TweetToday I ran an experiment with my coaching groups. I asked them to share the most reassuring thing they could hear, what they would most want to know. You know what it was? They wanted to hear, “Everything is okay. You’re okay. You’re going to be okay.” This was...
TweetWhy have fun first? Because using pressure and pain and fear is a lazy way to motivate ourselves. It’s less effective, too. So what’s more effective? On a recent call with one of my coaching groups we were discussing how play has helped them do amazing things in...
Tweet“I’ve lost my mojo. I don’t know where to find it.” Many times when we’ve lost our mojo, we retreat and wait for it to show up. This is scary. “Will I ever feel strong again?” But our mojo isn’t found on the sidelines or in the stands. Our mojo is found on the...
TweetAs a young guitarist, I used to find a lot of meaning playing music by myself for hours alone in my bedroom. That got boring after a while. Why? Because I’d joined a band. That’s where we felt most alive and connected — those moments where we clicked together and...
Tweet“It’s rough out there. Crazy. If I want to make a big change in my life or business, I want the plan that’s going to work. I want order. I don’t have time or energy or money to mess around. And if I am wandering around I must be doing it wrong.” That could be...
