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The Sexless Marriage: Can it Be Repaired? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
Are you afraid of being trapped in a sexless marriage?

Does your partner treat sex like it’s just another chore?
And what are the ways you’re killing your sex life without even knowing it?
Today Alyson and I discuss sex — or the lack of sex — in long term relationships. We identify some of the ways we unconsciously kill attraction, what might truly be in the way, and why avoiding the issue just makes it worse.
In this conversation:
- Being afraid your sex life is dying
- Feeling trapped in a sexless marriage
- Are you wanted or just loved?
- Is she okay if you never have sex again?
- Why sex is happening “all the time”
Plus:
- Why would they want to have sex with you?
- How safety, character, and integrity play a role
- Cleaning up contempt, bickering, and disrespect
- Treating her like your mommy
- The need for space
About Tripp Lanier

Tripp Lanier is a professional coach, author of This Book Will Make You Dangerous, and host of The New Man Podcast: Beyond the Macho Jerk and the New Age Wimp which — for over a decade — has been downloaded millions of times.
Since 2005, he has spent thousands of hours coaching people all around the world to get out of the rat race, become an authority in their field, and make a great living doing the work they were put on this earth to do. Over the years he’s designed several businesses to support a simple lifestyle focused on freedom, ease, meaning, and fun.
If you’d like to learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit TrippLanier.com.
About Alyson Lanier

Alyson Lanier is a multifaceted expert at the intersection of psychological and spiritual healing. With a 30 year career in Psychotherapy that includes a BA, MA, and LPC in psychology, Alyson supplemented her education with extensive training and certifications in attachment work, Gestalt therapy, Transpersonal psychology, Shambhala Buddhism, internal family systems, and Psychedelic assisted psychotherapy. Her professional journey encompasses over 50,000 hours of therapeutic experience working with individuals, couples, families, children, and adolescents across clinical and private settings.
If you’d like to learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit AlysonLanier.com