I’m ready to create something really cool.

But…

I’m drawing a blank. I want to create a free product for you — a video or eBook — but I’m just not sure where to start. I don’t know what you want.

So now’s your chance to take advantage of me.

Take a minute to answer these three quick questions and I’ll use your answers to create a killer free product…

AND you’ll get it absolutely free.

No catch. No BS.

Deal?

Answer These (3) Simple Questions

QUESTION 1: With regards to helping you live a kickass life — better money, relationships, career, women, etc. – What free product would you love for me to create *just* for you?

QUESTION 2: What is your biggest fear or frustration when it comes to living your best life?

QUESTION 3: When you imagine living a kickass life, what’s your ideal *perfect* outcome? Describe the challenges you overcame, how you did it and what your ideal, perfect life looks like.

Then…

– Use this contact form to send them my way (click here to pull up the contact form)

– And I’ll use your answers to create a… Click here to read the rest...

Do you get pissy when you do something nice for someone and they don’t return the favor?

Do you bend over backwards to avoid upsetting your woman, family or friends? (Remember this podcast?)

And why do the guys who go out of their way to please everyone always get the raw end of the deal?

Today we’re talking with the author of No More Mr Nice Guy, Dr Robert Glover. How are the macho jerk and the spineless wimp really the same? And what are the four steps YOU can take to avoid the nice guy syndrome? Listen and find out.

In this episode:

• How can you tell if you’re a Nice Guy?
• What is the Nice Guy Syndrome?
• Why does the Nice Guy make his life so difficult?
• If you’re a Nice Guy, does that mean you need to be a jerk?
• How is the Nice Guy very similar to the Macho Jerk?
• What are the (4) Steps for Getting Out of the Nice Guy Syndrome?
• What can you do TODAY to work with your anxiety?

… Click here to read the rest...

>> Click here to listen now.

From the Pickup Podcast site:

Tripp Lanier discusses becoming an alpha male, finding his soul mate and making the decision to settle down.  Tripp is a dating coach and also run’s a very successful men’s dating podcast “The New Man Podcast”.

>> Click here to listen now.

The  ”becoming an alpha male” thing is funny, no? This was a fun interview and they got a lot of personal stuff on Tripp out in the open. Take a listen for a peak behind the curtain.

Special thanks to AJ and Jordan Harbinger for this interview.

Not to worry, I’ve compiled this simple list of The Top 5 Best New Man Podcasts by category. Pick the one that interests you most…

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Sex

Bryan Bayer: “Sexual Hangups and How to Overcome Them”

Everybody’s got ‘em. So let’s talk about ‘em.

>> Click here to listen

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Women

Alyson Schwabe & Christiane Pelmas: “How to Navigate a Woman’s Emotional Minefield”

I got so many emails from this one. It’s a game changer. We should’ve learned this stuff back in grade school. These shows saved marriages. Period.

>> Click here for part 1

>> Click here for part 2

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Purpose/Inner Game

Brian Johnson: “What Would You Do if You Weren’t Afraid” & “Do You Have the Balls to Live the Life of Your Dreams?”

>> Click here for part 2

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Money/Career

Brent

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Admit it. Wouldn’t you love to change something about your girl that just drives you crazy?

Why do you seem to get stuck in a pattern regardless of who you’re with?

And do you find yourself saying “yes dear” in order to avoid a blowout with your partner?

This week we’re talking with Lisa Oz about changing your girl and why your partner is designed to push every single one of your buttons.

In this episode:

• Why do your relationships end up in the same place?
• Can you change your partner?
• Why is it bad to avoid conflict?
• Why does your partner push your buttons?
• When should you walk away from a relationship?
• Polarity and “flat” relationships
• How to quit being hijacked by your emotions (and saying things you wish you hadn’t)
• Is Lisa Oz fooling around with Dr Oz?

About Lisa Oz

Lisa Oz is a producer, writer, actress, and co-host of The Dr Oz Show on Oprah & Friends’ XM radio telecast. Lisa has co-authored three New York Times best selling books, including the “YOU: The Owner’s Manual” series. She is President of Ozworks LLC, a media… Click here to read the rest...

