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Why Losing Your Job Feels Like Losing Yourself — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
Is your self worth directly tied to your money or job?

Do you feel like a loser if you’re not pulling your weight financially?
And why do so many of us feel rudderless after we lose a job or sell a business?
Today Alyson and I dig into money, self worth, and identity. We explore what it means to be a provider, how we can become a burden to our wives, and why it can feel so personally devastating to stop earning money.
In this conversation:
- Feeling like a loser when we’re not making money
- The importance of providing a surplus of value in the world
- Founders who make an exit and then feel lost
- Losing our identity
Plus:
- What’s the transaction between you and your wife?
- Stay at home Dads and Peter Pans
- Wives who are burdened by their husbands not making money
- Could you have a sugar mama?
Discussed in this conversation:
- Scott Galloway article
- Brené Brown
About Tripp Lanier

Tripp Lanier is a professional coach, author of This Book Will Make You Dangerous, and host of The New Man Podcast: Beyond the Macho Jerk and the New Age Wimp which — for over a decade — has been downloaded millions of times.
Since 2005, he has spent thousands of hours coaching people all around the world to get out of the rat race, become an authority in their field, and make a great living doing the work they were put on this earth to do. Over the years he’s designed several businesses to support a simple lifestyle focused on freedom, ease, meaning, and fun.
If you’d like to learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit TrippLanier.com.
About Alyson Lanier

Alyson Lanier is a multifaceted expert at the intersection of psychological and spiritual healing. With a 30 year career in Psychotherapy that includes a BA, MA, and LPC in psychology, Alyson supplemented her education with extensive training and certifications in attachment work, Gestalt therapy, Transpersonal psychology, Shambhala Buddhism, internal family systems, and Psychedelic assisted psychotherapy. Her professional journey encompasses over 50,000 hours of therapeutic experience working with individuals, couples, families, children, and adolescents across clinical and private settings.
If you’d like to learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit AlysonLanier.co