How to Tell if You’re Soul Mates — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Do you believe in soul mates or is that just some rom com BS?

Do you feel guilty for having a life outside of work and your relationship?

And what relationship advice would have helped your younger self avoid a huge headache?

My wife Alyson and I deal with past relationship failures, settling for nice guys, and what it may really mean to have a soul mate.

In this conversation:

  • What relationship advice would you give your 30 year old self?
  • How can you tell if you’re soul mates?
  • Contorting yourself to be accepted
  • Feeling alone in your relationship
  • Soul vision and essence

About Tripp Lanier

Tripp Lanier is a professional coach, author of This Book Will Make You Dangerous, and host of The New Man Podcast: Beyond the Macho Jerk and the New Age Wimp which — for over a decade — has been downloaded millions of times.

Since 2005, he has spent thousands of hours coaching people all around the world to get out of the rat race, become an authority in their field, and make a great living doing the work they were put on this earth to do. Over the years he’s designed several businesses to support a simple lifestyle focused on freedom, ease, meaning, and fun.

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About Alyson Lanier

Alyson Lanier is a multifaceted expert at the intersection of psychological and spiritual healing. With a 30 year career in Psychotherapy that includes a BA, MA, and LPC in psychology, Alyson supplemented her education with extensive training and certifications in attachment work, Gestalt therapy, Transpersonal psychology, Shambhala Buddhism, internal family systems, and Psychedelic assisted psychotherapy. Her professional journey encompasses over 50,000 hours of therapeutic experience working with individuals, couples, families, children, and adolescents across clinical and private settings.

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