Do you ever talk to strangers?

Do you only notice people you think may be able to get you laid or paid?

And what is the best way to deal with guys who are shit talkers or haters?

This week, we’re talking with Jordan Harbinger from the Pickup Podcast about how YOU can bust out of your social conditioning and unlock the charisma within.

In this episode:

• Why charismatic guys rule
• How to become outgoing
• The benefits of having good social skills
• The dangers of judging others to be more or less valuable than you
• Why some guys are submissive or constantly apologizing
• Why some guys are haters or shit-talkers
• Why some guys are competitive, constantly comparing themselves to others
• Why some guys are naturally cooperative
• How to inspire others to want to help you
• A simple practice for getting out of your social shell

About Jordan Harbinger

Jordan Harbinger has always had an affinity for Social Influence and Dynamics, but first became aware just how valuable these skills were when his grades left him just short of the acceptance requirements for University Of Michigan School of Law. Jordan, unwilling to accept the possibility… Click here to read the rest...

Crazy, huh?

Click here to listen now.

Questions also covered:

• Is sexiness what you do or how you are?
• What makes someone truly sexy?
• Is it more important to have a bag of tricks or to cultivate what you want?
• What are some practical tips for guys who want to be better in bed?
• How is it possible that a guy with good “skills” is still a crappy lover?

Click here to listen now.

(Keep in mind, English is not his first language)

“Dear Tripp,

Great contribution to help turning more men into ´New men´. I am definitely on my way, and listening to your interviews is always a source of positive energy and life force.

I just accepted a job offer, returning to a corporate career, I am moving to another place, the middle east.

A complete new environment, new job, but also good opportunity to make some additional changes.

I have accomplished a lot in my life, however, one of the things I am having trouble with is connecting to other men, for friendship, in a profound way, let´s say, finding other ´new men´, without the superficial macho talk. I have never been the ´teamsports´ type of guy, and I feel I have missed out a bit on this ´brotherhood´, go out with the boys, etc… I have wife and family, but I miss a connection to other men.

I live my life to the full, like adventure, and therefore I change my life´s direction about every 5 years, including moving to a very different place in the world.… Click here to read the rest...

He writes:

“I’m a new listener as of December 2009. I love it. I have been reading professional development and self help books and audio for the last 2 years.

I would like to hear a show about marriage commitment. whether to marry or not. I love my girl, and I want to marry her soon. But I have a strong sex drive and sometimes my mind wonders. Is this normal for someone who genuinely loves someone? Do I need help?”

My response:

Thanks for writing — it’s great that you’re enjoying the shows!

Marriage commitment and any kind of relationship commitment is a solid idea for a topic, too. I dealt with this for a LONG time in my previous relationship and I coach guys on this stuff, too.

I don’t have the complete picture for you, but from experience I don’t believe that a guy’s sex drive or admiration of other women should suddenly cease to exist. It’s not an indicator whether or not he loves his mate.

The only help I would suggest would be to learn how to “own your desire”. Good news is that… Click here to read the rest...

“Hello Tripp – I have been a listener of ” The New Man” podcast for a while and I recommend to all of my friends, for about a year now, I have developed a passion for self improvement literature, and that has dramatically changed my life and the way I see things. One of the consequences of this changes is this beautiful girl I have been with for several months now, and she is the reason I am writing to you now. She is pretty, she is sweet, she has a good percentage of everything I always seeked for in a woman although I wish she was more self motivated and ambitious, she smokes, what I hate, she denies to go to the gym ( she is skinny ) and she has an addiction for sweets, If I am to build a lifetime relationship, I want someone who works hard for their health and someone who sees money and business in a smarter way than she does. I have bought her and Ipod and have been trying to get her into some self improvement stuff, but its not working. Can you help me out and give

… Click here to read the rest...

