfgang&#039;s first book titled &quot;Wolfgang Bloch: The Colors of Coincidence&quot;, designed by David Carson and written by Mike Stice. The book is an intimate and soulful account of the artist&#039;s rich and layered life, featuring the most evocative examples from his enthralling body of work. Over the past decade, Bloch&#039;s work has been exhibited in the pages of major international publications and on the walls of galleries and museums across the globe. Today, Bloch lives with his wife and two children in Laguna Beach, California.

Click here to learn more about Wolfgang Bloch.</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
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		<title>TNM 035: Ed Fell &#8211; The Mankind Project</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/10/tnm-035-ed-fell-the-mankind-project/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Oct 2008 02:09:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>How much bullshit are you tolerating?</p>
<p>Are there things you wish you could do before you die, but are not getting around to them?</p>
<p>Are you tolerating a life that you never thought you would have, feeling that there is no way to change things?</p>
<p>Ed Fell wants to help us out.</p>
<p>As a longtime member of The Mankind Project, Ed points to the fact that men have no initiation ceremonies in American culture and often drift through life, unsure of themselves as a result.</p>
<p>We have heard several times on the New Man about the importance of initiation ceremony.</p>
<p>The Mankind Project is dedicated to giving men a healthy initiation to manhood and giving us an experience of who we truly are and what it feels like to be our authentic selves. From that experience of initiation, The Mankind Project offers a close network of support and challenge, to help men live their lives to the fullest.</p>
<p>The last item on that &#8220;bucket list&#8221; might just be the journey inward, to really get to know ourselves.</p>
<p><span id="more-131"></span><strong>About Ed Fell</strong></p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-632" title="g-ed-fell-SM" src="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/g-ed-fell-SM.jpg" alt="g-ed-fell-SM" width="178" height="171" />Ed Fell, M.S. is a Master Psychotherapist, relationship and sex coach, Sacred Sexuality educator, workshop facilitator, writer and Certified Leader and&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/10/tnm-035-ed-fell-the-mankind-project/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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			<itunes:keywords>Men&#039;s Groups,MKP,Passion,Purpose</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:subtitle>How much bullshit are you tolerating? - Are there things you wish you could do before you die, but are notÂ getting around to them? - Are you tolerating a life that you never thought you would have, feeling that there is no way to change things?</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>How much bullshit are you tolerating?

Are there things you wish you could do before you die, but are notÂ getting around to them?

Are you tolerating a life that you never thought you would have, feeling that there is no way to change things?

Ed Fell wants to help us out.

As a longtime member of The Mankind Project, Ed points to the fact that men have no initiation ceremonies in American culture and often drift through life, unsure of themselves as a result.

We have heard several times on the New Man about the importance of initiation ceremony.

The Mankind Project is dedicated to giving men a healthy initiation to manhood and giving us an experience of who we truly are and what it feels like to be our authentic selves. From that experience of initiation, The Mankind Project offers a close network of support and challenge, to help men live their lives to the fullest.

The last item on that &quot;bucket list&quot; might just be the journey inward, to really get to know ourselves.

About Ed Fell

Ed Fell, M.S. is a Master Psychotherapist, relationship and sex coach, Sacred Sexuality educator, workshop facilitator, writer and Certified Leader and Leader trainer with the Mankind Project International. He welcomes both phone and in-person clients. Ed is about evolution, authentic living and loving, transformation, self-inquiry and a disciplined commitment to the truth. He inspires play, laughter and living with purpose with whomever he touches in his work and life. You can email him at edefell@aol.com or call @ 720-352-5333.</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
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		<title>TNM 029: Kute Blackson Pt 2 &#8211; What Are You Waiting For?</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/09/tnm-029-kute-blackson-what-are-you-waiting-for/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Sep 2008 02:37:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Is your life passing you by?</p>
<p>Are you holding back, waiting for your best friends&#8217; funeral before you express how you really feel about them?</p>
<p>Are you leaving things off the table&#8230;unsaid, undone, unattempted?</p>
<p>Why?</p>
<p><strong>Do it NOW!</strong></p>
<p>This IS the game, there is no where else to go. This is your life, passing you by one day at a time.</p>
<p>Are you living it to the fullest?</p>
<p>In Part 2 of our dialogue, Kute Blackson shakes us out of our slumber so we can really begin to live our lives.</p>
<p>&#8220;We think we are in a prison&#8230;but the door is open, walk through it!&#8221; exclaims Kute.</p>
<p>In this episode:</p>
<ul>
<li>What game are you buying into right now?</li>
<li>What your resistance to things in your life really is.</li>
<li>Where are you holding back?</li>
<li>Why your girlfriend might be acting bitchy when you seem unsure of yourself.</li>
<li>Where to look to find your deepest wisdom</li>
</ul>
<p>Listen as Kute helps us realize the deepest truth about our lives and how we can truly live it each and every day.</p>
<p><strong><span id="more-137"></span>About Kute Blackson</strong></p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-554" title="g-kute-blackson-SM" src="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/g-kute-blackson-SM.jpg" alt="g-kute-blackson-SM" width="178" height="171" />Kute Blackson is an extraordinary man, a man on a mission. He is known for his high energy, his&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/09/tnm-029-kute-blackson-what-are-you-waiting-for/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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			<itunes:keywords>Death,Fitness,Inner Game,Meditation,Passion,Purpose,Spirituality</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:subtitle>Is your life passing you by? - Are you holding back, waiting for your best friends&#039; funeral before you express how you really feel about them? - Are you leaving things off the table...unsaid, undone, unattempted? - Why? - Do it NOW! - This IS the game,</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Is your life passing you by?

Are you holding back, waiting for your best friends&#039; funeral before you express how you really feel about them?

Are you leaving things off the table...unsaid, undone, unattempted?

Why?

Do it NOW!

This IS the game, there is no where else to go.Â This is your life, passing you by one day at a time.

Are you living it to the fullest?

In Part 2 of our dialogue, Kute Blackson shakes us out of our slumber so we can really begin to live our lives.

&quot;We think we are in a prison...but the door is open, walk through it!&quot; exclaims Kute.

