The Trap of Trying to Reach Your Full Potential — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Do you feel like your life is supposed to be bigger than it is?

What would it mean if you weren’t exceptional?

And why do so many successful folks still feel like they aren’t enough?

Today Alyson and I explore why some people feel pressured to reach their full potential. We discuss the expectation to be exceptional, how fixating on the future kills our satisfaction, and why having what we truly want may be much simpler than we think.

In this conversation:

  • The pressure to reach your full potential
  • The checklist life
  • The fear of dying with regrets
  • “Is this all there is?”
  • I’m not doing enough or not doing it right

Plus:

  • The fear of slowing down
  • What we do to escape discomfort, uncertainty, and vulnerability
  • Is love something you have to earn?
  • The need to get over ourselves
  • The role of awe and wonder

About Tripp Lanier

Tripp Lanier is a professional coach, author of This Book Will Make You Dangerous, and host of The New Man Podcast: Beyond the Macho Jerk and the New Age Wimp which — for over a decade — has been downloaded millions of times.

Since 2005, he has spent thousands of hours coaching people all around the world to get out of the rat race, become an authority in their field, and make a great living doing the work they were put on this earth to do. Over the years he’s designed several businesses to support a simple lifestyle focused on freedom, ease, meaning, and fun.

If you’d like to learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit TrippLanier.com.

About Alyson Lanier

Alyson Lanier is a multifaceted expert at the intersection of psychological and spiritual healing. With a 30 year career in Psychotherapy that includes a BA, MA, and LPC in psychology, Alyson supplemented her education with extensive training and certifications in attachment work, Gestalt therapy, Transpersonal psychology, Shambhala Buddhism, internal family systems, and Psychedelic assisted psychotherapy. Her professional journey encompasses over 50,000 hours of therapeutic experience working with individuals, couples, families, children, and adolescents across clinical and private settings.

If you’d like to learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit AlysonLanier.co