Why You’re Probably Not That Stuck

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Tweet“What is the one question — that if you knew the answer — would change everything for you?” I asked. “I don’t understand,” he said. “You’ve been telling me all about your problem. You’ve been explaining why things aren’t working. You’ve been telling me that...

That Time I Helped a Guy Who Thought He Was Going to Die

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TweetIt was a beautiful day. I was surfing perfect, little waves in crystal clear water. And then I heard the yell. I looked around but didn’t see anything. There it was again — another yell. I looked into shore and a few hundred yards away I saw a guy waving his arm....

When Guys Get Pregnant and Other Tensions

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TweetI talk to many guys who tell me their lives or careers have plateaued. No matter how successful they’ve become, things feel small and flat or boring. When I dig a little deeper I find that many of these guys are avoiding some form of tension or discomfort....

“What Now?” – What To Do Next – The Three Selves

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TweetMost of us are navigating the world in one of two ways: The first is our young self. This shows up when we’re scared or hurt or defensive. We lash out or play the petty games we learned at an early age to avoid discomfort or weakness. Even as adults, the young...

This Doesn’t Make You Weak

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Tweet“If I don’t keep pushing, I’m going to get left behind.” “If I slow down, someone else is going to eat my lunch.” “If I back off, I’m going to become irrelevant.” I don’t like to admit it, but these thoughts enter my head from time to time. My work and life are...