Why I got tired of playing with myself

TweetAs a young guitarist, I used to find a lot of meaning playing music by myself for hours alone in my bedroom. That got boring after a while. Why? Because I’d joined a band. That’s where we felt most alive and connected — those moments where we clicked together and...

Sabotage and Finding Motivation

TweetMy client thought he was sabotaging his life and business. “I get what I want and then I don’t want it.” He was a badass at creating big visions and plans: Taking companies public, big titles, cash, stock options. So why was he struggling to find motivation these...

Are You Chasing Someone Else’s Balls?

TweetYou’ve seen these dogs. The ones who are obsessed with the ball. Any ball. They beg their owner to throw the ball. They return it with urgency. And then they beg to have it thrown again. Relentlessly. They’re addicted to the dopamine rush that comes from playing...