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I Shouldn’t Have to Ask: When Relationships Feel One-Sided — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
Are you tired of being the one who just handles everything?
Do you ever catch yourself thinking, “I shouldn’t have to ask for help”?
Or are you on the other side feeling like no matter what you do, it’s never enough?
Today Alyson and I discuss what’s really happening when things don’t feel fair in a relationship. We explore why score-keeping poisons a partnership, how doing whatever they want makes you a burden, and why complaining and nagging aren’t going to solve the problem.
In this conversation:
- Why your sex life and professional opportunities are dying
- Seeking fairness in relationships
- Feeling resentful of others for not pulling their weight
- Complacency and “complacency-creep”
- Coasting and doing just enough to get by
Plus:
- The Drama Triangle
- Why are these people allowed to be in your life?
- Do you make it hard to be helped?
- “I shouldn’t have to ask for help”
- Choosing to be an adult or a child in the relationship
About Tripp Lanier
Tripp Lanier is a professional coach, author of This Book Will Make You Dangerous, and host of The New Man Podcast: Beyond the Macho Jerk and the New Age Wimp which — for over a decade — has been downloaded millions of times.
Since 2005, he has spent thousands of hours coaching people all around the world to get out of the rat race, become an authority in their field, and make a great living doing the work they were put on this earth to do. Over the years he’s designed several businesses to support a simple lifestyle focused on freedom, ease, meaning, and fun.
If you’d like to learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit TrippLanier.com.
About Alyson Lanier
Alyson Lanier is a multifaceted expert at the intersection of psychological and spiritual healing. With a 30 year career in Psychotherapy that includes a BA, MA, and LPC in psychology, Alyson supplemented her education with extensive training and certifications in attachment work, Gestalt therapy, Transpersonal psychology, Shambhala Buddhism, internal family systems, and Psychedelic assisted psychotherapy. Her professional journey encompasses over 50,000 hours of therapeutic experience working with individuals, couples, families, children, and adolescents across clinical and private settings.
If you’d like to learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit AlysonLanier.co
