>> Click here to listen now.

From the Pickup Podcast site:

Tripp Lanier discusses becoming an alpha male, finding his soul mate and making the decision to settle down.  Tripp is a dating coach and also run’s a very successful men’s dating podcast “The New Man Podcast”.

>> Click here to listen now.

The  ”becoming an alpha male” thing is funny, no? This was a fun interview and they got a lot of personal stuff on Tripp out in the open. Take a listen for a peak behind the curtain.

Special thanks to AJ and Jordan Harbinger for this interview.

Not to worry, I’ve compiled this simple list of The Top 5 Best New Man Podcasts by category. Pick the one that interests you most…

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Sex

Bryan Bayer: “Sexual Hangups and How to Overcome Them”

Everybody’s got ‘em. So let’s talk about ‘em.

>> Click here to listen

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Women

Alyson Schwabe & Christiane Pelmas: “How to Navigate a Woman’s Emotional Minefield”

I got so many emails from this one. It’s a game changer. We should’ve learned this stuff back in grade school. These shows saved marriages. Period.

>> Click here for part 1

>> Click here for part 2

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Purpose/Inner Game

Brian Johnson: “What Would You Do if You Weren’t Afraid” & “Do You Have the Balls to Live the Life of Your Dreams?”

>> Click here for part 2

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Money/Career

Brent

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Admit it. Wouldn’t you love to change something about your girl that just drives you crazy?

Why do you seem to get stuck in a pattern regardless of who you’re with?

And do you find yourself saying “yes dear” in order to avoid a blowout with your partner?

This week we’re talking with Lisa Oz about changing your girl and why your partner is designed to push every single one of your buttons.

In this episode:

• Why do your relationships end up in the same place?
• Can you change your partner?
• Why is it bad to avoid conflict?
• Why does your partner push your buttons?
• When should you walk away from a relationship?
• Polarity and “flat” relationships
• How to quit being hijacked by your emotions (and saying things you wish you hadn’t)
• Is Lisa Oz fooling around with Dr Oz?

About Lisa Oz

Lisa Oz is a producer, writer, actress, and co-host of The Dr Oz Show on Oprah & Friends’ XM radio telecast. Lisa has co-authored three New York Times best selling books, including the “YOU: The Owner’s Manual” series. She is President of Ozworks LLC, a media… Click here to read the rest...

Crazy, huh?

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Questions also covered:

• Is sexiness what you do or how you are?
• What makes someone truly sexy?
• Is it more important to have a bag of tricks or to cultivate what you want?
• What are some practical tips for guys who want to be better in bed?
• How is it possible that a guy with good “skills” is still a crappy lover?

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He writes:

“I’m a new listener as of December 2009. I love it. I have been reading professional development and self help books and audio for the last 2 years.

I would like to hear a show about marriage commitment. whether to marry or not. I love my girl, and I want to marry her soon. But I have a strong sex drive and sometimes my mind wonders. Is this normal for someone who genuinely loves someone? Do I need help?”

My response:

Thanks for writing — it’s great that you’re enjoying the shows!

Marriage commitment and any kind of relationship commitment is a solid idea for a topic, too. I dealt with this for a LONG time in my previous relationship and I coach guys on this stuff, too.

I don’t have the complete picture for you, but from experience I don’t believe that a guy’s sex drive or admiration of other women should suddenly cease to exist. It’s not an indicator whether or not he loves his mate.

The only help I would suggest would be to learn how to “own your desire”. Good news is that… Click here to read the rest...

“Hello Tripp – I have been a listener of ” The New Man” podcast for a while and I recommend to all of my friends, for about a year now, I have developed a passion for self improvement literature, and that has dramatically changed my life and the way I see things. One of the consequences of this changes is this beautiful girl I have been with for several months now, and she is the reason I am writing to you now. She is pretty, she is sweet, she has a good percentage of everything I always seeked for in a woman although I wish she was more self motivated and ambitious, she smokes, what I hate, she denies to go to the gym ( she is skinny ) and she has an addiction for sweets, If I am to build a lifetime relationship, I want someone who works hard for their health and someone who sees money and business in a smarter way than she does. I have bought her and Ipod and have been trying to get her into some self improvement stuff, but its not working. Can you help me out and give

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Are you one of the millions of men who are looking to find that special someone?

Are you quietly using or considering an online dating website?

