Does life sometimes feel like a hamster wheel where you’re constantly chasing more money, sex or something else?

Since we all end up dead anyway, should life be taken seriously?

And how is it possible that a man from India can literally spank you into enlightenment?

In this episode we go deep with His Holy Holiness Sri Sri Sri Spankneesh Ji, a controversial spiritual guru. We’re talking about the meaning of life, spanking butts and, well, shit.

In this episode:

• How does spanking bring us to enlightenment?
• Will chasing more ass, cash or status just bring you more pain?
• Why Bill Gates’ money, George Clooney’s sex life or the body of Shawn Phillips won’t bring lasting happiness
• What do you really want beyond paying the bills, orgasms, etc.?
• Where can we find true, lasting happiness?
• Is figuring out the mystery of life a mistake?
• How can “shit” be a holy word?
• Should you take life seriously?
• Why are some “spiritual” or “personal growth” people such a drag?
• What is really beyond the macho jerk and the new age wimp?

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I’m ready to create something really cool.

But…

I’m drawing a blank. I want to create a free product for you — a video or eBook — but I’m just not sure where to start. I don’t know what you want.

So now’s your chance to take advantage of me.

Take a minute to answer these three quick questions and I’ll use your answers to create a killer free product…

AND you’ll get it absolutely free.

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Answer These (3) Simple Questions

QUESTION 1: With regards to helping you live a kickass life — better money, relationships, career, women, etc. – What free product would you love for me to create *just* for you?

QUESTION 2: What is your biggest fear or frustration when it comes to living your best life?

QUESTION 3: When you imagine living a kickass life, what’s your ideal *perfect* outcome? Describe the challenges you overcame, how you did it and what your ideal, perfect life looks like.

Then…

– Use this contact form to send them my way (click here to pull up the contact form)

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Not to worry, I’ve compiled this simple list of The Top 5 Best New Man Podcasts by category. Pick the one that interests you most…

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Sex

Bryan Bayer: “Sexual Hangups and How to Overcome Them”

Everybody’s got ‘em. So let’s talk about ‘em.

>> Click here to listen

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Women

Alyson Schwabe & Christiane Pelmas: “How to Navigate a Woman’s Emotional Minefield”

I got so many emails from this one. It’s a game changer. We should’ve learned this stuff back in grade school. These shows saved marriages. Period.

>> Click here for part 1

>> Click here for part 2

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Purpose/Inner Game

Brian Johnson: “What Would You Do if You Weren’t Afraid” & “Do You Have the Balls to Live the Life of Your Dreams?”

>> Click here for part 2

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Money/Career

Brent

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Admit it. Wouldn’t you love to change something about your girl that just drives you crazy?

Why do you seem to get stuck in a pattern regardless of who you’re with?

And do you find yourself saying “yes dear” in order to avoid a blowout with your partner?

This week we’re talking with Lisa Oz about changing your girl and why your partner is designed to push every single one of your buttons.

In this episode:

• Why do your relationships end up in the same place?
• Can you change your partner?
• Why is it bad to avoid conflict?
• Why does your partner push your buttons?
• When should you walk away from a relationship?
• Polarity and “flat” relationships
• How to quit being hijacked by your emotions (and saying things you wish you hadn’t)
• Is Lisa Oz fooling around with Dr Oz?

About Lisa Oz

Lisa Oz is a producer, writer, actress, and co-host of The Dr Oz Show on Oprah & Friends’ XM radio telecast. Lisa has co-authored three New York Times best selling books, including the “YOU: The Owner’s Manual” series. She is President of Ozworks LLC, a media… Click here to read the rest...

Do you ever talk to strangers?

Do you only notice people you think may be able to get you laid or paid?

And what is the best way to deal with guys who are shit talkers or haters?

This week, we’re talking with Jordan Harbinger from the Pickup Podcast about how YOU can bust out of your social conditioning and unlock the charisma within.

In this episode:

• Why charismatic guys rule
• How to become outgoing
• The benefits of having good social skills
• The dangers of judging others to be more or less valuable than you
• Why some guys are submissive or constantly apologizing
• Why some guys are haters or shit-talkers
• Why some guys are competitive, constantly comparing themselves to others
• Why some guys are naturally cooperative
• How to inspire others to want to help you
• A simple practice for getting out of your social shell

About Jordan Harbinger

Jordan Harbinger has always had an affinity for Social Influence and Dynamics, but first became aware just how valuable these skills were when his grades left him just short of the acceptance requirements for University Of Michigan School of Law. Jordan, unwilling to accept the possibility… Click here to read the rest...