In this episode:

	What game are you buying into right now?
	What your resistance to things in your life really is.
	Where are you holding back?
	Why your girlfriend might be acting bitchy when you seem unsure of yourself.
	Where to look to find your deepest wisdom

Listen as Kute helps us realize the deepest truth about our lives and how we can truly live it each and every day.

About Kute Blackson

Kute Blackson is an extraordinary man, a man on a mission. He is known for his high energy, his cutting edge ideas, his dynamic and life changing presentations. Born in Ghana, West Africa, Kute experienced a diversity of cultures very early on, being of Ghanaian/Japanese heritage and having been raised in London. After deciding to move to America in pursuit of âThe American Dream,â Kute amazingly won a green card in the âDV-1 Green Card Lotteryâ where there were only a handful of winners amongst millions of applicants worldwide. Kute says, âOur thoughts create our reality â thoughts are the chisel that sculpt our destiny into tangible form.â

Once Kute arrived in Los Angeles, he had no contacts, no college education, very little money, only two suitcases (one for clothes, one for books), and a burning desire to make his dreams real. Kute, is a living embodiment of someone who has overcome adversity, and thrived against all odds, which is what is his signature presentation âLeap and your Wings will appear!â is about.

Kute immediately started his own business while living in a tiny apartment, sleeping on the floor. During this challenging period in his life, Kute found solace in some of the 750 plus books he read as inspiration and fuel to keep moving past the quitting point. Although he had to ride the bus along Wilshire Blvd, he was driven by his tenacity and passion, and his business began to soar. Utilizing multi-level marketing as a vehicle to get off the ground, he was soon able to move on to his actual field of interest: speaking and coaching.

Known nationally as âThe Transformation Coach,â Kute is a certified hypnotherapist and âNLPâ practitioner, assisting individuals and corporations in creating authentic change. He is also a radio talk-show personality, having had his own radio show called âBeyond Boundariesâ on KYPA in Los Angeles. As founder and president of âThe Blackson Group,â Kute is a dynamic life coach, and inspirational speaker, having spoken to audiences internationally. For many years now, his unique message of empowerment, has inspired thousands, at companies such as: Century 21, TCG, Re Max, Prudential Financial Services, Washington Mutual, and many more.

Kute is also featured regularly on KTLA channel 5, sharing innovative, and practical ideas about personal growth and success. Nelson Davis, president of Nelson Davis Television Productions says, âKute Blackson is a favorite contributor to our television program, âMaking It.â He brings focus and intensity to inspirational thinking that our viewers respond to. I think that he has the special ability to communicate excellent ideas.â Kute is truly the speaker and coach for the ânew generation!â

With his company âThe Blackson Group,â Kute is dedicated to the transformation of individuals, and corporations, from the âinside-out.â Kute has created what some consider the ultimate coaching system,</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:duration>28:19</itunes:duration>
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		<title>TNM 028: Kute Blackson Pt 1 &#8211; Are You Ready to Die?</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/09/tnm-028-kute-blackson-are-you-ready-to-die/</link>
		<comments>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/09/tnm-028-kute-blackson-are-you-ready-to-die/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Sep 2008 04:02:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Does some part of your life suck?</p>
<p>Are you stuck because you don&#8217;t have any other choice?</p>
<p>Have you tried everything you can and you just can&#8217;t change it?</p>
<p>Bullshit.</p>
<p>Thats what Kute Blackson is telling us.  Bullshit.</p>
<p>When we find ourselves in that miserable, stuck place, we are invariably wasting energy avoiding our truth and keeping ourselves muted because we are afraid to face the unknown.</p>
<p>&#8220;If you are feeling pain and dissatisfaction, that&#8217;s your doorway, go through it and find who you really are,&#8221; Kute insists.</p>
<p>It may be necessary to experience the death of &#8220;self&#8221; to live your best life.</p>
<p>What do you need to give to the world so that you can die complete?</p>
<p>Listen as Kute a Tripp take us into the darkness, searching for that light of freedom on the other side.</p>
<p><span id="more-138"></span><strong>About Kute Blackson</strong></p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-554" title="g-kute-blackson-SM" src="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/g-kute-blackson-SM.jpg" alt="g-kute-blackson-SM" width="178" height="171" />Kute Blackson is an extraordinary man, a man on a mission. He is known for his high energy, his cutting edge ideas, his dynamic and life changing presentations. Born in Ghana, West Africa, Kute experienced a diversity of cultures very early on, being of Ghanaian/Japanese heritage and having been raised in London. After deciding to move to America in&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/09/tnm-028-kute-blackson-are-you-ready-to-die/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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			<itunes:keywords>Death,Fitness,Inner Game,Meditation,Passion,Purpose,Spirituality</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:subtitle>Does some part of your life suck? - Are you stuck because you don&#039;t have any other choice? - Have you tried everything you can and you just can&#039;t change it? - Bullshit. - Thats what Kute Blackson is telling us.  Bullshit.</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Does some part of your life suck?

Are you stuck because you don&#039;t have any other choice?

Have you tried everything you can and you just can&#039;t change it?

Bullshit.

Thats what Kute Blackson is telling us.  Bullshit.

When we find ourselves in that miserable, stuck place, we are invariably wasting energy avoiding our truth and keeping ourselves muted because we are afraid to face the unknown.

&quot;If you are feeling pain and dissatisfaction, that&#039;s your doorway, go through it and find who you really are,&quot; Kute insists.

It may be necessary to experience the death of &quot;self&quot; to live your best life.

What do you need to give to the world so that you can die complete?

Listen as Kute a Tripp take us into the darkness, searching for that light of freedom on the other side.

