Where to Find Your Mojo

Tweet“I’ve lost my mojo. I don’t know where to find it.” Many times when we’ve lost our mojo, we retreat and wait for it to show up. This is scary. “Will I ever feel strong again?” But our mojo isn’t found on the sidelines or in the stands. Our mojo is found on the...

Why I got tired of playing with myself

TweetAs a young guitarist, I used to find a lot of meaning playing music by myself for hours alone in my bedroom. That got boring after a while. Why? Because I’d joined a band. That’s where we felt most alive and connected — those moments where we clicked together and...

What About Fear and the Creative Process?

Tweet“It’s rough out there. Crazy. If I want to make a big change in my life or business, I want the plan that’s going to work. I want order. I don’t have time or energy or money to mess around. And if I am wandering around I must be doing it wrong.” That could be...

Are You Chasing Someone Else’s Balls?

TweetYou’ve seen these dogs. The ones who are obsessed with the ball. Any ball. They beg their owner to throw the ball. They return it with urgency. And then they beg to have it thrown again. Relentlessly. They’re addicted to the dopamine rush that comes from playing...

“Hey! How much for a blow job?!?”

TweetI recently got called out by my friend, Forest. We were on the phone and he said something like… “You’re not bringing your full self to your work. I know your work and I’ve also spent a lot of time with you. And there’s a gap.” My heart started beating harder....