Is there a way to clear your body of crappy feelings?

And why does “ramping up” to attack your challenges actually make you weaker?

This week we’re in for a Jedi lesson with “Everything is Energy” host, David Morelli. Listen as he lays out the tools to help you move through any road block.

In this episode:

• Powerful practices you can use today to clear crappy feelings and find your true power
• Tools to get out of any jam or stuck place
• How to tap into “The Force”, your unique male power
• How 90% of your life is unconscious — and it’s running your life
• Why willpower and striving make you weak
• Where real male power comes from
• More about David Morelli and “Everything is Energy”

About David Morelli

David Morelli is a transformational healer, teacher and intuitive. If there were a Ph.D. for the ability to see, read and heal energy, David would have one. An expert in personal transformation, he shares wisdom and laughter with thousands.

About Everything is Energy

Everything is Energy is everything you… Click here to read the rest...

Crazy, huh?

Click here to listen now.

Questions also covered:

• Is sexiness what you do or how you are?
• What makes someone truly sexy?
• Is it more important to have a bag of tricks or to cultivate what you want?
• What are some practical tips for guys who want to be better in bed?
• How is it possible that a guy with good “skills” is still a crappy lover?

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He writes:

“I’m a new listener as of December 2009. I love it. I have been reading professional development and self help books and audio for the last 2 years.

I would like to hear a show about marriage commitment. whether to marry or not. I love my girl, and I want to marry her soon. But I have a strong sex drive and sometimes my mind wonders. Is this normal for someone who genuinely loves someone? Do I need help?”

My response:

Thanks for writing — it’s great that you’re enjoying the shows!

Marriage commitment and any kind of relationship commitment is a solid idea for a topic, too. I dealt with this for a LONG time in my previous relationship and I coach guys on this stuff, too.

I don’t have the complete picture for you, but from experience I don’t believe that a guy’s sex drive or admiration of other women should suddenly cease to exist. It’s not an indicator whether or not he loves his mate.

The only help I would suggest would be to learn how to “own your desire”. Good news is that… Click here to read the rest...

What are your beliefs around sex? Is it dirty and bad? Or fun and nourishing?

And how does your relationship TO sex affect EVERYTHING in your life — especially your interactions with women?

This week Bryan Bayer is here to talk about how all of us have hang ups with fornication and what you can do to today to have a better sex life.

Click here for more information on the Authentic Sexual Power DVD Set

In this episode:

• What are the blocks that come up for guys around sex?
• All of us have some hang ups or hooks around sex
• Not owning desire has us making small talk, talking bullshit
• Your relationship to sex is communicated LOUDLY outside of the bedroom
• Women can feel where you’re hung up on sex
• How can some guys “get away with” talking explicit about sex with women?
• If you’re not comfortable with yourself as a primal, sexual being it will show up in many areas of your life
• It affects guys in relationships too
• Are you bringing your raw masculine attraction to the bedroom?

… Click here to read the rest...

Do you prefer a passionate woman or a stepford wife robot?

And does your woman really support you or does it seem like she’s just another obstacle getting in the way of the life you want to have?

Alyson Schwabe and Christiane Pelmas are back for part 2 of our talk on how to navigate a woman’s emotional mine field.

This is part 2 of our in depth talk on how to approach tough topics with your woman. In this one, we learn a BIG lesson around how to deal with a woman’s “emotional storm”, how saying “yes, dear” is killing her respect for you and other tips for avoiding those big traps men often fall into.

Click here for information regarding The Red Pill Weekend.

In this episode:

• Don’t be afraid of your woman’s storm
• How to go through something hard and come out okay
• Why am I in this relationship?
• Life with a woman is about storm
• Storming is about being passionate
• Do you want a passionate woman or a stepford wife robot?
• Storming is to test a man, to see

… Click here to read the rest...

Do you resent your partner for saying what you can and can not do?

And how is it possible that by avoiding conflict, you’re actually killing the relationship?