About Kute Blackson

Kute Blackson is an extraordinary man, a man on a mission. He is known for his high energy, his cutting edge ideas, his dynamic and life changing presentations. Born in Ghana, West Africa, Kute experienced a diversity of cultures very early on, being of Ghanaian/Japanese heritage and having been raised in London. After deciding to move to America in pursuit of âThe American Dream,â Kute amazingly won a green card in the âDV-1 Green Card Lotteryâ where there were only a handful of winners amongst millions of applicants worldwide. Kute says, âOur thoughts create our reality â thoughts are the chisel that sculpt our destiny into tangible form.â

Once Kute arrived in Los Angeles, he had no contacts, no college education, very little money, only two suitcases (one for clothes, one for books), and a burning desire to make his dreams real. Kute, is a living embodiment of someone who has overcome adversity, and thrived against all odds, which is what is his signature presentation âLeap and your Wings will appear!â is about.

Kute immediately started his own business while living in a tiny apartment, sleeping on the floor. During this challenging period in his life, Kute found solace in some of the 750 plus books he read as inspiration and fuel to keep moving past the quitting point. Although he had to ride the bus along Wilshire Blvd, he was driven by his tenacity and passion, and his business began to soar. Utilizing multi-level marketing as a vehicle to get off the ground, he was soon able to move on to his actual field of interest: speaking and coaching.

Known nationally as âThe Transformation Coach,â Kute is a certified hypnotherapist and âNLPâ practitioner, assisting individuals and corporations in creating authentic change. He is also a radio talk-show personality, having had his own radio show called âBeyond Boundariesâ on KYPA in Los Angeles. As founder and president of âThe Blackson Group,â Kute is a dynamic life coach, and inspirational speaker, having spoken to audiences internationally. For many years now, his unique message of empowerment, has inspired thousands, at companies such as: Century 21, TCG, Re Max, Prudential Financial Services, Washington Mutual, and many more.

Kute is also featured regularly on KTLA channel 5, sharing innovative, and practical ideas about personal growth and success. Nelson Davis, president of Nelson Davis Television Productions says, âKute Blackson is a favorite contributor to our television program, âMaking It.â He brings focus and intensity to inspirational thinking that our viewers respond to. I think that he has the special ability to communicate excellent ideas.â Kute is truly the speaker and coach for the ânew generation!â

With his company âThe Blackson Group,â Kute is dedicated to the transformation of individuals, and corporations, from the âinside-out.â Kute has created what some consider the ultimate coaching system, and presentations for corporations, in the area of peak performance and personal evolution. â My mission is to assist individuals and corporations, move âBeyond Boundaries,</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:duration>33:07</itunes:duration>
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		<title>TNM 024: Shawn Phillips Pt 2 &#8211; Hitting the Wall vs Balanced Recovery</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/08/tnm-024-shawn-phillips-pt-2-hitting-the-wall-vs-balanced-recovery/</link>
		<comments>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/08/tnm-024-shawn-phillips-pt-2-hitting-the-wall-vs-balanced-recovery/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Aug 2008 02:04:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Are you noticing instability in your life as you push closer to your limits of performance?</p>
<p>Operating at &#8220;full-bore&#8221; may not be the best way to get where we want to go.</p>
<p>Shawn Phillips advises that for optimum performance, rest can be just as important as exertion.  This applies to our physical bodies as well as our profession, our personal relationships and our purpose in life.</p>
<p>&#8220;Recovery is like the silence between the notes that makes the music,&#8221; says Shawn.</p>
<p>Shawn and Tripp also explore the possibility that there is a difference between commitment and attachment.  Attachment is our dependence on an outcome.  Commitment is our willingness to &#8220;play&#8221; regardless of the outcome.  When we get too far into attachment we lose focus, lose our power, and lose our ability to remain present in the moment.</p>
<p>&#8220;I&#8217;m committed to the game without attachment to the outcome,&#8221; Shawn says.</p>
<p>Listen as Tripp continues his dialogue with Shawn Phillips, &#8220;Strength for Life&#8221; author and Human Performance expert.</p>
<p><span id="more-142"></span></p>
<p><strong>About Shawn Phillips, Author and Strength Expert</strong></p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-584" title="g-shawn-phillips-1780-SM" src="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/01/g-shawn-phillips-1780-SM.jpg" alt="g-shawn-phillips-1780-SM" width="178" height="171" />Longtime ambassador for personal transformation and fitness, Shawn Phillips is on a mission to spread a new standard of strength throughout America. On his quest, Shawn has&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/08/tnm-024-shawn-phillips-pt-2-hitting-the-wall-vs-balanced-recovery/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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			<itunes:keywords>Fitness,Passion,Purpose</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:subtitle>Are you noticing instability in your life as you push closer to your limits of performance? - Operating at &quot;full-bore&quot; may not be the best way to get where we want to go. - Shawn Phillips advises that for optimum performance,</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Are you noticing instability in your life as you push closer to your limits of performance?

Operating at &quot;full-bore&quot; may not be the best way to get where we want to go.

Shawn Phillips advises that for optimum performance, rest can be just as important as exertion.  This applies to our physical bodies as well as our profession, our personal relationships and our purpose in life.

&quot;Recovery is like the silence between the notes that makes the music,&quot; says Shawn.

Shawn and Tripp also explore the possibility that there is a difference between commitment and attachment.  Attachment is our dependence on an outcome.  Commitment is our willingness to &quot;play&quot; regardless of the outcome.  When we get too far into attachment we lose focus, lose our power, and lose our ability to remain present in the moment.

&quot;I&#039;m committed to the game without attachment to the outcome,&quot; Shawn says.

Listen as Tripp continues his dialogue with Shawn Phillips, &quot;Strength for Life&quot; author and Human Performance expert.



About Shawn Phillips, Author and Strength Expert

Longtime ambassador for personal transformation and fitness, Shawn Phillips is on a mission to spread a new standard of strength throughout America. On his quest, Shawn has focused his considerable passion on transforming our country, with his steady, unwavering message: &quot;health is not enough; it&#039;s A Time for Strength.&quot; Phillips asks each of us to aim beyond health, to aim for Strength.

Shawn, whose uncompromising commitment to strength and fitness, is a best-selling author, entrepreneur, and renowned expert in the area of performance training and nutrition. For over twenty-five years he has helped hundreds of thousands of people including business leaders, professional athletes, numerous celebrities, clients and friends look great, feel great and unleash their full strength.

