When Guys Get Pregnant and Other Tensions

TweetI talk to many guys who tell me their lives or careers have plateaued. No matter how successful they’ve become, things feel small and flat or boring. When I dig a little deeper I find that many of these guys are avoiding some form of tension or discomfort....

“What Now?” – What To Do Next – The Three Selves

TweetMost of us are navigating the world in one of two ways: The first is our young self. This shows up when we’re scared or hurt or defensive. We lash out or play the petty games we learned at an early age to avoid discomfort or weakness. Even as adults, the young...

This Doesn’t Make You Weak

Tweet“If I don’t keep pushing, I’m going to get left behind.” “If I slow down, someone else is going to eat my lunch.” “If I back off, I’m going to become irrelevant.” I don’t like to admit it, but these thoughts enter my head from time to time. My work and life are...

Tears on My Face Standing in the Surf – Surfers Healing

TweetI’ve worked with so many folks over the years and their stories often go something like this: “Much of my life is so boring and flat. I have this sense that I’m meant to do something bigger. But I’m not sure what that is. And besides this ‘Thing’ (said...

Why I got tired of playing with myself

TweetAs a young guitarist, I used to find a lot of meaning playing music by myself for hours alone in my bedroom. That got boring after a while. Why? Because I’d joined a band. That’s where we felt most alive and connected — those moments where we clicked together and...

Why You Have Crazy Balls in Your Blood

TweetNOTE: A second coaching group has been created (the first one filled FAST) and there are only 3 seats left. If you’d like to learn more about this opportunity and how it will help you then click here to answer a few questions. Thanks....