And if so, how is your online dating profile already screwing up your chance to meet Mrs Right?

This week, Siona Van Dijk from the online dating site, Gaia Soulmates is here to help you avoid looking like a tool while making the most of your online dating efforts. So many men (and women) are screwing up their chances for finding a partner just by falling into a few potholes in their profile.

In this show, Siona Van Dijk walks us through some of these online dating danger zones and helps you get the most of your online dating experience.

Click here to learn more about Gaia Soulmates.

In this episode:

• How do you get the most out an online dating site?
• Is there a stigma around online dating?
• How are dating sites different from Facebook and other community sites?
• How are guys screwing up their profiles?
• How is your profile perceived by your potential partner?
• How long should you plan to

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Do you “man up” and act like nothing’s wrong, go numb or collapse into a pitiful pity party?

And how can you keep this loss from festering and infecting your future relationships?

This week we’re talking about breakups and loss.

Listen in as Reuvain Bacal and I lay out some options to help you get through the tough times and come out a stronger man.This is an extra special episode. We’ve had tons of requests to dive into this topic so we spent the extra time delivering even more helpful information that you can use today.

In this episode:

• Why do men have a tendency to isolate when they struggle?
• Should a guy just “get back on the horse” or “spend some time alone”?
• How can a bad breakup infect future interactions with women?
• Why do we idealize our partner after they’re gone?
• How does stress from the breakup or loss ravage your body?
• Why is acting like a tough guy actually a sign of weakness?
• How to avoid collapsing into your own self pity?
• How do you work with intense emotions and

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Do you prefer a passionate woman or a stepford wife robot?

And does your woman really support you or does it seem like she’s just another obstacle getting in the way of the life you want to have?

Alyson Schwabe and Christiane Pelmas are back for part 2 of our talk on how to navigate a woman’s emotional mine field.

This is part 2 of our in depth talk on how to approach tough topics with your woman. In this one, we learn a BIG lesson around how to deal with a woman’s “emotional storm”, how saying “yes, dear” is killing her respect for you and other tips for avoiding those big traps men often fall into.

Click here for information regarding The Red Pill Weekend.

In this episode:

• Don’t be afraid of your woman’s storm
• How to go through something hard and come out okay
• Why am I in this relationship?
• Life with a woman is about storm
• Storming is about being passionate
• Do you want a passionate woman or a stepford wife robot?
• Storming is to test a man, to see

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Do you resent your partner for saying what you can and can not do?

And how is it possible that by avoiding conflict, you’re actually killing the relationship?

This week, Alyson Schwabe and Christiane Pelmas are on the show to talk about how to navigate a woman’s emotional minefield and approach taboo subjects or those conversations you’ve been avoiding.

In this episode we talk about addressing taboo and touchy topics with your woman. Whether it’s money, going on a weekend trip with the fellas or having anal sex to spice things up in the bedroom — navigating a woman’s emotional storm depends on YOU being confident in what you want and speaking that clearly. Alyson and Christiane lay out some amazingly valuable tips from a woman’s perspective to help you have a more satisfying relationship.

Click here for information regarding The Red Pill Weekend.

In this episode:

• “If I could just talk to her about this, things would be better…”
• Fear that even speaking about stuff will set off a fight
• Can’t talk about sex, money, health issuesHow to discuss

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In part two of our conversation, Alissa Kriteman shares an intense example of how she has tested her man and how his strength and ability to hold that deepened their relationship immensely.

Alissa shares with us some secrets that single men should know about meeting and attracting women and what role a healthy sense of self can play in finding a partner.

She gets into the very thing guys want to know about the most — What are we missing in the bedroom?

No, it’s not about any elaborate technique or physical qualifications fellas. It’s also not something we can “figure out” exactly.

She goes on to speak about the wisdom of desire, and encourages us to cultivate our ability to “be” with desire and allow it to subtly guide us in life.

Listen as Alissa lets us in on the world of women.

About Alissa Kriteman, Author of “Four Cornerstones for Living Your Dreams”

Show host, author and entrepreneur, Alissa Kriteman brings a sassy and bold approach to all that she does.  With a background as a Professional Life Coach and Relationship Expert, Alissa brings a wealth of… Click here to read the rest...

We sure do, that’s why we had to get an insider’s perspective from relationship consultant Alissa Kriteman.

Alissa hosts the hugely successful podcast “Just for Women: Dating, Relationships, and Sex.”

