When ‘Cowboy Up’ Means You’re a Pussy

Tweet“I don’t want to sound like a pussy, but she’s just straight up mean to me sometimes.” My coaching client Daryl* was telling me about his wife. “Mean? Like how?” I asked. “I ask her questions and she just shuts me down. I try to be helpful and she counters with...

Do You Live Like You Fuck?

TweetPLEASE NOTE: This is in service of an adult conversation using adult language. If you’re easily offended, you have the option to stop reading now. Tequila aside, it’s been said that a woman knows if she’d have sex with a guy in a matter of minutes, if not...

One Thing You Can Learn from a Stupid Dog

TweetYou’ve heard the story. There’s a yippy little dog who’s obsessed with his ball. He lives with his owner on the 37th floor of a fancy apartment building. While the owner is getting ready in the other room, her date is tossing the ball around with the obnoxious...

Why You’re So Conflicted

Tweet“I just don’t know what to do,” Tom* said. Tom is a coaching client of mine. “I’m tired of living here. My job is a joke. My wife and I want to start over. We’ve got our two boys. But I just don’t know what to do.” The pressure felt immense. Tom could see the...