Get What You Want Without Being a Jerk

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TweetDo you smell that stinky, toxic smell? You wake up. It’s just another day. Another day filled with obligations. You “have to” do this. You “have to” do that. You’re running the hamster wheel. You’re drained. You’re fun-repellant. That stinky, toxic smell? It’s...

The One and Only Rule for Being a “Real Man”

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TweetWARNING: I’m about to go off. I’m sick of “rules” for being “like a real man”. Blech. I get it. We’re all wanting the “sure thing”. We want to walk the “right path.” And deep down some of us just want someone else to tell us what to do. Why? So we don’t screw it...

HOW to Get Out of Your Rut

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TweetBrad was up the creek without a paddle. That’s what he thought anyway. Like many guys who work with me, Brad was feeling stuck. He was lost — there seemed to be no available options. When we discussed solutions, Brad was quick to point out “how” they may...

Did David Deida Screw Up Purpose and Mission?

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TweetThis is for anyone who has ever been confused about terms like living your “purpose”, “mission” or “passion.” This is also for anyone who has ever finished David Deida’s Way of the Superior Man with more questions than answers. One of my clients recently began...

Why Most Men Are Not Leaders

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TweetI was on a coaching call with my client Neil. He was complaining. He wasn’t fired up about anything. He couldn’t remember how to have fun anymore. He wasn’t doing anything that gave his life some sense of meaning. (BTW Neil isn’t his real name) He was going on...