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171 How to Have Difficult Conversations – A Gay Man Comes Out to His Sons
Are you avoiding an uncomfortable conversation with someone? Are you scared that something awful will happen if you’re honest with them? And could...
170 Build Confidence: How to Stop Playing it Safe – An Excerpt from a Live Coaching Call
Are you afraid to have someone say “no” to you? Are you going for what you want or what you think you can get? And what if you are far more powerful...
169 Dating: Starting Over After a Long Term Relationship – Shana James
Are you starting over on the dating scene? Are you confused about what to do or how to act if you’re moving on after a long term relationship? And...
168 Listen to a Guy Beat Procrastination, Fear, and Self Doubt – An Excerpt from Live Coaching Call
Are you bored or feeling unfulfilled by your daily life? Do you imagine you’d have to make some big scary change in order to turn it around? And...
167 How to Handle Negative Emotions – Todd Kashdan
Is the pursuit of happiness making you unhappy? Are you avoiding the things that make you emotionally uncomfortable? And how could fear, guilt, or...
166 Why Some Succeed and Others Won’t – Rich Litvin
Why do some people seem to be magically successful? Do you feel like you’re doing what you were put on this Earth to do? And if not, then what are...
165 Build Sexual Confidence – Christiane Pelmas
Do you worry that you’re never going to have a fulfilling sex life? Is it possible you’re a lousy sexual partner without knowing it? And for as much...
164 An Escort Talks About Sex and How to Be Powerful – Cindy
Are sex, money, and power dirty words for you? Are you afraid to admit that you want to be powerful? And what can you learn about true power from a...
How I Almost Got My Butt Kicked
Below is a transcription of this recording: Hey there. I'm Tripp Lanier. I host The New Man, and I coach men for a living. When you look out at the...