I get TONS of emails from guys who love The New Man Podcast but can’t seem to bridge the gap between what they’re hearing on the show and what they’re actually living.

Many guys want to:

• Discover their passion or purpose
• Find more satisfaction in their work and personal lives
• Make some positive changes without upsetting their family or financial situation
• Get over a hump they’ve been dealing with for months or maybe years
• Look back on their life and have no regrets

What’s amazing to me is that most guys will fumblef**k around their challenges for years — wasting precious time, energy and money without ever achieving the success they really want.

It’s obvious that this “one foot in, one foot out” way of doing things is way more draining and costly than just putting both feet in.

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So why do guys hold back, settle for less and “play-it-safe”?

Two reasons:

(1) They don’t know WHAT to do:

I’ve found that guys want specifics, a plan, a path. ABC’s, 123’s. Nuts and bolts. The Magic-Formula. The How-to Manual. Walking into uncertainty is a no-no.

(2) It’s too risky:

What if it doesn’t work? Guys… Click here to read the rest...

Do all open relationships end in a self absorbed, sex-crazed disaster?

And what can you learn from the mother of a newborn who stayed home last night while her husband was on a date?

This week, Kendra Cunov is on The New Man to discuss her experience with polyamory and open relationships.Kendra is the mother of a newborn and also the wife in an open marriage. In this episode she talks about her extensive experience with polyamory and open relationships. You will not want to miss this interview.

In this episode:

• What is Polyamory?
• Open relationships
• Open marriage and pregnancy
• How to be parents and be in an open marriage
• Not just for about the sex
• Does wanting an open relationship mean something is wrong with your current relationship?
• The number 1 pitfall of open relationships
• What about jealousy?
• Is having an open relationship a lot of work?
• Why do open relationships fail?
• What needs to be in place before a couple would try an open relationship?

About Kendra Cunov — Coach, Seminar Leader and Co-founder of Authentic SF

Kendra Cunov is a… Click here to read the rest...

Do you prefer a passionate woman or a stepford wife robot?

And does your woman really support you or does it seem like she’s just another obstacle getting in the way of the life you want to have?

Alyson Schwabe and Christiane Pelmas are back for part 2 of our talk on how to navigate a woman’s emotional mine field.

This is part 2 of our in depth talk on how to approach tough topics with your woman. In this one, we learn a BIG lesson around how to deal with a woman’s “emotional storm”, how saying “yes, dear” is killing her respect for you and other tips for avoiding those big traps men often fall into.

Click here for information regarding The Red Pill Weekend.

In this episode:

• Don’t be afraid of your woman’s storm
• How to go through something hard and come out okay
• Why am I in this relationship?
• Life with a woman is about storm
• Storming is about being passionate
• Do you want a passionate woman or a stepford wife robot?
• Storming is to test a man, to see

… Click here to read the rest...

Do you resent your partner for saying what you can and can not do?

And how is it possible that by avoiding conflict, you’re actually killing the relationship?

This week, Alyson Schwabe and Christiane Pelmas are on the show to talk about how to navigate a woman’s emotional minefield and approach taboo subjects or those conversations you’ve been avoiding.

In this episode we talk about addressing taboo and touchy topics with your woman. Whether it’s money, going on a weekend trip with the fellas or having anal sex to spice things up in the bedroom — navigating a woman’s emotional storm depends on YOU being confident in what you want and speaking that clearly. Alyson and Christiane lay out some amazingly valuable tips from a woman’s perspective to help you have a more satisfying relationship.

Click here for information regarding The Red Pill Weekend.

In this episode:

• “If I could just talk to her about this, things would be better…”
• Fear that even speaking about stuff will set off a fight
• Can’t talk about sex, money, health issuesHow to discuss

… Click here to read the rest...

How are gay men similar to straight men?

And what can you learn from a gay man about improving the sex in your monogamous relationship?

