Are You Chasing Someone Else’s Balls?

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TweetYou’ve seen these dogs. The ones who are obsessed with the ball. Any ball. They beg their owner to throw the ball. They return it with urgency. And then they beg to have it thrown again. Relentlessly. They’re addicted to the dopamine rush that comes from playing...

“Hey! How much for a blow job?!?”

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TweetI recently got called out by my friend, Forest. We were on the phone and he said something like… “You’re not bringing your full self to your work. I know your work and I’ve also spent a lot of time with you. And there’s a gap.” My heart started beating harder....

The Upper Limit Problem: Nobody Really Talks About This

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TweetToday I was on the phone with a guy who is a leader in his profession. He’s creating a movement. He’s changing peoples’ lives around the world. He’s becoming more visible because he helps celebrities and the people that help lots of other people. He really cares...

“I want someone to hold me accountable.”

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TweetMost people that want a coach say something like, “I want somebody to hold me accountable.” I don’t hold people accountable. Here’s why: My daughter is 5 years old. And every evening she depends on me or my wife to tell her it’s time to clean up and get ready for...

No More Hiding Out: Playing a Role to Be Successful

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TweetJoe was in his forties and was a master in his professional world. (Joe is not his real name.) He’s said that leading a board meeting full of powerful people was where he felt most at home. When Joe contacted me over six months ago to discuss coaching, he was...