Instrumental in building the industry of performance nutrition, Shawn most recently created the Full Strength Premium Nutrition Shake, pioneering a brand new category known as &quot;fast performance food.&quot;

Shawn is also the creator of Focus Intensity Training, a system integrating body and mind; blending the depth of Eastern traditions with the Western form and function of strength training. He also has served as a faculty member of the Integral Institute, a leader in the field of human potential.

While known by many for his signature &quot;six-pack abs,&quot; his brilliant clarity and inspiring vision, Shawn, a Colorado native, is better known by his family, close friends and associates as a focused, hard-working man with a kind heart and an intense passion for helping people live extraordinary lives.

He is currently forming the Coalition for Strength, a new non-profit organization dedicated to sharing and celebrating the benefits of living with strength to inspire people of all walks of life to build our collective strength by cultivating our individual strength.

Shawn is the author of Strength for Life (available April 29, 2008, Ballantine Books). In Strength for Life Shawn guides women and men beyond health to a new-level of strength with a revolutionary approach to nutrition and training. He is also the author of ABSolution: The Practical Guide To Building Your Best Abs.

Shawn currently lives in the foothills of Colorado with his wife Angie and their two children, Nathaniel and Lilly.</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:duration>31:22</itunes:duration>
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		<title>TNM 023: Shawn Phillips Pt 1 &#8211; Health is Killing You!</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/08/tnm-023-shawn-phillips-health-is-killing-you/</link>
		<comments>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/08/tnm-023-shawn-phillips-health-is-killing-you/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Aug 2008 02:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Is settling for mere &#8220;health&#8221; actually sending you to an early grave?</p>
<p>We all think health is something we should be happy with when we have it &#8212; or something to return to when our health fails us.</p>
<p>Shawn Phillips will not settle for mere &#8220;health.&#8221;</p>
<p>Shawn calls us to enter a life of Strength, a place where our abundant health can serve us in all aspects of our lives and allow us to put ourselves out there in the world.</p>
<p>We&#8217;ve all taken up a workout routine, trying to get &#8220;back in shape&#8221; because we think we should.  Shawn invites us to get past the &#8220;shoulds&#8221; and find our true power, the source of our potential greatness.</p>
<p>From this place, the weight room becomes an expression of the abundance of our lives, and our bodies will show the results.</p>
<p>Listen to Shawn and Tripp talk about how to stop &#8220;doing fitness&#8221; and start being fit.</p>
<p><strong><span id="more-143"></span>About Shawn Phillips, Author and Strength Expert</strong></p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-584" title="g-shawn-phillips-1780-SM" src="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/01/g-shawn-phillips-1780-SM.jpg" alt="g-shawn-phillips-1780-SM" width="178" height="171" />Longtime ambassador for personal transformation and fitness, Shawn Phillips is on a mission to spread a new standard of strength throughout America. On his quest, Shawn has focused his considerable passion on transforming our country, with his&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/08/tnm-023-shawn-phillips-health-is-killing-you/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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			<itunes:keywords>Fitness,Passion,Purpose</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:subtitle>Is settling for mere &quot;health&quot; actually sending you to an early grave? - We all think health is something we should be happy with when we have it -- or something to return to when our health fails us. - Shawn Phillips will not settle for mere &quot;health.</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Is settling for mere &quot;health&quot; actually sending you to an early grave?

We all think health is something we should be happy with when we have it -- or something to return to when our health fails us.

Shawn Phillips will not settle for mere &quot;health.&quot;

Shawn calls us to enter a life of Strength, a place where our abundant health can serve us in all aspects of our lives and allow us to put ourselves out there in the world.

We&#039;ve all taken up a workout routine, trying to get &quot;back in shape&quot; because we think we should.  Shawn invites us to get past the &quot;shoulds&quot; and find our true power, the source of our potential greatness.

From this place, the weight room becomes an expression of the abundance of our lives, and our bodies will show the results.

Listen to Shawn and Tripp talk about how to stop &quot;doing fitness&quot; and start being fit.

About Shawn Phillips, Author and Strength Expert

Longtime ambassador for personal transformation and fitness, Shawn Phillips is on a mission to spread a new standard of strength throughout America. On his quest, Shawn has focused his considerable passion on transforming our country, with his steady, unwavering message: &quot;health is not enough; it&#039;s A Time for Strength.&quot; Phillips asks each of us to aim beyond health, to aim for Strength.

Shawn, whose uncompromising commitment to strength and fitness, is a best-selling author, entrepreneur, and renowned expert in the area of performance training and nutrition. For over twenty-five years he has helped hundreds of thousands of people including business leaders, professional athletes, numerous celebrities, clients and friends look great, feel great and unleash their full strength.

Instrumental in building the industry of performance nutrition, Shawn most recently created the Full Strength Premium Nutrition Shake, pioneering a brand new category known as &quot;fast performance food.&quot;

Shawn is also the creator of Focus Intensity Training, a system integrating body and mind; blending the depth of Eastern traditions with the Western form and function of strength training. He also has served as a faculty member of the Integral Institute, a leader in the field of human potential.

While known by many for his signature &quot;six-pack abs,&quot; his brilliant clarity and inspiring vision, Shawn, a Colorado native, is better known by his family, close friends and associates as a focused, hard-working man with a kind heart and an intense passion for helping people live extraordinary lives.

He is currently forming the Coalition for Strength, a new non-profit organization dedicated to sharing and celebrating the benefits of living with strength to inspire people of all walks of life to build our collective strength by cultivating our individual strength.

Shawn is the author of Strength for Life (available April 29, 2008, Ballantine Books). In Strength for Life Shawn guides women and men beyond health to a new-level of strength with a revolutionary approach to nutrition and training. He is also the author of ABSolution: The Practical Guide To Building Your Best Abs.