She talks with experts about all the issues facing women and helps her listeners live fuller lives with better relationships.

Given her experience talking with women, we thought she might have some insights for The New Man…she definitely did!

Alissa gives us the female perspective on how we, as men, show up in the world of women most of the time. She details the differences of worldviews experienced by men and women and how knowing these differences empowers us to have deeper, more authentic relationships.

About Alissa Kriteman, Author of “Four Cornerstones for Living Your Dreams”

Show host, author and entrepreneur, Alissa Kriteman brings a sassy and bold approach to all that she does. With a background as a Professional Life Coach and Relationship Expert, Alissa brings a wealth of insight and knowledge to her latest venture as the host of a hot, new podcast show, “Just For Women: Dating, Relationships and Sex” distributed by Personal Life Media,… Click here to read the rest...

How important is a man’s purpose in life when choosing a career?

This week we sit down with Marty Nemko, Career Editor for U.S. News and World Report and Kiplingers.com to get his unique perspective on careers and the popular stereotype of men.

Marty brings a no-nonsense approach to his career advice, but there is wisdom in his perspective. He tells us what the most rewarding careers have in common and what to look for when seeking that perfect job. He flips conventional wisdom on its head and looks at the truth behind the flashy careers like doctors and lawyers and why these may not be the best paths to a rewarding life.

Marty is also passionate about how men are seen in today’s western society. He argues that the portrayal of men as incompetent, aggressive, and powerless is not only inaccurate, but is having a harmful effect on the psyche of men and boys.

About Marty Nemko

Marty’s mother claims that he could read the New York Times at age 3 and that his reading comprehension in the 1st grade was at the 12th grade level. That’s either the exaggerations… Click here to read the rest...

What is going on with the women of our lives in these moments of apparent torture?

This week we sit down with the amazing women of the Authentic Man Program as they share with us a little bit about how women wor

We learn how women perceive men and how we can “show up” more fully to experience new depths in meeting, dating, and serious relationships with women.

The Authentic Man Program is a San Francisco-based workshop that helps men learn to look deep inside themselves and connect with their deepest truth. It also shows them how to take that awareness out into the world to meet and relate to other people—especially women.

Kendra, Shana, and Alexis give us a glimpse inside what they bring to the Authentic Man Program and share with us some practices we can use to deepen our relations with the opposite sex.

Far from being a pain in the ass, these women (and all women really) are our trusted allies in finding our deeper selves and finding intense connection with a partner.… Click here to read the rest...

Alyson even gives us a tip on how to approach your woman honestly, even if its something as sensitive as sexual attraction and body weight that has become a challenge to your relationship. Get the inside scoop on how to bring your relationship with a woman into the world of healthy differentiation, and feel the depth of connection that results.

About Alyson Schwabe, Psychoterapist, MA, CGT, LPC

Alyson Schwabe has been in the mental health and human services field since 1996. She received her BA and MA in psychology, and is a Licensed Professional Counselor with the state of Colorado. Alyson has 8 years of specialization training in Gestalt therapy, and is known nationally for her approach in teaching people to relate authentically and live with intention.

Alyson’s theory and application are rooted in gestalt, developmental, energetic, and somatic psychologies, while her central philosophies are aligned with integral theory, human potential,… Click here to read the rest...

Do you feel like you constantly have to compromise your authenticity to avoid conflict with your partner?

We have, and we’re learning that it doesn’t have to be that way.

In this episode we’re talking with psychotherapists Alyson Schwabe and Reuvain Bacal, relationship experts and specialists in women’s and men’s issues. They let us in on something the therapists call ‘differentiation’ and what we think of as ‘the opposite of a shitty relationship.’

Listen as we learn what it looks like to lack differentiation and learn some techniques for how to get to a healthier relationship.

About Alyson Schwabe, Psychoterapist, MA, CGT, LPC

Alyson Schwabe has been in the mental health and human services field since 1996. She received her BA and MA in psychology, and is a Licensed Professional Counselor with the state of Colorado. Alyson has 8 years of specialization training in Gestalt therapy, and is known nationally for her approach in teaching people to relate authentically and live with intention.

Alyson’s theory and application are rooted in gestalt, developmental, energetic, and somatic psychologies, while her central philosophies are aligned with integral theory, human potential, and consciousness development.… Click here to read the rest...