This week King Mott joins us on The New Man. He’s an Associate Professor of Political Science and Gender Studies at Seton Hall University and recently went head to head with the Roman Church over their scapegoating of homosexuals in the pedophilia cases that plagued the institution. King also discusses what it’s like to be a gay man in America, how gays (generally) see the world much differently than straight men, what it’s like to be a gay man doing men’s work and how gay men are way ahead in the realm of having sexually satisfying monogamous relationships.

In this episode:

• Roman Catholic Church
• Pedophilia
• Homosexuality
• Equating pedophiles and homosexuals
• Homosexuality within the Roman Church
• Bigotry
• The New York Times Standing up to the Roman Church
• Prejudice against homosexual, lesbian community
• Perpetuating Homophobia
• Pedophilia has nothing to do with sexual orientation
• Seton Hall and it’s administration
• The importance of controversial ideas
• Roman church aiding pedophiles
• Scapegoating gay men
• The straight while male

… Click here to read the rest...

In this episode he continues to lay out some simple distinctions and the practices you can do TODAY to quit settling for a crappy sex life without killing your marriage.

Visit MyPleasure.com

In this episode:

• Women’s arousal pattern is different than men’s
• Why she doesn’t initiate sex
• Get over the myth of reciprocity in sex
• Women want to feel deeply desired by their partner
• Not just deeply desiring to “get off” with her
• Make the passion about her, not just about “getting off”
• What if you no longer desire your partner?
• Don’t be afraid to get outside help — qualified sex therapist
• Go to a sex therapist vs “regular” psychologist
• AASECT.org
• SSTARNET.org
• Don’t overdo “closeness”
• Avoiding conflict, being the peacemaker
• Non-violent communication
• Balancing domesticity with sexual passion
• Don’t get neutered
• Harmony can reduce passion
• What are you doing to remove the spark from your relationship?
• Where’s my desire in this moment? Own it.
• Vulnerability means speaking what you wants
• Vulnerability is taking risks
• Take your woman “on a ride”
• Do something where you don’t know how she’s going to respond
• When and how to talk to her

… Click here to read the rest...

Does it have to be this way?

Do you have to spend the rest of your days sneaking around with porn or affairs to get your sexual needs met?

In this episode, Dr. Sandor Gardos returns to The New Man to lay out some very simple things you can do to get the sexual juices flowing in your committed relationship.

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In this episode:

• Oprah’s Vah-J-J
• Vibrator called “The Sure Thing”
• The Aphrodite
• Oprah makes it ok to use sex toys
• It’s now mainstream to take an active role in making sex lives better
• Myth: Sex life is over after marriage
• Chris Rock
• Married life = death of sex
• Repressing sexual desire
• Turning to porn
• Having affairs
• What can this guy do?
• Not a myth that sex changes in marriage
• Being passive won’t make it better
• Probably not as bad as you think it is
• Desire discrepancy
• Most common thing sex therapists deal with in couples
• Polarizing sex
• Couples are closer to sexual desires than perception
• Taking it personally that she doesn’t want to have sex
• Perceived rejection
• Coping mechanisms
• Shutting off

… Click here to read the rest...

Meet Ray Brejcha – coach, speaker and workshop facilitator. He specializes in helping men create attraction and find deeper connections with women. In this episode, Ray will talk about what’s possible by attending the Red Pill Weekend.

Click here to learn more about The Red Pill Weekend.

In this episode:

• Creating Attraction
• Deeper Connections
• Being the nerd
• Being the guy who has it all but still feels empty
• How to get beyond small talk
• Concentrating on outer appearances to cover up insecurities
• Using women to fill a void
• Following a hunch instead of having it all figured out
• The importance of feedback from men and women
• The value of having solid men in your life
• Killing attraction — being needy, wishy washy or being fearful of rejection
• Being clear with your desire
• How core beliefs sabotage you — “I don’t deserve this,” “I’m not enough,” etc.
• How so many “successful” men have a difficult time with women
• Settling for less vs going for what you want
• How taking risks

… Click here to read the rest...