Shawn currently lives in the foothills of Colorado with his wife Angie and their two children, Nathaniel and Lilly.</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:duration>27:36</itunes:duration>
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		<title>TNM 015: Thresholds Passages &#8211; Have You Lost Your Teenage Fire?</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/03/tnm-015-have-you-lost-your-teenage-fire/</link>
		<comments>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/03/tnm-015-have-you-lost-your-teenage-fire/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Mar 2008 11:04:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>When does a boy become a man?</p>
<p>In more tribal times, the transition to adulthood for men was very clear.  It was accompanied by support and ceremony and left no question in the minds of the boys or the tribe about status or responsibility.</p>
<p>Our modern social structure seems to have abandoned this support structure for transition, something we are learning is so essential for young men.</p>
<p>Threshold Passages is one organization that is changing that. Threshold Passages brings together young men on the path to adulthood, with willing mentors dedicated to helping these young men on their way.  Together, these men and boys at varying stages of life, share wisdom, energy and support in the form of Adventure weekends and weekly group meetings.</p>
<p>This week we talk with Ed Lippolis, a program &#8220;mentor&#8221; at 39 years old and Patrick Hillman, a program &#8220;journeyman&#8221; at 16 years old.  We get the perspective on both sides of this unique group mentoring program and hear about how important this program is in each of their lives.</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://ThresholdPassages.org" target="_blank">Click here to learn more about Threshold Passages</a></strong></p>
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		<itunes:subtitle>When does a boy become a man? - In more tribal times, the transition to adulthood for men was very clear.  It was accompanied by support and ceremony and left no question in the minds of the boys or the tribe about status or responsibility.</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>When does a boy become a man?

In more tribal times, the transition to adulthood for men was very clear.  It was accompanied by support and ceremony and left no question in the minds of the boys or the tribe about status or responsibility.

Our modern social structure seems to have abandoned this support structure for transition, something we are learning is so essential for young men.

Threshold Passages is one organization that is changing that. Threshold Passages brings together young men on the path to adulthood, with willing mentors dedicated to helping these young men on their way.  Together, these men and boys at varying stages of life, share wisdom, energy and support in the form of Adventure weekends and weekly group meetings.

This week we talk with Ed Lippolis, a program &quot;mentor&quot; at 39 years old and Patrick Hillman, a program &quot;journeyman&quot; at 16 years old.  We get the perspective on both sides of this unique group mentoring program and hear about how important this program is in each of their lives.

Click here to learn more about Threshold Passages</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:duration>30:17</itunes:duration>
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		<title>TNM 010: Marty Nemko &#8211; Status is the Enemy of Contentment</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/02/tnm-010-status-is-the-enemy-of-contentment/</link>
		<comments>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/02/tnm-010-status-is-the-enemy-of-contentment/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Feb 2008 09:20:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Is your career really aligned with your life&#8217;s purpose?</p>
<p>How important is a man&#8217;s purpose in life when choosing a career?</p>
<p>This week we sit down with Marty Nemko, Career Editor for U.S. News and World Report and Kiplingers.com to get his unique perspective on careers and the popular stereotype of men.</p>
<p>Marty brings a no-nonsense approach to his career advice, but there is wisdom in his perspective.  He tells us what the most rewarding careers have in common and what to look for when seeking that perfect job.  He flips conventional wisdom on its head and looks at the truth behind the flashy careers like doctors and lawyers and why these may not be the best paths to a rewarding life.</p>
<p>Marty is also passionate about how men are seen in today&#8217;s western society.  He argues that the portrayal of men as incompetent, aggressive, and powerless is not only inaccurate, but is having a harmful effect on the psyche of men and boys.</p>
<p><strong><span id="more-156"></span>About Marty Nemko</strong></p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-717" title="Dianne Woods pictures March 2005 015_edited" src="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/02/Dianne-Woods-pictures-March-2005-015_edited.jpg" alt="Dianne Woods pictures March 2005 015_edited" width="220" height="182" />Marty&#8217;s mother claims that he could read the New York Times at age 3 and that his reading comprehension in the 1st grade was at the 12th grade level. That&#8217;s either the exaggerations&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/02/tnm-010-status-is-the-enemy-of-contentment/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>Is your career really aligned with your life&#039;s purpose? - How important is a man&#039;s purpose in life when choosing a career? - This week we sit down with Marty Nemko, Career Editor for U.S. News and World Report and Kiplingers.</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Is your career really aligned with your life&#039;s purpose?

How important is a man&#039;s purpose in life when choosing a career?

This week we sit down with Marty Nemko, Career Editor for U.S. News and World Report and Kiplingers.com to get his unique perspective on careers and the popular stereotype of men.

Marty brings a no-nonsense approach to his career advice, but there is wisdom in his perspective.  He tells us what the most rewarding careers have in common and what to look for when seeking that perfect job.  He flips conventional wisdom on its head and looks at the truth behind the flashy careers like doctors and lawyers and why these may not be the best paths to a rewarding life.

Marty is also passionate about how men are seen in today&#039;s western society.  He argues that the portrayal of men as incompetent, aggressive, and powerless is not only inaccurate, but is having a harmful effect on the psyche of men and boys.

About Marty Nemko

Marty&#039;s mother claims that he could read the New York Times at age 3 and that his reading comprehension in the 1st grade was at the 12th grade level. That&#039;s either the exaggerations of a Jewish mother or the first sign of what was to come.