This week, Alyson Schwabe and Christiane Pelmas are on the show to talk about how to navigate a woman’s emotional minefield and approach taboo subjects or those conversations you’ve been avoiding.

In this episode we talk about addressing taboo and touchy topics with your woman. Whether it’s money, going on a weekend trip with the fellas or having anal sex to spice things up in the bedroom — navigating a woman’s emotional storm depends on YOU being confident in what you want and speaking that clearly. Alyson and Christiane lay out some amazingly valuable tips from a woman’s perspective to help you have a more satisfying relationship.

Click here for information regarding The Red Pill Weekend.

In this episode:

• “If I could just talk to her about this, things would be better…”
• Fear that even speaking about stuff will set off a fight
• Can’t talk about sex, money, health issuesHow to discuss

… Click here to read the rest...

How are gay men similar to straight men?

And what can you learn from a gay man about improving the sex in your monogamous relationship?

This week King Mott joins us on The New Man. He’s an Associate Professor of Political Science and Gender Studies at Seton Hall University and recently went head to head with the Roman Church over their scapegoating of homosexuals in the pedophilia cases that plagued the institution. King also discusses what it’s like to be a gay man in America, how gays (generally) see the world much differently than straight men, what it’s like to be a gay man doing men’s work and how gay men are way ahead in the realm of having sexually satisfying monogamous relationships.

In this episode:

• Roman Catholic Church
• Pedophilia
• Homosexuality
• Equating pedophiles and homosexuals
• Homosexuality within the Roman Church
• Bigotry
• The New York Times Standing up to the Roman Church
• Prejudice against homosexual, lesbian community
• Perpetuating Homophobia
• Pedophilia has nothing to do with sexual orientation
• Seton Hall and it’s administration
• The importance of controversial ideas
• Roman church aiding pedophiles
• Scapegoating gay men
• The straight while male

… Click here to read the rest...

In this episode he continues to lay out some simple distinctions and the practices you can do TODAY to quit settling for a crappy sex life without killing your marriage.

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In this episode:

• Women’s arousal pattern is different than men’s
• Why she doesn’t initiate sex
• Get over the myth of reciprocity in sex
• Women want to feel deeply desired by their partner
• Not just deeply desiring to “get off” with her
• Make the passion about her, not just about “getting off”
• What if you no longer desire your partner?
• Don’t be afraid to get outside help — qualified sex therapist
• Go to a sex therapist vs “regular” psychologist
• AASECT.org
• SSTARNET.org
• Don’t overdo “closeness”
• Avoiding conflict, being the peacemaker
• Non-violent communication
• Balancing domesticity with sexual passion
• Don’t get neutered
• Harmony can reduce passion
• What are you doing to remove the spark from your relationship?
• Where’s my desire in this moment? Own it.
• Vulnerability means speaking what you wants
• Vulnerability is taking risks
• Take your woman “on a ride”
• Do something where you don’t know how she’s going to respond
• When and how to talk to her

… Click here to read the rest...

Does it have to be this way?

Do you have to spend the rest of your days sneaking around with porn or affairs to get your sexual needs met?

In this episode, Dr. Sandor Gardos returns to The New Man to lay out some very simple things you can do to get the sexual juices flowing in your committed relationship.

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In this episode:

• Oprah’s Vah-J-J
• Vibrator called “The Sure Thing”
• The Aphrodite
• Oprah makes it ok to use sex toys
• It’s now mainstream to take an active role in making sex lives better
• Myth: Sex life is over after marriage
• Chris Rock
• Married life = death of sex
• Repressing sexual desire
• Turning to porn
• Having affairs
• What can this guy do?
• Not a myth that sex changes in marriage
• Being passive won’t make it better
• Probably not as bad as you think it is
• Desire discrepancy
• Most common thing sex therapists deal with in couples
• Polarizing sex
• Couples are closer to sexual desires than perception
• Taking it personally that she doesn’t want to have sex
• Perceived rejection
• Coping mechanisms
• Shutting off

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Meet Ray Brejcha – coach, speaker and workshop facilitator. He specializes in helping men create attraction and find deeper connections with women. In this episode, Ray will talk about what’s possible by attending the Red Pill Weekend.

Click here to learn more about The Red Pill Weekend.