In this episode we discuss:

• A good woman will challenge and support you to be a better man in every area of your life
• Becoming a father can crush any grand ideas you have about who you think you are
• There is no such thing as an “un-spiritual” moment
• Stepping into “the fire” of life and confronting your deepest fears
• The significance of being able to laugh at yourself
• How surrendering doesn’t mean defeat
• What happens when we resist our life
• The amazing new pill, “Alco-hard”
• The new TV show “Sex, God Rock n Roll”

About Stuart Davis, Musician, Artist

With eleven full-length albums to his credit, Stuart Davis has carved out a unique wavelength in the musical spectrum. Taking the topics of God, sex, and life and death, and crafting them into inimitable pop songs with lyrical flair and unforgettable hooks, Stuart continues to be one of the great, undiscovered singer/songwriters around.

In addition to his musical brilliance, Stuart is becoming something of a cultural force. With the support of devoted fans,… Click here to read the rest...

Stuart shares some hilarious stories about how he would rather be dead than conform to any means of authority — family, religion, school, day jobs and women’s clothes included.

In this episode:

• It’s easy to be a punk and point out society’s shortcomings — it takes skill to offer something constructive
• His relentless pursuit of freedom has landed him in jail and almost killed him
• Drummers aren’t complete idiots (some of them at least)
• How spirituality turned him into a self righteous asshole
• How life can be enjoyable after the sparkle and “rush” has passed
• What had him see the real meaning of his lifeBe sure to keep an eye out for Stu’s latest TV show “Sex God Rock n Roll” on HDNET this summer.

About Stuart Davis, Musician, Artist

With eleven full-length albums to his credit, Stuart Davis has carved out a unique wavelength in the musical spectrum. Taking the topics of God, sex, and life and death, and crafting… Click here to read the rest...

Maybe not, but judging from the feedback we’re getting, it can seriously help.

The New Man Podcast just turned one. Over the course of our first year, we’ve interviewed dozens of teachers, leaders and successful men and women across all aspects of life about sex, parenting, professional life, and more.

Listen as Tripp and Casey look back over the first year of The New Man and reflect on what they personally learned and where the show is headed in the year to come.

Click here to purchase The Best of The New Man Podcast Season 1.

In our exploration of what a New Man might look like, we have uncovered key insights, patterns, and habits of highly effective men (and women) in the most important areas of our lives from career, to purpose, to sex and relationship and everything in between.

We love hearing from you about how the insights shared in these interviews are impacting your life.  That’s why we have created a new way to enjoy and share The New Man Podcast. Tripp and Casey handpicked the best of the best from this year… Click here to read the rest...

Does becoming a father mean your spiritual life is over?

This week we continue our conversation with Guy Sengstock about integrating spiritual development and a healthy family life.  In this candid and open conversation, Guy gives us an inside look at where he finds the balance point of these two seemingly opposite pursuits in life.

Listen to the conclusion of our dialogue with Guy as he shares with us the challenges and benefits of practicing parenting and personal development.

About Guy Sengstock, Coach and creator of AreteCenter.com

Guy Sengstock is the co-founder of the Arete Center for Excellence, an organization that offers accelerated personal growth courses. Guy is also a personal development coach, writer, poet, sculptor, and painter. The Arete Experience is a 3-day workshop offered in San Francisco that provides a remarkable opportunity to discover the unconscious ways in which you hold yourself back. Experience immense and lasting freedom to be yourself in all areas of your life!

Does having a family mean we can’t pursue the deepest of truths?

When Guy Sengstock fell in love with his wife, he was putting himself through art school by working as a personal trainer and a stripper, while on a spiritual path of meditation and eastern philosophy.

Not exactly the picture of the typical family man.

He was also developing Arete workshops, dedicated to helping people grow and find deeper, more authentic versions of themselves.

So how does a wife and kids fit in with meditation and personal development?

Listen as Guy shares with us how he balances family life with spiritual life, and how he has found a way to balance it all.

