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What Do You Really Want? Getting Out of Autopilot and the Prescribed Life — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
Do you know what you really want in life or are you just reacting to whatever comes your way?

Do you do things because they actually strengthen you or because some guy on a podcast said you should do them?
And how can we get out of autopilot to begin the process of forging our own path?
Today we dig into a question that scares a lot of people: What do you want? So many of us are firefighting, reacting, or quietly living a “prescribed life” and then wondering why we feel chronically trapped, drained, isolated, or out of alignment. Is there another way? Can we find and follow a different compass heading without blowing up everything we care about? Let’s find out.
In this conversation:
- “I don’t know what I want”
- A life of to-do lists and obligations
- Wanting to be proactive vs reactive
- What is a ‘prescribed life’?
- Feeling chronically drained or overwhelmed
Plus:
- Are you afraid of being ‘selfish’?
- What would be satisfying?
- When our lives are driven by FOMO
- Building the “what do I want” muscle
- How do you know if you’re on track?
About Tripp Lanier

Tripp Lanier is a professional coach, author of This Book Will Make You Dangerous, and host of The New Man Podcast: Beyond the Macho Jerk and the New Age Wimp which — for over a decade — has been downloaded millions of times.
Since 2005, he has spent thousands of hours coaching people all around the world to get out of the rat race, become an authority in their field, and make a great living doing the work they were put on this earth to do. Over the years he’s designed several businesses to support a simple lifestyle focused on freedom, ease, meaning, and fun.
If you’d like to learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit TrippLanier.com.
About Alyson Lanier

Alyson Lanier is a multifaceted expert at the intersection of psychological and spiritual healing. With a 30 year career in Psychotherapy that includes a BA, MA, and LPC in psychology, Alyson supplemented her education with extensive training and certifications in attachment work, Gestalt therapy, Transpersonal psychology, Shambhala Buddhism, internal family systems, and Psychedelic assisted psychotherapy. Her professional journey encompasses over 50,000 hours of therapeutic experience working with individuals, couples, families, children, and adolescents across clinical and private settings.
If you’d like to learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit AlysonLanier.com