Today, Dr. Marty Nemko is among the nation&#039;s most sought-after experts on both career and education issues. Marty has been interviewed by hundreds of major media--including multiple times on everything from The Today Show to NPR&#039;s Talk of the Nation, from the New York Times to the Los Angeles Times.</itunes:summary>
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		<title>TNM 006: Jayson Gaddis Pt 3 &#8211; Is it Necessary to Get Close to Death to Live Life?</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/01/tnm-006-is-it-necessary-to-get-close-to-death-to-live-life/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jan 2008 11:46:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>In the final episode of our three-part in-depth conversation with Jayson Gaddis we explore the deepest truths of men&#8217;s Rite of Passage work and how we can bring this truth to our everyday lives.</p>
<p>What happens when we step out of our &#8220;safe zone&#8221; and why are some constantly chasing the adrenaline rush of danger?</p>
<p>Jayson talks with us about the power of stepping out of this &#8220;safe zone&#8221; and how embracing our &#8220;edge&#8221; can become a practice in our lives.</p>
<p><span id="more-160"></span><strong>About Jayson Gaddis, Creator of Revolutionary Man</strong></p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-729" title="g-jayson-gaddis-2569-SM" src="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/01/g-jayson-gaddis-2569-SM.jpg" alt="g-jayson-gaddis-2569-SM" width="178" height="171" />Jayson Gaddis, LPC, is an expert in male psychology. He’s a life and relationship coach and CEO of Revolutionary Man, a company devoted to men in their 20’s and 30’s (and often men in their 40’s) who are committed to going beyond mainstream, status quo Manhood and men who are committed to reaching fulfillment in ALL areas of their life. Jayson believes that when guys can master their own inner psychology, anything is possible.</p>
<p>He began this work as a leadership consultant traveling the country helping young men lead more effectively. Jayson has led over 25 wilderness rites-of-passage trips with men of all ages. He spent over ten years working with at-risk&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/01/tnm-006-is-it-necessary-to-get-close-to-death-to-live-life/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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			<itunes:keywords>Fear,Passion,Purpose,Rites of Passage</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:subtitle>In the final episode of our three-part in-depth conversation with Jayson Gaddis we explore the deepest truths of men&#039;s Rite of Passage work and how we can bring this truth to our everyday lives. - What happens when we step out of our &quot;safe zone&quot; and wh...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>In the final episode of our three-part in-depth conversation with Jayson Gaddis we explore the deepest truths of men&#039;s Rite of Passage work and how we can bring this truth to our everyday lives.

What happens when we step out of our &quot;safe zone&quot; and why are some constantly chasing the adrenaline rush of danger?

Jayson talks with us about the power of stepping out of this &quot;safe zone&quot; and how embracing our &quot;edge&quot; can become a practice in our lives.

About Jayson Gaddis, Creator of Revolutionary Man

Jayson Gaddis, LPC, is an expert in male psychology. Heâs a life and relationship coach and CEO of Revolutionary Man, a company devoted to men in their 20âs and 30âs (and often men in their 40âs) who are committed to going beyond mainstream, status quo Manhood and men who are committed to reaching fulfillment in ALL areas of their life. Jayson believes that when guys can master their own inner psychology, anything is possible.

He began this work as a leadership consultant traveling the country helping young men lead more effectively. Jayson has led over 25 wilderness rites-of-passage trips with men of all ages. He spent over ten years working with at-risk youth in a variety of settings. Heâs an adventurer at heart and has climbed some of the countryâs tallest peaks and used to spend over 200 days per year sleeping on the earth, working in the Wilderness.</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:duration>16:53</itunes:duration>
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		<title>TNM 005: Jayson Gaddis Pt 2 &#8211; How Does a Rite of Passage Affect the Rest of Your Life?</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2007/12/tnm-005-how-does-a-rite-of-passage-affect-the-rest-of-your-life/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Dec 2007 14:10:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>How does rite of passage affect the rest of your life?</p>
<p>Are you really alive?</p>
<p>So you&#8217;ve experienced your Rite of Passage, you&#8217;re speaking to your animal spirits, now what? <img src='http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Jayson gives us some suggestions on how to take your insight back into the world and how to stay connected to your highest self throughout your life.</p>
<p>What is the Rite of Passage really about?</p>
<p>Are you in touch with the fact that one day you will die?</p>
<p>Popular culture often hints at the kind of initiation into manhood we are talking about.  War films, coming of age tales and hero stories are often built around a man&#8217;s Rite of Passage in some way. &#8220;Fight Club&#8221; pointed to the problem, but didn&#8217;t really offer a workable solution.  The film &#8220;Into the Wild&#8221; is Jayson&#8217;s favorite Rite of Passage story, and every man with these questions should check it out.</p>
<p><span id="more-161"></span><strong>About Jayson Gaddis, Creator of Revolutionary Man</strong></p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-729" title="g-jayson-gaddis-2569-SM" src="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/01/g-jayson-gaddis-2569-SM.jpg" alt="g-jayson-gaddis-2569-SM" width="178" height="171" />Jayson Gaddis, LPC, is an expert in male psychology. He’s a life and relationship coach and CEO of Revolutionary Man, a company devoted to men in their 20’s and 30’s (and often men in their 40’s) who are&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2007/12/tnm-005-how-does-a-rite-of-passage-affect-the-rest-of-your-life/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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			<itunes:keywords>Fear,Passion,Purpose,Rites of Passage</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:subtitle>How does rite of passage affect the rest of your life? - Are you really alive? - So you&#039;ve experienced your Rite of Passage, you&#039;re speaking to your animal spirits, now what? ;-) - Jayson gives us some suggestions on how to take your insight back into ...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>How does rite of passage affect the rest of your life?

Are you really alive?

So you&#039;ve experienced your Rite of Passage, you&#039;re speaking to your animal spirits, now what? ;-)

Jayson gives us some suggestions on how to take your insight back into the world and how to stay connected to your highest self throughout your life.

What is the Rite of Passage really about?

Are you in touch with the fact that one day you will die?

Popular culture often hints at the kind of initiation into manhood we are talking about.  War films, coming of age tales and hero stories are often built around a man&#039;s Rite of Passage in some way. &quot;Fight Club&quot; pointed to the problem, but didn&#039;t really offer a workable solution.  The film &quot;Into the Wild&quot; is Jayson&#039;s favorite Rite of Passage story, and every man with these questions should check it out.

About Jayson Gaddis, Creator of Revolutionary Man

Jayson Gaddis, LPC, is an expert in male psychology. Heâs a life and relationship coach and CEO of Revolutionary Man, a company devoted to men in their 20âs and 30âs (and often men in their 40âs) who are committed to going beyond mainstream, status quo Manhood and men who are committed to reaching fulfillment in ALL areas of their life. Jayson believes that when guys can master their own inner psychology, anything is possible.