About Guy Sengstock, Coach and creator of AreteCenter.com

Guy Sengstock is the co-founder of the Arete Center for Excellence, an organization that offers accelerated personal growth courses. Guy is also a personal development coach, writer, poet, sculptor, and painter. The Arete Experience is a 3-day workshop offered in San Francisco that provides a remarkable opportunity to discover the unconscious ways in which you hold yourself back. Experience immense and lasting freedom to be yourself in… Click here to read the rest...

This week we’re talking with Ken Wilber, world-renown Integral philosopher about the evolution of men’s and women’s roles in our society.

Ken shows us how our current disagreements over equality between the sexes actually stemmed from old school tools and “little things” like pregnancy.

Ken also talks about how we’re all influenced greatly by not just technology but our personal beliefs and the pressures of society.

His work is centered around showing how all of these forces impact us and one another. In other words, Ken shows us how all the pieces in this crazy life fit together and the end result is fascinating.

You may never see your life the same way again.

About Ken Wilber

Ken Wilber, at age 56, is the first thinker and writer to have his collected works published while still alive. With 25 books translated into some 30 foreign languages, he is the most widely translated academic writer in the United States. Ken is the internationally acknowledged originator of Integral Theory and founder of Integral Institute.

Why would it play an important role in our lives and our interactions with other men…and women?

This week we’re talking again with our friends Bryan Bayer and Garrison Cohen of the Authentic Man Program, about their latest tools to help men achieve their true potential.

Click here to learn more about The Authentic Man Program.

In this episode:

• How our being nice can be the barrier to our own greatness;
• How it is really our duty to express how we really feel, regardless of the outcome;
• The importance of owning our attraction;
• What we have to put on the line to evolve to the next level;
• Where to find the arena to play our highest game;
• Calling ourselves on our own bullshit;
• The latest multimedia products from AMP;
• How to put all of this theory in to real action.

About Bryan Bayer, Personal coach and co-founder of AuthenticSF

Bryan Bayer, CEO of AuthenticSF™ and the Authentic Man Program™, has facilitated workshops and coached hundreds of people to success in the areas of communications, business and relationship. Drawing from an extensive study of integral theory, developmental psychology and man/woman dynamics, Bryan has a… Click here to read the rest...

Unfortunately, the sex lives of most men are not where they could b

We’re not talking about how to pick up women here, we’re talking about something deeper.

What is behind our sex drive and what is our sexual energy all about besides ejaculation?

Men tend to look at sexual energy as frustration, something to be fixed…

And as quickly as possible.

Men train themselves at a young age to relieve sexual energy as fast as possible, instead of cultivating and using sexual energy to invigorate their lives.

Women tend to experience sexual energy differently, even using different words to describe sexual feelings. Where men talk about “sexual frustration” women speak of the same pleasurable feelings as “juicy” or “alive.”

Sandor encourages us to see this energy not as something to avoid, but something we should honor as our very life essence. He invites us to learn to be with strong energetic sensation and practice cultivating and holding sexual energy.

Why is Viagra the best selling drug in the country?

Often we can be very dissociated during sex, perhaps fantasizing about… Click here to read the rest...

This week’s guest, Dr. Sandor Gardos lets us in on what he sees as the secrets to creating and maintaining a passionate relationship.

Knowing everything about one another, always maintaining equality, laying everything on the table…These may be good ways to maintain friendships, or business relationships, but when it comes to hot sex, these are the very things that may be draining passion.

The thing is, women want hot sex lives as much as we do. The things we do to try and strengthen our relationships can be the very things that will ultimately weaken our connection. Sandor hears from women all the time with fantasies every bit as raunchy as any man’s he hears, and with a lot more detail. It seems men are generally less in touch with their actual desire than women are, despite popular perception to the contrary.

Not only does Dr. Gardos help us identify the problem areas, he describes what the path to erotic partnership can look like. Integrity, differentiation, variety — these are keys we have learned from previous guests and seem to apply in all areas of our lives.

Listen as Dr.… Click here to read the rest...

In Part 2 of our discussion with Bryan Bayer of the Authentic Man Program we discuss how personal development work affects our luck with the ladies.