In this episode:

• Creating Attraction
• Deeper Connections
• Being the nerd
• Being the guy who has it all but still feels empty
• How to get beyond small talk
• Concentrating on outer appearances to cover up insecurities
• Using women to fill a void
• Following a hunch instead of having it all figured out
• The importance of feedback from men and women
• The value of having solid men in your life
• Killing attraction — being needy, wishy washy or being fearful of rejection
• Being clear with your desire
• How core beliefs sabotage you — “I don’t deserve this,” “I’m not enough,” etc.
• How so many “successful” men have a difficult time with women
• Settling for less vs going for what you want
• How taking risks

… Click here to read the rest...

This week we’re talking with Ken Wilber, world-renown Integral philosopher about the evolution of men’s and women’s roles in our society.

Ken shows us how our current disagreements over equality between the sexes actually stemmed from old school tools and “little things” like pregnancy.

Ken also talks about how we’re all influenced greatly by not just technology but our personal beliefs and the pressures of society.

His work is centered around showing how all of these forces impact us and one another. In other words, Ken shows us how all the pieces in this crazy life fit together and the end result is fascinating.

You may never see your life the same way again.

About Ken Wilber

Ken Wilber, at age 56, is the first thinker and writer to have his collected works published while still alive. With 25 books translated into some 30 foreign languages, he is the most widely translated academic writer in the United States. Ken is the internationally acknowledged originator of Integral Theory and founder of Integral Institute.

Why would it play an important role in our lives and our interactions with other men…and women?

This week we’re talking again with our friends Bryan Bayer and Garrison Cohen of the Authentic Man Program, about their latest tools to help men achieve their true potential.

Click here to learn more about The Authentic Man Program.

In this episode:

• How our being nice can be the barrier to our own greatness;
• How it is really our duty to express how we really feel, regardless of the outcome;
• The importance of owning our attraction;
• What we have to put on the line to evolve to the next level;
• Where to find the arena to play our highest game;
• Calling ourselves on our own bullshit;
• The latest multimedia products from AMP;
• How to put all of this theory in to real action.

About Bryan Bayer, Personal coach and co-founder of AuthenticSF

Bryan Bayer, CEO of AuthenticSF™ and the Authentic Man Program™, has facilitated workshops and coached hundreds of people to success in the areas of communications, business and relationship. Drawing from an extensive study of integral theory, developmental psychology and man/woman dynamics, Bryan has a… Click here to read the rest...

Unfortunately, the sex lives of most men are not where they could b

We’re not talking about how to pick up women here, we’re talking about something deeper.

What is behind our sex drive and what is our sexual energy all about besides ejaculation?

Men tend to look at sexual energy as frustration, something to be fixed…

And as quickly as possible.

Men train themselves at a young age to relieve sexual energy as fast as possible, instead of cultivating and using sexual energy to invigorate their lives.

Women tend to experience sexual energy differently, even using different words to describe sexual feelings. Where men talk about “sexual frustration” women speak of the same pleasurable feelings as “juicy” or “alive.”

Sandor encourages us to see this energy not as something to avoid, but something we should honor as our very life essence. He invites us to learn to be with strong energetic sensation and practice cultivating and holding sexual energy.

Why is Viagra the best selling drug in the country?

Often we can be very dissociated during sex, perhaps fantasizing about… Click here to read the rest...

This week’s guest, Dr. Sandor Gardos lets us in on what he sees as the secrets to creating and maintaining a passionate relationship.

Knowing everything about one another, always maintaining equality, laying everything on the table…These may be good ways to maintain friendships, or business relationships, but when it comes to hot sex, these are the very things that may be draining passion.

The thing is, women want hot sex lives as much as we do. The things we do to try and strengthen our relationships can be the very things that will ultimately weaken our connection. Sandor hears from women all the time with fantasies every bit as raunchy as any man’s he hears, and with a lot more detail. It seems men are generally less in touch with their actual desire than women are, despite popular perception to the contrary.

Not only does Dr. Gardos help us identify the problem areas, he describes what the path to erotic partnership can look like. Integrity, differentiation, variety — these are keys we have learned from previous guests and seem to apply in all areas of our lives.

Listen as Dr.… Click here to read the rest...

In part two of our conversation, Alissa Kriteman shares an intense example of how she has tested her man and how his strength and ability to hold that deepened their relationship immensely.