He began this work as a leadership consultant traveling the country helping young men lead more effectively. Jayson has led over 25 wilderness rites-of-passage trips with men of all ages. He spent over ten years working with at-risk youth in a variety of settings. Heâs an adventurer at heart and has climbed some of the countryâs tallest peaks and used to spend over 200 days per year sleeping on the earth, working in the Wilderness.</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:duration>19:43</itunes:duration>
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		<title>TNM 004: Jayson Gaddis Pt 1 &#8211; Join a Fraternity! Be All That You Can Be! Now You&#8217;re a Man, Right?</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2007/12/tnm-004-join-a-fraternity-be-all-that-you-can-be-now-youre-a-man-right/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Dec 2007 16:44:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Is joining a fraternity a necessary part of a man&#8217;s development?</p>
<p>Well, maybe.  College fraternities are addressing a genuine need all young men feel—the need for a transition from childhood into being accepted as a grown man.  The problem is that they are doing a poor job of meeting that need with a genuine and healthy &#8220;Rite of Passage.&#8221;</p>
<p>This week Tripp and Casey sit down with Jayson Gaddis and talk about the Rite of Passage concept and its absence in modern western culture.</p>
<p>With no Rite of Passage, men miss out on an essential ingredient to their healthy development.  Jayson points out that the typical pattern of following the &#8220;shoulds&#8221; in life and not getting in touch with our true purpose is almost epidemic.  &#8220;It&#8217;s a recipe for a midlife crisis,&#8221; he says.</p>
<p><span id="more-162"></span><strong>About Jayson Gaddis, Creator of Revolutionary Man</strong></p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-729" title="g-jayson-gaddis-2569-SM" src="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/01/g-jayson-gaddis-2569-SM.jpg" alt="g-jayson-gaddis-2569-SM" width="178" height="171" />Jayson Gaddis, LPC, is an expert in male psychology. He’s a life and relationship coach and CEO of Revolutionary Man, a company devoted to men in their 20’s and 30’s (and often men in their 40’s) who are committed to going beyond mainstream, status quo Manhood and men who are committed to reaching fulfillment in ALL areas of their&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2007/12/tnm-004-join-a-fraternity-be-all-that-you-can-be-now-youre-a-man-right/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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			<itunes:keywords>Fear,Passion,Purpose,Rites of Passage</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:subtitle>Is joining a fraternity a necessary part of a man&#039;s development? - Well, maybe.  College fraternities are addressing a genuine need all young men feelâthe need for a transition from childhood into being accepted as a grown man.</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Is joining a fraternity a necessary part of a man&#039;s development?

Well, maybe.  College fraternities are addressing a genuine need all young men feelâthe need for a transition from childhood into being accepted as a grown man.  The problem is that they are doing a poor job of meeting that need with a genuine and healthy &quot;Rite of Passage.&quot;

This week Tripp and Casey sit down with Jayson Gaddis and talk about the Rite of Passage concept and its absence in modern western culture.

With no Rite of Passage, men miss out on an essential ingredient to their healthy development.  Jayson points out that the typical pattern of following the &quot;shoulds&quot; in life and not getting in touch with our true purpose is almost epidemic.  &quot;It&#039;s a recipe for a midlife crisis,&quot; he says.

About Jayson Gaddis, Creator of Revolutionary Man

Jayson Gaddis, LPC, is an expert in male psychology. Heâs a life and relationship coach and CEO of Revolutionary Man, a company devoted to men in their 20âs and 30âs (and often men in their 40âs) who are committed to going beyond mainstream, status quo Manhood and men who are committed to reaching fulfillment in ALL areas of their life. Jayson believes that when guys can master their own inner psychology, anything is possible.

He began this work as a leadership consultant traveling the country helping young men lead more effectively. Jayson has led over 25 wilderness rites-of-passage trips with men of all ages. He spent over ten years working with at-risk youth in a variety of settings. Heâs an adventurer at heart and has climbed some of the countryâs tallest peaks and used to spend over 200 days per year sleeping on the earth, working in the Wilderness.</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:duration>13:12</itunes:duration>
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		<title>TNM 003: Alyson Schwabe &amp; Reuvain Bacal Pt 2 &#8211; I&#8217;m Not Calling You Fat &amp; Other Difficult Conversations with Your Girl</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2007/12/tnm-003-im-not-calling-you-fat/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Dec 2007 16:31:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TheNewMan</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">332 at http://www.fallingfruit.tv</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[<p>In the previous episode we learned that being in a serious relationship doesn&#8217;t mean that you are cut off from what you truly want in life.  This week we continue our discussion with relationship experts Alyson and Reuvain and learn practical ways to communicate your desires to your woman.</p>
<p>Alyson even gives us a tip on how to approach your woman honestly, even if its something as sensitive as sexual attraction and body weight that has become a challenge to your relationship. Get the inside scoop on how to bring your relationship with a woman into the world of healthy differentiation, and feel the depth of connection that results.</p>
<p><span id="more-163"></span><strong>About Alyson Schwabe, Psychoterapist, MA, CGT, LPC</strong></p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-736" title="g-alyson-schwabe-2284-SM" src="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2007/12/g-alyson-schwabe-2284-SM.jpg" alt="g-alyson-schwabe-2284-SM" width="178" height="171" />Alyson Schwabe has been in the mental health and human services field since 1996. She received her BA and MA in psychology, and is a Licensed Professional Counselor with the state of Colorado. Alyson has 8 years of specialization training in Gestalt therapy, and is known nationally for her approach in teaching people to relate authentically and live with intention.</p>
<p>Alyson’s theory and application are rooted in gestalt, developmental, energetic, and somatic psychologies, while her central philosophies are aligned with integral theory, human potential,&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2007/12/tnm-003-im-not-calling-you-fat/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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			<itunes:keywords>Fighting,Purpose,Relationships,Women</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:subtitle>In the previous episode we learned that being in a serious relationship doesn&#039;t mean that you are cut off from what you truly want in life.  This week we continue our discussion with relationship experts Alyson and Reuvain and learn practical ways to c...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>In the previous episode we learned that being in a serious relationship doesn&#039;t mean that you are cut off from what you truly want in life.  This week we continue our discussion with relationship experts Alyson and Reuvain and learn practical ways to communicate your desires to your woman.