Bryan describes how presence becomes ‘a vortex,’ drawing people (especially women) towards us. He then describes what interactions look like after the ‘need to get something” is dropped.

We also get into the unique opportunity AMP presents for men. “10 years of therapy didn’t get at what we got in 2 days at AMP,” said one participant. AMP is a unique mix of challenge, inquiry and compassion that can trigger rapid insights and growth.

Listen as we learn how relating with women is just the icing on the cake of an amazing life!

Disclaimer: Tripp and Casey have both attended the AMP program and both found it challenging, rewarding, and a profound growing experience.

In this episode:

• Authentic Man Program
• The Game
• Dekker
• Goenka Vipassana Meditation
• Ken Wilber
• David Deida

Click here for more information on The Authentic Man Program.

About Bryan Bayer, Personal coach and co-founder of AuthenticSF

Bryan Bayer, CEO of AuthenticSF™… Click here to read the rest...

Ever wish you could be that guy, effortlessly attracting amazing women into your life?

We sure do, and there may be help for us yet.

This week we’re in the studio with Bryan Bayer, co-founder of the Authentic Man Program. Bryan gives us the story of how the AMP program came into existence out of his own pain and struggle to find real connection with women.

At one point, Bryan spent months asking himself, “What would I do if no woman ever found me attractive again?” From this deep inquiry, he discovered a whole new sense of integration and used it as a tool to fuel his own personal growt

He also had help from amazing women in his life that were willing to explore the depths of his being with him and give him feedback on what they were experiencing. AMP was developed with Bryan as his own guinea pig.

The AMP facilitators work with all types of men, helping them to integrate more of “themselves” and get rid of that sense of “neediness” that keeps women at a distance.

Listen as Bryan gives us a sense… Click here to read the rest...

In part two of our conversation, Alissa Kriteman shares an intense example of how she has tested her man and how his strength and ability to hold that deepened their relationship immensely.

Alissa shares with us some secrets that single men should know about meeting and attracting women and what role a healthy sense of self can play in finding a partner.

She gets into the very thing guys want to know about the most — What are we missing in the bedroom?

No, it’s not about any elaborate technique or physical qualifications fellas. It’s also not something we can “figure out” exactly.

She goes on to speak about the wisdom of desire, and encourages us to cultivate our ability to “be” with desire and allow it to subtly guide us in life.

Listen as Alissa lets us in on the world of women.

About Alissa Kriteman, Author of “Four Cornerstones for Living Your Dreams”

Show host, author and entrepreneur, Alissa Kriteman brings a sassy and bold approach to all that she does.  With a background as a Professional Life Coach and Relationship Expert, Alissa brings a wealth of… Click here to read the rest...

We sure do, that’s why we had to get an insider’s perspective from relationship consultant Alissa Kriteman.

Alissa hosts the hugely successful podcast “Just for Women: Dating, Relationships, and Sex.”

She talks with experts about all the issues facing women and helps her listeners live fuller lives with better relationships.

Given her experience talking with women, we thought she might have some insights for The New Man…she definitely did!

Alissa gives us the female perspective on how we, as men, show up in the world of women most of the time. She details the differences of worldviews experienced by men and women and how knowing these differences empowers us to have deeper, more authentic relationships.

About Alissa Kriteman, Author of “Four Cornerstones for Living Your Dreams”

Show host, author and entrepreneur, Alissa Kriteman brings a sassy and bold approach to all that she does. With a background as a Professional Life Coach and Relationship Expert, Alissa brings a wealth of insight and knowledge to her latest venture as the host of a hot, new podcast show, “Just For Women: Dating, Relationships and Sex” distributed by Personal Life Media,… Click here to read the rest...

What is going on with the women of our lives in these moments of apparent torture?

This week we sit down with the amazing women of the Authentic Man Program as they share with us a little bit about how women wor

We learn how women perceive men and how we can “show up” more fully to experience new depths in meeting, dating, and serious relationships with women.