Alissa shares with us some secrets that single men should know about meeting and attracting women and what role a healthy sense of self can play in finding a partner.

She gets into the very thing guys want to know about the most — What are we missing in the bedroom?

No, it’s not about any elaborate technique or physical qualifications fellas. It’s also not something we can “figure out” exactly.

She goes on to speak about the wisdom of desire, and encourages us to cultivate our ability to “be” with desire and allow it to subtly guide us in life.

Listen as Alissa lets us in on the world of women.

About Alissa Kriteman, Author of “Four Cornerstones for Living Your Dreams”

Show host, author and entrepreneur, Alissa Kriteman brings a sassy and bold approach to all that she does.  With a background as a Professional Life Coach and Relationship Expert, Alissa brings a wealth of… Click here to read the rest...

We sure do, that’s why we had to get an insider’s perspective from relationship consultant Alissa Kriteman.

Alissa hosts the hugely successful podcast “Just for Women: Dating, Relationships, and Sex.”

She talks with experts about all the issues facing women and helps her listeners live fuller lives with better relationships.

Given her experience talking with women, we thought she might have some insights for The New Man…she definitely did!

Alissa gives us the female perspective on how we, as men, show up in the world of women most of the time. She details the differences of worldviews experienced by men and women and how knowing these differences empowers us to have deeper, more authentic relationships.

About Alissa Kriteman, Author of “Four Cornerstones for Living Your Dreams”

Show host, author and entrepreneur, Alissa Kriteman brings a sassy and bold approach to all that she does. With a background as a Professional Life Coach and Relationship Expert, Alissa brings a wealth of insight and knowledge to her latest venture as the host of a hot, new podcast show, “Just For Women: Dating, Relationships and Sex” distributed by Personal Life Media,… Click here to read the rest...

What is going on with the women of our lives in these moments of apparent torture?

This week we sit down with the amazing women of the Authentic Man Program as they share with us a little bit about how women wor

We learn how women perceive men and how we can “show up” more fully to experience new depths in meeting, dating, and serious relationships with women.

The Authentic Man Program is a San Francisco-based workshop that helps men learn to look deep inside themselves and connect with their deepest truth. It also shows them how to take that awareness out into the world to meet and relate to other people—especially women.

Kendra, Shana, and Alexis give us a glimpse inside what they bring to the Authentic Man Program and share with us some practices we can use to deepen our relations with the opposite sex.

Far from being a pain in the ass, these women (and all women really) are our trusted allies in finding our deeper selves and finding intense connection with a partner.… Click here to read the rest...

LiYana Silver points out that a little porn is good for spice here and there, but too much porn can be like junk-food — polluting our healthy relationships and distracting us from connection with our partne

She urges us to practice in the bedroom, giving our full energy to our partners.

LiYana then shares with us the key differences in how men and women open emotionally in relationship. Bringing a little consciousness to these differences is often enough to get through the hang-ups and into the true depths of connection.

If you are experiencing resistance to commitment, get in touch with what are you going to lose by entering into a committed relationship? “Get in touch with that, then we can work with it,” she says.

You can have something EXACTLY the way you want it.

There’s plenty of love to go around. Learn about the different styles of intimacy men and women bring to the table. Find out what absolutely has to be there if you want to take your relationship beyond monogamy.

Relationship lived in this way will call us to be our highest expression of a man.… Click here to read the rest...

Should we be avoiding these thoughts—repressing them so we don’t hurt our partners?

Absolutely not, according to LiYana Silver, it’s part of what makes you a ma

So why do our special ladies seem to get so pissed off about it?

It likely has to do with our ability to stay connected to them. If we can develop strong, healthy, constant connection to our partners, there is no limit to our freedom. We might even go so far as to take our relationship outside of the normal rules of monogamous commitment if that’s what we want to do, according to LiYana.

Listen as LiYana lets us in on the secret “Kryptonite” that melts the resistance and defensiveness of any woman in relationship to establish true, deep connection. This connection is liberating for men in relationship, as we will feel the reigns loosen through trust.

About LiYana Silver

LiYana has been a professional modern dancer for over 10 years in Europe, Israel and New York City, most notably with the Kibbutz Contemporary Dance Company and the Metropolitan Opera… Click here to read the rest...