Alyson even gives us a tip on how to approach your woman honestly, even if its something as sensitive as sexual attraction and body weight that has become a challenge to your relationship. Get the inside scoop on how to bring your relationship with a woman into the world of healthy differentiation, and feel the depth of connection that results.

About Alyson Schwabe, Psychoterapist, MA, CGT, LPC

Alyson Schwabe has been in the mental health and human services field since 1996. She received her BA and MA in psychology, and is a Licensed Professional Counselor with the state of Colorado. Alyson has 8 years of specialization training in Gestalt therapy, and is known nationally for her approach in teaching people to relate authentically and live with intention.

Alysonâs theory and application are rooted in gestalt, developmental, energetic, and somatic psychologies, while her central philosophies are aligned with integral theory, human potential, and consciousness development.Â She offers real-world skills and actively helps you work out unfinished issues in the moment.Â  Alyson will help you make conscious, empowered choices so you are in charge of your life and how you live it.

Alyson is most often found training the trainer, and is the support behind those that influence the masses. She provides on-location private intensives, facilitates workshops in the art of authentic contact, and teaches her approach at Naropa Universityâs graduate school of psychology. To reach her, you can call her directly at 303.960.7917 or TherapistAlyson (at) mac (dot) com.

About Reuvain Bacal, Psychotherapist and Relationship Coach


Reuvain Bacal, MAÂ is a psychotherapist specializing in menâs issues and couples counseling, and is a leader in the local menâs community. He has started and led menâs groups for over a decade, and has taught Group Dynamics and Leadership at Naropa University. He is a course leader for The Red Pill Weekend. Reuvain is passionate about helping men connect to their heart, balls, and authenticity. He lives in Boulder, Colorado with his wife and daughter.

Visit ReuvainBacal.com</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Tripp Lanier</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:duration>25:31</itunes:duration>
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		<title>TNM 002: Alyson Schwabe &amp; Reuvain Bacal Pt 1 &#8211; Feeling Smothered? Learn How to Live Your Truth AND Be in Relationship</title>
		<link>http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2007/12/tnm-002-feeling-smothered-learn-how-to-live-your-truth-and-be-in-relationship/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Dec 2007 13:03:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Does the traditional model for relationship feel limiting to you?</p>
<p>Do you feel like you constantly have to compromise your authenticity to avoid conflict with your partner?</p>
<p>We have, and we&#8217;re learning that it doesn&#8217;t have to be that way.</p>
<p>In this episode we&#8217;re talking with psychotherapists Alyson Schwabe and Reuvain Bacal, relationship experts and specialists in women&#8217;s and men&#8217;s issues.  They let us in on something the therapists call &#8216;differentiation&#8217; and what we think of as &#8216;the opposite of a shitty relationship.&#8217;</p>
<p>Listen as we learn what it looks like to lack differentiation and learn some techniques for how to get to a healthier relationship.</p>
<p><span id="more-164"></span><strong>About Alyson Schwabe, Psychoterapist, MA, CGT, LPC</strong></p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-736" title="g-alyson-schwabe-2284-SM" src="http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2007/12/g-alyson-schwabe-2284-SM.jpg" alt="g-alyson-schwabe-2284-SM" width="178" height="171" />Alyson Schwabe has been in the mental health and human services field since 1996. She received her BA and MA in psychology, and is a Licensed Professional Counselor with the state of Colorado. Alyson has 8 years of specialization training in Gestalt therapy, and is known nationally for her approach in teaching people to relate authentically and live with intention.</p>
<p>Alyson’s theory and application are rooted in gestalt, developmental, energetic, and somatic psychologies, while her central philosophies are aligned with integral theory, human potential, and consciousness development.&#8230; <a href="http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2007/12/tnm-002-feeling-smothered-learn-how-to-live-your-truth-and-be-in-relationship/" class="read_more">Click here to read the rest...</a></p>]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>Does the traditional model for relationship feel limiting to you? - Do you feel like you constantly have to compromise your authenticity to avoid conflict with your partner? - We have, and we&#039;re learning that it doesn&#039;t have to be that way.</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Does the traditional model for relationship feel limiting to you?

Do you feel like you constantly have to compromise your authenticity to avoid conflict with your partner?

We have, and we&#039;re learning that it doesn&#039;t have to be that way.

In this episode we&#039;re talking with psychotherapists Alyson Schwabe and Reuvain Bacal, relationship experts and specialists in women&#039;s and men&#039;s issues.  They let us in on something the therapists call &#039;differentiation&#039; and what we think of as &#039;the opposite of a shitty relationship.&#039;

Listen as we learn what it looks like to lack differentiation and learn some techniques for how to get to a healthier relationship.

About Alyson Schwabe, Psychoterapist, MA, CGT, LPC

Alyson Schwabe has been in the mental health and human services field since 1996. She received her BA and MA in psychology, and is a Licensed Professional Counselor with the state of Colorado. Alyson has 8 years of specialization training in Gestalt therapy, and is known nationally for her approach in teaching people to relate authentically and live with intention.

Alysonâs theory and application are rooted in gestalt, developmental, energetic, and somatic psychologies, while her central philosophies are aligned with integral theory, human potential, and consciousness development. She offers real-world skills and actively helps you work out unfinished issues in the moment.  Alyson will help you make conscious, empowered choices so you are in charge of your life and how you live it.

Alyson is most often found training the trainer, and is the support behind those that influence the masses. She provides on-location private intensives, facilitates workshops in the art of authentic contact, and teaches her approach at Naropa Universityâs graduate school of psychology. To reach her, you can call her directly at 303.960.7917 or TherapistAlyson (at) mac (dot) com.

About Reuvain Bacal, Psychotherapist and Relationship Coach


Reuvain Bacal, MA is a psychotherapist specializing in menâs issues and couples counseling, and is a leader in the local menâs community. He has started and led menâs groups for over a decade, and has taught Group Dynamics and Leadership at Naropa University. He is a course leader for The Red Pill Weekend. Reuvain is passionate about helping men connect to their heart, balls, and authenticity. He lives in Boulder, Colorado with his wife and daughter.

Visit ReuvainBacal.com</itunes:summary>
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