The Authentic Man Program is a San Francisco-based workshop that helps men learn to look deep inside themselves and connect with their deepest truth. It also shows them how to take that awareness out into the world to meet and relate to other people—especially women.

Kendra, Shana, and Alexis give us a glimpse inside what they bring to the Authentic Man Program and share with us some practices we can use to deepen our relations with the opposite sex.

Far from being a pain in the ass, these women (and all women really) are our trusted allies in finding our deeper selves and finding intense connection with a partner.… Click here to read the rest...

LiYana Silver points out that a little porn is good for spice here and there, but too much porn can be like junk-food — polluting our healthy relationships and distracting us from connection with our partne

She urges us to practice in the bedroom, giving our full energy to our partners.

LiYana then shares with us the key differences in how men and women open emotionally in relationship. Bringing a little consciousness to these differences is often enough to get through the hang-ups and into the true depths of connection.

If you are experiencing resistance to commitment, get in touch with what are you going to lose by entering into a committed relationship? “Get in touch with that, then we can work with it,” she says.

You can have something EXACTLY the way you want it.

There’s plenty of love to go around. Learn about the different styles of intimacy men and women bring to the table. Find out what absolutely has to be there if you want to take your relationship beyond monogamy.

Relationship lived in this way will call us to be our highest expression of a man.… Click here to read the rest...

Should we be avoiding these thoughts—repressing them so we don’t hurt our partners?

Absolutely not, according to LiYana Silver, it’s part of what makes you a ma

So why do our special ladies seem to get so pissed off about it?

It likely has to do with our ability to stay connected to them. If we can develop strong, healthy, constant connection to our partners, there is no limit to our freedom. We might even go so far as to take our relationship outside of the normal rules of monogamous commitment if that’s what we want to do, according to LiYana.

Listen as LiYana lets us in on the secret “Kryptonite” that melts the resistance and defensiveness of any woman in relationship to establish true, deep connection. This connection is liberating for men in relationship, as we will feel the reigns loosen through trust.

About LiYana Silver

LiYana has been a professional modern dancer for over 10 years in Europe, Israel and New York City, most notably with the Kibbutz Contemporary Dance Company and the Metropolitan Opera… Click here to read the rest...

Alyson even gives us a tip on how to approach your woman honestly, even if its something as sensitive as sexual attraction and body weight that has become a challenge to your relationship. Get the inside scoop on how to bring your relationship with a woman into the world of healthy differentiation, and feel the depth of connection that results.

About Alyson Schwabe, Psychoterapist, MA, CGT, LPC

Alyson Schwabe has been in the mental health and human services field since 1996. She received her BA and MA in psychology, and is a Licensed Professional Counselor with the state of Colorado. Alyson has 8 years of specialization training in Gestalt therapy, and is known nationally for her approach in teaching people to relate authentically and live with intention.

Alyson’s theory and application are rooted in gestalt, developmental, energetic, and somatic psychologies, while her central philosophies are aligned with integral theory, human potential,… Click here to read the rest...

Do you feel like you constantly have to compromise your authenticity to avoid conflict with your partner?

We have, and we’re learning that it doesn’t have to be that way.

In this episode we’re talking with psychotherapists Alyson Schwabe and Reuvain Bacal, relationship experts and specialists in women’s and men’s issues. They let us in on something the therapists call ‘differentiation’ and what we think of as ‘the opposite of a shitty relationship.’

Listen as we learn what it looks like to lack differentiation and learn some techniques for how to get to a healthier relationship.

About Alyson Schwabe, Psychoterapist, MA, CGT, LPC

Alyson Schwabe has been in the mental health and human services field since 1996. She received her BA and MA in psychology, and is a Licensed Professional Counselor with the state of Colorado. Alyson has 8 years of specialization training in Gestalt therapy, and is known nationally for her approach in teaching people to relate authentically and live with intention.

Alyson’s theory and application are rooted in gestalt, developmental, energetic, and somatic psychologies, while her central philosophies are aligned with integral theory, human potential, and consciousness development.… Click here to read the rest...